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How long would a video interview offer last?
>worked 9-5 today
>sleeping over at friends house
>traveling one state over
>check email just now
>got an initial video interview
>estimated 20 minutes
>it was sent at noon
>I wont be back till tomorrow night
>nearly 36 hours after
>it was an automated message so no HR or contact
Thoughts?
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>>17863681
It's an interview over the internet. is there nowhere you could possibly go to set this up?
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Which country are you on?
I don't know about you, but I expect any interview to be scheduled with me on a time that is mutually convenient. If a company told me a time without bothering to ask, I'd just ignore it.
Think about it. If they treat your time like shit while you're interviewing, what will it be like after being hired?
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>>17863702
No I think you misunderstood. Its like once I click begin interview, questions predetermined by the company will show on the screen, and I have a few minutes to answer each. 7 questions, 3 minutes for each. This isn't face to face. I submit when I'm done.
>>17863683
No m8 its a video interview. Have to look presentable. My suit and stuff is at home. My friend is not my size so I cant just borrow a shirt.
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I am ugly. I don't believe in "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" type of shit. I've been treated like shit for the way I looked my whole life. I'm a virgin at 20 yo. I know some of you will laugh at this but it's a big deal in the western society. I only believe in plastic surgery.
I'm not a vapid shallow person and I can make friends just with about anybody, even a homeless dude. I don't judge on appearance, but I am often and mostly judged for it. People judge me before they meet me, and are already biased towards not liking me. It's sad, really. Being judged for something you had no control over.
Anyway, I don't know what kind of advice I'm looking for really, but I'm pretty sure if plastic surgery fails to make me acceptably looking for the society that I will take my own life. I am not a shallow person but I must adapt. I want to experience love. I don't know what else to do.
I'm depressed and feel like shit because of this every day. It consumes my life. I wish I didn't have to do this but it's gotten to the point where this is the only option left.
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Post ur face so we know how to help
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>>17863684
Something tells me this might backfire real hard, but w/e.
sry that it took so long but i had some trouble uploading pics. there are pics from various angles and some are distorted, what i hate the most is how drastically lighting can change my face. i've seen attractive people look good under all and any lighting settings, unlike me.
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>>17863792
Faggot. Strong chin. Not horrible other features.
Nice job taking glasses off for the pictures though.
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First time I had to resort to advice like this. There's no one I can talk to about this.
Long story short, one of my oldest and best friends is in a relationship with a girl. We meet up a lot and something's blossoming between me and her. I am really into her and I can tell she's into me too. She keeps commenting on how she wishes her boyfriend was more like me, looked more like me, acted more like me, made her laugh as much as I do, etc. She's offered to come round to my apartment this Valentine's Day because she's in town for a college project and she wants to spend the night in my bed. My bro knows about this as well and seems okay with it, but I doubt I would be. I assume he knows I would never do anything like this to him.
Anyway, the thing is, I've been dry for 6 fucking years. No sex. Nothing. This girl is amazing, just my type, looks gorgeous, cute as fuck, and just seeing her makes me happy inside in a way I haven't felt in years.
What the fuck do I do? I can't fuck around with my boy's girl, you know? That's the bro code.
Then again, if she's more into me than she's into him, maybe we should have a long talk when she comes over on Valentine's Day.
But if she offers to break up with him for me, how can I ever trust her to stay with me?
I'm just really fucking confused right now. I've never felt happier because the thought of this girl just makes me feel so happy and good. On the other hand, I've known this guy for 8 years and I could never look him in the eye if I did shit behind his back. And the fact that I'm so happy about knowing this girl makes me sick to my stomach as well, because he's my bro and deserves his happiness.
I don't even know what my question is, I'd just like some advice from ANYONE on this problem.
If necessary I can elaborate more on the story, but this is the gist of it.
Thanks a lot in advance.
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If she wanted to be with you, she would break up. Until that happens, stay the fuck away. If it ever happens, stay the fuck away for a while anyway.
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If you want to keep the "bro code", the pure act of accepting her into your apartment is dangerous, you should come off with an excuse and avoid that. Or if you want to fuck her just do it, at least be honest about your intentions.
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>My bro knows about this as well and seems okay with it
how do you know this? Can you get more information on how he feels about this?
They could have an open relationship. Monogamy ain't the only thing out there op.
in any case, get out of this "bro code" mentality. The situation has to do with honesty between consenting adults, not some secret no-girls-allowed club
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Dating reality between sexes
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Today while I was chilling over at my gf dorm, I made a tinder account for my gf roommate.
I picked the hottest photos she gave me and I made what I would think would be an attractive bio.
Although she is kind of attractive, I wouldn't say she was even a 8/10. Yet I swear, in less than half a day I got over 100 matches and tons of the horniest replies I have ever seen.
I knew dating was different for women, but damn you would have to be Brad Pitt to get this much attention from girls.
For a girl, you just have to be like 7/10 and a horde of horny men will surround you
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Indeed.
