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Need Relationship Advice. 2016-09-04 18:56:04 Post No.17532219
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Need Relationship Advice.
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2016-09-04 18:56:04
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I've been dating my girlfriend a little over two years. I never really found her too sexually attractive but she has a very cute face and I love her personality.
Fast forward to now and we've been fighting. She's not as socially outgoing as Id like and it's been causing problems. I'm supposed to be moving soon for work and she is supposed to come. However, we haven't had sex in a few months and it's become less frequent. I just havent had interest. We still cuddle and spend time together but I'm not sure if its just something more platonic now.
On top of this an old friend has come around and Ive been finding myself thinking about her a lot lately. I think I've fallen for her. Shes my type but emotionally and physically and shes alluded to having an interest in me. I'm just not sure in what way.
I would never cheat on my girlfriend, I'm just feeling very torn and not sure what to do. I feel for this new girl but also for my girlfriend. I also admit I'm starved sexually and I'm wondering if that means the relationship is over.
Help?
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cheat on her.
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Talk to your current girlfriend about this, even if it cuases a fight. If you're not going to talk about it, nothing is going to change in the first place. You'll either get a better relationship with her or get with that new (old?) girl you've been thinking about: a win-win situation if you ask me.
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Op here. Should I tell the new girl I feel something for her as well?
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Anon, if a random 5/10 girl invited you to go to mall/museum/park and you had nothing to do, would you accept?
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>>17532192
> if a random 5/10 girl invited you to go to mall/museum/park
No, but you have nothing to lose by trying. It doesn't reflect poorly on you.
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>>17532192
Yea, may be fun.
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>>17532192
no. I hate all women regardless of any quality or flaw they possess.
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>18 years old
>Still a virgin faggot
>Finally say fuck it and make an active effort to try and get laid
>Meet 8/10 qt on Tinder
>We bang in the back of my car the next day
>She cums twice, says it was the best sex she's ever had
>I didn't even enjoy it that much, didn't manage to cum at all
What am I doing wrong, /adv/?
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>>17532145
Probably just nervous. Or a fag.
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>>17532145
Nothing much. Nervousness and psychological bullshit can stop the orgasm reaction in your body. I suffer from this and my only tip is to not fuck simple (possibly lying) sluts and get a steady relationship. It feels way better to be safe and loved when you're patiently trying for those hard to get climaxes.
Or if you're impatient mutual masturbation is pretty fun too.
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Is there a way to shutdown thought process? if there isn't I'll kill myself. I want to completely end mind chatter.
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Whenever I start thinking about something it always ends up in some.destructive ocd-depressive fest
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urrk
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Some ideas
1. do something
2. drink moderately
3. meditate (not while drinking)
4. do something
5. do something
6. do something
Not if this is even worth posting. My pills got flushed by my girlfriend on August 22 while we where fighting (she did it out of anger) I'm taking hydrocodone 5/325 or what it is. I have been out since then. I am dealing with a boxers fracture. The pain and cramping I am feeling is very real but my girlfriend thinks it's all in my head. I've taking about 3,000mg's of ibprofen today. With in about a 6 hour gap. I do not see my doctor till the 8th. So I guess my question is how fucked am I if I keep taking that amount till I see my doctor again. There's a good chance that she will not write another one cuz I have called and told her what happened to see if she could help (witch she could not help) or even to see if she could not give me aunt hung else for the time being.
Pic related: the splint they have me in.
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> Op here
Side note: it's doesn't help really All that much but it's better then nothing I guess.
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Woah, slow down on the ibuprofen, you could seriously fuck up your lower tract taking 6 grams of that shit a day.
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>>17532065
Ready for some bad news?
You're going to fuck up your liver. You're also actively slowing the healing process at those dosages. Also, taking an opiate for pain from a healing fracture is a bad plan. If you're more than two weeks out from the fracture you need to just tough it out.
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If school isnt an option, where can a hot girl and I go to do homework where we can have atleast some privacy?
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>>17532062
Your house dumbass. Her house. But I'm guessing ur under age if you posting this shit here so.
> gtfo
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>>17532062
The back seat of your car
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>>17532099
22.
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What's the best way to respond to a girl when she sends you nudes?
