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>>17857750
completely depends on the situation. if you think you're ballsy enough, you could walk up and say "hey you're really pretty, are you single?" and if she says "yes" then ask her if she'd like to go on a date.

otherwise another option is just talking to her long enough before you eventually learn she's single or not. nowadays though who knows. not to put your hopes down but people are really unstable nowadays compared to a decade ago or before, so if they get weird, it might have nothing to do with you

>>17857750
"Hey anonette, hows it going? Listen I was thinking would you like to grab a coffee someday? Ya know, to get each other to know better?"
"Oh sorry, I have a boyfriend, im not really looking to meet new people"
"Oh yeah sure, no probs. Just was wondering. Anyway, in case you feel to go out somtimes, just let me know! Bye!"

Of course she will NEVER let you know, but yeah this is pretty much it.

>>17857794
Welp, looks like I just have to repress my approach anxiety and do it.

I can picture myself doing it in my head a million times just fine, but when I'm in person, my stomach gets filled with butterflies and I'll freeze up, with hardly any control over myself

Let them have sex for christ sake, if they do, they're ready for it

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>>17857738
Fuck off faggot

I don't want to be responsible for dishonoring either of our families

>>17857733
Ask her parents what they think.

Also, does he seem like he is attracted to women yet, and how confident is he ? At 11 I was already masturbating and would have tried to have sex in that situation except I was still so afraid of women that I wouldn't have the balls to make an attempt. He is your kid, you know him best, Her parents know her best, you can figure it out.

There are a lot of unstable people out there. You apologized, she doesn't want to talk to you, so just leave it alone, you can't please everyone.

Some girls like playing games like this where you're expected to chase her down until she deems you 'forgiven' but we don't know enough about her. Just respect her feelings and leave it alone.

>>17857749
thanks, that was my gut feeling, will do

>>17857730
>Are women that thin-skinned nowadays?

well i know some are at least. i got pissed off with a girl i was dating because she was ignoring me and flaking. she stopped speaking to me, and wouldn't accept my apology.

where do I go?
>med school for four years

How do I pay for it?
>student loans

How difficult is it if I'm not having any problem now?
>lot more difficult, more work, professors have higher expectations

>>17857685
Not sure whats the process in the United States, but I can answer a couple of questions.
You dont really have time to work, so you will need your parents economic help to get you through the career. Dont buy original text books, use pdf or copies. Its tough but if you study enough, plan ahead and are somewhat smart youll get through it. Go for it anon. Medical school is awesome.

Medschoolfag here. I am going to assume you are in US?

First make sure you get prerequisite classes complete. For most schools these tend to be Gen Bio 1&2 + lab, Gen Chem 1&2 + lab, Organic Chem 1&2 + lab, Physics 1&2 + lab, and at least Calc 1. Some want Calc 2 and Biochem as well.

>>17857672

cndoms or bareback?

>>17857674
I've done both

>>17857672
Were you intoxicated? Alcohol/drugs?

>>17857671
Are you telling the whole truth and nothing but the truth

Most people usually try around like 5 therapists before they find one that clicks with them

Every therapist has a different approach and having the right therapist is immensley helpful

>>17857681
I hold things back in therapy, yes.

It's extremely hard for me to let my guard down and admit to some of the things I think and do.

>>17857662
>You want her as gf to have sex
Get the fuck out alrighty
> you want her as gf and see if she is ok to be your girl for the rest of your life
Go for it

>>17857690
It will take time, try to make her laugh
Be friends for month or so .. than ask her out

Ask yourself these questions,
Has she ever approached you instead of you approaching her?
Does she text you more than 1 time without you replying?
How many guys does she talk with? Are they approaching her or does she approach them?
Compare yourself with the other guys, if you think you're less social with her than them, it's a no go.
Does she try and lengthen the small talk or does she try and end it with short and boring answers?

>>17857661
It shouldn't hurt until you break her hymen and then only for a little bit. Probably an infection or some other health issue. Tell her to see a doctor.

>>17857661
Is she on the pill?
That happened with my girlfriend when she was.
If not, try lube.

