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Apparently I look like a hipster, is this a good thing?
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>>17658227
depends. is it still 2014 where you live?
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>>17658227
That depends, are you gay?
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>>17658231
Fucking hope not.
>>17658232
Nope
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Is it considered improper etiquette to hit on a cute girl at the gym? If not, how do you approach this situation?
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>>17658214
it's considered taboo, yes.
people go to the gym for self-improvement, not to slip on your spaghetti.
if a situation were to arise where you can make small talk then go ahead. i've made friends with women at the gym based on just spotting them on certain lifts. if you're cold approaching a random qt then don't be surprised if she's completely uninterested and rather just workout.
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>>17658214
Yeah, it is. I would stick to girls in the café or sitting around the pool tanning. Avoid the ones actually lifting or on a machine.
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>>17658214
Nah it's cool. Don't forget to grab her by the pussy
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Can someone explain to me why it is that now, when I'm actually an adult, in the real world, around other people that are presumably adults, I get way more shit about my height than I ever did in high school?
In highschool I only had one friend that ever even brought it up, and he just thought he was being funny. Now, it's fucking nonstop. It's not from girls (I do fine with girls actually), it's mainly other guys. The only thing I can think is that maybe it's an alpha male thing?
Conext? Usually none, it's always something like
>hurr duurr, you're shorter than me you short shit
Or a similar effect out of no where
It's just really frustrating because I feel like every time I'm around a new group of people I need to go through it all over again.
So, three questions:
1) is there a way to pre-empt it? I've tried bringing it up myself, but people seem to take that as license to bring it up incessantly from then on
2) barring that, when people do give me shit about it, how should I respond? My response has traditionally been to just ignore it and keep on doing my own thing, but I can tell that's not working. Should I start roasting the person that brings it up? I'm not really one for personal insults, but if that's what it takes to win these exchanges I guess I don't really have a choice
3) what's the best way you've ever seen someone handle people giving them shit about their height? Comebacks, zingers, actions, whatever. If I have examples to draw from then maybe I can understand how to respond better
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>can someone explain to me why i get way more shit about my height than i ever did in high school
because the kids in high school grew up to be "adults" and are just as shitty as they were before. they are just older and have money.
shitty people stay shitty people, people don't just become nice because they got older.
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>3) what's the best way you've ever seen someone handle people giving them shit about their height?
not staring at their feet and getting red in the face like you do.
> If I have examples to draw from then maybe I can understand how to respond better
quit pouting you fucking baby
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Probably because you live in a ghetto or some shitty place full of shitty people.
I have never had anyone mention my height apart from some insecure manchildren and i'm fucking 5'5".
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Do attractive women get as lonely as men?
Like hear me out, this isn't bait.
I see good looking fellows all the time who can't get a decent looking girlfriend, but I rarely ever see attractive women who can't get an attractive man.
If you're a 7/10 you can have pretty much any guy. However unless you're rich and have the body of Patrick Bateman, you have a very very small selection.
So I ask do women actually get lonely? Do they really feel the feel of tfw no bf?
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you're wrong. stupid and wrong
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>>17658187
Excellent response
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I'm an attractive girl, and it can get lonely.
If you really want a boyfriend boyfriend and not lololol fuckbuddy boyfriend, then it's hard. Good looking normie guys have options and will often have girlfriends, and the guys who fall in love with you are usually ...
> on the spectrum and good looking
> bad-looking normies
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Is it a bad idea to emotionally manipulate someone for sex?
I mean courtship is essentially just manipulation anyway.
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it's not a bad idea if you're a sociopath. but the fact that you're asking means you aren't. so don't do it
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>>17658199
>tfw feels
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>>17658178
Courtship is not just emotional manipulation anyway. Sure you aren't just feeling like doing it and then providing rational for it after already deciding?
Hey /adv/
Been seeing a girl for a couple months, asked her to be exclusive today and got rejected. She sent me a text an hour later basically saying she wants to focus on school and only wants to be friends for now. However, we are in the same major, my courseload is heavier than hers, and I often help her on homework, so I think this basically meant she's getting everything she wants as friends and doesn't want to go any further.
