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I couldn't get an erection while having sex for the first time 2016-09-04 01:20:16 Post No.17529901
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I couldn't get an erection while having sex for the first time
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I'm a 21 year old virgin. I started seeing this girl a week ago and things have been going great, it led into the bedroom last night and I could not get an erection. Luckily she was amazing about it and very understanding but I'm now worried it will keep happening. I'm trying to determine if it was just maybe first time jitters or if it will be a reoccurring issue. I normally have no problems getting erections, I watch porn and masturbate probably once every ~one/two days give or take. I don't know if that might be the issue, that I'm so used to porn that it's difficult for me to get an erection without it. We were also both relatively drunk and of course I've never had sex while drunk before so I don't know if that might have caused some issues as well. I've also recently started taking Effexor about 2 weeks ago and I know erectile dysfunction is a common side effect of anti depressants and I know I've had trouble getting erections when I used to take Lexapro. Luckily I know this didn't ruin anything with her and I know I'll have a more chances with her in the future even if it does happen again... but I would like it not to.
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As someone who lost his virginity recently, relax. It's 99.99% anxiety. Also, alcohol can have an erection-killing effect.
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Don't worry I was having the Same problem with my gf and I was worried too. You just need to get confortable with your partner, let her know that you are a virgin, keep trying try to don't think about it, focus on her.
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The thing is... I felt surprisingly comfortable with her. I'm sure I was a bit anxious because I'm normally a really anxious person but it was relatively tame. She was super sweet and understanding about it and I didn't feel pressured or anxious that I would disappoint her we did other things and we still had a good time. So it's nice to hear that that's probably all it is but at the same time I feel like it might have been something more.
How do I make friends?
>be college sophomore
>can't seem to be able to make any friends
>no clubs interest me at all
>in classes, I attempt and fail to find something to talk about to make friends with classmates, or more often than not flat out don't have opportunities because of lecture style courses
>roommate is constantly MIA
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>>17529874
Join a club, even if you don't have a ton of interest. This has the dual benefit of giving you an easy topic of discussion with anyone there (whatever the topic of the club is), and you'll see these people regularly at club meetings.
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Why bother? After everyone's graduated and starts working hardly anyone will bother staying in contact.
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Also everyone is just going to be dead in around 60 years anyway. Better to save yourself the heartbreak.
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....i think my boyfriend just broke up with me
i told him that i feel like i'm the only one trying to see him and that i feel like he's too busy for me and not even trying to see me, and he said he ju st doesn't have time to even talk to me that much at all and that he doesn't think he can continue this relationship anymore
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>>17529839
I think he did, OP.
And if he was too much of a bitch to say it to your face, then he isn't worth your time anyhow.
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>>17529839
Never speak to him again. Holy shit, what a waste of time.
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>>17529839
RIP
Move on femanon
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Feeling kinda paranoid 2016-09-04 00:53:14 Post No.17529800
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I read online that you can detect bug bed infestations by finding dark spots or copper colored marks on your mattress/box spring/whatever. Does this look like it would be from bed bugs? I've had this mattress for years so there's no telling what else it might be.
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>>17529800
It looks like water damage. Do you use a mattress protector underneath your sheets? Do you change them regularly? Is your room damp?
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The springs have rusted and left stains. That's what happens when you piss the bed and don't clean it up Anon.
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>>17529813
It's hard to tell from the picture but that's the side of the mattress (the mattress is laying on its side). Regardless, I'd feel a lot better about it being water damage or rust stains than fucking bed bugs.
How does one live when life has no meaning? Most of it's doing things you don't want to do, but have to in order to survive. There's absolutely no point in survival. Why you gotta do all this just for the sake of existing? Why? WHY? What's the point of existing?
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You make the purpose. There is no point in existing, except what you decide it is.
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>>17529791
I can't make up a purpose when I know there's no point in anything after all. It feels like keeping plastic fruit on your kitchen table and pretending they're real edible fruit. But you know theyre fucking plastic.
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>>17529843
you can live life for the moments. those are either pleasurable or a learning experience and it may provide you with guidance for the after life, whatever it may be.
