So my girlfriend dumped me, it was a nasty break up. Bottomline

>>17858839
Why did you break up? This is important.

All I see here is that she dumped you and told you to wait patiently at her feet like a little bitch while she goes off 'to find herself' aka ride the cock carousel and see if she can get anything better than you

And you're even fucking thinkin of doing it

>>17858842
I was being controlling and monitoring her shit after she lied about not being a party girl
>>17858847
That's what I think at times, she's doing the whole I'm not seeing anyone else/I'm not looking for anything casual, but you're not entitled to my time or me anymore.

>>17858862
Hmm, this is difficult because we all don't like to be monitored but at the same time you're only human.

If she was the one that broke up with you I would leave it alone. If you broke up with her it would be different but her breaking up with you shows she doesn't care. The only possibility there is is that she could be breaking up in hopes you "improve" and become "tolerable" to her standards, ya feel?

>>17858871
She said the latter is what she claims to mean, but still I don't like the whole "I don't believe you til you do it thing"

>>17858862
Stop being controlling and monitering shit. Unless you lock her up in a room with no windows, if she wanted to she could cheat with a random dude no matter how many times you moniter or call her. Just get out of a relationship that turns that shitty. And find a girl you can trust next time.

if she wanted to stay with you she would, but she dumped you. So that means she don't want your ass no more. She don't want you helping her out even. Why do you think she does?

>>17858875
Yeah, that's what I figured. I think I'm going to tell her,you officially take me back or I'm done. I'm not being strung along here. Good bye.

I don't enjoy this. And yes, I told her "no matter how bad it got, I still thought you were worth it" yet you thought "no matter how great it may have been, you're not worth it."

>>17858874
I know that one but this isn't about me.

If she means a lot to you tell her that you've been thinking about what happened and in your thinking you learned a lot about yourself you didn't know was a problem because you took it as normal and that you seek to improve and all that yada. Even if you don't feel that way sometimes with women you just got to bite the bullet.

If she means little then >>17858887 works too

>>17858889
I just sent her an apology letter, just trying to stomach a possibility that its completely fubar.

I'm being realistic, but still hoping for what I truly want and looking to go the extra mile. Key mention extra mile not long winded chase that leads me nowhere, just in circles.

>>17858887
Bro I feel you. I know that you gonna find a girl who truly wants to be with you and is worth it. I hope you don't drag this thing on with her, because you're better than someone who wants to pull ur strings bro. It's hard but eventually u gonna learn to spot bulshit when it happens and then you'll be the toppest motherfucker in town

So I just let her know about the message I sent her. I'll let you guys know what the carnage is.