I need help. One of my kids lost the key to my mercedes. I have looked all over the house and can't find them anywhere. Before I drop 400+ on a new key, where would you look?
>>17662770
This requires a slow room by room search.
Starting with the rooms where your keys and child would have been together, then work your way to the least obvious.
Get down on your knees and study the room, see what would be in reach for a child.
Go though the room an area/item of furniture at a time.
Put everything back neatly and tidy so you know it has been searched.
I would get rid of my shit car and buy a real vehicle like a BMW
fuck it. refrigerator.
my boyfriend admitted when drunk that since the moment we met he thought I was unattractive and my character very unappealing (I have asperger's and have problems being myself around people I don't know well, later on I am very calm anyway, I come from an abusive home and watch my every step around people - he was always going after very popular girls, all of which rejected him). only thing that attracted him to me was our mutual interest in the field he works in
when asked about how can I trust him now? and what would happen if he would meet someone who not only has the interest in the field and in him, but also is more attractive than me to him in other departments, he said he does not think about it all, he does not want to tempt the fate, but it is very possible that he would leave me (I appreciate honesty, but yeah... I just shouldn't have asked the question)
other than that he treats me well when we meet, makes longterm plans with me, etc., yet since his fucking confession I got insecure as hell, and afraid every time he interacts with a woman (it wasn't like that before at all)
I could handle being left very well, but don't want to be treated as less than by someone who I guess shouldn't (?), or get cheated on
And your question is? I mean, if you're looking for an opinion I would've left the very moment my partner told me he doesn't find me attractive. I don't see how anybody could have a happy relationship knowing their partner doesn't like their appearance and personality. But that's just me, you do you. Although I doubt you'll ever be rid of those newly found insecurities as long as you'll be with him.
>>17662760
As a fellow girl, leave. You are only setting yourself up to be hurt. You'll never be the most attractive woman a man knows or has seen, but if you are looking for long term commitment with someone, I think you'd better find someone whose attraction to you isn't so up in the air. That, or work on your confidence and seduce the heck out of him! He is already your boyfriend after all.
>>17662760
I would honestly recommend just leaving. Yes it hurts, some, temporarily, but in the long term it would be far better for you than feeling like your partner only wants you because he 'settled' on you. Hell, he may even realize that's not actually how he feels about you and that he's an asshole.
>rarely genuinely feel like playing games anymore
>still interested in some and play with my bro a couple of hours every week
>but never have the urge to hurry home from work or postpone something as boring just to play out of sheer want
>been considering other hobbies but too lazy/bored/unmotivated to really try
Am I addicted and should I just quit and cold turkey away from my PC? I really only collect desires and feel bad about myself for doing nothing but sit by my PC all day.
This has been going on for years so I'm beyond burned out. I can however still laugh while actually playing. It's so confusing.
Halp?
Stop being a dumbass, gaming is fun. But do ither stuff too
>>17662769
So I'm overthinking it?
Or do I have autism or some shit?
what problems do you have?
OP here
i dont know what to do with my life
>studying media and film
>have gf
>have job
i feel like i have nowhere to go guys
im so worried about going to uni for 3years and spending so much time and money on it when i know how hard it will be (in terms of money) after i finish the course.
i dont know if i would rather just settle into a full time job now.
its effecting my relationship as im getting emotional and having mood swings and i can see that its upsetting her and causing us to have fallings out
i dont know what to do
I worked all my life to be able to study human medicine. Now that Im here I miss all my discipline I had earlier. I just happen to pass exams because I do the least possible amount of work for learning. I hope to change this semester as it will have a lot of fun and interesting stuff but you never know. I also pay for it myself because my parents cant support me financially.
Im also in love with a girl which is engaged.
What problems do you have OP?
>>17662718
Do you have fun being creative? If yes, stay there. I've been there: Worked for 5 years to sustain my studies, worked well and got a farewell gift worth of one year salary (even though the boss hated me he wanted me to succeed in medicine, magnificent bastard). But I could have never stayed there for a full time job as I felt like in a cage. Maybe you try working full time for 1 year and afterwards you can decine on a better basis which is more suitable for you?
