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>>17858445

next time he criticizes something about you just double down about how great it is. do this constantly until he stops negging.

>ur house is shit
no its great, are you fucking stupid?

>ur clothes r ugly
my shirt is fly

>ur thoughts r dumb
nah man, you just have to THINK about things the RIGHT way, then youll agree with me

it sounds like you lack basic confidence

he sounds like a fuckwit

>>17858473
So become opinionated yourself to combat it?

>>17858425

you dont actually need a socialization photo, i talk to guys all the time who dondt have em, and they're really kinda pointless.

If you have no friends, are you sure you would want to hook up with a girl that would actually pay attention to these kind of pics?

Your tinder profile shouldn't be a pure exercise in marketing

>>17858486
>>17858525
This what some tinder wise anon told me a while back and I've yet to do it and I'm still being dead in the water tinder wise

>>17858404

a bible

>>17858404
Fill up his vehicle with gas? A ticket to a rehab facility?

Tough call man, hope he gets help someday.

Magazine subscriptions

Just add her. In 50 or 60 years when you're lying on your death bed no one will care.

>>17858364

just add her on fb, send her a message and ask her out. chads have been doing this for years. its not a secret. theres not rules against it. literally nothing bad can happen to you.

>>17858364
It only matters if you think it does. Doing whatever you want is the more attractive option than asking other kids if that pretty girl like likes you. You child.

>>17858314
This is just a hypothesis.

If it keeps you up at night, and this has never happened before, it could be something called "rejection sensitivity."

You could use some therapy.

>>17858622
well I wasn't exactly rejected by somebody, so I don't think my problem is "rejection sensitivity." I was very much in love with this person and their feelings were reciprocated, but certain circumstances in my life at the time prevented me from moving forward with them.

So I tried to distance myself, and they lashed out against me.
It was all just a big misunderstanding.

>>17858314
why not reach out?

>>17858305
Is that her? Work on her diet First

You already made this thread fuck off.

>>17858305
>I don't like my girls fashion

jesus

Break up with her and go gay, maybe then you can find some fashionable well-dressed cock to suck

>>17858291
I'm of the opinion that forgiveness is earned not given, and even then sometimes it's never enough.

As long as you can channel these feelings in a positive manner I don't see a problem.

>>17858301
The way I see it, I will improve myself to the best I can possibly be, but it won't change the fact that pisses me off. It's almost like my mission is to prove that there's something impossible out there for some people, and all the encouragement people give me is bullshit.

you don't forgive anybody (or anything) for the sake of them getting absolution. atleast not in the majority of cases. you forgive to gain peace for yourself. being bitter is not healthy and will make you a hard, angry and cynical person. instead of meeting the world with bitterness, meet it with realism. bitterness is a result of feeling that something is unfair and desperately holding on to the fact that it IS "unfair". it is the result of wanting something to change that is not in your power to change. realism on the other hand is about seeing things how they are, even if it isn't all just rainbows and unicorns but being able to accept that some things are simply unfair and not get crazy over it.
to sum it up in one sentence: change what you can, accept what you can't and be wise enough to know what belongs in which category

Go to a mall
Passs a jewelry store
Bitch about watches
Ta-da

What do you have against watches this badly?

>>17858257
there's little chance we'll be in a mall together anytime soon. It's very likely he'll order all his gifts online
>>17858262
I know for a fact that it's a go-to gift he's gotten for past significant others, and it's something that I would never use. I guess to me it would kind of symbolize that he put absolutely no thought into getting something I would enjoy, or something that matches me. I get that it's kind of stupid, but it's how I feel.

Wear non slip shoes and look very clean

>>17858230
Don't say things to incriminate yourself. Do some research on the company and don't back down when asked stressful questions. Show him or her that you are strong!
I'm looking for a job myself but I'm not sure where to go.
Where are you applying?

>>17858238
Yeah you're right. One time a manager hired me on the spot at a high-class restaurant for just looking nice

She is insecure and that will not go away you'll have the problem forever. Now you have to decide if that's worth having her around.

Tell her thats while you understsnd her its a reslly silly thing thsy can be easly changed in no time.

Spend more time together, take her insecurities off, watch a BJ video with her and repeat how much you love her

As a female who has does this to her boyfriend but has gotten better about it, she defiantly is insecure. But all you really can do is reassure her that she is fine and since this is her first time doing that kind of stuff she wont be the best but with practice and time she will defiantly get there. Also make it a point to tell her that you want her and that's why you're with her and that if you wanted those other girls you would be with them but you're not... So basically reassure her. Also, ya know, probably make it a point to tell her that its not healthy to compare her self to others because shes her own person, etc.

Get over her by getting under someone else

>I was unhappy in my relationship
>Now I'm unhappy out of the relationship

Nigga this ain't about your relationship status, this about you. Go out and work on your shit.

>>17858251
>>17858227

I think you hit the nail on the head.

Yes you have nothing to lose if they don't like you say fuck it and in 6 months never see them agan if they do like you you might just make a life long friend

>>17858200
Don't let friends make you. Situational befriend them. That means come off as nice and get their phone number and organize a date. That way you don't get taken advantage of by people that don't actually care about you

>>17858200
It's worth making friends all the time
People underestimate social health

>>17858195
Assuming she's white, probably not

If she's non-white, like black etc they won't look twice at her because of the whole race thing

>>17858201
yep she's white. so not?

>>17858195
Why are you not going with her?

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>>17858154
It's hard to describe...

Usually I immerse myself with personal activities, like working out, taking up some exercise class, messing/hanging with friends etc.

I usually suffer for about a week or 3 and then naturally get over it

>>17858164
>not suffering for years on end
do you even love, bro

>>17858171
I had a 3 year relationship, I honestly and truly felt like I loved her and her the same

To be fair, this was before we tried LDR, and admitably, I started to see the flaws in how it wouldn't work

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>>17858151
Ok?

>>17858172
cool

that's how i feel for every person i date, but then i realize, when you date a certain way, you love that person and dating them that way more than you would if it was normal.