Hey guys, not entirely sure where to put this thread but fuck it lets try here...
Okay so basically I'm looking for a new laptop, nothing extremely fancy but I'm a bit of a retard when it comes to computer systems, particularly hard drives and shit.
Anyway
1. Yes, it has to be a laptop for college I'm bringing it to my classes
2. No I don't want a MacBook or anything Apple
3. My budget is capped at $1,500 USD
As for the details of the system, I'm not insanely picky but I want something with a good core processor, and definitely a nice graphics card. Despite needing this for school, I obviously game and need something better than my shitty old Intel that can't even run mine craft lmao.
I don't play huge storage-hoarding games, however I do want something that can efficiently multi-task and run steam and Java programs / games.
Tl;Dr: Budget of $1,500, need a laptop for school / gaming. Decent storage size, good processor, good graphics card.
Any thoughts please guys? Thank you :)
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You can't have something that's good for school AND gaming. Pick one or the other as a priority. If gaming is that important to you, get a PC rig and use pen and paper to take notes in class.
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>>17529789
Regardless desktop is out of the question. The school factor doesn't matter to me much lol I already have another laptop I could use for school. All I really need to the ability to run Microsoft office lol
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>eating alone at burgerking
>two girls come over and ask me if i am alone here
>"our friend over there there thinks you are cute, wanna join us at our table?"
>they keep giggling all the time
>think they are bullshitting me
>"Really? Wow thanks but sorry i am going home now"
>leave
I fucked up didnt i?
Dont even know why i did that, this has never happened before and i am still not sure if they really meant that.
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They were fucking with you
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>>17529776
Should have gone for it with zero to lose, take one of their burgers if they were just fucking with you
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>go out with best friend and his qt little sister
>eventually he leaves to hook up with some sloot
>me and his sis have a greattime, as always
>she tells me how much she has a crush on one of the guys who was also at the bar
>guy didnt seem that much into her
>she says that she wants to hang out with him
>asks me if that is alright with me, and says that if it isnt she will stay
>'nah, i dont care...'
>she leaves
>i actually cared and feel dumb now
I dont think either of us could have done any better, op.
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ok here's my problem.
>see a cute girl on facebook
>mutual friends with my other friends on FB
>appears to be single and likes the same sort of stuff i like
what do i do? should i message her?
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Have a mutual female acquaintance arrange something.
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>>17529775
Yeah, unless you have mutual friends there really is no sane and casual way to approach such a situation.
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>>17529775
what they said, would look creepy if you just messaged out the blue imo, arrange going out as a group or something
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Purchased a few things with my Bank of America debit card. A chair from GT Omega, and a printer from Ebay, I did these purchases a few days ago.
But there is no charge on my card, and I still have the same amount of money in my bank.
Why is that? What would happen if I withdrew all the money and they couldn't pull anything out?
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It means it's going to take a few days for the transactions to go through. If you withdrew the money, your account would be overdrawn when they went through and you'd essentially be in debt and liable for any fees.
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>>17529762
True, true. Was not going to do that anyways, but was just curious.
Items have already been shipped, that is why I don't understand. Ebay pulls money right away and they didn't.
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Items should be processing. Last time it did a late pull on me my card got frozen because "security flaws with a merchant" or some dumb shit, however my purchases/transfers didn't go through so I'm sure this may not apply to you
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Help me over think this conversation anons:
Her: I need to buy some vinegar.
Me: I heard vinegar can get rid of fleas on your cat or dog.
Her: Or your boyfriend.
What did she mean by this? That she has a boyfriend? Or that I have fleas but may be boyfriend material? Or totally innocent remark with no hidden meaning. Im pretty sure she likes me.
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Why this bitch telling you she want vinegar
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It was a fucking joke you autist. It doesn't mean anything.
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>>17529753
Uh you'd have to ask her but i interpreted it as one of two things
1) My boyfriend (or you) is dirty and needs to be cleaned to keep continue dating him (start dating). In the each case it sounds like a teasing flirt rather than seriously calling someone dirty.
