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Hi fellow annoys, I really don't know what to do , so I'll just explain my situation and hopefully someone might help or something
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>>17858924
yeah thanks man, I wrote down my advice for your case. Hope you will find it useful.
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So two years ago I met this really awesome girl (I'm a bisexual girl ) we got talking and I fell so hard for her and we where practically perfect for each other. The only problem was she refused to Skype ect and eventually kinda figured out she wasn't the person in the pictures
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So my girlfriend dumped me, it was a nasty break up. Bottomline is she said expect sometime before I'm sweet or adorable again and before I take you back. She didn't give a time frame, but she said to just wait. Should I stick around? I don't like the answer she gave which is "I don't want it to be official even though we're basically still together, but working on things because I don't want to go through a break up again."
I feel 50/50 that she's just using me until she gets over me/feels she doesn't need me because she won't re-commit. I feel like giving her an ultimatum, take me back or lose me for good.
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>>17858839
Why did you break up? This is important.
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All I see here is that she dumped you and told you to wait patiently at her feet like a little bitch while she goes off 'to find herself' aka ride the cock carousel and see if she can get anything better than you
And you're even fucking thinkin of doing it
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>>17858842
I was being controlling and monitoring her shit after she lied about not being a party girl
>>17858847
That's what I think at times, she's doing the whole I'm not seeing anyone else/I'm not looking for anything casual, but you're not entitled to my time or me anymore.
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How to deal with thoughts of cheating? 2016-12-15 08:38:11 Post No.17858813
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How to deal with thoughts of cheating?
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So I'm a female and have been in a relationship for a year and a couple of months now. So during the summer I basically stayed at bfs house all summer and during that time we rarely had sex, like maybe once a week, if that. and well that wouldn't be a problem if I wasn't such a sexually charged person. Anyway during that time it bought up a lot of feelings like insecurities and feelings of yearning for sex, even if that meant other men. Of course I never cheated during that time and I have not to this day. The feelings of insecurity have basically vanished since I thought the typical shit like "I must be so ugly that's why he doesn't want sex."
Anyway, my real problem now is that I am on winter break and I fear the same situation will arise again where we basically never have sex and even now I have these feelings of going after others to fulfill my desires and I feel really shitty for feeling this way. What should I do about this? I love him dearly so I don't think I could ever go through with cheating but the thoughts are still there. Also,overall, at least from my point of view our sex life is pretty great when I am not basically living with him.
Side note: it also doesn't help that during that summer I would leave for a few hours to find out that he was masturbating even though we hadn't had sex for days despite me trying to initiate it. Which of course I have nothing against masturbating but it kinda hurts because it makes me wonder whats wrong with me or our relationship that he would chose that. So I am also worried that this situation will arise again and then my insecurities will come rushing back which kind of fuels those thoughts of cheating further because I have the stupid thought of "lol I must be pretty and blah blah blah if other people have sex with me"
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How often do you try to initiate sex and how often does it fail/succeed? You could also just talk to him about it. Tell him you have a high sex drive and you would enjoy having sex more often than you do now.
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ur bf is a loser. since u like losers ur in luck, theres plenty of those
32 m virgin los angeles. hit me up on kik: zsasza
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>>17858907
This... talk to him first. If he doesn't respond, then he isn't the right guy for you. Also how obvious is your sexual initiation? Is he a dumb dumb and not able to pick up on it? If you would like to talk more in depth about it kik me dallasz71man
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Every year it's the same bullshit.
A couple months before Christmas, something happens that I am not financially ready for. My car breaks down, I have a medical emergency, I have to pay someone back for something. And then I spend the time before the holidays trying to get caught up on bills.
I have 300 dollars to my name, right now. I have a medical bill of 98 dollars that needs to be paid by tomorrow, and I have car insurance that costs 160 that has to be payed by the 24th. What the fuck do I do?
I never have any money for Christmas and I'm shit at getting gifts anyway. I want to get my girlfriend something nice for Christmas, because she buys me all of this nice stuff. I tell her and my family that we should just skip giving gifts and spend time with one another but they all call me a "scrooge" and a "Grinch".
What the fuck do I do?
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"I honestly don't have enough money this year to buy you gifts right now. I will buy you something next time I get paid. I am immensely sorry"
Then write them a card or buy them a small, 5$ thing to give them on christmas.