I'm not terribly torn up about it or anything, but I know my feelings will make just a friendship nearly impossible. Should I even bother responding to this text or just cut all contact? I feel like cutting all contact makes it seem like I am mad or bitter about it, so I thought of just briefly saying
>I understand but my feelings will make it hard to be friends, so we should head our separate ways
or something to that extent
Thanks for the advice
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>>17658175
Just cut contact. She might just be using you for the help. Just move on and find someone else
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>>17658204
This
You shouldn't ask girls to be exclusive unless you know for a fact that they will accept.
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>>17658175
Just tell her that you also want to focus in your studies and that you cant help her, you also have a life after all.
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I'm a 23 year old girl and I would like to start dating
How do you get a guy to like you?
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>>17658130
Exist. That's all you need to do if you're female.
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>>17658138
Please just help me.
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>>17658130
you're not in australia, are you?
guys are easy to please. be decent looking, be nice and friendly, be intelligent (not all guys care about this), be (genuinely) interested in the things going on in his life.
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This isn't a plea for sympathy, nor is it from the perspective of a person capable of accomplishing anything for the reason that I'm dying.
To sum it up I got diagnosed with stage 2 lung cancer [SCLC] and my chances of living are very slim.
I decided not to go on chemo, I want to do something before I die, I joined a support group which somewhat helps.
I haven't spoken to my family after having a falling out several years ago, I don't plan on telling them either, it will just fuel their resentment.
My options are to go on chemo and live a little bit longer, or stay as is and die sooner.
what should I do
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iunno, i'd just go do donuts and sideshow around my city. And when pulled over, tell the cops to fuck off and show em the doc's paperwork.
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>>17658121
I'd refuse chemo and just try and do whatever exotic activities I still can
And do a lot of drugs
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Not really sure how bad stage two is with chemo these days.
I don't know if it's possible. But maybe take out some huge loans that no one has to pay if you die. Then take a cruise and fuck some top class whores.
Maybe go full Diogenes or something.
Hey /adv/ I got ghosted by a girl I was dating for about a month and a half not too long ago. Things were going really well then all of a sudden she started deleting me off her social media.
Is there any hope she'll come back? I've tried moving on and talking to other girls but it's really difficult when you connected so well and built up a lot of chemistry
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If she comes back, she won't stay, trust me, a guy did that to me and left again.
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Move on. If she does come back, she will trap you in highly manipulative fashion.
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There were a couple red flags in our relationship. For one, everytime we got really emotionally involved with each other, she would act passive aggressive and piss me off, pushing me away because she's "scared to get too close."
It also doesn't help that I'm a bouncer and we met at the bar. Her friends tell her not to trust me because apparently bouncers are notorious for sleeping around. And I guess the last time we fucked she had a thought about me having to wear a condom. I told her we never have before so why start now? Her excuse was, "I'm not sure if you're fooling around with other girls"
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fuck I don't have much time /adv/
this girl and I are planning to lose our virginites over the weekend at my parents beach house. they have never had a problem with it but just today the heating system got fucked and now I can't use it anymore.
Where the fuck do we go to fuck?
There's too many people at my house and she doesn't want to lose it in her dorm or hotel, says she wants to go somewhere more personal.
I'm fucking panicking, if this doesn't happen I will literally kill myself. Should I just go for a hotel?
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>if this doesn't happen I will literally kill myself.
I would recommend that you don't have sex.
People like really need to stop breeding.
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Hold on... why can't you use the beach house? Do you really need the heater on during sex?
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Might as well just chug the bleach now.
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Apart from edging and powerful vibrators what can you do to make your orgasms pleasurable?
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>>17658005
Not fapping for 3 weeks. If you do it often it wont feel anywhere near as good.
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>>17658015
Yeah I've tried not fapping for a few months :/
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>>17658027
then try longer. Best faps of my life were after 6 months of no fap.
