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What was the gist of what they are infamous for

What do you mean by e-infamous? What did she do and why would that matter?

>>17659358
if you are serious and not just dating around, wanting a life partner you had better know who you are with. All you did is a little searching on the internet which anyone could do and you have a much deeper understanding about her. You did good and you better dig more

>>17659348
No, she is about to cuck her bf with you.

You can go on the date, but just to have fun. If she comes onto you then you got 2 options:

Fuck her and cuck her bf,

Or

Be a person with morals and pride then turn her down and let her bf know that she was coming onto you. She is a cheating bitch at this point, fuck her life for all I care desu senpai.

There is a third choice, hatepump & dump and let the bf know as well.

Yeah, but like the thing is that it's a holiday, shouldn't she make plans with her bf instead? Also, it's a party where there are going to be a lot of friends of her.
If she is still with him by that day, i guess i'll go hatepump and dump

>>17659348
Are you SURE she has a boyfriend?

>>17659342
Dress up as a creepy clown and stand on dark street corners creeping out strangers.

go to the bar and drink.

>>17659342
Halloween is in 3 weeks dude. That's enough time to organise your own night with a couple mates. Or to find some other event going on that you could go to.

Why do high schoolers have such mundane problems?

>>17659341

why do arrogant posters never have any solutions?

>>17659343
There's no solution because you don't have any fucking problem.

You're literally me, and I never found out how to fix my procrastination habit. Got mediocre ATAR. Teachers don't force you to study in Uni so my procrastination manifested and I dropped out. Now I'm looking for a place to live with centrelink money. If I could go back, I would slap myself silly until I studied.

>>17659320
The techniques to wanting to study is thinking about your future and what its going to take to get into university.
If your still procrastinating now your fucked. your not going to change over night. Just do the best you can do and see what you score. Then way up your options, if your the type of guys who can build and fix things etc. A trade might be better for you. Become a plumber, Sparky or Chippy.

If your not good at studying then your gonna have a hard time at Uni because they don't care if you do the work or not and your just going to incur a lot of Heccs/Help Debt and probably drop out. While then having money to repay if you ever start making a decent wage. which comes out of your tax.

Uni isn't for everyone and having a degree in this day and age doesn't mean you will be successful but if your going to study anything, Do a STEM degree which has good value.

I winged the equivalent in my country, to be fare they did prepare us by making us take a practice one every year until the real one in year 4

>>17659311
You know exactly why.
Make a move already.

>>17659311
>bite your lip or >bite her lip?

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>>17659311
pic related

>>17659298
No it isn't, the BBC shit you see spammed is a male fetish based on insecurity complexes. I'd say 50% of people who post/talk about that shit are just joking/memeing and the other 50% just have inferiority complexes and legitimately believe it.

>>17659298
it's a meme.

>>17659298
You're not dating or fooling anyone you peapecker virgin

>>17659297
>alcohol
Ask her to diner with you and your gf at a fancy restaurant to "catch up." Order a or two bottle of something and make sure she keeps drinking. Women are sloots (just like men)... get them drunk and they'll be dtf.

>>17659297
You're an idiot, and will never have a threesome.

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>>17659297

Fixed for you OP

>Shes made it clear she doesnt want a relationship
The best you're gonna get is friends with benefits. Find a broom closet and convince her to have a quick shag during lunch.

I could most likely get it if i tried. Im more looking on advice on how to ger to change her mind. I think shes afraid of getting hurt more than anything, her last boyfriend was pretty abusive from the DR and shes got a guard up pretty high.

>>17659243
>I want to be her knight in shining armor
Dude, no. Stop trying to rescue princesses. It'll only be a matter of time before she needs to be rescued from YOU.

>I'm going to play a game I've never practiced for

Advice isn't going to help you at this stage, man.

Yes, it's advisable you only return when you are 18.

>>17659198
not sure if you're retarded or i'm retarded but i completely zoned out reading your awful grammar and have no idea what your question even is. good luck though.

No, that's one of those things that has to be brought up at the very beginning. 99% of people don't have the self-esteem to have an open relationship. However, her self-esteem might be low enough that she'll allow you to have one anyway.

As a former cheater, I have to give you a warning: You're just scratching an itch. You don't fuck a few girls and think "Okay, I got that out of my system. Time to be monogamous now." You're only satisfied as long as you're boning other women. And let me tell you that that's not a sustainable lifestyle.

It doesn't matter what anyone in this thread says, you'll eventually get to a point where you'll do it anyway. Whether it's discreet or not, you're going to scratch that itch.

>>17659127
Thank you. While I dont exactly agree with you that I'll behave or feel exactly as you did I will concede that at the beginning of our relationship we both agreed to be monogamous. Have you ever heard of anyone "re-negotiating" a long term relationship?

