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>>17864142
Peaky Blinders, Narcos, deez nutz

>>17864142
Love is a good one for /adv/

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>>17864142
I liked F is for Family. Bojack Horseman had it's ups and downs but wasn't totally my thing.

Pic also, unrelated.

>>17864108
spoiler: not all women want to:
>have their boyfriend buy them their love
>be expected to give up your career goals to be a stay at home mom

she emotionally connects with the other guy more.
she's right for breaking up with you if you since you seem very shallow.

>>17864118
This guy beat me to it. Kek

you sound like a liar and a loser. calling your self great with no proof. most likely any human would choose the ugly drummer over you because you are actually even more ugly. if you are rich enough to buy people cars, then you must be a real horrid person, she only stay ed with you because you had that money. But all the money in the world isn't going to make a pile of shit any more attractive or taste better. You are a pile of shit.

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that I read some religious books by an author stormy'omartian. This is a nice guy but he is a f'ing moron. I did not think he deserved death so I wished that he would get arrested twice, specifically twice, just to have that on his permanent record. I then blocked his call. A still was fuming at him a year later, so I did a google search on his name, and I saw that he did get arrested, twice. I laughed out loud as it was great justice I felt. My other next door neighbor were horrible blacks , the death of the grandmother had the rest of them evicted. I have two sisters, whom are very rich, but very stupid. I hate them for their ignorance. I had wished death on them many times but they had not died. I do regret having wished that. What I do not feel bad about is all the numerous CURSES I put on them. Specific things where I wish against them because they were mean to me. The older fat one had liposuction done, I wished she would immediately get fat again, she did. The younger one I wished that her boyfriends would dump her. Whenever they yell at me, I just wish for something specifically bad to happen to them. I also have this black friend who is a horrible, he is pure ignorance and hate, so I hated him secretly and wished nothing but misfortune and despair upon him, Dominic then got diabetes type 1 and is living in a lifetime of poverty, I don’t want him to die, I just want him to suffer for his sins and beliefs. These are just examples, there is a long list that all came true. I had bought a lottery ticket and made a wish but instead I lost two dollars, so maybe wishes only work if it is for justice or revenge? I am asking if anyone else on the internet has had this happen to them. Where a person can curse other people. I don't believe in curses, and I feel not the slightest guilt, but rather peace and harmony when I see justice and karma. Maybe only those who deserve to die , died? Is anyone here superstitious or knowledgeable about this type of stuff?

Yes. I myself have willed people to suffer before. Unfortunately, you yourself have committed various injustices and will soon be experiencing what you have inflicted upon others.

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>>17864103
>>17864104

You ask her what her farts smell like.

wait a while

text her later

giving a woman prompt attention signals to her that you are desperate and worthless

women never respect worthless males and for good reason

>>17864096
"Hey, Femanon. How're you?"

You should ask yourself what you're doing wrong in your life, now that you've gotten to the point where you're trying to get a rise out of kids on 4chan by making up cuck scenarios.

>>17864092
ask him why he's ignoring you

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>>17864099

Kek!

>>17864038
you didn't do anything wrong
you should specify you said "one day" not "tomorrow"
and you meant if things keep going well

she's probably just cautious because tinder is full of creeps

>>17864041

well, exactly what I said was

"Hey! I've been thinking, would you like to go out? Once you get your finals out of the way, I was thinking we could meet up and get coffee :) "

You did fine OP, that's the way you go. Better asking out sooner than later.

Also, be aware that people might be on tinder but not imediatly available for a hook up. Maybe she's coming and going with an ex bf, maybe she's extra cautious because of past experiences, maybe someone else asked her out before and now she's focusing on him, who knows?

But you did good, she's to "blame" for not accepting, you did nothing wrong

I do realize I sound like a whiny bitch in this

Gotta be 18 to post faggot

UNDERAGE FAGGOT, GETOFF 4CHAN. REPORTED!!!!

Now that we've got that out of the way...

>I don't know how to tell people to stop the small stuff
>"hows the weather up there"
"I think it's gonna rain" <unzip pants>

Ok, that might be a bit too much. But seriously, just man up and come up with a good response.

>Is there anything that I can do to make it stop, like sometimes I think about just punching them, but I know better than that (Plus that won't help with the online bullying)
As someone who has been bullied before, my personal experience is that a good punch in the face does, indeed, help. Some people just need that.
It'll probably help with the online stuff too.

>>17863974
we aren't your personal army
stop being so petty

why did you have a free pizza though
and how could he have stolen it

>>17863974
Spider-Man's black?

Yeah, that's why I said "please". If you order 6 times, you get a free pizza. I order pizza for my team at work once a week.