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I do not celebrate Christmas, and neither does my family, yet because Christmas is work-free, we always end up with shitton of work and stress during December. It's so fucking retarded. Fuck Christmas, man.
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>>17858787
This is retarded women are monsters for gifts
Bro go out and pick her flowers into a glass bottle and tie a ribbon, take photos and make a photo album, paint her a painting, get pictures of u two for her wallet, get something meaningful thats nkt expensive, get her candy like chocolate, maybe even take her to get food at a cheat sit down place
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I'm tiny and my bf really isn't. We like sleeping where he's on top and I'm on bottom. The problem is that if I need to get up, it's pretty much impossible for me to move him without just waking him up and asking him to let me out. How do I get out from under him without waking him?
For size comparison, I'm like 4'8 and he's 6'2. No way am I lifting him.
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Bumping with a half hour before my bed time when I get squished again.
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Carefully
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Tell him to stop sleeping on top of you ?
I have no idea what you want from us
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Ask a guy who just broke up with his girlfriend of eight years anything.
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Do you live in new York?
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What's it like being with someone that long?
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Why didn't things work out?
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>Have best friend be a girl, she sends me junk in the mail. Pretty chilled out, been friends for 4 years now. Her parents and pals love me. My parents love her.
>She tells me she's a lesbian and fears commitment yet would marry me if it wasn't for distance.
>We get along well, I don't judge her she doesn't judge me.
>She randomly calls me "Oh Anon, don't judge me I got drunk and had sex with a girl."
>I start sweating, I play it calm. Laugh it off. She sends me photos of her neck bites...
I have no idea why she'd tell me this. Does she want me jelly or something? I don't get it Anons! I now feel weird, like where do I even stand with her?
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how's the view from orbit?
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>>17858688
she just wants to know that you are OK with this and that it wont get in the way of your friendship. support her.
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>>17858688
As a guy who has multiple gay friends of both genders (including my best friend, who is a lesbian)
I've got two questions
Are you a girl or guy?
What is your level of share?
What is the level of tension between you?
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Christmas gift for my boyfriend?
I really have no idea what to get him, he refuses to tell me what he'd like and has told me not to get him anything.
He's into Dr who, Star Wars, all that type of stuff.
Suggestions?
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>>17858627
Buy him a copy of that ewok movie
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>>17858627
200$ keyboard
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>>17858793
His current keyboard cost more than that I think
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Gremlins?
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Tell me something, am I wrong? 2016-12-15 06:52:58 Post No.17858605
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>21,male, never had a gf, not particularly attractive, you know the whole story
I used to know what I want in a girlfriend or relationship, thinking it wasn't much. Now im starting to think I may have been asking too much all along.
I wanted someone who would be into or atleast tolerate all the stuff and hobbies I like, maybe even join in once in a while. Somebody whom, just like me, is relatively quiet, doesn't need much to be happy, just being in the same area as each other makes us feel content. Ideally we would both be pretty awkward people, however she would be more social and we could even help each other get out of our comfort zones. Like partners in crime y'know.
Ideally, she doesn't drink or smoke, Maybe, just maybe we would both lose our virginities to each other, so I don't have to force myself to be comparable to her previous lays. cause im just that much of a tryhard.
Now the kicker here is that, i'm a senior in college. I have not had a single gf,yet. Every girl I've been interested in, since High school, has turned me down. I don't ask out every girl I see, but I tend to only ask out girls in some way fit my ideal girl description, doesnt have to fit the whole thing. Only girls that I would not mind spending the rest of my life with, should it come to that. I know my limits, and I try to shoot for girls within my friend circles or those who have shown me they have similar interests, never would I ask one out just to ask one out. Basically, I was already ready to settle down,so I thought. None of them went out with me, two of them which turned out to be asexual,not having any interest in guys (or just me.)
Am I wrong for already looking for someone to share my life with? After thinking about it, I realized that asking for someone to love me,especially whats essentially a stranger,is asking for A LOT. I feel as though I should give up the notion of looking for "The One," for good, since nobody else is looking for "The One" in their life,it seems.
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the idea you have in your head is a fantasy, you've never been in a relationship, you need to just date more people and stop trying to find 'the one'
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>>17858647
This. Plus stop asking out strangers, get to know a girl before you ask her out.
