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>>17944931
They work all the jobs that don't require schooling, and they probably don't live by themselves.

>>17944931

downsizing. its kind of liek living in college. you cant afford to live on your own, so you dont. you bundle up two to a room. even people with reasonable jobs have to share their apartments.

i live in hollywood. my old boss worked in west hollywood. one time i was at his apartment, and it was insanely tiny compared to mine, but twice as expensive. and it wasn't even fancier, same materials, his bathroom was even worse than mind. btu he paid twice as much. just for the location. both of us lived right off the blvd, he was just further west.

point im trying to make is everyone makes some sort of sacrificde to live here.

i shared atwo bedroom apartment in hollywood, it cost 1500 a month. i paid 750 for my share, sublet my second room.

now however the prices have gone up so much that i only pay 400 bucks a month for rent, and sublet my spare room for 1100.

its nice.

>>17944931
Almost every job pays enough. Obviously you won't make enough live in a nice loft looking down at the skyline while jerking off but only a minority can do that either way.

>ywn the feeling of some of your older siblings showing up at your school and everyone thinking you're cool for 5 minutes for having such cool older brothers and sisters.

>ywn pile into a 5 row van mom and dad rented for a vacation

>ywn join in on some harebrained games that your older brothers made up cause they're bored

>ywn never later teach those same hair brained games to your younger brothers and sisters

>ywn be walking in public with entire family feeling invincible

>ywn sit at a dinner table every night(home or public) with many different conversations going on at once

>ywn have memories of whole family splitting up into teams looking for family dog around the neighborhood

>ywn know the joy when one of them finds him

>ywn the feeling when mom spontaneously let's everyone stay home from school and you get to watch tv or play games in your pajamas with your siblings, and one of the older siblings goes to get chocolate donuts and pizzas for everyone

>ywn know the feeling of sleeping on ground by older siblings bed without them knowing cause you had a nightmare

>ywn know the happiness when one night you hear a voice that says 'climb in'

>ywn get cool shirts from older brother

>ywn get to hold cute smaller siblings

>ywn get to dress smaller sibling into the cutest outfits ever

>ywn make stupid home movies with a large cast

>ywn sit up on the roof with family

>you will never be chased up stairs by older brother for hitting him

>ywn have other older brother come out of his room to stop the fight and save you

>ywn know the warm sound of your sisters voice comforting you after your parents grounded you for failing a test that you promised to study for

>ywn never make a giant family-room sized fort

>ywn all gather around a black widow web, each daring each other to to kill it

>ywn know relief when oldest brother comes home from friends, sees us staring at it and kills it like it was nothing

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>ywn drop water balloons from the upstairs window on your brother and his friends

>ywn never push up against the door with your younger brothers and sisters trying to keep it shut against your older brother's pushing

>ywn fight over food

>ywn all have a shared secret from mom and dad about what happened when they were out of town and the oldest brother and sister were in charge.
>ywn grow up with a big, loving family

>>17944930
This isn't /r9k/, you retard. The fact that your life is so sad that you have to brag about having siblings to a bunch of losers on /r9k/ is pretty sad though. Considering suicide?

No fag try being a potter

Do you mind if i spare some time
and give you some advice, with glass of wine.
For a prophet i see with an incredible lyrical ability
for there are many words i see that i cannot comprehend mentally.
for each phrase that you wrote on the page, to google i took to my aid
for each word kinda broke my mental state.
what i mean to say, is that you're good at this word thing, and maybe some positivity you could bring.
In a world where a orange man, is on his way to become a figure of shame, there are people like you, who others listen to, that put faith in humanity again.
Try your best on your great quest, and find your destiny, as i do the same.

>>17944924

good job anon, and it only took you forty minutes!

>>17944905

>killing myself is not an option cuz im a christfag

but christ forgives all sins as long as you ask for forgiveness as you die. jsut admit you dont want to kill yourself

>i cant join a monastery because im divorced

actually you can if your marriage is nullified and proving yourself to be a true christfag will make any priest nullify it.

>cant join military cuz already did

yo uare allowed to re enter the military at entry level and can actually join different branches so lon gas you dont have a tattoo in the wrong spot

>i cant holddown a job

maybe work on trying to hold down a job then.

>prison
>structured enviornment

if by structured you mean the exact same thing every single fucking day, yes, it is the exact same thing every fucking day. but structured tends to also refer to wholesome and prison is not wholesome. therei s nothing structured about wondering if today is the day you get gangraped.

>3 square meals a day

also false. prison meals lack nutrition and are shitty as fuck, cheapest meals possible

>a warm bed

false, it is a cold bed, a very uncomfortable one, and often infested with bed bugs or other issues.