>>17863915

Stop doing drugs.
Start a sport, like martial arts.
Try to engage in social work (helps with depression)
Don't fap for a few months (it's not a meme).

Join the Peace Corps.

I'm fucking serious. I was pretty much where you are now after college. I had two college friends I saw regularly, one more from high school I saw occasionally. And for the record, neither of those two college friends talk to me anymore. I was working retail for $9.40 per hour. I graduated with a liberal arts degree and a B average from a mediocre state university. And I'm literally borderline autistic - as a child, diagnosed PDD-NOS and ADHD. I didn't even really want to go to the Peace Corps, but it sounded good when people asked what my plan was. I figured I wouldn't get in, and then I could start a punk band, maybe get a journalism degree, try to make enough money to eat and not be homeless.

Well, I got into the Peace Corps, and I had a fucking awesome time. Yeah, the food was terrible. But I learned how to write grants. I got to work with farmers and help starving kids. I went to the craziest parties you could imagine with other volunteers because half of them are crazy hippie nature freak alcoholics (the other half are DC-destined ladder climbers, though), so we'd get insanely wasted, get into wrestling matches, ride on the tops of tour busses to travel... I smile just thinking about it. And between all the parties and the community work I was doing in village, I learned to socialize. I'm still not the most graceful, but I can put on a good face and be well liked when I try. And I got to travel through African forests and deserts with just a backpack, and sometimes a friend, which was pretty fucking cool.

Then, when I got out, I discovered everybody loves the Peace Corps. I got a low monitoring position with the UN for a few months, and got my pick of colleges for grad school. Before the Peace Corps I was thinking I'd pray to get into a journalism program at Arizona State. After the Peace Corps I got a big scholarship to study foreign policy at Boston University, where I'm literally learning from diplomats. One more post coming...

>>17863970
Other friends I was in the Peace Corps with who didn't do any better than me in undergrad wound up doing grad school at schools like Columbia and Johns Hopkins.

You're probably going to look at this and come up with some arbitrary, stupid reason why you can't do it. But if, by some weird turn of chance you do decide to, it'll change your life.

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>>17863914

You are only as good as the people you attract. So look at yourself and ask why you're going for these girls and why you like mentally unstable people.

You're not catching anything; you ARE the catch. And you're an easy catch with no standards. You're probably desperate for sex, which is exactly what guttersluts provide. Sex is of extremely high value to you, so you spend as much time as possible with the women who provide it, so you get stuck in their web then drained of your life force.

Do you want some /adv/ice? Lift run jog and practice your social skills as if you were an RPG hero religiously practicing your swordplay before the story starts. You need to hammer this shit like a medieval blacksmith hammers armor; all day every day until it's done.

As your value and confidence grow, you'll naturally steer yourself out of the gutter. You know I'm right when feminazis start throwing their usual temper tantrums about me.

>>17863909

1. She was in love with you and isn't anymore.
2. She thinks you are in love with her, and doesn't want you around.
3. She got new friends.

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>>17863909

>So I have no idea what happened

It doesn't matter. People are complicated and unpredictable. Trying to figure out why they do what they do is a pointless exercise. It doesnt change the fact that she, for whatever reason, doesn't want you around anymore.

Move on. Forget about it. You had a relationship with another human being for a period of time and now its over. This will happen to you many times throughout your adulthood. You'll waste a lot of time stopping to agonize over and contemplate every single person''s dysfunctions.

For your health.

>>17863925
>>17863937
Just talked to her and she's mad at me for something I did a while ago so im trying to patch it up with her now.

>>17863836
Thats not getting out of your comfort zone, you talked to one guy you already talk to. Getting out of your comfort zone wouldve been going to the dance floor and dancing with them, starting some conversation, etc. If you wouldve done that you wouldve realized it's fucking nothing and do it more often and be more social in general.

You went out just to be part of the decoration, and nobody in their right minds would talk to a vass

You do that little by little. Go to the next party that has people who have been in this one and start conversations. "Hey I think I saw you in the christmas party. We haven't met though, I'm OP"

People maybe will say they saw you there talking to your friend, tell them straight up that you're not very outgoing for any reason but you're trying to fix that.

It's likely that whoever you're talking too will introduce you to others. Everybody can use a new acquitance, and from that you move your way up to being friends.

>Source: coached my gfs cousing who came from japan into socializing with others, and he got a few friends and his first gf six months later

>>17863836
sounds like you're not really trying. Getting out of your comfort zone means being social, the only way to become more social is to be more social. Holy shit who would've guessed that practicing things makes you better at them?