Was there a question
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>sex requests
>dating
Fuck off to /r9k/
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>>17863619
Why do you think women have such inflated self views? A 5 can throw up a few filters and make an instagram about them doing nothing and get thousands of potential mates many of who will just straight send money if she asks for it. Women play life on easy mode and cheat codes activated. In today's society a woman who is a failure had to actively self sabotage repeatedly on a daily basis for years. It's a shame but it's very difficult to actually respect women once youve gotten to know their world.
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I am a completely depressed person, I want to change. I can't talk about my feelings to my family or friends. I've tried to with my mother but she dismisses it and tells me if I go gluten free everything will magically get better. I can stay in bed for weeks, just self loathing which I know is stupid. Last semester I nearly dropped out of school because I was drinking every night and missing class. I want a boyfriend, but I can't seem to relate to anyone and I have an intense inferiority complex. I've pushed so many people out of my life and I feel angry. What can I do?
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One step at a time: First, complete your education/training for a job. Nothing else matters if you don't do this. A job is the way in which you enter "the world": it determines your social life, how you interact with others, what your lifestyle is, and what you can do going forward. No job, no life.
Second, when you're able to support yourself, get interested in something. A hobby, a subject, a task, anything. Relearn what it's like to be enthused. This will be fulfilling for you, but it will also be a start in making you "well rounded."
Third, no need to dwell on your suffering. Other people don't really care, so why should you? Every moment you spend feeling sorry for yourself is wasted. Every moment you spend hating life is wasted. If you want to start loving life, you have to start by making it something worth loving.
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>>17863516
These things determining my worth seem so minuscule in the long run. Getting a job and wageslaving away for the rest of my life seems more wasteful. And I've always been an outcast, joining the workforce will just reaffirm this. I'm always the one people laugh at. I'm basically the Jeb Bush of life
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>>17863536
Deep in space, all stars seem miniscule.
Getting a job that means nothing to you can be wasteful, especially if you don't make an effort. But the perfect is the enemy of the good: Getting a crummy job is still better for your well-being than being depressed in bed. The hangups you have with being a loser aren't always imagined, but they are self-reinforced. New coworkers or new friends won't think you're a loser until you do losery things in front of them. And even if they do think that, does it really matter? Eventually you'll probably leave them behind for a new job, too, or you'll get married, or your life will turn out well. Regardless, their opinions have exactly as much effect on you as you let them.
Met a girl on tinder, got conversation rolling fast, 8/10 geek. Arranged a date after our school semesters were over and before she went on vacation. Started with the bookstore and Vietnamese and bond over bad anime and Nintendo games.
But then I had stop by home to drop something off and wanted to come in and saw this.
Rest of the date seems smooth, conversation keeps going, stop by an ice cream shop before a movie we both liked, and she was too embarrassed to hold hands or huddle during, I didn't push it. Start to head home and she said it was the best date they had in a long time, told me to get in touch when I wanna go on a date again. Hugged and wished a good night.
I shot them a text the night after asking a question. "Read 20:36"
Two days later.
Shot another text this morning, "Read 10:48"
Told them to have fun on their trip tomorrow, "Read 15:00"
And I later checked Tinder and it looked like their account disappeared, they said they never liked the app, was about to get rid of it. I still can't help but feel that they were uncomfortable about how my apartment was kept, and don't want to think they were lying, and are just busy. Did I fuck up?
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She probably just met a different guy anon when she didnt want to touch you in the movie was when you should have known it was over. Also thats a disgusting amount of garbage. If you live in filth people associate you with filth. Clean the fuck up
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>>17863548
There was a close hug and the rest of the apartment is clean if that means anything.
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>>17863555
>the rest of the apartment is clean if that means anything
Who gives a fuck, that is disgusting. Seriously.
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Has anybody who excessively masturbated all their life experience penis shrinkage? I'm curious because mine looks like half the size of a thumb now. Does anybody have any ideas how to restore it or even make it bigger?
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>>17863412
stop masturbating you fucking retard. Have some self-control, it'll serve you well in literally every aspect of your life
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>mine looks like half the size of a thumb now
if this doesn't help people feel better about themselves, I don't know what will
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>>17863412
There is no technique or pill that will make your penis bigger. If there were every man on earth would know about it and wed all have 12 inch mandingos in our pants
>have small group of friends
>they only invite me when their plans don't work out
>none of them even share the same interests as me
>drop insults here and there about what I like despite the fact that I don't bust their balls on what they like
>unable to get girlfriend because I'm shy and awkward around girls
>friends always nag me about not having a girlfriend
>don't even try to set me up with someone or work up my confidence to ask someone out
>family always asks why I'm always spending time by myself instead of with friends or a girl
>I'm ashamed to tell them of my social life so I just lie and say things are okay
I have no idea how to get out of this situation. I didn't realize how shitty this was until my "friends" decided to spend tonight doing something else and not even inviting me.
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You have to ditch them and make friends with other people.
Easier said than done, I know, but it doesn't change the fact.