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I'm fucked up. When I am alone I have insane conversations with myself, I jump and scream when I sometimes become overwhelmed with a sense of impending doom. I will get easily distracted and clean excessively an area in an attempt to "right myself" and clear away any inefficiency or bad influence towards my life. I have no IRL friends and I have no idea how to socialize with regular, normal people. I have no girlfriend but I got laid once by a fluke of pretending to be normal to a girl who fucked me on the first night we met but then she dropped me after realizing how batshit I am.
I'm studying at college, I'm fairly intelligent and I do well at my studies but there is a maelstrom in my head that I am finding harder and harder to hide away from others, including academics at school who have their eye on students because of the reputation that must be upheld.
Should I speak to somebody about my issues? I have done so to my mother in the past but it ends with her calling me crazy and that "she doesn''t know what to do to help me".
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Yes. See a therapist. Sounds like you suffer from BPD(Borderline Personality Disorder) as well as OCD.
There is nothing wrong with you, but you should go see them just see what they say.
Good luck lad.
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>>17658001
Wouldn't say he has borderline, then he would be more suicidal and keeping his relationships. I guess it's shizoid personality order (SPD)
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>>17657995
OP pls tell me that your pic is of you and not made up.
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How do I get over the fact that my sort-of ex has told me that the guy she's now seeing managed to make her climax by fingering her? I never managed to make her cum while we were fucking, she claimed that she found it hard to achieve climax with another person. FWIW, she was my first.
Does this make me some sort of cuck or sexual invalid? Did the new guy just get lucky (she was also his first). How do I deal with this information?
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Why are you still in contact with her?
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>>17657975
This >>17657978
Also, learn fucking anatomy and how women work down there.
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>>17657986
I'm trying to make it work. She's not technically official with this guy, she's not up for a relationship atm.
How do I learn anatomy?
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My girl friend of 5 years broke up with me three weeks ago. We're 20 years old. How do I feel happy again in the long run? It hurts, please help
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>>17657974
It'll pass just give it time.
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>>17658000
Trips of truth.
Also find a new girl to fuck.
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>>17658011
Both of these
The first one more so.
Don't dwell on it. Distract yourself with healthy endeavors (socialization, fitness, knowledge-gathering, work) and eventually you'll forget all about her.
My girl of 3 years dumped me like a month ago. Already I'm at the gym more, I'm eating healthier, I'm working 30 hours a week halfway to saving for a Wrangler Unlimited, I'm getting my homework done, I'm going to bars with friends, I've already had relations multiple times with two different girls and flirting with two more, I've bought new clothes, I'm budgeting for my expensive hobbies. Life got good. It was also a bad relationship, but happy people don't break up... so that's how I see it.
You'll be fine dude
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Anyone else hate repeating themselves? Sometimes I'll say something to someone and they won't hear me so naturally they ask what I said. And for some reason my brain says "Fuck it, don't repeat yourself" and I have to use my willpower just to do it. It makes no sense. Its easier to say a long sentence saying I don't want to repeat myself again then say it again.
I thought I was the only one who had moments like that but some girl i knew did the same thing. Is this a common problem?
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>>17657957
I've a mumbly growly gravel voice and if I chip into a conversation or make a remark it usually goes unheard the first time.
I can never be fucked to repeat myself which is probably some kind of arrogant autism. If I'm invested in the conversation I'll do it (and usually won't mumble anyway) but most of the small talk I do is so fucking boring that I don't even pick up my dropped words.
It's an awful habit but everyone knows me for doing it by now.
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>>17657984
Yea I have low speaking volume too which doesn't help.
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for me, it depends on who i'm talking to. i do talk quietly, but i find the people that actually give a shit about what i'm saying pay attention, and make an effort to hear me.
my mum for example, is an asshole and only likes the sound of her own voice. i have to repeat shit to her SO many times because she just does NOT pay attention. she won't stop what she's doing to listen. she won't stop running the tap water to hear me more clearly. she'll just yell at me to repeat myself over and over until i'm basically yelling at her, and it's exhausting.