Are you self employed?
what do?
how much do you earn a year?
how did you get into it?
Im looking for something profitable to get into other than being a factory worker making someone else rich while I only earn enough to scrape by, tell me how you did it offer any relevant advice
Soooooo I take this as a no
So you're bitter thay you're making someone else rich, but you want to become that person?
Interesting...
>>17863311
Save money, buy low sell high.
Think about how markets work and identify potential markets before others to become rich.
Is it racist to hate niggers but not black people?
No because it isn't racist to hate rednecks and not white people or gooks and not asians.
>>17863302
If you casually use the n-word, then you're racist. Period.
>>17863310
Get a load of this nigger. You think the word nigger only applies to black people. You're racist then.
Help.
>Meet cool girl
>Same interests
>Get along really well
>Can talk some bantz without hurting her feelings, and she does the same
>Most tolerable female I have literally EVER met and shes actually good at vidya too
Now that we've covered that, she wants to date me. But I'm on the fence, because she is slightly overweight. Its not entirely her fault, because she has an severe injury, and chronic pain which prevents her from working out. She has some big titties, and a great ass which helps, but I'm still unsure.
What should I do? I've never actually enjoyed hanging out with a girl this much before, and she wants a date bad.
>>17863295
You will never magically get over the lack of physical attraction. You need to be aware of that if you're going to do this.
>>17863295
>slightly overweight
>SLIGHTLY
>he has some big titties, and a great ass
What is your actual problem
Post pics or we can't really say for sure.
How do I enjoy pubbing?
For example for context I had a company dinner the other day. I had a lot of fun up to the part where we just had drinks and talked about bullshit on the table, but then we went out pubbing and dancing and I got bored as shit and just went home.
I just don't get the fun in being on a super crowded space, being mostly unable to talk and I don't like dancing either.
How do I learn enjoy it?
You don't . Your smart enough to see that it's not enjoyable so you can't just force your self to be a sheep like everyone else .
Just find some groups to pug with or get in to the competitive scene, you dont need to always play with randoms, breh.
>>17863416
Listen to this guy, he's a party animal.
hoe old is too old to start fresh at a university? I have about 5 college classes done and I'm pretty sure they'll transafer but what is a average age?
I've got no advice for you, I just want to say I fucking love that album
>>17863287
lol thanks so much
that definition doesn't exist, you can start over anytime.
got braces yesterday, and its fucken shitty. my teeth hurt so bad.
gonna have them on for 2 whole years
any tips on how to deal with them? because im really weighing the benefits of tearing them all off my teeth.
I know your pain OP. It will subside with time.. until you have to go back and get them tightened again. The cycle of pain will continue until they're off for good, and unfortunately there isn't much you can do about it except take pain killers and eat soft foods :/
>>17863272
You will not feel the pain 24/7 for 2 years straight lol, i had mine for 2 years then my teeth's went back. Now i'm on round 2 and getting them tightened 20 december #RIP XMASFOOD.
>>17863272
braces are rather inconvenient for blowjobs. When my gf had it I had to settle for unenthusiastic handjobs. Not recommended.
Stupid question but
>should i go to this party?
>be on team 4 years
>ignored for first 2 years
>made really great friend on team last two years
>still kinda ignored and treated like shit though
>still had a fun time sometimes while i was there though
>pic related
>izzy and chloe have graduated as have i
>izzy and chloe instigate a party to be held in their honor
>not invited
>good friend tells me and invites me
>umm idk
>"they didnt know you were in town"
>been out of town for uni 5 hours away
>been back home for a week now
>getting invite just now
Should i go? Im leaving to basic training and kinda dont want to feel like shit before i leave. But also feeling like shit could motivate me to be a better person and kinda want to visit good friend. But also all the other girls didnt really like me.
>inb4 its your decision
>>17863215
It's ur decision bby
just b urself
>>17863223
Fucking worst answer anyone could give
>kys
>>17863231
no D:<
So pic related is my arm currently. I think my hair is way too thick on it, I want to make it a little more appealing. I don't want to shave it off but somehow trim it down and make it less thick all over. Also I am thinking about shaving the hair behind my hands idk how that'll look tho so im not sure yet.
>>17863189
quick bump to get this done asap
>>17863189
Dont shave or trim anything, its a terrible idea, it will be even more noticeable, hair will grow more pointy and in all directions.
Accept it (doesnt look bad imo) or maybe use some hydrogen peroxide to weaken/lighten the hair.
>>17863197
hydrogen peroxide that works? idk like its just too thick, alot of people comment on it and I honestly don't like it that much either. I don't wanna get rid of it but just somehow make it less noticable and messy
>On fake facebook account
>See girl I went to school with
>Know her for almost entirety of my life
>Just graduated a year and a half ago
>She had been dating some guy throughout her teen years
>He just got her pregnant
>She's about to turn 20, and she works at Dominoes
>See various other pictures on her profile
>She's doing these cute photographs and putting their fleeting, almost delusional love on display
>Realize she has just given herself the Doctor's haircut of life
I'm glad I never went outside and experienced my teenage years /r9k/. I'm not even filled with regret because of how fucked I've seen the lives of others become. I mean, I'm 20 myself and a KV, but I only see the positive side of this. I dodged the bullet called lower middle-class american life.
Is my soundness of mind unfounded? Should I be upset that I "wasted" my adolescence? I grew up in a predominantly lower-class area. I have a belief I would have been wiped away with the rest of the people that lived there if I were out and about. I'm still living with my parents, but I've transitioned into a life of total isolation. I really couldn't be more content.