>a lot of time to sit and think

nope. you'll have plenty of time to work and plenty of time to fearfully sit in a corner wondering what the fuck is going to happen next, and plenty of time to listen to the never ending yells of all the real prisoners. but not time to think.

just keep applying, then do your job. its that easy. way easier than prison. just because something is forced up your ass doesn't mean its easy to take it.

i havent been to prison but i live in a prison

>Killing myself is not an option because I'm a christfag.
>It's totally ok to kill people in the name of your country

Long story short: I lost an opportunity for a lifelong caree, have a severely strained relationship with my GF I've been with for 10 years that I'm about to end and I hate my job. I need a fresh start, finding a job is not the hard part, just a cheap and affordable living quarter.

>>17944897

$500 month in vegas will get you a parking spot for a car

do internet search look at those apartment websites

see craigslist for room rentals

>>17944897
Why Vegas?

Don't shit where you eat.

>>17944858
Simple, ask her to grab a coffee nonchalantly.

Ask her if you can grab her by the------I mean grab a cup of coffee with her before or after work. Don't take her to the gas station for the 99 cent cup. Spread you cheeks and get the Star fish Bucks $5-6 a cup fucking.

sorry for the incoherent rambling im onsedatives right now

Don't get involved with the slut.

>>17944845
she understands me so well

>>17944835
You got used for emotional attention. There are aspects of yourself that makes no not attractive, that she does not want to directly address because you're not worth the time. Just evaluate this situation and learn from it. It is Through failure that you will find success.

>>17944835
Don't know how badly you're invested in to her at this point, but it were me, I'd just turn my head and never look back.

If she never come back or talks to you again, you don't have to worry about it ever again

If she does come back crawling, thats a whole other case.

The thing with the "not boyfriend material comment is a pretty big hint at something

Do you have ambition? A job? Self worth? Discipline? Drug habits? Party too much? Too much of a sexual past?

Unless she is a pretty big bitch, I am guessing it is something along those lines that you aren't seeing because at one point she did think you were boyfriend material

>>17944801
Maybe.

Or could mean my "friend that is a boy"

Only one way to find out anon.

She's teasing you.

maybe sh has a boyfriend and she wasn't talking about you?

>being this surprised that employers aren't looking for an automaton, they want someone who gets along with people too

>>17944803
Not OP, I think the problem is it's a very fine balance you need to have between being a happy personable person but also remaining professional so you don't seem weak.

>being emotional at work
kek. that people only see you as what you are, workforce

Hmm. I don't think anyone should be "convinced" into a relationship. Plus she said she's prone to cheating. From far out it seems like it's not worth it. Too much stalling, conversation, overly dramatized past... A good relationship should be smooth imo

>>17944791
That's something I considered. I asked some people I know and some said it seemed weird and others said that it's not so weird (the convincing part). As for the cheating thing, I don't think she's ever cheated. She was cheated on and it kinda messed her up in terms of relationships. I know I'm probably not making this sound like a good idea at all based on the info I'm dishing out but I'm trying to keep it short for people to keep up with

>>17944781

I wouldn't pursue anything with her at least not until later in life when you have both experienced all that you want and both happen to be single. She was kind enough to wave the MASSIVE red flag to you and respected you enough to not get into something serious with you knowing she doesn't trust herself. So respect what she said and leave it alone.

She sounds like she really likes who you are and could see a future with you but the timing is just way off, she wants to be single or date around and experience other people before she settles down with someone.

>>17944749
Start your own donut franchise.
Make it big
Buy out their business
Marry their daughter
Now you're good for the next several decades

If she's beautiful then she has better options than you.

>>17944809
How does that get him free donuts?

>>17944748

If you truly want to go out alone the key is to not act like you're alone, try to introduce yourself to a few people, even dudes early on in the night that way if you see them later in the night you can greet them again and to everyone else it will look like they are you friends.

People split up at nightclubs all of the time, so if you walk up to a girl I don't think anyone would immediately suspect you came out alone and are creepy or something like that. If they ask where your friends are just say they went to a different club, or on the dance floor or something like that.

And lastly, it's a pretty poor place to go alone, music is generally too loud to talk to anyone so your best bet is just getting sufficiently drunk enough and trying to dance with girls that are as tanked as you are.

>>17944748
>>17944782
This. Don't really know why you'd ever want to go to a club alone, but to each their own. Meet up and chat up people around you, if you have the pocket money for it, go to the bar first, and see if anyone's interested. Once you get in the club, there isn't much talking happening over blaring trap and edm.

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>>17944748
>that pic

Have you ever talked to her before at all? You might want to break the ice before just asking her out cold turkey. Do you get to choose where you sit in your class? You could try sitting next to her if possible and try striking up a conversation and asking her to coffee or something.

>>17944720
I can't sit with her and haven't talked yet so I'll try to break the ice but it'll be difficult

>>17944711
Easiest way to starting conversation is by asking her a question on her opinion on something.

buuuump

:(

double sad face