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>>17860747

Except, one day, our family friend just bent over to tie his shoelace and suddenly his spinal artery popped and 10 minutes later he died when I was giving him CPR, doctors said that there was nothing they could do even if it happened in the hospital.

Business just went down the shitter, I was helping him with business stuff, errands and I've been investor, and doing some manual labor too, cause you know, you re opening up your goddamn business. But he has been the professional on the food part, with him gone there is nothing I can do, I don't know shit.

So now, I am sitting here, having no Girlfriend, no prospect of business, no friends, sitting in a bumfuck nowhere village where I don't even know anyone (I live in Europe) and naturally have a lot of time to think, since I barely can do anything beyond that.

And now after I did a bit of a backstory comes finally my question. I will write it all down in the next post.

Thanks for the blog post

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>>17860747
>>17860752

Now the thing. When I was in a relationship (I am 25) I was always jokingly being told that i am a fucking wierd autismo (you know how it is with jokes, they still have some grain of truth to them)

And It was always due to my interests or how I think about things. One extremely memorable was a moment where I wanted to learn more about the welding in space since it's completely different than the welding in the atmosphere. So I naturally went to read a wikipedia article on it and then she came and started a beef with me like, why are you even reading this shit, you will never ever need it in your life. (She is the kind of person that does nothing but lay in bed or chat all day on FB and then accuses u of wasting time if u watch some movie or whatever)

Which left me infuriated and I told her, that it's because of little things like that I've self learned the third language, trade and bunch of other shit which helped me to get where I am today, and which are actually paying for rent and her at times expensive presents (she was 20 and I fucking doubt any other guy old as me could afford it unless he had some rich parents). That these little things might seem unimportant and like a waste of time, but it leads you further every single day.

She cannot fathom this concept to this very day.

But this all left a seed of doubt in me.

Lol quit being such a pussy. Death is a natural part of life, deal with it.

Try DMT or something.

Grow up

>>17860746
I will lay in bed sometimes and be thinking about things in life and be bodyslammed by the reality that "wow, this is all going to end, I'm going to die" or "my friends are going to die" and it really fills you with anxiousness, it's shitty, i can't help really, I just distract myself, but I can identify with your feeling. The thoughts come and go.

Place a paper towel at the bottom the sink before you start and throw it away at the end.

Place a napkin or towel or something at the sink and collect/throw the hair away.

I have this problem but with cum

I'm inclined to say that if you did get bitten by something with rabies two weeks ago, by now it'll probably be too late to actually treat it properly.

That being said, the risk of being infected with rabies by a vampire bat is incredibly small, and you probably would have seen a wound if it had bitten you.

>>17860712
>About two weeks ago
Kek, if it's rabies you're already dead.

>>17860750
The only thing I'm feeling now is a slight headache, and I don't think I've drank enough water today.

>>17860700
incoming neets defend being neets and rationalize their sad existence.

inb4 wageslave, yep. sure am i. feels good too.

>>17860708
the thing is that i have no dignity
i know i'm a degenerate and i'm ok with that

>>17860713
So be a neet if mediocrity is your end goal

>>17860693
Tell him you cant sit still and cant pay attention.
Profit.

Couldnt you google this shit?

They're good but only once a week, MAX.

Also take a low dose. Higher dose basically gets you high, similar to a weak MDMA roll, and the crash sucks.

Don't get addicted to stims, it's horrible. Even taking adderall every 2-3 days is a bad idea. I recommend once a week on days you really need it.

It's not a long term solution. Figure out what's causing your lack of focus. Probably jacking off too much or eating shitty.

>>17860693
Tell your doc that you've been struggling to stay focused, you lack motivation and you think you could be depressed.

Your dr may give you Addy or Ritalin , or they may decide to give you Welbutrin or Vyvanse. Any of those four are what you're looking for.

Wtf dude go back to your family make peace with them stop drinking then make a decision on what to do with your life running away solves nothing you'll just miserable in a different location

>>17860711
This.

