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do you have autism that you cant see a shithead when you grew up with it?

you cant reverse his course, he has to do that

if it were me id fucking whip him if he were to piss on the toilet seats more than once. My dog is better house trained than that


kick him out, he either sinks or floats

Honestly I'm usually against violence, but i think next time he has an eruption you should just beat the fuck out of him. Because one day he will do that to someone who is stronger and angrier than him, and find himself in a hospital or grave.

I grew up with a few guys like him, and sometimes an ass kicking is all a guy needs to settle down and check his ego. Afterwards if he doesn't learn a little respect I would find him an apartment, trailer or whatever he can afford, and make him sign the lease with only his name. He will struggle for a while, but if cutting it out on his own can't make him grow up idk what will.

>>17529270
> he can't read or write
??

Is your girlfriend a slut ?
If not, have faith in her, there's no reason she'll betray you

>>17529273
She can be very naive of male attention(or she can fake it well). And when she was still here we had sex a lot. I'm just really worried because it's my dream waifu.

>>17529288
I'm quite naive myself but I swear to you that when a man want to fuck you you see it at the very first second so I doubt she'll won't see it and that's not because you had sex with her a lot that mean she'll have sex with someone oversea because if she had so much sex whe she was still there with you it was because it was with you and nobody else

Abort or neck yourself.

You can't afford to take care of a baby. You'll be miserable and probably separated from your gf, your gf will be miserable, and your kid will grow up in a broken home. It's better off for all of you to get an abortion. if it's not legal where you live, it's time to take a plane ride.

>>17529248

take responsibility for your actions

or you could kill it

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Just be yourself bro

dont get strive for one

your dick says yes and is overriding your brain in the matter

you will be destroyed emotionally, financially, physically if she turns out abusive, and if you have kids with her your life is over if she grows bored

>>17529247
Holy shit there are like five threads up right now asking how to talk to girls. This literally gets asked every day.

just be chill with her, don't put too much hope on this relationship..

maybe it will work out good for both of you, but be aware, she is young and doesn't really know what she wants from life, even if she thinks she does

>>17529244
She's legal where you're from, right?

If so, follow >>17529266

Don't be upset at her not knowing what she wants. Think of it as practice for your dick.

youre a creep

You don't. Humans are social creatures. Asking how to be happy alone is like asking how to breathe properly with one lung. Maybe a small minority of people can learn to do it, but it's unlikely. By the way I'm in the same situation, not trying to make you feel worse, but I just like dealing straight. Which os partly why I'm alone.

>>17529228
bump

>>17529228
>i am so alone, i want to be liked, loved and what not but this is killing me.
i was in the same situation as you to some degree.

DO stuff, get out of your comfort zone and be nice to people. eventually you will find people you can relate to and who like you too

What kind of trauma we dealing with here?

>>17529224
Why don't you off back to >>>/r9k/?

>>17529230
The original trauma occurred when I was 10ish. I watched my best friend fall into a psychosis as her own childhood schizophrenia emerged. It fucked me up royally, and for some of it, I have dual sets of memories of what happened.

I then ignored this trauma, and filled the void with someone else who was very problematic. I lost contact with them only a year ago, and now that I have no one left to distract myself, my repressed memories, emotions, and revelations are coming back to haunt me.

>>17529231
I don't post there.

>>17529216
It's fun

>>17529216

Nothing to lose, something to gain.

>>17529216
Miss 100% of the shots you don't take.

they claim your disability started at age 22? that's pretty absurd, but I don't know how autism and disability work. you might want a lawyer. These cases are all very simple, standard and easy, so lawyers do them for cheap.

>>17529214
According to the social security it's the following.

>Your unmarried children who are under 18 (up to age 19 if attending elementary or secondary school full time) can be eligible to receive Social Security benefits when you die. And your child can get benefits at any age if he or she was disabled before age 22 and remains disabled.

So even though I was medically diagnosed years before I was 22, they say I wasn't considered disabled before then.

I'm hesitant about looking for a lawyer because of the fees and quality of work.

Get a disability lawer. They'll be able to help you more than anyone here

I've been unable to stay in school for nearly three years now. I caved my first year, but still finished it. Family drama has left me unable to register for two years, and I finally returned this semester, only to both not afford housing and get squeezed off campus by the police because being a homeless student apparently made me a safety risk to other students. So I'm back home.

My ability to progress independently has hit 0 after a steady decline. I'm 20 years old, and all of my friends are either out of trade school, finishing up college in a year or so, or generally moving along in life well enough. I've tried to find a passion about anything, but it just isn't happening. I've managed to make a fair amount of acquaintances, even friends, online, but I can never seem to find the same sort of people IRL in my areas. Having interests that aren't particularly popular here makes it hard to find friends in the area; I've made one or two good acquaintances. When I do find people with some mutual interests, I don't really manage to fit their bill as an acceptable tagalong, so I'm never quite worthy to hang out with them, anyway.

Now when I do try to force myself to develop a skill, I always feel so old -- too old to be literally just starting. I know the alternative is to never be good at a thing, but its always demotivating to know I'll be in my thirties at best -- and probably at an age at which nobody would care/I'd still be a general nobody -- before I have any decent level of skill at anything. I feel like part of it is where I am, a middle of nowhere place that most anybody I know that's done anything with their lives has run away from and never come back.

And now, I've had an offer to get out, too. Not school again, but something else. I just don't know if the "me" independent of this place is man enough to deal with it. I don't honestly think I can change. I dunno what broke in my head, but I feel like somewhere along the line I fucked up and can't recover.

Yes, I reposted. Sorry for failing to bump the old one. I dunno if the workmail email was legit or not. I might go out on a limb with a throwaway.

Yes and no. Depression will always be with you but as you do different things and start to adapt you will feel more of a success than that of a failure.

So go for it. You are young, go and have fun..whatever that fun deep down in your mind is. Be selfish, you have earned it.

>>17529131
Tell her what? That you haven't fucked many girls? If you want. She'll find out one way or another that night if you're so worried about it.

>>17529131
nah, she might already know.
anyway, what would it change? youre already banging her
just have fun dude, props

>>17529169
I guess it won't change much. But I'm curious what girls think about this situation.. Will I scare her off by telling her?

I have no idea. I'm not sure how so much "information" can be conveyed here without anything specific being discussed. Is that how your boyfriend communicates with you?

>>17529123
He's being edgy. Ask him about it again face to face later.

>>17529165
We rarely touch anything that involves feelings or is negative. Like, he doesn't tell me things or involve me in his life. I'm the last person he talks to, he doesn't bounce things off of me...

>>17529091

Women don't usually find men that generalize too much attractive. Come to think of it, *people* don't really like those that generalize them too much.

>>17529091

Women aren't a type of Pokemon.

They're all different people who like different things.
If you're trying ask whether there's some girls out there who get off on watching meatheads pound each other into the ground then sure. There's tons.

>>17529128
Christ, be a cunt elsewhere honestly.

>>17529080
>Well A is perfect for me
I don't understand how you can barely know someone and hype them up like this. You're only setting yourself up for disappointment.

>>17529080
>Well A is perfect for me
More like you're projecting ideals onto her.

I understand that i overhyped her there .
But the question still stands on what i should do?

>>17529072
1. how old are you?
2. how long have you been seeing each other?

>>17529072
its whatever you want it to be you underageb8

>>17529072

Don't suffocate her. Don't do anything you didn't already do in the casual phase. If you don't see each other daily during your regular schedules (In which case it's easier to keep consistent contact and you don't have to worry much at all) there's still no reason to blow up her phone 24/7. Just set up dates and if she's not feeling it back off.