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Any place like a non profit. Any place like the YMCA, boys and girls club, shelter or missions. That way you use your skills and get paid as you're learning. Apply within the school as tha way you don't have to worry about travel expenses. Good luck!

I applied to boys and girls club and they rejected me because I didn't have experience working in their organization, but I'll try YMCA. Thanks

Only jobs at my YMCA was bus driver....

>>17946548
Smoke weed. Or take relaxation medication.

>>17946561
I feel like drinking at 7 in the morning is bad though. I can't smoke, it makes me too nervous.

You need to get psychological help. You may need to take up therapy, talk it out and maybe need meds. Perhaps it is something you can talk away through therapy or you may need the meds too but you can't let this emotion rule you. It is affecting your everyday life. If anything, earn money to have your own mode of transportation so you feel some sense of control. Let your girl know how you feel. Apologize but also get the work done to resolve this so you can do stuff like this on the fly. If she has real feelings for you she will sympathize and help. If anything you can take sleeping pills or drowsy medicine but the point is to enjoy the ride with her. Good luck!

better go to b with this

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>>17946540
https://www.expressvpn.com/blog/best-onion-sites-on-dark-web/

these are the interesting ones, you can find the edgy ones on yourself

When you see them fucking just join them and shove it up their butt. That should very quickly deter them.

>>17946530
Yes, gay animals exist. Yes they have sexual urges. Who the fuck cares. Unless you tell him to get them neutered, it is not your responsibility who judge them. Theyre fucking animals. Do you literally have nothing going on in your life that this eats up time in your life?

>>17946553
It's more about having these dogs getting cum on their backs/butts then getting it on me or the furniture. That is fucking disgusting

I have to practically live here for a year.

Exercise until you sweat good. Drink a shiton of water daily. You'll be fine.

>>17946518
I haven't smoked since Saturday. And I'd only have to work about it till the 17th

>>17946518
headshops. Or amazon/ebay.

But that doesn't help. I've tried to smoke and pass drug tests while I was getting my CDL and it didn't work.

Best bet is to drink a lot of water, exercise, and stop smoking.

But if your going to try..

The day of the test make sure you go pee before you leave the house. The first pee of the day is the most concentrated

and hope for the best. But labcorp does a pretty good job

If no one's looking at your dick close enough to see the veins, get a fake urine kit to tape to your leg and the tube on the bottom of your your dick with a hand warmer on the bladder

>>17946432
>So my request for advice is, what is a good place/site chat to older women online

Basically impossible nowadays. If such a place with decent success rates would exist it would be overrun with males within months sadly.

Furthermore women nowadays are a lot more aware of the fact that virtually every guy has a thing for milfs/mature women so their standards, even in regards to messing around online, have increased.

>>17946435
Ouch. That sucks.


Well thanks for the reply anon.

>>17946432
Tinder. All you need to do is set your age range to something suitable.

Sounds like a mundane job. You should stick it out for two years, and in the meantime, do some introspection as to what you want for your life, maybe get some training save as much money as you can (live in the barracks?), and in two years, you'll be in a lot better place to make this kind of decision.

>>17946489
Whole my life I wanted to be in the military and when I got there it was terribly boring. and still is after bootcamp. Actually bootcamp was way more engaging.
I got what I wanted for and it sucks.

I spent 2 months just living in the woods, no internet, no tv, no radio, no phone barely any human contact and some books. All I've come up with in that time is that I want to be a freeman, problem is I cant grow anything of my own because no land, I cant create anything because I live in commieblock. Not even any skills to start providing people with my services besides computer stuff any kid can do these days.

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>>17946514
Perhaps you should speak with your retention officer or recruiter. Tell them you're ready to sign up for another two years, but you want a training or development program that will help you stay engaged and learn skills and network and meet people and have fun. Try to get a job on a humanitarian mission. I volunteer for Red Cross and it feels good to help people.

You, person who is snooping through your partner's phone with zero provocation ("we are good atm"), a paranoid action, have a bad feeling, or paranoia, about her.

Just end it. You're not cut out to be in a relationship.

>>17946413

I looked her phone looking for another thing, and I saw that by mistake. Not controlling her communications.

Another option is to swallow my insecurity and let it be, but nah.

And another one is dumping her preemptively.

>>17946370
You don't do it outright, you get a relationship first. Ask her out, go on dates, see if you're even compatible before you go full autism.

You don't.

>>17946377
Wish i knew this before

When guys act disinterested, I feel ugly and unwanted.

>>17946303

no

how tf is some gal going to tell if you're interested ?

you're the male you need to chase her

she is the one who "acts" uninterested until you convince her to say yes or she says no enough for it to sink into your juvenile brain

>>17946303
That's a fucking handsome dude.

Anyway. To me, looking interested > apathetic > desperate and thirsty.

For example, if I see a cute guy while I am eating lunch in a cafè and smile at him, ideally I'd like him to smile back and maybe come talk to me when we're done with eating.
Someone apathetic would not smile back or give a shit about me.
Someone desperate and thirsty would stare at me, come up to me while I am eating, use some shitty pick up line, ask for my number and then send me pics of his dick.