>>17857695
I ate her out and my upper lip is burning a little. Is that a sign of infection?

>>17857700
I didnt have lube and I tried spitting. What lube would you recommend. She wasn't on the pill

It's well done, buen trabajo, Anon.

>>17857873
thanks man

>>17857614
you should add "Hola Esteban quiero meterte el dedo en el culo"

>>17857577
Try some drugs

>>17857577
Out of curiosity, what country did she grow up in? What country is she in now. You might be surprised by what the hormones in American food can do to individuals sensitive to those hormones.

Yeah hormone twisting can permanently destroy a female's sex drive, it's why a lot of women are now dropping hormonal birth control and switching to non hormonal IUDs.

Weed is known to make girls less wet, so avoid weed. MDMA makes women unleash their inner sex goddess, maybe try that? Or some red wine and lots of foreplay.

If you can't get a girl wet within a few minutes of kissing and groping then she's helpless. There are female libido herbal supplements that I've used with GFs that work extremely well. piping rock libido passion supplement made my last LTR gf get wet for no reason whatsoever. She would take two capsules, then we would be cooking breakfast and suddenly change completely. She went from being half awake and passive, to pushing her ass in my face telling me to pull her leggings down. Proceeded, then noticed she was soaking wet through her underwear. Shit was tight for a while, but she got stressed out about school and losing her job and we ended up breaking up due to lack of romance.

drive your car or your neighbors car into a ditch as fast as you can while not wearing a seatbelt

>>17857582
XD

>>17857575

>Is bi-polar real?

Yes.

>I always thought mental illness was invented by the pharmaceutical industry to sell medications

You're an idiot.

>I cured my depression by myself, but now I go from absolutely loving life for a few days and never wanting to die, to hating everything, feeling isolated and alone, and wanting to overdose on heroin so I can finally be at peace.

Experiencing violent mood swings, isolation and suicidal ideation is the exact opposite of being cured you fucking dope.

My gf's dad is the exact same way. He literally ignores me and acts like he doesn't hear me when i speak to him. Makes him look like an insecure cuck imo, I haven't tried talking to him in months, since I live with my gf, but if we break up that will sadly be one of the contributing factors.

>>17857583
Yeah Im at the point where i dont even bother trying to tak to him, but it still sucks that you can be with a girl for three years and treat her well, and still get this kind of shit.

>>17857588
Yup, I'm at 2 years. Her dad is also a psychopath. He ridicules her little sister until he gets a reactiom out of her, and then smacks her for talking back. He's never done in front of me, or I would have called the police right then. It also pisses me off because my gf justifies his behavior, but gets furious when her sister's stepdad even yells at her.

I can't talk to her about it because she freaks out. She has major stockholm syndrome. It's a big unspoken resentment in our relationship. I hope you find someway to figure it out man.

Ask her out.

Kill yourself

>>17857621
there's no special way to do it? just "would you like to go to x?"

>>17857679
not while the pussy train is still a-rollin

>>17857548

This is not asking for advice.

I think you got the wrong board.

Good luck!

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>>17857548
>frogposting
>says normies instead of normalfags
>calling other people normies

You're the creep who called his hs crush after looking for her phone online right?

You're still a stalker and a creep

If the blood is in the shit, it's bad, and you must go to the doctor asap.

If the blood is on the paper, you're either wiping too hard (too dry? it's that time of year) or yeah you wound up having a big of an injury, and now you should do what you can to keep it clean.


Buy some wet wipes and try to use them primarily for a week or so till you heal.

If you're wiping gently and there's notable blood on the wet wipes, then it's time to stop dicking around and go to the doctor about it.

>>17857532
Blood is on the paper for sure, if it was in the shit I'd be at a hospital asap.
My stool looks fine. I keep myself pretty clean, and it's not exactly very dry down there (where wiping is discomforting.)I just had a really big solid chunk come out and it's not been the same since.

Thanks for the wet wipes suggestion; I'll check to make sure my plumbing can handle it

>>17857519
Sounds like hemorrhoids. They happen. If it's red on paper, that's fine, although hemorrhoids tend to come and go. If it's making your shits black... That's not good.