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what jobs should someone with that degree be applying to.

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I dated men before. I always have a thing for girls but never actually dated one. I had a female best friend and recently I don't know what's up between us. I caught myself looking at her when she's dressed nicely and even looking at her breast.
There's always something between us I don't know how to explain, we held hands before, I thought about kissing her or so. We're best friend and she's really fond of me, sometimes I felt really happy cause I'm her priority. Well sometimes I see us acting a bit more than friends would do to each other but again I don't know what's wrong with me so I'm really confused.

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Hi /adv/

Need some opinions on my problem:
Almost two weeks ago, when I masturbated, I had red/brown-ish cum. I think it's because earlier that week I edged a lot and had blue balls (intensively masturbating)

So I looked it up and usually it's not that big of a problem and goes away by itself. But the last two times I masturbated (4th of january and yesterday) it still happened again. I'll just quit for now because I think it might heal faster but I'm not sure.

Anyways, I got a date with a girl this friday and I likely will have sex. How should I go about this? Just use a condom and hide it? What if she wants to do it without, because our relationship looks like something to become serious? (we're both STD free)

Should I maybe still test if the blood is still there on thursday?

I can't find much stories about this on the internet so I'm curious for some opinions or similar experiences. Thanks.

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>be talking to cute shy girl
>can tell she's into me

How do I get her number?

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I'm a decent-looking single guy at a large public uni, one that has a reputation for being something of a party school. I don't live on campus, no clubs start for another 3 weeks (and I'm not sure which ones I'd join anyway), and I don't like parties in addition to only occasionally figuring out about the existence of some. I also do not want to do online dating on okcupid or tinder or whatever (at least not as a first resort) since that just seems wrong.

In these circumstances, is my best bet to just cold approach girls around campus and strike up a conversation that ends in me asking for their numbers? For example, today I talked to three girls on campus at separate points in the day, once out of the blue and twice with a pretext (asking for directions). These conversations each went on for a few minutes about random shit like their majors or why they came to this uni from [X] until they ended. Should I have made an attempt to ask for their numbers during these, or is that just autistic? Note that I don't particularly care if I get rejected 90% of the time as long as there's still that 10%.

If so, what is the best way to do this? A general idea of what to say, at what location is this most likely to work instead of just bugging them, what's the best to tell immediately if I'm just wasting my time, etc. would be extremely helpful advice.

If not, what should I be doing instead if I want to find a date at a uni I don't live at? Just wait for clubs to start and try to find one there?

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I am a Syrian refuge in Switzerland i was very popular among friends and girls when i was in my country but now I'm lonely I learned French really quick and then when it was time to find a job i got fired from every one i got even though I tried very hard now it's been a year without a job i stopped looking and i am very depressed i think about ending my life every day and i have no clue what should i do

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Is it possible to start over new somewhere and just grow weed and sell it?

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I'm a serial cheater. Alcohol is always heavily involved. I am going to AA meetings now but how do I deal with what is broken inside of me that lead me to cheat? How do I get help? I just destroyed the relationship of my life. I am 32 male and I know, a piece of shit, but I want to be better. How?

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I'm tired of my life, a friend of mine died a week ago, his funeral is in two days and it made me realise how short life can be. I want to be more of a free spirit like my friend, he didn't care what people thought about him and he was truly laid back. I'm sick of spending my time on the computer wasting away, spending too much time on facebook, too much time thinking negatively and wasting time on people who just use me. I want to fill my time with things that aren't as materialistic. I feel so unfufilled.

TL:DR
>want to change the way i live
>worry think negatively too much
>spend too much time on computer
>want to be more free

What advice can you give me anon?

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How do I stop thinking about the girl I like? I try to occupy myself but then I remember her.

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If you fuck up with a girl you've been seeing what's the best thing to do to make it up to them so that they'll give you a second chance?

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Okay, imade a bad choice of living with 3 guys i didnt know (im 19, they are 20, 21 and 21). It was kinda my last resort because it was too late to find another flatmates and almost every of my friends are living with gfs. Now, back to the topic.i cant stand those fuckers. Its 3:30 am as Im writing this, and I have classes at 7. I cant sleep because those morons got drunk a bit, and are fucking laughing and throwing shit around like a bunch of retarded kids. Its like that every day. I barely hold myself back to not to slice their throats. They seriously piss me off. They never clean, they rarely go to classes and all they do is sit around in the kitchen and enlarge pile of beer bottles on the counter. They are also the type of guys that would write dick on your forehead while you are sleeping. Neither do they respect me, as im younger, 120 lbs bitch ass pussy. Most of the time they are rude to me and each other. What to do in this situation? Its too late to find a decent room, none of my friends (yeah, whole bunch, like 4) plan to kick out their flatmates. Should i just fucking stab them to death?

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Gonna be starting school next month, but I'm taking 5 classes for 15 credits on top of working 4 days a week outside of school. How should I manage this if I'm working mostly during the night?

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I really need your help /adv/

My dad drank himself out of 2 marriages with 3 children.

I feel that I'm inclining to alcohol as well.

I feel happier after 3 beers. Happier, than I am usually.

I lead normal life. I go to Uni, I have a beautiful caring GF, family, enough cash to get by and have some spare. But every time I go to a pub and have a few beers + few shots, I feel amazing.

wat do? I dont want to end up like my old man. Convince me not to dring please.

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This starts about ten years ago
>Im 15
>lil sis 10
>She has an on-off relationship with guy
>first love, she's obsessed
>He breaks her heart
>I break his nose
>5 years later
>I've started college
>Sis started highschool
>he's back
>He's abusive. . .
>He hits her, and forces her to hug/kiss
>idk why she's with him
>I beat the shit outta him again
>So bad he goes to the hospital, and I go to jail.
>Spend the next 5 years in jail
>Sis won't talk to me at all, not even during phone calls
>Only see her cause mum makes her visit.
>One day she brings HIM
>I be the bigger man
>I call the guards over
>Tell them the situation
>And they politely escort me back to my cell. (Total bros)
>Get out
>Find out they get engaged
>Her and mum fought about it
>Mum knows what's going on
>Also find out he's worse, since im not around to stop it

what do?
Pic related, an accurate re-creation of what my face was like seeing him sit in front of me in jail, completely protected from my fist.

Not only do I have to fix the damaged relationship between me and my sis, but I also have to get him away without being arrested again, because if I ever throw fists at him again, Im gonna finish him.