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tell her you like what you see
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>>17532049
exquisite bossoms, m'lady
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"send more"
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What do you do when you're in a relationship that's fine from day to day but doesn't have a future? Actually asking for a friend (best friends since high school), I'm single af and she keeps asking me for advice. I want to be the good friend but I don't have any relationship experience to source, hence why I'm asking you guys.
As far as I know, she complains about him changing over the years from a romantic guy into a game-addict with anger issues. She still likes being with him but she's worried about the future because he doesn't have a job and he's not a good father figure.
Every time she complains to me about it I tell her to talk about it, but she told me he got really angry when she did. I don't think she tried more than once but she doesn't want to try again.
I don't know what else I should tell her/what else she wants to hear.
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>>17532027
It depends on what you want of course. If you want to find someone you're going to marry and start a family with, then dump him. If you just want to have a good time in a relationship and you are getting that, then stay until your priorities change.
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>>17532027
>doesn't like who he is
>communication is problematic
>can't see herself with him long-term
>unemployed
>angered easily
wow anon. that dude must fuck your crush real good for her to stay despite all of this.
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>>17532027
Been thinking about thst a lot. It made me complacent in my relationship which is likely going to end soon because of it, I'm totally heart broken. It's not about to end anon it's about the journey. If you're enjoying who you're with then honestly I don't think you should take that for granted
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Self-steem 2016-09-04 17:42:22 Post No.17532025
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I've always felt like I'm a piece of shit.
I've achieved things that most people my age (21) haven't, and I should feel proud of those acomplishments. My family is well off and I got a decent amount of friends. I'm unfit as fuck but I'm going to start this week to lift weights.
But I'm always feeling terrible. I used to have a LDR and she bailed on me right before she was supposed to come visit me for the first time. Now she spoke to me and she's going out with somebody else. In the meantime I've never had a real gf. I lost my virginity thanks to a Craigslist ad (at least I didn't pay/didn't get murdered).
I'm feeling sexually frustrated 24/7. I place way too much value in pussy, and I know it shows and it's obvious I'm desperate but I don't know how to stop feeling that way. Jacking it just isn't enough, and I used to have a pornography addiction that nowadays is a bit better just because I replaced it with videogames.
I don't know, I'm ranting a fucking lot. It's just that I don't know how to be happier with myself. I keep thinking that with a girlfriend I'd be happy, but first I should be happy with myself, satisfied, otherwise the relationship will be shit.
I'm going to start working out, that's a step. Then what else can I do? Any tips/suggestions from people that felt similarly and got out of the hole?
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Bump. I'm sure there must be some helpful advice on this topic.
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>>17532025
You don't need to be perfect to be in a relationship. If you know being in a relationship would make you happier, then it makes sense to do that right away because it's easier to work on improving yourself, or to do anything really when you're happier and have someone to confide in.
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>>17532025
You feel depressed and desperate because you have too much time and energy to focus on thoughts rather than action. On feelings rather than logic. On the path rather than the goal.
Best thing i can tell you is to find a goal and devote yourself 100% toward it. I don't mean study an hour and call it good. I mean every minute of everyday is focused toward that achievement. Food becomes energy for it, rest becomes necessary to achieve at optimum efficiency, etc.
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need help. a girl was ignoring me for 5 days, i thought she was ghosting me so i sent her a text calling out, calling her immature etc. she sends one back with the belief that im kicking off because she is busy, and she doesent want to be with me because of my behavior. i think i have just fucked it up and she wasnt ghosting.
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>>17532022
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kcf4yS5_aiI
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>>17532022
>think i have just fucked it
Yep
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>>17532033
tbf, i sent her 3 texts that she completely ignored. i dont know what to do. ive tried ringing her, no answer
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Why do I feel less confident and seem unable to get things done after fapping? Is it because I fap to femdom? Or is it a self-fulfilling prophecy?
I'm not talking about fapping often, it's like once every few days.
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I've noticed this as well, if I don't fap for like a week I become really confident in myself and like I'm feel above everyone else.
If I fap I get really held back, I avoid social situations and I have a hard time holding eye contact with people for some reason.
However I have sleep problems and busting a nut before bed really helps me to fall asleep at night. I try to plan in advance, if I have a important meeting or something I'll avoid fapping for a few days. If I have just another week locked up in a office I'll go loose and fap away.
