How do I hint to someone that I'm suicidal?
I'm not close enough to anyone to ouright tell them, or sit down and tell anyone directly, and my depression itself stems from me having no one close to me in my life.
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>>17856212
try having sex with them
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>>17856212
if you're not close enough to ourtright tell someone, than they're not close enough to you to take the hint. they'll just get awkward and avoid you even more.
just go to a therapist, stop playing the attention whore
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Just tell them you'rr a giant attention whore. I'm kidding of course. They know.
Everyone knows.
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How do you deal with people's excessive need to fill every silence with inane chat?
I tried saying "I'm sorry I'm not very chatty, I hope I'm not being rude" and they still wouldn't shut up
It's my flatmate, I can't avoid them
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Open carry a big bore revolver.
Nobody will ever bug you again.
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>>17856196
Today she heard me get home from work and I was having time to myself. She knocked on my door to ask if I wanted to come drink coffee in the kitchen with her
I used one word answers, kept saying I was tired and stared at my feet until she left
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Haha if only that was an option in the UK
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>>17856196
I know this feel. I don't think there's much you can do without being outright rude/hostile
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I'm 23, she's 34, together for ~2 months, have slept with each other. Very open to each other. Can talk about almost anything with each other. My first relationship, not her first.
The "problem": she says she's not sure what she feels for me, says it doesn't feel like the love she knows from her past (her last relationship was when she was in her twenties), no butterflies or anything. It just feels "familiar", "trusted" and "safe" to be with me.
Because it feels so different from how she knows love she isn't sure what this relationship will lead to.
This makes the bond between us feel very unstable for me and it makes me anxious about the future. I like her a lot and the more time I spend with her the more I like her.
When talking about missing each other she says that she enjoys my company, likes having me around but doesn't really feel sad or anything when I'm not with her.
I feel like I should protect myself and make a decision whether or not to go through with this relationship because it seems I would definitely get the short end of the stick if things don't work out.
I'm hoping for some insight on what her feelings might mean for the relationship.
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>>17856183
>34
Gross.
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>>17856367
Are you gay? That's a score.
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>>17856370
>score
>at least 10 years past prime
>wasted uterus
>years and years of multiple mens semen in every hole
>never get to be first ANYTHING in a long list of great memories
Nah.
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Constantly I try to keep the house clean and neat, so does my father, but everytime after about a week it's all completely messy again. (So I've pretty much given up)
My mother just keeps buying things and uses all the space we just made by cleaning it up, I can't use the dining table for eating, the chairs get used for boxes and I'm getting embarassed everytime someone comes over
She has extra closets in my parrents room to store her unused clothes, even tries to store more clothes upstairs and in other rooms.
There is more, but I'll keep that to myself right now.
It's gotten to the point I'm willing to move out because of that.
We've got a beautifull home, but it's all messed up because of all her crap.
My question is, how do I get her to stop buying so much and throw all these uneccesary things away.
She's saying she doesn't have a problem and always shifts the blame.
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This is her workspace, jesus.
Notice how there are all kind of space saver boxes are in front of the cabinet, the cabinet is also stuffed full of magazines of 2007 that she "will read one day"
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She does have a problem, it's not normal, functional, or okay to not be able to use the dunningroom table because it's full of crap. She needs therapy, but unfortunately no one can make her go. Getting out is a very good idea, and honestly so should your dad, cause at this rate he's going to get pushed out by crap anyways. If she doesn't work have a serious conversation with him about cutting her off financially until she gets help. Beyond that there isn't much you can do other than present evidence that she's not normal and encourage her to get help.
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>>17856181
Hahaha wow. You can see it...if she doesn't get help she'll eventually start stepping over shit.
And the worst part is she isn't even going to realize it's a fucking problem. She will most likely not even notice. This is a bad situation but the sooner you can convince her the better
Don't mean to laugh...I'm just amused at how the mind can get so out of fuck sometimes
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I have a weird condition... 2016-12-14 04:03:13 Post No.17856154
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I have a weird condition...
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I can't fap to the pron that I download.
Why is this happening to me?
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>>17856154
You have shit porn
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Dont download it, then. Why do you keeps keep the evidence? Thats just stupid.
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>fell for the "live for urself and just b itself" meme
>go to the gym in the morning
>work
>play a sport after work
>go out to shows on the weekends
>do meet ups, happy hours
>tinder to get laid
How do I make realty and life not boring? It's just an endless cycle of "working on yourself", sex and oneitises, consuming media, all while sitting at a desk for the bulk of your day.
The same shit and on and on and on.
What am I supposed to live for? This reality is boring as fuck and I want to kill mysef to try something different
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You sound like you need to let EXTREME SPORTS into your life.
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>>17856108
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pyhrgWO5Uic
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Well, what would give your life meaning?
A family? Start one.
A religion or ideology? Find one.
Doing something creative? Then do it.
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woke up
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>>17856084
Me too.
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>>17856084
That's how every horrible story starts. Good luck, anon. You'll need it.
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Every morning, just before my alarm goes off at 7:30.
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How to meet a cool guy? 2016-12-14 02:35:28 Post No.17856030
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Hello friends,
I'm a foreigner living in Berlin and having a tough time finding decent quality 420 materials.
The things on the streets are crap, and the guy I used to go to up and moved to a different country.
Got any tips on how to meet someone who won't give me street quality stuff?
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You don't know any Berliners? When I was there I went dancing a lot and it was offered to me a few times. Maybe try Mensch Meier.
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I do not. I'm not outgoing or part savy. I just like to stay at home and smoke.
I accidentally found the previous guy cause someone I met through work introduced me.
Nowadays, I'm stuck just going to the park. I feel like I'm wasting my money and time.