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>>17858667
??? no
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My MtF trans friend revealed they had feelings for me and I don't know how to respond. I'm hetro, and I'm attracted to her femininity, but im still wrestling with the fact she has a dick and what our friends will say
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>>17858565
Don't do it
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I say go for it, you never know you might like it.
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Do it
I was friends with this dude right, hadn't spoken in a long time, and I was pretty sick of my gf at the time. I had just put our relationship on hold and while I was hanging out with this friend I dumped her. Well, he got with her. I stopped speaking to both of them. This was all about 2 years ago actually but sometimes the message I got on Steam later pisses me off... "carrot in x's ass" *link to photo,* photo is a news article, "local man played like fiddle"
I didn't say anything but I really wanted to say, hey motherfucker, you're the one supporting your kid you made and the one she brought from another guy (not me,) and now my current gf doesn't want kids, isn't crazy
I dunno, I know where they live but I feel like revenge would be pointless after 2 years
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>>17858536
laugh it off, why would you care, you're better off
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>>17858545
>why would you care
Not OP, but I wish you assholes would stop coming to /adv
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>>17858545
I care because someone I used to respect thinks he played me when really I played him
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What are the values that makes a man a man? What kind of philosophy and value system does the best man live with?
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>>17858511
stoicism, unilateralism, self-reliance
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Fuck if I know. my value system is i take care of my sister, i take care of Evie, and fuck everyone else.
works for me.
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There is no "the way" only "your way."
what does love feel like /adv/? 20 year old virgin here, heading to the Caribbean soon though so I'll probably lose it in a brothel there. I came to the realization that no one has ever really loved me today and I wanted to know, what does love feel like?
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>>17858507
love is waking up with the morning with a mouth on your dick
but i guess you don't know what that's like either LOL
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>>17858514
KEK NICE MEME SENPAI xD
I didn't say I've never gotten oral before. I've just never had full blown sex
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Love is like wet weetabix. Like a towel of milk soaked oats over your chest. Put there like love filled glue.
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anyone know any legit programs or people that can hack into social media?
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short answer, no
long answer; maybe
if people could actually breach social media accounts within a week nobody would be using them any more
but that being said, there have been exploits in the past
not the targeted kind, just random breaches
I suspect you should be hackin the users device, not the website
just MIM a faggot if you have proximity
if you don't fish for breaches with virus emails like the somalians do
if that is beyond you, what can you pay to hire someone?
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There's no such thing as a "legit" program, because that's illegal.
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Why do hot women go for sub par men? 2016-12-15 05:58:35 Post No.17858458
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Why do hot women go for sub par men?
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looking for advice from femanons or guys with insight on this.
I get why girls go for guys who are really fit / good looking.
But with the last several women I have been into and gone on dates with, they ended up going for guys who are far less attractive than I. Granted in the looks department I am a solid "A" for average. I dress well and have a full head of hair but have been upstaged by buck toothed chrome domes who wear ball caps and wear hockey t-shirts.
what gives?
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Because looks aren't everything? And it's highly likely that you think you're more attractive than you are, most people do.
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>>17858465
pretty much this. you have to remember that hte most important thing in romance is, well, romance. its chemistry, its people who bring out special feelings in you.
being hot is a great way to start that but there a re a million hot guys who say something and after that you cant even think of them as sexual.
i had the biggest crush on a guy until i heard him yell ' i need to take a dump' once. after that looking at him made me uncomfortable i wanted to gag.
in other instances its less severe. i was seeing a guy who was great, totally my type, super hot, curly haired geek. even in personality he was what my type should be.
however a much uglier much cringier guy came along and i left 'my type' for the cringier guy. and i dont regret it.
dude walked around like a retarded velociraptor in shorts but i loved him to death.
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because a guy who looks like a model is no guarantee for a good relationship. it helps zero % if the guy who throws plates at the wall if you have an argument has abs of steel. it doesn't make sexual incompatability more bearable if he has jaws like a greek god. it isn't soothing that he has thick black locks if he keeps walking out on you if you need a serious discusion.
looks are only the thin varnish on the outside. to be frank, you probably have a shit personality that others can easily surpass, even with sub-par looks.