Archived threads in /adv/ - Advice - 3667. page

>>17660237
No, you are on the path of enlightenment, don't give up friend.

Well yeah, if you're into the habit of having sex it's pretty bad. I guess therapy could prove useful, but don't expect miracles. You should also try to interact with girls more often.

>>17660237
Yes. Yes.

>>17660194
Hwat is op image from originally, reverse image search is no work

its over op get over it

>>17660206
Salvage in the sense that it's not like we're broken up, but I don't think we could possibly go a whole year without seeing each other.

1. insecure
2. hoe
50/50

>>17660146
Why what? Why she says you shouldn't waste your time on her? She probably doesn't have that high of a self esteem and thinks you're too good for her and she probably wishes you were together because she thinks maybe you'll leave her. Being a part she might think you'll lose interest because she'said not around.

>>17660187
Little sleep, sorry for the awful english.

>>17660044
Whataburger

Video games journalist.

>>17660044
>mfw I could be doing this right now
>it was always my goal and dream growing up
>instead I have a girlfriend
>she really brings down my mellow
>I just want to do what I do, play video games as I please, and live comfy

Seems like she has some form of life

>>17660038
Could be just a flirt anon. They like the validation and not really care about who gives it to then. Just move on or dont react.

>>17660038
NEWS FLASH: some people have lives.

Believe it or not, some people don't spend every second staring at their phones and have a compulsion to respond to messages instantly out of terror of being out of contact.

I own my phone and I own my time. I check messages and texts when it is convenient for me to do so, and I reply (if I choose to) when I get around to it.

wait for her to contact you.

>>17660019
we were due to meet up in 3 hours or so, should I just leave it?

if it helps we agreed in person to go out Tuesday (tonight) and have been trying to organise a drink together for a while

shameless bump

>>17659978
I'm in an incredibly similar situation, so bump for interest

>Failing C++, not failing math

Common fucking normalfags. Don't attend geek educations if youre not passionate about this shit. Its what youre going to work with so you better fucking like it, or do something else.

>>17660028
This is the closest to passion I've ever felt about anything desu.

I don't know what true passion is, I don't think I've felt it towards anything.

>>17659969
are you maybe gay?
is your gf attractive?

>>17659977
No, girls turns me on.
Yes she is.
I feel unsecure during sex, I don't want her to think I don't know what I'm doing.

It's crazy when you think about how society fucked up social relationship to h<the point where people are so obsess about what others think that they can't even enjoy sex anymore.

>>17659961
As someone who has met several women through Tinder (And not just the hook-up stuff) I can tell you:
It's not as easy.
If you want to hook up with women, then you should definitely not take too long to ask the usual things like
>Maybe we should exchange numbers so we don't have to talk over this app
But from what I've learned, it's usually not really in your hands, when you have nobler intentions. You simply don't know what the girl is about.

I know girls who are on Tinder to hook up, to meet friends, the love of their life and (sadly way too many) girls who just do it to boost their morale and see how many guys match them, who do it out of fun.

You'll never know. What I can say though is, that you should adjust to the answering habits of your talking partner. Waiting too long after a quick response can cool things off, replying too fast after a response that took several hours/a day can come of as "I waited the whole day for you to reply to me, please I'm not desperate or anything".

Other than that, it's mostly just a game of chance. If you really look for something more serious and they stop replying, they weren't the right people.

All of this, I can only tell you without having read some of your Tinder conversations. I don't know if they would drastically change my opinion on the matter.

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>>17660000
I hear ya. Solid advice.

>All of this, I can only tell you without having read some of your Tinder conversations. I don't know if they would drastically change my opinion on the matter.

Let me have it. How bad is it?

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>>17660252
>cont.

>>17659916
If you pulled out then you'll be fine. Even if you didn't the chances are low just a single fuck would result in a baby. Freaking out won't help and there's no action you can take except for wait so just chill out and forget about it.

>>17659919
i guess i really need to chill out, couldnt sleep at all because of this.

i wanted to fuck her with a condom but she started crying when i pulled the condom out.
what the fuck was that about? i don't understand the logic behind this.

>>17659936
bump, could somebody answer that question please?

>>17659908
What can go wrong????

>>17659910
Idk but she is giving me the silent treatment for 4 days when I told her out of the blue I love her

>>17659913
I mean I told her on Facebook

>>17659857
climb onto the bridge and jump off head first so you die, weird ass bitch

So masturbate. What the fuck do you want us to tell you ?

first get into actual public

>>17659792
Have you considered thagt it might be just a pimple?

>>17659931
It's on my penis head ... And I've never had that

>>17659995

that's actually normal you can get those from just clogged pores. it should look like a regular whitehead. if not then see a doctor yo

>>17659756
my fiancee* not only*

Apparently I woke up with brain damage excuse me.

>>17659756
From what you said in the last thread, your friends are terrible fucking human beings who find it hot to deliberately screw their friend's marriage over and were probably intent on trying to do the same to you. They are clearly not as good of friends as you thought they were. Your fiancee is well within his rights to demand that you never contact them again and nobody in their right mind would blame him for dumping you if you refused. Morally, you should also tell her husband because he deserves to know. You'd wish that somebody would tell you if your spouse did something similar, wouldn't you?

>>17659797
I fault my married friend more than the other ones for it honestly. No one held a gun to her head, she was stupid. I can sort of understand the other ones. If I was still in college, that seems like the sort of thing I'd find hot.

>>17659731
In which sense is your life shitty? You should at least try to make it less shittier over time and reach a point ur comfortable with yourself

>>17659734
I failed college, I am unemployed and can't compete against the other people that apply for the jobs I do, my entire family is crazy and I hate them, they also hate me for hating them so for at least 10 hours a day I will be alone with just my mind to wander around in. Also i have literally 1 friend who NEVER contacts me unless I reach out to him first. Im also overweight and a weak ass pussy both physically and mentally and have never really achieved anything in my life besides graduating high school. Also my family is poor and I don't really have any future prospects besides becoming an office drone doing the lowest shitty jobs (which is what I just did over summer and hated it)

I dont know if i will ever be comfortable with myself because I hate myself and that's why I do all the drugs I do.

>>17659748
You can't move out so you need money, how to obtain money? Do some 2years studies to be able to work at something. After that, search job, work and forget family, lose weight by not eating that much and doing less drugs. Find ways to get out of home by working or studying and find a girlfriend/boyfriend to live a life together.