>>17659141

Yeah, I have. It was a relationship that was only open when the girl wanted to fuck other people, but suddenly monogamous when the guy found another girlfriend. This is the relationship that I was thinking of when I said that you could get away with it if your partner has low self-esteem.

Basically, it doesn't work.

>I hold my virginity in high regard.
THAT'S the only real autistic thing about you. "Wasting" your virginity is like "wasting" your first kiss. At your age it shouldn't matter anymore.

Man, fuck the crimson. If you're playing on hard mode, then you're brave enough to talk to a girl.

>>17659107
Sex to me seems like the sort of thing that is pointless without meaning. If I just want to relieve some sexual tension I have a multitude of things I can do not involving others. In fact doing that stuff alone makes it special to me, its like some alone time.

What I am saying is in my mind I would only want to have sex if I felt a deep connection to someone. If I judge a persons character poorly and give them my virginity then they leave me that would be a terrible feeling.

Watch hardcore porn and take notes.

Remember that she wants to be dominated, not raped. Focus on MAKING her enjoy the sex instead of simply being completely selfish.

Just thrust as hard and quick as you can, add some slaps when you are in doggy for example and that's it.

I don't think you can go much further without knowing the girl.

It's retareded sex anyways, Idk why you would look for it.

>>17659025
>Is love a meme who only teenagers believe in?
Nope, it's real, but it's not like what you're led to believe when you're young. Storybook "love" is infatuation, pure and simple, which feels awesome, yeah, but it's maybe 20% of the whole cocktail. This isn't code for "real love is boring" but it can't be all butterflies-in-your-stomach all the time.

>monogamy still exist?
People are still getting married and rumor has it not all of them get divorced, so yes.

>does aging redpills you about love?
Serious advice: take a break from 4chan. When you start thinking about life in terms of "redpilling" etc you have a problem.

>Do you love your SO and still feel attracted to them after all those years?
Yes, although love isn't a constant, it's a cycle. Weeks or even months can pass where, although you certainly feel affectionate towards your partner and you're still hopefully still physically attracted to them, your conscious feelings towards them aren't terribly strong. That's perfectly healthy and natural. If you wait it out, your feelings do cycle back to the tingle-when-you-touch-them daydream-about-them-when-they're-not-there shit you had at the start of your relationship.

>do you see yourself spending the rest of your days with your SO?
If she doesn't get sick of me, then yes, definitely. I've been with her for the better part of a decade and I have no plans to quit now.

>What its more needed to make a relationship work in long term?
Don't commit (meaning marriage or kids) unless you're sure you mean it, and once you do, don't be an idiot and pull away after the honeymoon phase ends. To repeat, love is a cycle, and a lot of people ruin really good things because they confuse being in a low point in the cycle with falling out of love.

>>17659124

Really liked your input especially the:

>Yes, although love isn't a constant, it's a cycle. Weeks or even months can pass where, although you certainly feel affectionate towards your partner and you're still hopefully still physically attracted to them, your conscious feelings towards them aren't terribly strong. That's perfectly healthy and natural. If you wait it out, your feelings do cycle back to the tingle-when-you-touch-them daydream-about-them-when-they're-not-there shit you had at the start of your relationship.

But the thing is, i can't get infatuated to the point of starting a relationship and thinking big about it, i want to have what you have, but its just doesn't happen to me.

hope more people to check out my thread, thanks anon.

>>17659025
>is love a meme who only teenagers believe in?
no, love can find you at ANY stage of your life
>monogamy still exist?
yes it still does.
>does aging redpill you about love?
i agree with stop getting all your opinions about love from redpill and the internet becase its all full of confusing advice and contradictory in some places. its up to you to sort fact from fiction.
>do you love your SO and still feel attracted to them after all those years?
if they are the one for you: you will never forget them because they will be in your head, heart and soul.
>do you see yourself spending the rest of your life with your SO?
yes i do
>what is needed to make love last? its how you both react when things are bad. the comming together and making you stronger as a couple. and yes dont commit unless you mean it.

Seems like her relationship with her other guy won't last long. Keep yourself available and wait it out

>>17659012
You talk it out and make it known that she and her new guy won't work out and she needs to leave him. Without you actually saying any of this to her though, I'm saying this is the message she needs to receive when you talk.

Tell her that you have feelings for her but this current situation isn't fair to the other guy because she's being unfaithful and dishonest to him. She needs to know that she's going to end up hurting him more the longer she leads him on.

Just talk to her and wait for it to end. Then you can talk about getting back together and tell her how much of a fucking retard you are and how much of a stupid mistake you made.

Seriously, fuck people like you getting something so great and taking it for granted. You're lucky she's not gone.

>>17659029
I forgot to.mention she's done the same thing to me. Twice