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Alright to atone for my past misdeeds of trying to fap to loli a year ago.
So I decided to hunt REAL pedos down and send them to the police. How exactly should I go about it? Where do I start? I wanna make a difference l the community while also honoring my girlfriend who got raped
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>>17661522
stop making this shit thread you retard fagit cuck

S A G E
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>>17661561
So you want me to let actual molesters and rapists run free. I get it friendo.
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>>17661561
You shouldn't be sperging our over my regrets tho. I know it sounds retarded that I'm feeling regret over drawings, bit it's my choice.

How does one going about making it clear to a girl that they are only looking to hook up/be FWB?

I hung out/got lunch with a girl today. It went well and we made out. I think she is a cool person, however her life style choices and other aspects of her life are something that I could never really tolerate in a relationship.
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>>17661480
Just say that you're not wanting to get in an emotional relationship and that you guys can still stay friends or hook up when feeling it. Either she will accept or she will leave you
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>>17661480

>Just to be clear, I'm all for hooking up with you or even being FWBs, but I'm not looking for a relationship.
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>>17661480
Fucking idiosyncrasies.

Just had the term "shoe gaze" in my head yesterday and remembered it was some kind of music. Found sorority noise right after typing that into youtube.

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i've never felt so low :(
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>>17661474

It's alright baby girl, come over to my place and I'll make you feel better. :^)
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>>17661474
are you lucky
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>>17661482
if only you were an actual real person.

>>17661484
no.

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I'm really attracted to my girlfriends friend.. Although I literally never talk to her i'm going to a party with them both next month.

What the fuck do I do? Seriously my girlfriends friend is hot af.. But i love my girlfriend.

If I wanted to say let my gfs friend know i like her in a subtle way, what would I do? I just can't shake thinking of her.
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Is there any chance you sleep with her friend?
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Well I can promise that your girlfriend is going to be absolutely pissed when she finds out, and she will. I'd keep that to yourself if you want to keep your girlfriend.
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Lustful Lecher here

Get to know the friend. See if its just lust and if it is then you make a choice either prioritize your relationship or the 90 minutes* of "new pussy" sex.

cumulative*

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I have access to someone's Facebook that ripped me off $200. What would you do?
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track them down and kill them
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Ruin their life

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Use Tor, log on and plaster it full of gay sex images. or really racist shit.

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I went into Winn-Co. I put 3 suckers in my pocket and a strawberry-banana nectar in my other pocket. 98 cents. 98 fucking cents worth of merchandise. And I got a 250$ dollar fine.

People who don't think capitalistic companies are greedy and fucking over the people, not only with what they charge and sell, but how exploitative the fine is, are fucking stupid.

Anyway, HOW CAN I AVOID THIS FINE???

I'm broke as a choke, and I'm moving from Oregon to Tennessee this Friday. Is there anyway I can avoid this fine? And what will the penalties for that be? Damaging my credit? Court? Sue? Arrest?

And is this on my permanent record? They have a photo of me (grinning real wide) and the LP said it was only going on their system, but I'm not sure what to think.

Any information is appreciated.
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You don't.

Hardly seems worth it, does it? Lesson fucking learned.

How old are you and where is your location?
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>>17661354

You avoid it by getting a good lawyer.
But since you're probably too poor for anything but a public defender, he could probably get you a plea deal such that the charge is expunged after a couple of years?
Wouldn't be on your "permanent record" then, but you'd still have to pay the fine/do community service/whatever.
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>>17661387

This is not a situation where getting a lawyer is applicable. When OP was caught at the store and interrogated by LP, that would have been the time to ask for a lawyer. But also by requesting legal representation, that would mean LP was getting the police involved.

The fine is the resolution, unless OP wants to contest it in court, which considering they are actually guilty, would be pretty stupid.

Pay the fine, OP.

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>tfw girlfriend is going on birth control and you're worried that she may no longer find you attractive

she always tellls me how much she loves me, but she's starting the pill soon and it has me concerned given that the pill affects female attraction.

Am I right to be concerned? Does anyone have any statistics or anything on relationships starting prior to the pill being effected once the pill is started?

