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>>17663537
Bump YEA

>>17663537
bump again, is this the right /tread??

>>17663537
Maybe you should write flowchart before you start writing the actual code
I ussualy do it when I encounter a problem and it helps, also if you (generally speaking) have some programming problems
you could buy yourself an arduino board. I know it sounds stupid but if you play with it you for some time you will find programming easier

>>17663494
Girls don't make you feel beta. You are a beta and when you try to interact, you are forced to face it.

Most guys, especially introverts, have trouble talking with women at first. Betas stay that way forever but alphas never take it sitting down.

I can't tell you how many times I failed or made embarassing dumb mistakes. None of it ever stopped me because I knew it was all inconsequential bullshit that was just standing in my way.

You either have the drive to improve and accept nothing less or you don't. No one can make you beta or alpha. It's all up to you.

Ragged Dick?

>>17663534
not that guy, but what would be some ways to improve?

Similar situation here.

>Getting back into reading
>Studying another language
>blowing money on car parts and regretting it

you get more skilled so you can make more money and not worry about that shit.

>>17663532
Well i need to get through these next few months before I can do that. I just need something that will numb the pain of working 5am to 4:30pm

Jesus Christ, your really not gonna like my answer but you are being very over dramatic. You need to stop wallowing in self pity and learn to live your life. If you love your boyfriend and you'll think you guys can work stuff out and be together then do just that, if it's okay to question it, everybody does that at some point in a relationship. Only you can decide if being with him is worth it, your the one who knows him and yourself best.

>>17663509
You have no appreciation for stylistic writing.

OP, I think it's time to leave the relationship. It's never a good idea to wait around for someone to change. Either accept that this is who he is -guarded, unempathetic, stoic, and uncaring (he may care but if he doesnt show it he might as well not)- or leave. Either be okay with him in his current form, or decide you're not, and find someone who meets your needs. Don't force a broomstick into a coke can, as it were. You'll be eternally unhappy.

>>17663473
>I tell him I need him to listen, he tells me I'm impossible to satisfy.
>I tell him I'm suffering, he tells me its all in my head.
You're a good person for trying but if he can't do these things, you'll never be happy.

FAP at a mirror man you will eventually end taking more meds and dating homeless nigs.

Pope Francis APPPPPRRRRRRRUUUUVVED

please respond

>>17663694

Get into public speaking.
Read any book out there on public speaking.
Join toastmasters or Carnegie course.
Or take a job in selling.

>>17663392
>Have you ever hit rock bottom?

kinda although my situation was not quite as bad as yours.

>be 19
>fall in love with a women i was friends with for 2 years
>I quite uni so i can move in with her
>all my friends think i am crazy
>She cheats on me and betrays me after i burnt my bridges
>i become depressed
>i contemplate killing myself or her, maybe both. dont do anything but become depressed.
>personality completely changes. lost my sense of humor, dont know how to trust people. feel numb
>become a neet for about a year

i am 22, completely over this now and doing ok. it was definitely the hardest thing i went trough. was kind of my own fault. it was a mistake i have learnt from

>>17663431
>kinda although my situation was not quite as bad as yours

I think the moment that you contemplate death as an escape counts as rock bottom.

Being cheated on by someone you care about and the resulting distrust you have for others is rough.

Glad to hear you are doing better and are not vindictive about your experience.

I feel like I'm on my way there. I've suffered from depression and suicidal thoughts for around 7 years now. This year things really went well, though. Got a gf for the first time and don't contemplate suicide every damn day.
I've come to realise however that if I lose my gf, or if I'd ever want to leave her - I would also lose so many friends and be all alone in my current city. If that doesn't kill me, then I don't know what. I'm also getting far more paranoid than usual so I'm considering going to a psychologist again.
Sorry for blogging, just needed to get it out somehow.

>>17663371
>For a order
What? Are you like a detective? A hitman? Back ground please.

>>17664342
If he were either, he wouldn't need to ask.

Or he's a just a really shitty Detective/Hitman

OP, who told you to do this? your boss?

Im lower than you

>>17663345
Hard to believe, but that doesn't change anything. You know, if you don't have to be sad because someone is having it worse than you then you can't be happy since someone is having it better than you.
I think that wellness is something strictly individual, and I completely flunked my chance at it due to me being a dickhead

>>17663323
>I just want someone to tell me how can I accept that I'm scum and how I can still enjoy life in this miserable state


Beer. Fast food. 4chan. Video games. Anime. TV. Movies.

Create a little bubble for yourself in your room.

>>17663306
Drug testing.

I heard donating plasma is good cash

>>17663306
All the shitty stoner movies I've seen, I can't believe I didn't think of that. Thanks man

>>17663255
Fuck off you piece of shit.

>>17663255
Put your mouth on her nipple and blow really hard

rub miracle grow into her chest.

>>17663249
>What do I do?

Make America Great Again

faggot

If anything, western society conquered them with colonialism. We brought our people and our culture over there and in most cases beat down the cultures that were already there and made them adapt to ours.

It's not that people are taking over, it's that these places are coming into their own again, and restoring their culture.

Think about a teenager living under their parents' roof and by their rules. Even if the household isn't actively being negative or harmful, the teenager is going to want to move out and spread their wings and come into their own. While this can be an act of defiance if the household was harmful, more often it's just growing up and choosing to live their own life. The parents' lifestyle isn't sabotaged by this decision. They do have a smaller circle of influence, but the teenager's decision to act on their own will not go back to the parents and forcibly change their lifestyle.

>>17663249
One of the main themes of history is people trying to impose their culture on other cultures. Western society only exists because the cultures that collectively make it up decided to conquer a bunch of other societies. There's no reason to hate the inevitable and the logical.

>>17663197

Don't touch your dick. Mission accomplished.

Do something with the day... it's not an uncommon thing, the work from home people are known to be masturbating all day.
Or masturbate so much you lose interest.

>>17663197
Stop looking at baby metal vids and you will stop getting horny

Grab her by the pussy, shell want you to kiss her after that.

>>17663171
A lot better than when you're drunk.

whisper your darkest secret into her ear whilst rubbing her vagina in a counterclockwise direction

Cool story, bro.

>>>/r9k/

isn't this /adv/?

>>17663148
Those aren't excuses. Now start over and begin your shit now, stop fucking around and get your shit started.

>>17663133
looks like AIDS to me

>>17663133
Either an ingrown hair or a zit. Pop that bitch.

>>17663133
Spiders nest.
Give it a pop and free them.