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>>17459530
Maybe the cat is dangerous and has been confined to cat prision.

Call animal control. It's abuse to confine it.
Or next time it rains or is remotely hot, just go take it or set it free. If they call the cops you can claim you saved it's life. Just be sure to document and film the whole thing. Then they'll be forced to investigate the abuse. I would continue to gather evidence against them to show authorities.

There is no doubt in my mind you that should definitely be calling them to investigate the situation.

It's not necessary, but it helps

It's strange in the sense that you stand out of the crowd by not using something everyone else does. Like walking in the rain bareheaded in a crowd of umbrellas. Not necessarily the good type of standing out, more like the no one gives a shit, it's your life, but it's still strange that you don't have a fucking umbrella kinda standing out.


Tbh. I don't understand the aversion to social media. You're not forced to shitpost or read others' bullshit. You can log in when you feel like it and that's about it. It helps in networking and can be a pleasant surprise to potentional employers who check your profile. A put together Facebook profile that tells others about your hobbies and interests and paints you as an interesting person is a gem among Coelho quotes and trashy party pictures.


Trust me on this, I worked at HR for a day when one of the interviewers fell sick and we needed a cleaning lady real quick.

>>17459451
You'll never know where any parties/events/groups are at, so yes, it's probably holding you back alot.
There's a reason everyone uses it.

You're from the UK, so if you're white you should be fine.

Joking aside though, what you're feeling is normal. Moving to another country, even temporarily, is a scary thing. And you'll get the rush of fear right before, and you'll probably have a little regret when you get here. But that will probably go away.
And I only say probably because Amerifats a shithole and idk why you'd want to come here lol.

>>17459420
First time i went to washington the airport border security interrogated me with weird questions, almost yelled at me for no reason. Infact i was the last one to pick up my luggage and they even made a big deal about that.
Use the last days to overthink what you are bringing with, might be the case that you will end up missing things or memories more than your old life.

>>17459438
It's better than the UK. We have shit weather, ugly women, and few prospects for millennials. I think I'll miss my pets, some of my family & friends, and the drinking age most though.

Is there any way to mitigate those feelings of regret/anxiety. I had those feelings when I started high school and it was awful. I also feel bad for leaving my family behind.

>>17459381
Not at all. You're totally right. The way society is structured always involves conformity. If you don't conform, you don't become some budhha king of the normies who can act the way "he" feels is right.

If you don't conform, you simply cease to be part of society. Like the r9k robots. But you can't just fake conformity. The paradox is that unless you are completely indoctrinated, you cannot function in society.

>>17459419
The game seems to feature more than just a dichotomy of people accepted in the society vs people outside of it, the player character can fake being on joy even when he isn't, but it takes constant effort and if you mess up even one bit they will become suspicious and if you don't correct the situation fast they will know you are off the joy, and just running away wont cure their suspicion either

By smiling, waving, and saying little cliches like lovely day they will be all like "ok hes cool" but fail to do it and they get pissed


Some of the NPCs though seem to be like the equivalent of r9k robots, they are incapable of blending in due to a lack of knowledge or a lack of will, or even both


I really think its possible to blend in even IRL, it just takes some serious effort but the more I do it the easier it gets

Also look at this

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wx_jzKP51U4

>>17459381
>Life is shit
>Game is shit too!
DUDE WOAH EERIE SIMILARITIES

Ask probing questions and try to continue line of

questioning to show interest. Make sure to

nod your head and smile. Don't talk about

yourself unless it is to comment how you

have something in common with them.

Smile and be friendly

>>17459329
>4girls
>1guy

Have fun, anon.

>>17459401
I dont know man. I got over most of my social anxiety over the years but I still am autistic with girls.

Get a job, go to school, or kill yourself.

>>>>being an enlistee

Disgusting, is it still possible for you to become an officer?

>>17459336
I had a green to gold package but had my right hip joint replaced so I can't even get back in. If I could go back hell even in a pog mos.

first get over yourself edge lord, and tony was a good guy he dindu nuffin

karma will kick your ass eventually and remind you of the value of modesty.

that's where I'm at right now, really just want a simple life and not be an asshole or hurt anyone.

You sound like autism, OP. Sorry to be the bearer of bad news.

>>17459244
Well you already know you're creepy so just isolate the super creepy qualities about yourself and your good. Unless all that's left is s blank slate. In that case you're fucked

>>17459244
You learn from experience. If you're creepy you probably haven't put yourself out much or can't empathize.

>>17459306
It's something about me that is creepy. I'm attracted to little kids. I've never acted on it but yeah...

Congratulations, you found out you're vain like everyone else.

Suggest her to do exercise with you so you can both get fit. What exactly is your "ideal body" though? Skinny? Normal? Athletic? Fat? Thicc?

Fantasies really aren't an issue so long you don't go out and fuck another woman.

>>17459302
I would never fuck another woman. I am a firm believer in break up first, sleep with sexier woman second. The bottom line is she is too thin. I cannot get over how thin she is. Too much bone, not enough TnA, you know? I am aware of how primitive this sounds, but I hope you guys can help me out.

>>17459424
Help her gain a bit of weight. I totally feel you btw. Anything but a thicc body type I'm not attracted to

Polyamory is a degenerate practice that not even degenerate primates consider using.

Harems are non-existent unless you're in the Middle East.

Just saying, it's a shit practice for relationships and people have reasons why they look at you funny, even if you're a big titted redhead.

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>>17459198
this desu senpai

>>17459198
Obviously I'm going to disagree. It's been wonderful for me.

You do however represent an obvious example of the difficulty I've been having, so I guess there's that.

There's literally nothing to lose if you do it. Also if you're interested post what you might open up with so we can judge.

Pic unrelated btw. I went out with another girl today for the first time since I ended it with my ex and I just wanna know if you've got any tips that might help.

I recall this chick being exactly my type, but I still was still hurting and shit.

>>17459201
I was just thinking about opening up with:

"Hey _____, how have you been? Do you remember me from ______ a couple of weeks ago?"

If she replies in a friendly manner I'd just ask what she's been up to. If that goes well I might either write or call her up and say "Hey, I'm going to hit up x place for coffee later today. Wanna join and catch up for a bit?"

>>17459070
>you do the breaking up
>lie to her about how you feel
>act like a bitch about it

Gee. Start by not doing those things next time. Communication matters.

Of course you're mad and hurt this is exactly the reason we have angry emotions you're allowed to feel angry and upset it's a totally normal response to the situation.

You would have issues if you didn't feel the way you do right now.

>>17459135
I didn't want her to think that I cared about her, and that it was a big deal.

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>>17459054
.....what?

>>17459054
Now that is some serious autism. I can offer no advice but damn! I'm glad I'm not you.

>>17459125
Um I'm borderline personality retard

Associate of applied sciences in paramedicine will get you a job as a medic.

Basically any Allied health major. Or anot associates of nursing.

>>17459071
Fuck you autocorrect

>>17459048
Remember judging peoples' clothes? Lmao

>>17459061
HOLY CRAP. I AM IN LOVE WITH LINDSAY LOHAN IN MEAN GIRLS

>>17459073
She tried to hold my hand and sit next to me every day, yeah that does mean she fucking liked me! OMG I was retarded thinking she was just feeling sorry for me, because girls don't feel sorry for anyone but themselves! So she had to like me. FUCK! She'd be so hot at this age OMFG and I could be tapping that vag