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>>17863513
This anon is correct OP a friend is someone who lifts you up not shoves you down. Try finding a hobby that you csn do with other people to meet new better friends. If you like a sport maybe theres a local group you can join. For girls you have to be out there to meet them and looking fit cant possible hurt your chances it wont fix your personality but itll make them more likely to gloss over minor flaws.
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>>17863513
Thirding, your friends are shitty, there's nothing wrong with some banter but when it comes down to it your friends should make you feel better about yourself not worse
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Hey male 25 year old brit anon
Other half recently told me im the onli reason she isnt swinging from a rope
Need tips or advice please on how to increase her self worth
She has aspergers if that makes a difference but is coping quiet well with the side effects
I compliment her and treat her like a princess but i want her to feelgood in her own skin
Thanks anons
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That her in the pic?
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>>17863397
Different pussy I'm afraid but damnnn if i was a male cat id tear that ass up... right?
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She will need to make genuine connection with other people (friends). From there on she can work on herself by pursuing a goal of some sort, whether it is career,education or hobby based. Goals are incredibly important for a well adjusted person.
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Is it possible to get out of the mindset that you're worthless? How do you give yourself worth?
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>>17863375
Well, everybody is worthless on a certain level, it all depends on your definition of worth.
>How do you give yourself worth?
Most simple way is to do things. Like actually doing something, beyond consuming media.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O3CeD4nohlw
Corey Wayne is the fucking man.
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>How do you give yourself worth?
Do things you enjoy. Set a goal and accomplish it. Hang out with friends and family if they make you happy. Play with a dog..
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Do girls feel rejection the same way guys do? 2016-12-16 10:37:05 Post No.17863365
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Do girls feel rejection the same way guys do?
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Srs. I always hear about guys being devastated that a girl dumped them but I rarely see girls crying over a guy except in movies.
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girls dont cry, they eat cake and black cock to cope.
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>>17863365
>I rarely see girls crying over a guy
It is clear that you have not been around girls much
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>>17863365
It's just they don't come here to lament all that often ... Then again, them having a pussy and tits/ass getting some new attention isn't hard in most cases
>third year of high school (am 18)
>there's this girl I like, we sit together in physics and she's really smart, much better at physics than I am (I'm mainly doing physics to be with her)
>we get along good but have never met outside school
>We were supposed to be a pair in 2nd year ball, but she didn't want to with the excuse of the hassle of loaning a dress, having to delay certain courses and such
>She's really shy with strangers but can be slutty with her friends
>I don't really have any friends in the school, some think that I have a rich social life since I hung out with some loud and funny people until they dropped out and I look like a junkie
>One of her closest friends knows me pretty well, but keeps her mouth shut out of pity towards me
>Now doing the last physics course with her
>Time is running out and I'm trying to get the most out of our being together
>Realize that I need to ask her out before the course ends to enact my fantasy of having her as a gf
>I really want to ask her out but I don't know how it would all go down
>Will she think I'm a loser and cut it after two weeks?
>Will we be the perfect pair of autists with humor?
>How should I do it after we've been kind-of-friends some three years?
>It's just going to be super awkward isn't it?
>She's not going to say hello to me the rest of the year isn't she?
what do, do I just let her slip away and go to university to fuck sluts
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>do I just let her slip away and go to university to fuck sluts
Yeah, basically, there's no point in getting a gf now. I'm a freshman and never have had gf before because I wad autistic like you. If you stop giving so much of a shit and just go for things life works a lot better
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>>17863385
well shit
Day by day, suicide is looking more and more appealing to me
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>>17863403
Why?
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Associate's Degree in Engineering Science or Computer Science? 2016-12-16 10:33:45 Post No.17863355
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Associate's Degree in Engineering Science or Computer Science?
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Which degree is more useful in finding a job?
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>>17863355
Computer science. You can get to a good leve in programming if you have a portfolio and skills. Engineering you're just fucking yourself, people want to see ideally an MS in engineering for jobs
Do CS
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do they offer a degree in being born white and wealthy ? that is the one you want
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>>17863359
unfortunately im half negro
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my suspicions have been confirmed and my mom has been cheating on my dad, how the fuck do i tell him to man up and leave her? me and my siblings live with them but dont depend on them, but im having trouble thinking of what to say considering how stubborn he is
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Just tell him dummy
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>>17863330
What makes you sure she's cheating and that he isn't a cuck?
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>>17863330
Tell him. Your father doesn't deserve to be a cuck. Let him deal with the situation himself.
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A hot girl with a sort of matching personality just agreed to a date, but I didn't set it. My mental health is really bad at the moment, meaning nothing feels real and I am struggling to fully feed and bathe myself. Any advice here? There are about three or four other very important tasks which I need to be in condition for too. How can I work up my condition fast?
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Whip out your dick and masturbate in front of her. She will be impressed by your confidence.
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>>17863356
okay buddy
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>Do pushups
>Drink lots of water
>Limit masturbation to once a week
>Stop eating junk food
>Watch Corey Wayne videos or something inspiring.