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>>17857130
>early sign that a kid is alph
Usually not. Alphas have no need to try to demonstrate how tough they are by bullying.
My school has several smart, rich, athletic guys the girls love. They all act pretty cool. The bullies are the losers that happen to be big.

>>17857130

Given that "alpha" and "beta" are bullshit terms, I'd say "no".

If you mean that someone bullied can develop low self-esteem, sure, but not always happens.

What kind of advice do you need, though? This is /adv/ after all.

>>17857130
>is being bullied a sign that a kid is beta and destined to be lonely?
no
it's that way for some guys but usually bullies just pick on guys that are younger or naturally smaller
not a lot the bullied can do about that
I know a kid that got bullied a lot he wasn't super young for the grade but he grew later
Now he's a 6'4" Marine badass

wouldn't pursue it, it's not worth the social stigma of being a sister-fucker and the alienation from your family. there's plenty of acceptable pussy out there that's not your half-sister

>>17857074
>social stigma of being a sister-fucker and the alienation from your family
This is my biggest fear... "What if she tell somebody?". Otherwise I would have done it a long time ago.

How old are you two?
It seems likely that she's underage from your post

If your relationship is boring from the get-go, it's not going to last

But you don't really want advice, do you? You just want to bitch and for someone to tell you what a poor soul you are

>>17857025
Cheat

>>17857025
Welcome to adulthood.

Please enjoy a complimentary Dating Site thats been active for 4 years, and a nice heaping spoonful of Deadlines and Bills.

>Cut off penis
>Post procedure on /b/

>>17857013
What he said

>>17857003
Flex your Leg/Thigh muscles as if you were straining them or pushing against an invisible force, you will lose your boner in 60 seconds guaranteed.

>>17856961
Does anyone here feels the same?

Do you think I'm wrong?

>>17856968
After all. As I said, you know what's truly up only when you're in the middle of it.

nobody?

>>17856933

I'd be lost without my friends. Sometimes maintaining all of the relationships can be a little exhausting, as I like to spend time alone to recharge, but to your point, I pretty much always have someone to have my back, a couch to crash on, a shoulder to cry on, whatever it may be.

It's just a matter of showing people that they're wanted in your life though. You don't have to spend every day together, but shoot a text every once in a while about something stupid, or see what they're up to over the weekend and if they want to grab a beer or lunch or whatever it is you do.

Not overly hard, especially if you care about these people back.

While it can be important to belong to a network of friends, it can also be fun to enjoy your own silence.

Thank you for taking the time to ask.


By the way, I cannot pretend to know how you feel, but I can empathize. (wink)

>>17856950
thats not fair

>>17856904

Shit, I meant to write WHEN is it most appropriate.

>>17856904
during the interview when they ask if you have any questions

it's what i did and i got it squared away fast

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>>17856904
You can ask for one such allowance at an interview.

The wedding is justified and shows life-work balance skills. Ask when they ask you for questions.

The 15th anniversary event is bullshit. Let it go. It shows that your attention would be divided between 2 jobs. That will cost you the interview.

Wedding yes, bullshit anniversary no.

Masturbate or do something to distract yourself, saving the sexual energy for when you see him next.

masturbate on webm

There's always the milkman.

>majoring in business
Hope that's at an Ivy League school because otherwise you'll be managing a Taco Bell at best, working the drive through otherwise.
Another heads up, economics jobs that actually pay well are mostly math, combined with a little bit of economic and political theory. All public sector government shit until you have a decade or so of experience, then megacorps and conglomerates might hire you as an advisor.

>>17856893
Do minors matter at all? Like philosophy, as an example, might be useless

I was also thinking of maybe doing financing. It's just the level of math, really, if I have to do calculus daily then I probably can't go for a high stem field, but percentages or some algebra would be manageable.

>>17856787
>Infographics help, too
If they're the same quality as the one you posted, no they don't. The fact that you're not thinking critically about that picture makes me think you're not cut out for university in the first place too

I cannot relate to women at all.
You are friggin aliens to me.

If a guy says stuff like "i'm better off alone", could he be actually depressed over someone?

>>17856766

Start seeing them as human beings and you'll start relating to them

>age/sex

25 male

>Country

USA

>How many relationships have you been in?

0... well, I thought I was in one. But, nope..

>how many sexual partners?

2, both were a waste

>are you studying or in a career

I work full time doing armed security which pays really well. I'm using that money to pay for Flight School because I want to be a airline pilot. So hopefully I'm flying for a Airline in 2 years.

>are you happy with your life?

Not really


Don't really have anything to add. I don't really know what to do. I'm excited about my career. But I still feel sort of bored with life.

>>17856759
1. Age/sex
24 male
2. Country
USA
3. How many relationships have been in?
2 serious
?? flings
4. How many sexual partners have you had? (excluding your relationship partners)
~20ish
5. Are you studying or have a career? What is it?
I work retail management.
6. Are you happy with your life?
Yeah
7. Anything else you'd like to add?

>1. Age/sex
21/MtF transdegenerate
>2. Country
USA, Oregon
>3. How many relationships have been in?
5
>4. How many sexual partners have you had? (excluding your relationship partners)
0, but 3 of the relationships resulted in sex.
>5. Are you studying or have a career? What is it?
Studying physics, specialized in ballistics engineering.
>6. Are you happy with your life?
No, I want to kill myself but am too scared of death.
>7. Anything else you'd like to add?
I regret the vast majority of my life choices. All of the big ones, really.

>>17856749

And then, a girl said that she and her boyfriend spend most of their sex life avoiding direct stimulation of the genitals, just making out and caressing their bodiees. Wich makes me wonder this: is it bad to stay hard for long periods of time without stimulating (rubbing) your cock? i mean, staying away from the non return spot?

You illiterate stupid humongous faggot, you're supposed to edge when masturbating as a practice for when you're fucking. Only after you learn how to control yourself you should edge on the bed.

And stop taking sex advice from church goers, this couples sex life obviously suck.

Soaking your brain in dopamines is the sole fucking purpose of having recreational sex.

Seriously dude

Bimp

Your fiance has actual mental issues. You should persuade her to seek some actual professional help.

>Besides this relatively small flaw

No anon, it's a big deal. She can't deal with the fact that she isn't the best. She isn't in grade school. Time to let her ego go. Also she is threatening you with suicide. This is a red flag on top of the Chinese embassy. Maybe you should both talk to a therapist. But understand that this doesn't sound like a solid healthy relationship

It's not a small flaw, and she isn't competitive. Competitive means you wanna be the best, she just wants to be better than you because she has no self-esteem and her whole self-image is contigent on success in whatever arbitrary measurement she can find you two having in common.

Dump her, and suggest therapy.

But it sounds like you're really just looking for people to tell you to stay with her, and it's obvious you've already made up your mind that that is what you're going to do. So learn to live with it I guess.

>>17856619
get a study guide

study it

>>17856619

Whatever you're doing to study for it, do something different.

Your parents must really want you to get a drivers license so that's probably why they're upset and don't want to talk to you. They should come around soon enough.

Keep on trying. You'll get your license. persistence is key.

I got mine on the fourth try, it's mostly luck and remembering the answers.

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>>17856598
>What can I do?
I don't think there's much you can do about that desu. Perhaps some physiotherapy exercises?

>>17857484
I mean how the FUCK is it possible for knock knees to visibly deteriorate in just a few months? I'm pretty sure they stayed the same for years.
I'm already majorly struggling to cope with how they look now, I can't just let them become even worse.

>>17856598
Maybe try some heavy ass squats.