I feel really comfortable studying, even though my discipline is lacking.
If someone (female) is angry about something and says "i dont want dinner" then leaves for ~15 mins, do you make a serving for them since theyre saying it out of spite or not because they should face the consequences of rudeness?
>>17662714
Are you asking us if you should punish your girlfriend for being upset by withholding food?
Are you 12 years old?
>>17662715
not witholding, its more if you say something like that and storm out without resolving an arguement is it better to just go by their word or not?
Yes, of course they should face the consequences of their actions, otherwise they'll keep acting like children. If you're letting them get away with it you're just spoiling them.
Why do i, after speaking a bit with mom, feel like "camping up" like a fag and want to feel a dick on my ass and be treated like a baby/sissy?
It goes away like one hour after i lock myself back in my room.
Does anyone have this same thing? Am i just bi?
What?
You're on your way to a nice place full of mommyplay, femdom, humiliation, cucking, traps, sissyplay, peggig and sucking dick. Don't fight it. Lean back, relax and enjoy the ride.
>>17662680
what. and its literally only after talking to your mom?
what usually happens? do you have a dad?
Now that I finally cut down my body fat percentage to 15% and officially became a fire fighter, I wanna finally get a gf after being a 20 year old loser beta kissless fag. I have gotten a decent haircut, bought some new cloths and did personal grooming so now, I look fresh af. The problem is however
I literally have 1 male friend I hang out with every few months and no other female friends that I keep in touch with.
Where to find friends and gf?
At a gym?
Online?
>>17662616
15% body fat, a new haircut and some new clothes is not a prerequisite for a relationship nor is it a substitute for a shitty personality.
These things can give you confidence but don't let this stupid /r9k/ "get fit buy clothes" meme trick you into thinking that a slick haircut and a fireman's jacket is all you need to sustain a relationship.
Think bigger, OP. Looking shiny and improved on the outside will do little to improve whats inside unless you make a concerted effort to do so.
>>17662707
Not OP, but what should I do if I'm fat but remember what it was like when I was skinny and I was still pretty ugly. Like 4/10 almost.
Has anyone here been with a chubby chick? Is it better or worse than an average size chick.
>I've been with 3 women.
>2 of them were fit and the other one was skinny.
>I'm 6'3" a little under 300 lbs.
>Big ass motherfucker, built like a linebacker.
>Sex has always been kind of awkward for me because of size difference.
>Partners never seem to mind but I get uncomfortable because I have to bend and move certain ways to not overwhelm them.
>Chubby woman look like sex & cuddling with them would be comfy as fuck.
>Just got hired at a customer service job and there are a ton of single chubby women there.
What are the pros and cons of sleeping with heavier woman?
a bit of extra weight is fine if it is in the sexy places.
Pros:
More cuddly, more to love
The compensation factor
Cons:
Health problems
Difficult to manhandle
Go for it. A little chubby love never hurt anyone.
>>17662614
>Health problems
I'm not going to live past 40 anyway and if I do, I'll be surprised.
>Difficult to manhandle
Worked manual labor most of my life and can dead lift 200lbs no problem.
I have this Friend with benefits I've been seeing for a little while. I'm a 24 year old guy and she's a hot rich 20 year old Asian with big tits/ass.
We:
>kiss
>hug
>cuddle before sex
>fuck her like an animal in every position
>she blows me
>we get dinner
>we run errands and she brings me when she goes shopping
>blows me in the dressing room
I don't get why she doesn't just date me. She just says she wants to finish college before she seriously dates anybody (her family told her she isn't allowed to date until she graduates).
Not sure if I'm just inadequate, or if it's her families' influence.
>>17662547
She doesn't see a future with you.
>>17662551
This, and she is also 20. Young people often do not know what they want, and are very prone to "wait for something better".