Is there anything wrong?
I see the world, and I can't help but feel it's more inclined to harm me than to bring me happiness.
>>17863184
If you went out and lived that life you would have thought this about the ones that stay inside
Who's to say who's wrong and who's right
The fact that you see the world as only a place that can bring you down is a harmful philosophy tho
Signifies a lack of trust and probably some rooted in some childhood issue
In fact, your parents are also a part of the world, and although they might not say it, they are ashamed and confused as to why you're unable to seize your own life.
If you can live with that indignity and the indignity of being a net loss to everyone you meet, I guess you're good to go.
>>17863198
I've seen too much of it in my daily life as a carpenter due to my father. I've seen the attitudes of various ethnic groups and social castes. People have died, and I've been around for the fallout.
I don't see interaction with others as a beneficial thing.
You see what they desire, and you see the wheels of the national economy. They will hurt you if it serves their own self-interest. I would likely do the same.
How do I gain interests that I can actually see improvement in?
Everytime I try to learn a skill or hobby, I end up getting frustrated and feeling stupid and quitting. When I don't quit, I get stuck in periods of no progress and lots of frustration.
What's the best way to get around this? I'm trying to escape into hobbies, but I'm so shit at everything, that it gets worse.
In my experience, if it's something you truly enjoy, you will have fun even if you're shitty at it.
>>17863160
Start smaller, goals wise
It makes it seem like your making progress and accomplishing things
Expecting too much too fast is the #1 reason people don't follow through on new things. Reward yourself with something each time you hit a goal
Just think how candy crush and those shitty games people to keep playing. Bright colors, rewards with flashing sounds each time you are successful even if it was the easiest shit ever. Encouragement for each time oh come back daily. They know how to forcibly build a habit in people
reverse engineer that shit to build a positive habit
>>17863170
Exactly this. Expect slow progress and reinforce the small victories. Realize that you won't be great at first and that that's ok.
I need help **immediately*
I am currently spending the week at my best friend's beach house, it's been five days and I haven't gotten any "action" because I have a boyfriend, and my sex drive is pretty high, so I'm almost deprived. Today both she and her mom (who owns the house) were out, so I decided to use her notebook to watch some porn and get off. My understanding is that she'd be out for at least an hour, so as soon as she left I started, but she forgot her sunscreen and came back after about 15-minutes and just barged into the room.
The fucking problem is, when I heard her room's door opening I only had the reflex to quickly close the tab I was seeing, but there wasn't even enough time to cover myself up, and she was previously using the notebook to look at her Facebook so the window was open on her Facebook page. I actually mean that she came in and it looked to her like I was obviously getting off to her Facebook profile. We both looked like fucking deer in headlights for a minute then she just went out without saying anything. Now it's all really awkward. Is my life over?
Just fucking tell her what actually happened - it's less embarassing than what she thinks you were doing. The damage is done at this point lol
>>17863109
This is the best option
>>17863105
Just tell her the truth, if she's your best friend it'll make the relationship grow stronger and provide a good laugh
This fat girl keeps hitting on me but I'm really not about it, the rolls are too much and I want to be with somebody who cares about their well being, health, and fitness as much as I do. I also want somebody with good genetics to match mine
What's a polite way of turning her down?
Put her in the friendzone then be a neglectful friend
>>17863080
You could have just said that you weren't attracted to someone, you had no reason to mention their weight or gender
>>17863080
>the rolls are too much
how much is too much
I tend to have a lot of problems with people at work. Sometimes when the manager is the center of attention he'll look over at me and he'll have this attitude like "everyone else is acting like this, why aren't you?"
and then everytime I see them from then on it will make things weird and I can't overcome it and then it ruins everything
what do?
Does he say that? Or are you imagining him saying that bc this sounds like its all in your own head
>>17863041
well he act's that way and it makes things awkward between us?
my problem is I let these little things overwhelm me and I don't want to come into work anymore?
so like, how do you stay above this petty stuff that happens in the office? cause other people will see that and they'll start treating you differently too
>>17863046
Sounds like you have an anxiety problem practice mindfulness or get pills
So this girl who has a boyfriend wants to hang out with me in her room just us to watch a "movie" on netflix. We have had sex before but we are super close now i told her i wasnt coming over because i thought it would be fucked up if i did go over regardless if anything did or didnt happen. Was that the right choice? like did i look to much into it?
Should have snapchatted bf while fucking her
That what he could know his gf's a cheating slut
You did the right thing OP. It was clearly a sex invitation.
You done good. It's not appropriate to do that stuff if you got a boyfriend. Like hanging out alone with someone you fucked before, it's a little much. Shojlda asked her what her bf thought of it loo
Hey /adv/. One of my female friends (platonic relationship) just told me she's getting me something for Christmas and I kind of need something to get her last minute. What are some things I could get her that don't really cross the line into things I would get for a girlfriend? Just trying to keep it casual.
Was thinking a gift card and maybe something else.
>>17862976
Grab her by the pussy
>>17862976
Gifts cards are horrible.
What are her hobbies or interests? What is she into?
If you don't know, a pair of warm socks, a scarf or nice food works well.
Don't spend more than 15-20$.
Just get her something related to stuff she likes dude. As long as it isn't lingerie or sex toys it shouldn't cross any lines
Gift cards are kinda lame though.. I would use that as a last resort