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Self fulfilling unless you got really low stamina
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>>17532014
It's because the reason we do everything is ultimately sex. And fapping is a sex simulator/emulator. So your mind is tricked to think you just had sex. Once you had sex there's literally no other goal in life.
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Significant other problems 2016-09-04 17:24:39 Post No.17531988
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Significant other problems
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Hey /adv/ I've been with my girlfriend for four years now. We've lived together for three of those years and since we've lived together I've been trying to get her to not be a slob and actually help me clean up. Now we're living in a house and she still hasn't done any of what I've been asking of her. Sometimes she'll do it for a few days but it's only because it takes her a few days to do a couple tasks. When she does things most of the time she shortcuts to the point where sometimes it's worse than before and I'm left to clean it up. I've had enough and I've talked with her about this on so many occasions that I'm tearing my head out at this point.
She also hates this specific friend of mine, who is also a part of a project I started. She's also a part of the project so Everytime we talk and I mention said friend she always makes patronizing comments or just talks down about them. This is another thing I've talked to her about on multiple levels and last time she said something I had to catch myself from slapping her because I'm so tired of her attitude about this one person. (Just some background, we all met at the same time so I know that this friend has done nothing to harbor any of these negative feelings my girlfriend has toward her)
I'm not sure if any advice at this point will help but God damn has this frustration built up over the years, typing all of this out helps if anything.
To;dr - I just wish I knew how to get my girlfriend to do more than just paying her portion of the bills and shut her mouth about a friend who she hates for no reason.
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>>17531988
My threads never get any replies. I think I'm just going to kill myself so my mom can have the house. Insurance will give her enough to pay it and my car off, with hopefully some left over to cover a cremation or whatever is cheapest. See you guys never.
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>>17532162
Maybe stop being such a whiny fucking bitch and she might respect you.
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>>17531988
It might be that she genuinely has quite a low standard of cleanliness and although she means well, she just isn't aware of how to successfully manage a household.
Have you tried writing some kind of schedule for you to follow? Something clear and concise that you can put up on the fridge or somewhere she'll see it and be reminded of what she has to do and on what day?
It depends on how much you want to hold her hand through the whole thing. I'm assuming you're both adults...this could be behaviour that she'll find extremely difficult to change. Nobody likes to spend hours tidying up but if you learn to tidy as you go along, you don't need to commit much time to it. Once she realises this and gets into the habit of tidying regularly, she might change.
If she still doesn't change, you just need to tell her that you can't continue living in a shithole and she needs to stop being so disgusting.
In regards to your friend, it's obvious why she doesn't like her - she's female. More than likely jealousy. Without more information, it's difficult to comment any further but again, it's something you really need to discuss with her.
Boss Level - tell this other girl that your girlfriend has said these things while they're in the same room and watch the sparks fly.
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/Child support general/ 2016-09-04 17:20:45 Post No.17531980
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how much do you pay compared to how much you make?
any tips for getting out of paying or dealing with baby mama drama?
if Clinton gets elected can we expect an increase in hardships on single fathers?
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>>17531980
I think Hillary is seeking power and a lot of what she says will not be carried through if she wins.
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>>17531992
>I think Hillary is seeking power
no shit
>what she says will not be carried through if she wins
what are you basing that on?
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>>17531980
Here's a tip, don't knock up bitches. Just nut on their back.
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>find out a friend had been stealing frozen food from work
>go to confront him at him workplace
>he goes full RREEEEEEEE mode and attacks me with hands and feet
>get home... I have a voice mail from him
>"kill your self"
Hoo baby, I effed up. How do I repair this?
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>>17531968
>How do I repair this?
Why do you want to?
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2016-09-04 17:19:44
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>>17531968
>get home... I have a voice mail from him
>"kill your self"
The absolute madman
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get some better friends
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What do you do if you like a girl that works in a shop or a cafe? How and when do you approach her?
Why does everyone seem to say you simply can't and you have to forget about it?
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>>17531934
Try it and find out
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>>17531940
But this is the advice board. If we can do everything by trial and error what's the point?
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What do you have to lose?
You're already living the worst case scenario. Not doing anything and wondering what could have happened is the worst possible outcome. If she says no, nothing about your life changes. It'll be the exact same as it is now.