>>17662547
This will not end well if you fall for her and you will eventually should you carry on like this. Cut out the non-fucking activities and look elsewhere for an actual partner
Hi guys, 25M situated in the UK. Therapist adviser blamed my problems on weed and referred me to drug counselling instead of CBT or proper talking therapy when I actually went to my GP to get help. Told me to come back in two months when I get clean. Problems predate cannabis use. I smoke approx 1g a day. Depression and anxiety still persists. Take prozac and propranolol for it. Advice?
>>17662544
wow what a victim blamer
What do you mean, am I in the wrong here?
>>17662554
Your depression meds don't really work if you also smoke weed (first hand experience here)
A bat briefly bumped into my head. For not even a second. Could I have rabies?
>>17662528
Not rabies. But you could have snoo.
>>17662531
>>17662563
Please anons. I'm scared.
>>17662528
>Only if the bat's saliva or blood made contact with an open wound that you had where it hit you and even then it would take a lot.
I would be concerned about autism though.
A few years ago my mum cheated on my dad and then divorced him. They had been married for almost 26 years.
Since then, I can't trust or respect women. The general anti-woman culture of 4chan and other sites isn't helping with that either.
Women have it much easier than men in modern society and yet they whine and complain so much more.
Is there a way I can stop being a misogynist or is this redpill eternal?
I just want to be a good person again.
Men are more likely to whore around than woman because of sex drives.
Basically, because your mother was a whore (although I don't know how your father treated her) doesn't mean everyone has to be like this.
Cheers.
>>17662519
You don't think every white person is a neo-nazi nigger hater who's about to shoot up a school, do you?
Apply that same logic to women you fucking potato cunt
>>17662534
They are but they just don't act on it because it would be foolish. Nobody likes black people because they are statistically violent.
Just like how women are statistically more likely to work in jobs that rely on taxpayer money.
I'm 26 and realize everything I did wrong as a teenager and in my early twenties. I'm working on these things and am doing well.
But basically my "life" is starting at like 30. Is this weird? I just want to "play the field" and do the whole fuckboy thing guys did in high school for a while. Am I too old for that?
What did you do wrong?
>>17662409
in what sense? If you're having trouble in your life I can offer some helpful advice.
>>17662405
I'd skip the fuckboy cravings, but this is pretty normal from what Ive seen. If you consider that (anecdotal advice incoming) many people dont always pursue what they study in college then Id say your fine. I'm realising a lot of the same stuff you are and doing what I can.
A wise man once said follow your bliss. Find the thing you love and it will be like guiding hands pushing you along a path that was always there, just out of reach. So do that.
Hello anons, I want to try weed for the first time but don't know how to go about it. Any suggestions?
Just some some with a friend. Be sure to have scooby snacks and funny movies ready.
>>17662381
ask your meth dealer if he can get you some
>>17662381
Well, when I first tried it the effect was completely different from what I imagined it to be. It was very overwhelming and when I observed my behavior it felt as if my behavior was erratic, or would look erratic to an outside observer. However, the more I observed it the more I realized I wasn't really behaving all that crazy. I will say that I was glad that I did it with someone I knew (my girlfriend) the first time because the effect was unexpectedly strong and alien that at one point I had a slight concern it wasn't weed. When I asked my girlfriend if she's sure it is weed, she said of course. I probably would have been uncomfortable or even scared doing it the first time if I was alone, but that is up to you because one of my friends did it alone and had a great time. Also, from other experiences, I can say that the first few highs will feel very different from each other, especially if you do it in different settings or with different people.
As the previous poster said, make sure you have some good candy or other snacks there because food is very satisfying and delicious to eat. Movies, music, or something long on YouTube (so you wouldn't have to bother searching for videos every few minutes) are a great choice.
How long does it take to tell if you can grow a beard or not?
Everything I've read says 4-6 weeks.
What might it look like in that time? Any personal experiences?
>>17662372
Couple days
>>17662372
It depends on your genetics. My facial hair grows slow as fuck. A guy at my work would trim his shit all the way down to no guard and a week later it was back to almost an inch.