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>>17856045
Well even if you're not outgoing, the club is a good place to look. Maybe you could try looking in school or work if you're doing either of those.
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I have a question for femanons:
Ok so basically when you break up with your boyfriend who you loved very much, what does it mean that you keep reaching out to him, seem desperate to establish a friendship (and you say you ONLY want that), at everytime available you rush to hang out with him but also at the same time you turn fucking cold out of nowhere. Did you really move on? Are you still conflicted of wether you want him back or you're just simply being a manipulative bitch?
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It means can't move on and she hates herself for it. It's usually not possible to break up with someone and remain friends, so just tell her that and ignore her.
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>>17856003
Sounds like a really manipulative mean girl, I personally wouldn't bother inconveniencing my life for someone like that.
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>>17856003
i was in a similar situation until one month ago. my ex bf who i loved very much left me but we remained friends, mostly because i wasn't able to move on and i was stupidly hoping we could get back together. now that i'm realizing how awful he was towards me i'm trying to talk to him less and less.
tl;dr she's not sure about her feeling yet but she may be starting to move on, if you want to make a move the time is now. this is just my advice tho, i cant value your situation 100% correctly
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Hey fags
We got a kitten a few months ago (it has nowhere else to go so we took it in), and it's settled in with our 2 dogs perfectly but we have another cat, a lot older and they just will not get on, I know it's his territory and all that but what can I do to help them get on, I feel bad for the kitten because whenever he sees him he just wants to play
Pic related
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>>17856001
Cute cats. I'm not really sure tho what would be best in order for them to get along.
But these guys will be able to help you.
>>>/an/
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>>17856004
Fuck me gently I forgot there was an animals board
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>>17856001
best thing is to take it slow.
Either keep the kitten in a room and let your older cat wander the house/sniff through the door, or do the same thing but with the older cat in a room and let the kitten wander in the house.
Try having someone play with the kitten while another person holds the cat, this way he'll at least know the kitten isn't a threat.
Another thing is giving both of them treats in the same room/at the same time. Start off with them eating farther apart from eachother, and slowly give them treats closer to eachother. Sounds weird but worked for my older cat when I got a kitten a few years ago.
I'm not an expert, so take it with a grain of salt
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>like girl
>her best friend tells me she's "single on paper" but in a "phase of definition" whatever tf that means
>friend tells me to wait a month to see if she's single for good or ends up in a relationship
Is that good advice, or is the moment to strike right now? If she's in an emotional chaos right now I can see the benefits of waiting but on the other hand why let that other guy have the initiative? Assuming there is a guy to begin with but that's what I'm guessing.
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...I mean, after all she might be hesitant because she has no alternative at the moment? My chance to shine, maybe?
Or if I'm fucked and delusional you can tell me :-/
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>>17855998
Lol steer clear of girls like this for anything other than a one night stand. Her friend basically told you she's slutting around so don't get your hopes up.
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>>17855998
>phase of definition
Can't take that to mean anything else than she's not currently interested in a relationship but instead wants to "find herself" and "experience things" aka ride the cock carousel and be free.
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tfw be me
>qt u dont even know that well start talking to you
>end up talking a lot meeting irl and stuff etc etc
>lots of affection
>lots of signs that she likes me but being the 0 confidence beta i think it s only bait
>she has a bf she never talks about and never sees
How do i understand if she s just talking to me and being affectionate just because she needs validation
Or because she wants to replace her bf?
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Yeah some hot girls will prey on beta guys for validation, in high school I knew this girl with a big butt befriended all of the fedora wearing weirdos. Are you really that bad looking though? Maybe it truly is just a confidence issue.
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>>17855977
nice dubz
No it s a confidence issue, i ve been told i m actually out of her league, her being a half filipina azn qt and i ve actually managed to avoid being a beta lord supreme when she s around.
But i still dont get why someone with a (4/10)bf would be so nice, attentionate affectionate and qt towards me. I m really starting to think it s because of pity
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>>17855958
>How do i understand if she s just talking to me and being affectionate just because she needs validation Or because she wants to replace her bf?
hard to say really. some girls just prefer having male friends, and they also happen to be affectionate people. my ex was, and still is friends with a beta guy that goes to pokemon card tournaments lol.
i honestly dont think its validation thing. If women want validation, they will normally stop speaking to a guy after a little while. maybe it was validation at first and she liked your company? i dont know. any advice i give is going to be pretty vague because i dont know this girl nor you. you could be an autistic 10/10 for all i know.
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How do I monetize this?
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>>17855929
Ask uni faculty and contact big pharma. Also please share here.
In reality I have no idea. But am interested in this remedy since I'm in dire need, brotha.
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>>17855929
How did you develop this knowledge op?
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Patents
So, how do you cure social anxiety ?
I solved ALL of the things about me I would be anxious about, but the anxiety's still there.
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>>17855905
But anon, anxiety is illogical, it doesn't care if you actually have things to be anxiousness about or not.
It's an experience thing, go out there, try being social and get used to it after a while.
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>>17855905
this is why therapists exist, pick one and go
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>>17855905
Adderall or xanax
So there's another guy hitting on the girl im dating, what do I do? really never happened before.
Can i just beat him up real bad?
Like any suggestions are welcome I'm clueless
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>>17855901
Be a better guy than him for her.
>Can i just beat him up real bad?
If you want to look like a dumb brute with insecurity issues, sure. If she's into that, it might even work!
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>>17855903
Simpler said than done, the dude literally started studying all of her interests just to get to her.
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>>17855904
>the dude literally started studying all of her interests just to get to her
kek now that's dedication
How does your girl react?
if she doesn't shut that shit down then it's time to move on.