2) My boyfriend is a flea i need to get rid of.
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How should I seduce my wife tonight. 2016-09-04 00:31:34 Post No.17529735
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How should I seduce my wife tonight.
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Step by step please.
Arrange the order of sex acts too.
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>>17529735
First, don't drink her beer.
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Start talking dirty with her and get her clothes of then plug your nose and barely touch her vagina with the tip of your tongue. Do it quick like a snake for maximum pleasure.
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>>17529870
That's it?
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We were making out in the club all night, she was following me everywhere. We were in the smoking area most of the night just chatting away and making out. I had a couple of other girls come up to me in the club and she gave me the most evil stare I've ever seen.
Then she added me on Facebook when she left. The next morning we were messaging each other.
One of her messages said "you're not the worst looking person I've met, and you're not the worst person I've spoken to either. That's all you get, which is a lot by the way ;)" because she wouldn't give me full on compliments because she knows I get a lot of attention from girls.
Do you think she likes me?
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>club
You actually think this is going to go somewhere, don't you?
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>>17529729
Why would it not? She said she wants to date me.
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>>17529718
> humblebrag
Ofcourse she likes you, dickwad
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Continue to stay angery or become calm and relax? 2016-09-04 00:21:56 Post No.17529699
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Continue to stay angery or become calm and relax?
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CONTEXT: I've recently went through a breakup and my mind is all over the place, my ex makes me incredibly angry, I commonly just go and workout my anger, (I go to the gym very often). I want to get over her and the rest of the people who try and become obstacles. I've blocked her and the rest of the "obstacles". I've also devised a program to limit the amount of time I'm on social media.
Should I just continue the way I'm going or try my best to become calm?
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>>17529699
"Recently" is what speaks the most to me, maybe in time you'll feel a bit better.
Just gotta keep living and rolling with the punches, there's not much anyone can say to you.
Live for yourself first, doing what you like to do. Everything else comes apparently.
I'm just some bitter guy like you, hopefully someone more useful will come along and post
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>>17529786
You're very blunt but very true, when i say recently i mean a few months back, feels so short though. But I certainly get what you mean
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>>17529811
I'm in the exact same position you are, and we don't have to get in to detail about what these cunts have done, but people keep suggesting therapy and stuff to me, gonna give it a shot.
Might work out, gotta keep trying things until something fixes you is pretty much what i'm getting at.
Life's a joke unless you're a beautiful rich person, laugh at it if you can
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ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything 2016-09-04 00:17:41 Post No.17529686
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ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything
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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.
FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
>Would you date a virgin?
><random insecurity>
Some do, some don't. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practicing and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever. It takes hard work, time, and effort.
>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't fucking know.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships and fart guy
Fuck off.
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>other thread is still on the front fucking page
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>>17529689
>implying there is any discussion worth continuing going on in that thread
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>>17529589
We all know that feel. Sometimes i almost envy faggots.
>>17529641
>I've tried talking to them about what interests them but i never get a concrete answer, it's like they dont have much substance.
Welcome to life, enjoy your stay
>do I sound like an alright guy to hang out with at least?
Yep
>>17529663
And? Is there a problem with that? Women are just doing what makes them feel good.
They don't owe men anything, and they don't have any duty to maintain some fucked-up social order.
If you were a woman, you'd most likely do the same.
basically im socially retarded and have been all my life. It almost seems as if my thoughts are trapped in my mind and i cant seem to convert them into actual conversation
alcohol helps somewhat but obviously i cant get drunk all the time.
aside from getting out and talking to people all the time, which i try to do already, is there any way to improve my shitty social skills
as autistic as it sounds i guess im looking for books or articles that deal with conversation and social situations
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>>17529622
>aside from getting out and talking to people all the time, which i try to do already
This is the best way. Fuck your books and articles.
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Buck up buttercup, but the only way to do it is to get actual interaction. After a while you'll become more comfortable, and you'll learn what is and isn't socially acceptable. You'll get there, just keep at it.
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>>17529647
i try to get as much interaction as i can but sometimes im just at home hanging out and a book would help out with the grind