(Proof of the attraction claims )
https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/birth-control-pills-affect-womens-taste/
http://time.com/3596014/attraction-sex-birth-control/
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>>17661353
If she loves you you have nothing to worry about. She won't just become disgusted because she took the pill. Just do your best in your relationship
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I guess you'll find out sooner or later, won't you?
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>>17661609
Yea right, my gf got on the pill and we started having sex barely twice a month. She's 18 and I'm 20. Finally she got off of it like 6 months ago, and now we are FINALLY having sex almost like we used to. We're at 2-3 times a week now

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>get a picture for work
>don't have a picture on anyone or anything
>decide to put a picture of some girl i found on 4chan
>coworkers come by an asked if she's my girlfriend
>sperg out and say she's my fiance
>that was 4 monhs ago
>they keep asking me how the wedding plans are going
>was thinking about telling everyone we broke it off
>sister gets a job at the same place but the floor above
>i'm afraid she'll blow my cover

Pic related, It's "Emily" I'm thinking of just packing up and quitting my job when my sister starts. I don't think I can handle the embarrassment
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You dug a big hole
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can you tell your sister there was a misunderstanding a long while ago that led your coworkers to think you were engaged and you didn't know how to correct them after all this time, but you're planning to say it broke off and if it comes up could she please play along?
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Why did you need a photo for work?
Easy way to deal with it is to say it didn't work out and you don't want to talk about it

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tl;dr - Is cross party dating possible, particularly in the current climate?

I've always been open to dating (and have dated) people of any ideology. Through a combination of believing that it's impossible to really know the truth, and that people can't choose their beliefs anyways, it's never been a big deal to me. You believe what you want to believe, I'll believe whatever I want to believe, no big deal.

As I've gotten more experience, however, I've noticed that other people are not quite so accepting, and whenever I date a member of one ideological group in particular, they invariably try to change my beliefs to match theirs, and then dump me when I don't.

Fast forward to the present day and I have a dilemma. There are two women I'm talking to, let's call them Angela and Betty.

Now I slightly prefer Angela to Betty, I think our personalities are a better match, we have a lot of similar interests, and we're at the same educational level so we can discuss them intelligently. However, she's very passionate about this particular ideology, and I feel the only reason we've gotten on so well this far is that I've taken is because I've taken efforts to avoid mentioning I'm on the other side of that chasm. So I'm hesitant to move forward, if it wouldn't work out and would only ruin our friendship in the end.

Betty, on the other hand is also great, very attractive, and had a similar enough ideology to mine that we could get on. However we have less in common and I'm not sure I like her enough that I could fully commit to her. She's great, but there's not as much of a spark.

Should I just ride out the election with Betty, and see where it goes, or take a chance on Angela even though I know it'll probably fail? (Not dating either is also an option I'm seriously considering)
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Sorry about the length, but writing it all out really helps me get it straight in my head.
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no, it means different things to different people. some see ideology as personality traits, and they're not entirely wrong. there are people out there like you, though, who aren't turned off by certain differences. just go out there and find them.
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take a change on Angela, what do you have to lose?

>Be Me.
>Be -$4700 in debt.
>Get steady job, $12.50/hour Part-Time.
>2 weeks later, get temp-to-hire full time offer with startup. $15/hour data entry & phone calls.

What do? Bills are usually around $600 which so far has been doable, but I really need to pay off some of my debts as soon as possible and I'm really not sure if I'll be able to with the part-time gig.

Scared if I drop it and this company doesn't hire me at the end of contract then I'll be in this boat again.

What do?
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4700 is nothing.

Take the risk if this new company is more promising longterm. Don't be satisfied with 12.50$ an hour.
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>>17661272
I'm leaning this direction right now too, just needed confirmation that it's the right move. Thanks anon
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>>17661252
Get it in writing that they will hire you at the end. If you can't, I wouldn't risk leaving the job you have now. Lower your bills instead of (maybe) increasing your pay for some time, it's more sustainable.

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Have an interview with a high fashion company tomorrow for photography/design.

The thing is I don't know a thing about fashion - any advice?
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>>17661210
Wear a t shirt and basketball shorts. Minimalism is chic, after all.
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>>17661221
very funny, it's not my clothes i'm worried about.
i'm worried they'll ask are you into fashion?
who's your favorite fashion designer?
what's your favorite collection
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----> /fa/

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What are your go-to methods of safe sex?
How many contraceptives do you use before you're comfortable with going down on someone?

Everyone says there's always a risk. On the back of my head I'm thinking that the possibility is always there, and that's making my avoid any types of intimacy.

The problem is I really want to have sex with someone. I'm starting to get closer to this girl I know and soon she might want it too. I don't want to lose her or not satisfy my sexual urges over fear.

I think I've been brainwashed by high school sex ed telling me abstinence is the only way. Help me undo this.

My fear of pregnancy may just make me virgin for life.

