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>>17461122
>>85321965
I've checked myself at the doctor twice for lumps, lad. Both times it were just benign cysts, which are common. You should get it checked though.

>i am so very insecure about my sexually.

lol ok bro.

>>17461122
If there was ever a time to see a doctor, now would be that time. Go see a doctor.

>>17461099
yeah you should try and get out more.

The longer you spend alone in a room the more you think your right about everything. Like thinking everything is terrible without ever trying it. Get out and try new things before the cynicism kicks in.

Oh and don't start one of those "what should i do?" threads where people give you ideas and you shoot them all down for whatever reason.

You'll end up like me eventually.
30 years old, hard working guy with and apartment and a car, but no friends other than one guy from highschool who is having kids.

I spent all my vacation alone, repainting the bedroom, fixing rust on my car.. things like that.

>>17461109
I go out quite a bit because of my job/university. I have to share room with others and I still don't really think of this place as my room, my real one is my house where I go on weekends.
>>17461125
Still 10 more years to go

>>17461090
ask her out to a public place.

"hey i was wondering if you wanted to grab a coffee and catch up."

See if she wants to go and play pokemon go.

>>17461094
>>17461093
Can I just ask her out instantly? Like
>hey whats up?
>i was wondering if you wanted to grab a coffee

Feels weird to not have talked to her that much and then suddenly ask her out. But I guess she would accept if she was a bit interested?

>>17461081
I have had good experience with a beard.

Gives a more mature look as long as it isn't a long or scruffy one.

>food service
shave
>not food service
don't shave

>>17461081
Fellow professional (doctor) here.

Shave and put on a suit, you cunt.

That's the problem with professionals nowadays, they teach lots of material in grad school but don't teach classes on professionalism.

After you're hired and once you've been there a week or two, then regrow the beard. But don't fuck around on the interview looking like a cave man thinking you're 'fashionable'.

>>17461077
>graphic design studies.

buddy you got bigger problems than adhd.

>>17461085
Agreed, you won't get anywhere and you will be a failure to your parents and cousins in art. Waste of time.. and money.

>>17461085
What's wrong with that?

Is your family Turkish or Eastern European?

>>17461075
no

>>17461084
Then they are empty threats.

>>17461030
Easiest way, if you're not particularly muscular, is BMI.
You can also use one of those scales which calculate body fat percentage.
Otherwise, go to a doctor and ask him.

>>17461030
if you dont see your dick when you look down you are fat.

>>17461030
If you're asking that question, you probably are

It means the class location is TBA...? What do you not understand?

ya just check later. I've had classes that changed rooms the morning of, so I wouldn't check until right before you go

>>17461032
I am becoming ***INCREASINGLY NERVOUS*** since it's only 11 days away.

>>17461046
Well alright, thanks for the advice.

>>17461026
>Its some cold food making place.
What? Fast food? Some sort of factory? This tells us nothing

>>17461029
sandwiches and such

>>17461026
basically its not a job that requires anything complicated , like university

I ll going to night school alongside that job....if I make it

>>17461010
Don't lie man. You can't chop your hands off. Then who would make the sandwich?

22 is still pretty young to be thinking about marriage and I'd say your friends are the unusual ones. Do you have a desire to get married in the future? How much longer do you see yourself being with this girl?

>>17461021
That's what I was thinking. Like I don't want to get married young, so I don't know if that's why I can't see myself being with her forever or if I just never will.

you basically go in, get it, and then leave and they'll forget about your face the next day. wear a baseball cap cause cameras and joke and ask them about whats a good joke dildo for ur friend

>>17460960
>cant do online because i still live at home :(
It would be sent to you in unmarked packaging, nobody would know what it was.

>>17460960
Search for alternatives, like package shop usually receive items for you too and you pick them up there, that way you won't even have to deal with 1 embarrassing moment.
Don't even think about it when you enter a sex shop, when you stand in the middle of it it should be interresting enough to keep your mind busy and not nervous.

hit up backpage

go for uglier or fat chicks to save money

Get a whore.

>>17460958
Get a prostitute.

>>17460938
Accept the fact that they are not into you, or they would better off without you. And you would be better off without them

>>17460948
From what cues can you tell that?

How to deal with the short-term mood swings?

I'm guessing you're still young so I'll go easy on you.

Look son, people don't know what they want. It isn't until time has passed when people start to recognise what's best for them. A big part of being a man is taking risks and putting yourself out there. So don't feel discouraged if a little girl doesn't like you back, you can't feel down about it because you already know who you are.

Head up. Stay strong.

>>17460932
Just go to the local pubs or bars. Then tell them about your story, you're new to the area, and ask them for interesting places to hang out, (then they might be interested in hanging out with you).

i'm in the same position, except i've moved away, for 1 month. I don't think i need friends. everyone has fucked me over, this time i'll just stay alone

>>17460987
OP here. I don't feel too good alone. I don't want tons of friends, one to three will do.

>>17460961
I don't think such thing would work out :D. They would think I'm a weirdo for doing that, at least where I live.

oneitus.

stay away from her. all thats left is more heartbreak. you can give her the world but she'll never love you like she used to. not even close. if you're still talking to her, quit it. she couldve been a heartless bitch and dropped all contact with you, that would be best, trust me. i kept in contact with my ex for 2 years. thats a big mistake because i think about her daily, even tho ive moved on.

its hard man, i know. but find a new woman, or a get a crush on someone new, at least.
crushes and occasional party hookups keep me sane.

>>17460925
My Ex was the same. I should have spotted the warning signs sooner. She loved the chase and me being a 'bad boy but soon got bored when we settled down. As for still being in love with her, thats just tough. Move on and start looking at other people.
good luck

>>17460964
>She loved the chase

sounds about right.

thanks, ill give the whole situation a swerve......for a day or two, then ill fal back in to the pit

much apreciate the help