Or at least get a job where you live right now.

OP will father at least 4 children from different mothers before being put away for theft, check fraud, driving on a suspended license, failure to pay child support, fleeing a police officer and resisting arrest. Finally, he'll be killed in a prison riot after falling into the wrong gang. The End.

>>17860686
Ask them to wash up a bit beforehand.
Happened to me once with a gf who didn't take a shower beforehand.
She was also Chinese but I don't think that had anything to do with it. I think it could happen with any girl probably.

It might be related to their nutrition, maybe something in their diet gives them a foul smell...

>>17860686

why are you smelling their pussies? those things just smell bad.

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>>17860688
nice digits

>>17860994

You have no idea how clever that was, do you?

Err anon, I'm sorry but a older working woman with her shit together is not gonna want a 23 yr old punk kid when she can get it from the other well off guys her own age (that she can relate to on a mental level.) Even though u are doing well for yourself and all. It's just gonna be hard because the older woman worth wifing are already wifed up.

>>17860676
Plus OP bought a $50K car like a jackass. Even if he isn't trying to overcompensate it totally looks like it.

>>17860666
>How do I meet a genuine older woman and wife her
Dude, you're golden. Don't go for an an older girl right now. Keep working on the career and casually dating. You are just at the age where women start to come to their senses and look for guys exactly like you to marry.

I know of what I speak. at 21 I married a woman who was 27 specifically because I was set in life, wanted to get married and she seemed to have her shit together unlike the flaky girls my age.
It turned out, I was too young and didn't have enough experience to detect a woman with deep issues who was good at manipulating guys.
After 15 shitty years of marriage, I divorced her and married a girl who was 27 (note the same age) who has been an incredibly good wife.

Hold on, gain experience, let the girls catch up and marry a good one.

Can you function normally in life? If you can't then you need help. This applies not only to mental health but physical health as well.

>>17860642
You can always try therapy and see if you benefit from it.

>>17860648
What's the definition of normal though? I still go to university, I work 20-30 hours a week and I have friends (sorta). But mentally it seems like such a struggle to even manage one aspect of my life. Is that normal? Is that how people go through their day to day life
>>17860653
I don't wanna fill up time slots that could be used for people with actual shit going on in their lives. I just have sad whiteboi problems

>>17860564
What do you think about working with your hands? Ever think about getting a trade after high school?

Maybe you have a learning disability or something. How can you study so hard and fail? What happened? Did you make dumb mistakes or???

Also btw if you suck at english there's no fuckin way you're gonna be a lawyer. You have to write essays for the bar exam as well as write concisely for the court briefings and such. Being a lawyer isn't about debate, it's mostly reading laws, previous cases, and writing case briefs and speaking eloquently. This is why most lawyers got their bachelors in english.

>>17860564
If you hate writing and school, don't bother being a lawyer...or a politician. That's pretty much all they do.

Shameless bump. I wrote a long text after that saying I liked that we had a lot in common and that it was important to me that I respect her boundaries. How badly did I screw up ?

Wtf anon it wasn't even that bad what you said to her. Whadduyu mean you short circuited? So what exactly happened?

Also you sperged the fuck out with that long text. It's just a kiss. Don't make it awkward. Protip you never ever do long texts unless you know the person well. Nobody wants to read a novel on their phone

>>17860607
The date was awesome. We clicked. She laughed at my jokes. She said she liked dirty jokes so I told one. I thought things were going well. End of the date I planted a few kisses on her cheek. It was going well. I was working my way towards her lips and asked her "Do you kiss on the second date ?"

I know I sperged out with the long text. Hadn't seen in almost a month and hadn't heard from her in almost 2 weeks

Kissanime is dead, friend. It stopped working like a week ago.

>>17860537
What should I use then my guy?

>I don't want to download anything
ew pleb. Try 9anime.to

>>17860419
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Disable addblock or use the main comment box (as opposed to the ones that appear when you click on a post number to reply).

>>17860424
>>17860428
test now