I can see your austism, give it a break, meet other people. If you try something suddenly she will notice and turn you down easily.

You cannot force how people interact, just behave yourself and hope for the best.

>>17946317
Meeting other people doesn't really help when all I want is her. I suppose spending time with friends keeps my mind off of it but it doesn't really help either. I'll just keep chatting with her whenever I can and make sure that she enjoys my company more than she enjoys his. He's awkward and shy so it's not like he'll ask her out any time soon. I really want to drop some snarky remarks about the other guy here and there but it's probably best if I don't

>>17946271
Ask her out? How is that not obvious?

You can't keep her on hold for yourself forever, either make a move or she'll eventually end up with someone else

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Confess with your mouth that he is Lord. Accept him as your Lord and Savior. Pray in his name. Repent of sins. And don't kick yourself forever because none of us are perfect, not one. It helps to confess your sins to other believers, to empty yourself of the evil attempting to claim you through guilt and shame.

Do you have a better explanation for everything? Do you have something else to believe in him?
Sure, maybe everything magically came out of nowhere. Sure maybe aliens created us but who created them? Sure maybe the Muslims are right and our real god wants us to beat women up and crash planes into buildings.

But what do you lose for believing in Christ? Maybe it's hard, maybe it doesn't make all the sense in the world, but at least his lifestyle ideals were good. People can say what they want but his commandment "love others the way you want to be loved" is the best way to live.

Besides even if he was just some crazy guy or didn't even exist, he died for your sins. That means he literally said that every fuck up you make is okay, you can make mistakes, it's all good, as long as you repent. And repenting is not THAT hard if you know you fucked up. At least you know you can move on.

I have trouble believing in him as well but I've experienced a bunch of coincidences in my life that I attribute to him. I find peace in Christianity sometimes. I've prayed and I've gotten out of dangerous situations. There are many things I still don't know but that's okay because I know I will always be looking for answers. And I don't lose anything for believing or at least trying to believe in Christ. I know I may be wrong but it makes the most sense to me right now to believe in him.

No matter how much you messed up you were forgiven when Jesus died on the cross. He WANTED to die that way because he wants you to feel forgiven. He chose to die that way because of the Jewish tradition of a sacrificial lamb and he was okay with it.

It's okay to not know how to pray, my die hardest Christian friends don't know if they are praying properly either.

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>>17946267

protestants are total stuck on jesus because that's all they have - from the scriptures

if trying to figure out some theology by reading 1300 pages of archaic complex text OT + NT then perhaps you could rely on 2000 years of wisdom str8 from the top

look into catholicism, but try to ignore the clown like antics of the current pope, admittedly a weak spot in their theology

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Hey OP

I'm an average looking guy on pretty much every aspect. The only good thing I really had going for me was my hair (and my beard is alright too). But my hair, fuck, I had lustrous long black hair that covered half of my back. Even a lot of girls were jealous of it and would regularly compliment me on my hair.

Two years ago some big acne cysts started bursting on my face, and a doctor prescribed me some really strong medicine (accutane/isotretinoin).

And that fucked me big time, for ever. Just a couple of weeks after I started taking it, I started losing hair like crazy. It's been two years and my hair is STILL falling. I've probably lost around 75% of the hair on the top of my head, and I'm even losing hair from the sides and back too, so I'm not even sure if I can do a hair transplant in the future. I shaved everything last summer, but it didn't look good imo, so I started growing it back and haven't cut it since.

I can keep a decent appearance for now, but it sucks, the thin hair and lack of it is visible in most lighting conditions, and it feels like I'm just trying to hide it sometimes. If I lose all my hair on top, I'll try going for a skullet (which I doubt will work). Either way for now I'm just letting it grow, I always pull it all back now, and we'll see what happens.

But this consumes my mind every day too, anon. It sucks. I'm not ready to accept it and just shave it all forever. Still struggling with it. Good luck OP.

>>17946231
>>17946283
Also, how old are you OP? I'm 25, still in college, and been single for the last 4 years. Which, naturally, makes me even more worried. As males, hair is one of the biological tools we use to impress females, especially in my case where it was super long. So yeah it sucks.

>>17946231
Shave it.

Keep your ID handy. Done.

Don't worry. You'll look old soon.

Post a pic of your face

And do it on fashion board those homos have an answer for everything

>>17946216
unless you're on the top 15% of global male looks, you won't have success.
every girl, even the fat and ugly ones have hundreds of calls.

It's not worth the time and is better to try pickup IRL if you're not an alpha chad.

http://brobible.com/life/article/the-demise-of-tinder/

If you're average you will be competing with hundreds of other males, while females at best give a dozen likes.

there was a guy who spent 6.000 dolars on tinder and got not a single match.

Just learn to do it IRL.

tinder makes women that are 5-6 feel like they're 8-9

>>17946318
i get the feeling you're right, i am pretty average if i'm honest with myself, thanks for the red pill