21/M btw
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>>17661176
The most effective method I've found is to make sure that she's not on birth control and to cum so deep in her that hardly any cum comes out of her. Never gotten a girl pregnant yet using this method.
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>>17661187
Gee thanks.
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>>17661194
You're welcome! Have fun unloading between those sugar walls.

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So several times at my uni woman report to have been "raped" at frat parties. Can someone explain to me the mindset of a person getting drunk, having sex, then not liking that they had sex sober and claiming rape. I understand if a person is unresponsive "blacked out" drunk. I see that as the same as having sex with someone who's asleep. But I dont get the sex with a drunk person is rape thing otherwise.
It matters because I might have to apologize to someone.
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>I understand if a person is unresponsive "blacked out" drunk.
How do you know this wasn't the case? Are you just assuming that because women have complained about being raped while drunk that they're just 'crying rape' and that they need to prove that they were 'actually' raped for you to believe them?
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> get drunk
> have sex
> regret it
> come up with a conclusion that doesn't involve you having to confront the fact that you made an unwise decision

Or

> get drunk
> have sex
> blame partner for pity, attention, and the good ol' enjoyment of ruining someone's name because you're dead inside and will never be a complete human being with compassion for others
> repeat this sort of behaviour and breed, thus creating children destined to either follow this path or an hero
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how can women even call drunk sex rape? the guy that is fucking them is probably drunk too. if a girl did this to me i would legitimately kill her and go to jail for murder.

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Does anyone else here feel like they'll never have a social life or go anywhere in life? I just got out of college with a B.A but finding a job is tough, also I'm a 24 year old overweight weeaboo virgin friendless manlet who still lives with his parents. I'm working part time making $8 per hour, my mom is afraid if I was living on my own I'd just eat junk food and drink soda until I weigh 300 lbs, she already gets onto me about what I eat and drink currently. I need to lose a good 20lbs or 30lbs, also she's always telling me how to dress and style my hair because she thinks if I dressed how I want then girls would never find me attractive.

In a way I feel like she's right because if I was living on my own I'd probably live off soda and frozen dinners/pizza or some shit and just play video games, she really wants me to have a social life but I just don't know if it'll ever happen. I'm not very outgoing and I don't go out of my way to make friends, sometimes my mom and I argue because she's so worried where I'll be in a few years. She just doesn't like the fact that I'd be working and doing nothing else because I have no interest in anything, and it's not that I don't have interest in things, it's just I'm interested in things like anime and video games which she claims aren't really things people my age should be interested in.

I love my mom, but I hate that she worries so much. I mean I'm content with my situation, and I wouldn't mind just sitting inside all day eating junk food and playing video games, but she just doesn't want me to be a friendless obese loser sitting in his apartment with no friends or girlfriend. I've tried losing weight but I never stick with it, I'll be gung-ho about it for a week or two and then burn out. I mean it'd be nice to have friends/girlfriend who is into what I like, but it's hard to find people with my interests in my city for some reason. It's not like we have an anime club, or something of that nature in my town.
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Plenty of girls are into anime shit, and they're usually dysfunctional weirdos like yourself. Stop being a mopey ass, dress up in a costume and go to a convention. And exercise.
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>>17661229
I have been to several anime conventions, the reason I haven't been to one in a while is because I don't want to go alone.

I have no friends and nobody to go with, I just really don't have fun attending conventions by myself. I always went with friends or something, also I've tried exercising, but as I stated it never lasts very long. I'll exercise for like two weeks and then burn out and lose motivation.
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>>17661161
>Does anyone else here feel like they'll never have a social life or go anywhere in life?

i already dont have a social life but that is my own fault because i choose to invest my spare time into my own things. i have friends, however i dont see them that often. i feel like my life isnt going anywhere which is mostly because im aware of where most british class citizens end up. Im in university but im not very good at academic work, being dyslexic doesn't help.

>it's just I'm interested in things like anime and video games which she claims aren't really things people my age should be interested in.

sounds like my mum. I disagree with your mum anyway. all people really do is play video games, watch films/tv series and drink. the only thing you're really missing out on is having friends to get shit faced with. sounds like you're in a depressing situation though, worse than mine. ive never really been friendless. i can speak to people pretty easily if i have something to talk about. you should lose weight. getting into working out improved my confidence alot.

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Got summoned for Jury Duty tomorrow. Anything I should prepare for? I'm from Chicago if that helps.
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>>17661152

Show up for jury duty and discharge your civic duty. I'm from Jacksonville if that helps.
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Have you already called and made sure you're still needed?
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>>17661207
Yeah I just called and unfortunately my last name is in the middle of the alphabet.

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