I've tried talking to him about it, but obviously it's a very sensitive topic. He gets embarrassed and shuts down. Refuses to talk about it. He is in his early TWENTIES. It could be caused by a lot of things. He was an alcoholic for a long time, and recovered soon after we started dating. He still drinks often, but only like a few beers. Nothing crazy. He's also been a cig smoker since he was like 13... which I thought was the real problem. Well he's been smoke free for over a month and still nothing has changed.

It could obviously be performance anxiety too. But that didn't make much sense to me coz early on there were no issues. Maybe something triggered it? (ugh I hate that word... but you know what I mean)

There is also the possibility that he masturbates too much. Supposedly this is a common cause of ED in young men. He does it 3-4 times a week. Look up "Death Grip Syndrome," it claims that frequent jerking off can desensitize the penis making sex less pleasurable. I don't care that he does it, hell I do it all the time, and I don't want to be "that girl" and tell him to stop masturbating...

TLDR Boyfriend is young and has problems staying hard. Idk what the cause is, and it's ruining our sex lives.


I love this guy, and I want to help him. This problem is stressing us both out, but he doesn't want to talk about it. I know it's stupid and selfish, but ultimately I am feeling unattractive and unwanted. I am sure he feels incredibly ashamed and emasculated.

Have any of you experienced anything similar, and do you have any advice on how to help? Thanks guys.

>>17863833
>>17863840

1. Stop jerking off.
2. Do kegels.
3. Stop watching porn.
4. Da cardio.
5. Don't drink.
6. Eat right.
7. Get enough sleep.

None of those are a guarantee of shit.

>>17863854
Thanks. That's pretty much what I've been seeing for recommendations. Any idea how I should approach him about it? He refuses to discuss it even though we have great comminucation otherwise.

>A week later she texts me "hey."
>We talk for a bit, I ask to meet up, she says sorry I'm not ready to talk yet.
>A few weeks go by
>See guy commenting on her recent insta pics saying "hottie." with smirky emojis.
>Look at his insta. She's been liking his pictures, all the way back to March. Before we broke up..
>Message her saying that I want my shit immediately, and I don't want her to contact me.
>"what do you think I'm hooking up with people? lolol"
>Tell her just drop off my things

I don't know when she started talking to that guy, but I know they were dating from July to this week. I follow her on Twitter, and she was tweeting stuff about "never chase what wants to leave." I look at his twitter, and he's tweeting stuff about how he's never going to give up on her and how well they know each other. I'm 99.9% sure she dumped him since I started ignoring her texts. She realized I'm not going to stick around, and she's probably stressed about her final exams, and it all makes sense why she dumped him. He is very immature and an obvious rebound partner.

What bothers me is...I miss her. She changed so much, but those four years we dated were great. She was perfect. I don't know if she's going to go back to her normal self again, but I'm kind of hoping she does and I get a text from her on Christmas. I would ignore it, for sure, because I already asked to meet up twice and she canceled at the last minute.

What should I do? Should I text her Merry Christmas? Her birthday is also January 5th, so maybe I can text her then. I know it's chasing, but I think she is too proud to reach out to me after I gave her shit for receding back to her "High School" self.

Is it a bad idea to text her Merry Christmas or Happy Birthday? When things were good, we talked about marriage, moving in together this year, and we went on a two week long vacation last year that was one of the best times of my life.

I honestly believe if she puts in effort, we could have the perfect relationship, but she's gotten so far from herself and in a way corrupted that I don't know if things will ever be the same. Help. I'm on day 44 of not speaking to her at all, I've gone on countless dates since we broke up, had 12 hook ups from Tinder and OKC, had two short term GFs, one FWB, and I still can't get over her completely. I think about her everyday. She tweets about me, and she looks at my social media. I know she still has interest, but I have strong feeling she isn't going to reach out to me on Christmas. I think she wants me to, but I am so clueless. I have nothing to work with.

I know I made this really long, but it's been six months of not being able to get over her no matter what I do. We were deep in love, then in the course of a few weeks she changed dramatically and everything fell apart.

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Or maybe if I don't text her on Xmas and her birthday, it might trigger feelings of missing me.

When she texted me on my birthday, I was waiting for it. Everybody I knew and loved was telling me happy birthday, but I just wanted to hear it from her. Maybe that's what I need to do....stop myself from wishing her a merry christmas and birthday....maybe....

Well not if you want normal friendships/relationships with people who don't have a deep seated hate for half of the world's population

They have real numbers and facts though and it seems to make logical sense

I have a gf, and when we started having relationship problems I turned to the redpill. I got fucking tension headaches from trying to "maintain frame" 24 hours a day. Just be honest and set boundaries with her. That works way better than playing the fucking bullshit games they suggest.