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>>17461779

are you a dude or a chick. what country, state, city do you live in?

>>17461786
I'm a guy in the us and in new jersey but I'm from a smaller town so not gonna say that

>>17461789

thank god, if you had mentioned a town with only 2000 people we would have been able to guess your name next.

your options are as follows
>Grindr
>Craigslist
>gay youth groups that you 'volunteer at' before being tempted by possible jailbait
>going to the nearest towns and cities and doing the same
>tinder

>>17461766
Keep fucking whores, I'm sure you'll hit your mark.

The whole 'notch on mah belt' as a reason for having sex is pretty fucking lame though, homie.

>>17461766
I used to be a loser. Now I'm a loser that has had a LOT of sex. As for numbers, I'm not sure anymore, I seriously lost count after about 25


I can tell you this though, what made me realize my potential was getting a job in sales. Car sales.

You see, it's all a numbers game. Talk to more customers, you get more sales. Period. More = more, every time.

The problem most guys have, is once they talk to a girl, and they get rejected, they think they did something wrong. They think "well maybe if I change something..."

Then they spend all this time trying to be different.

THAT IS NOT HOW YOU DO IT.

You stay the same, man. And you talk to as many girls as you can. All the time. Everywhere. All of them. And the majority of the time... you fail. I'd say with me it's like 95% of the time. But I talk to at least 2-3 NEW girls (seriously hitting on them) a day.

One thing to remember: winning is easy. Losing takes practice. And practice makes perfect.

What's the point in investing this much energy in fucking different women? It can't actually be that satisfying because there's no way they're all high quality. It seems like some bizarre narcissism.

What experience do you have related to that company's work? How big is the company? When did you meet this person (how many days ago)?

Also that pic, holy lol

>>17461781
>>17461781
>What experience do you have related to that company's work?

As in knowledge about the company or?

How big is the company?

Huge.

When did you meet this person (how many days ago)?

July 23rd

>>17461821
Er, 21st

Buy physical porno dvds maybe. I mean there's bound to be some flea market where you can buy em

>>17461767

this is an option but if you're so desperate for new porn you're just going to end up spending as much money on porn as you would have on internet.

just grab a neighbor and ask if you can go halvsies on wifi, pay em if they already have it.

Buy a flash drive, they're cheap now.

>>17461736
pillow?

>>17461736
A good place to scream is in your car, if you have one and want to be alone for a bit.

recording studio with your death metal band

>Inb4 "anon you have to accept she doesn't like you and move on". If it were that I wouldn't be posting this.

Then I don't know why you even posted, because that's the only useful advice anyone could give you.

So your plan is to stalk some girl who doesn't care about you?

>>17461742
Yes

>>17461752
noice

This is a legitimate concern.

>>17461656
Just kill yourself.

>>17461664
OK thanks. What's the easiest way to do that?

It can be. Do you have a client base or any potential clients? What's your experience like? Portfolio? Web presense? Can you market yourself? Any certifications?

>>17461649

Are you Jon Skeet or Chris Sevilleja - tier?

No? Then no.

Basically, you better have a portfolio, and you better be a goddamn pro. That's a tall order in that industry.

>>17461649

Like, what's your stack? How many years of experience do you have, what's your education? When would you use an abstract class instead of interface and why? How do you handle constructors in multiple inheritance?

>>17461640
Or maybe she's just genuinely a moron.

You did the right thing, tho.

If she wanted to trap you she could have just lied about being on the pill. Use your brain for a second, dum-dum.

She probably was.

Also even if a girl tells you she is on birth control she can just flat out lie.

never go in raw unless you can handle there is a super small chance you will impregnate her.

even my girlfriends little chip thing in her bicep is not 100% foolproof, but it's like 99.8 or some shit.

Be careful out there man

>>17461630
No. Among other things, that's not where the related hormones are produced, so cutting it off would just leave you with all the desires and no way to release the tension.

>>17461665
naw

>>17461630

Sure. Why not.

>>17461626
No more morally reprehensible than watching those dirty movies you like.

>>17461626
Just keep an open mind while dating and if it turns out to be a girl you don't want a relationship with, either tell her your not interested in a relationshi[ (this takes balls), or ignore her or tell her your busy.

Long as you dont use them for sex I dont think anyone will care much.

Hit on girls you like, but on more girls you like. Surely you come across enough girls you actually find cute in your day to day life.

Don't live up to the stereotype.

Get a job and a hobby to spend your money on, and you'll feel better.

I recommend cooking or painting.

I'm almost two meters tall.

I wish I was all around smaller. Don't worry anon, being tall isn't that good.

>I'm usually just around the height of women

That's fucking perfect, why would you be suicidal over this? Girls in my country are short as fuck. When I dated a girl three years younger than me (I'm 20) people gave me weird looks, as if I was a pedophile.

>>17461604
What reason do people not fap for?

>>17461604
Just fap a reasonable amount.

Don't do it out of habit.

>>17461604
I did it for a month. The first week was the most difficult, but sooner or later you pass a point where you don't really think about it anymore. I certainly didn't notice any difference in confidence, and my sexual performance was exactly the same.

That being said, it's nice not to fap, because I always regret it immediately afterward. I'm currently in week two of nofap since I last broke it

Just get a cat, have sex with that.

>>17461603
>Can i kill my loneliness by killing my sex drive?
No, because your lack of gf isn't the only reason you're lonely.

dude are you sure your lonely and not just horny?

>>17461599
i havent. if you're unhappy with your weight, eat less calories. its easy as fuck. if you cant even manage to eat less calories, you deserve to be a fat fuck, and should never reproduce

>>17461609
OP here....I'm actually comfortable with my weight, didn't answer the question >.> thanks for trolling, come back later deary ^.^

>>17461599
Trisha Paytas was a stripper, cam whore, and escort and she's chubby.