Is it possible to be in love with 2 people at a time? One is

You're probably not horrible.

I would say that the old adage of the grass is greenest where you water it is true. Especially in this case where you have a child involved.

If you didn't have a kid then it might have been something you could have explored with your close friend after breaking things off with your current partner but I would say now that would be the wrong decision.

Long term relationships are extremely hard, especially when people get comfortable and someone new and exciting is around.

Nah, you're a women, it's normal. Don't hate yourself for what you are. You like your husband cause he provides for you in a way, but he's kind of a beta male when you friend is probably more alpha, thus why you start contemplating cheating.

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Definitely the other way, my partner is such an alpha male, and it turns me off. He makes great money so makes my life easy and is (generally) a good guy but can be a wanker and just such a classic male. He doesn't have much to say to me so I guess I get lonely being home with the kid all the time.
Other guy is reserved but easy to talk to and get along with. Literally everybody who meets him loves him. But he seems to take extra interest in myself which doesn't help. I feel like I'm in high school and the 'cool popular' guy actually likes me. Ick. Why do I have to be an adult