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How do I pick up a guy at a club or some place? I just feel more comfortable making the first move.
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>>17947331
(Femanon here)
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Use a shopping kart.
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>>17947331
Does it have to be at a club? I go to no clubs but I'd love for a girl to make a move on me.
Other guys don't think the same though and I'm well aware of that.
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How do I deal with this 2017-01-11 10:39:17 Post No.17947320
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>tfw have some asian genes a few generations back
>don't have the most masculine genes because of the mix (still blue eyed, blondeish)
>live in a western country
>white girls don't find me attractive
>fml
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Yes, it's definitely those genes holding you back
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I thought white women were called every mans whore, because they will literally fuck any race of men?
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>>17947328
Not asians desu
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So which is it?
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What does the eggplant mean?
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>>17947316
The answer is simple; don't date 'niggas'.
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>>17947316
black memes is weird. they give the power to the males. while being white its mostly the females who have the pwoer
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How to make a girl like me more ? 2017-01-11 10:18:12 Post No.17947282
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How to make a girl like me more ?
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There's a girl I really like, I would usually date her like usual but the thing is that she has absolutely no experience towards men so there's a lot of things I can't do with her.
I want to make her more and more insterested in me. I feel like she's scared to go out or too lazy I dunno but seems to enjoy when I send her messages
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>>17947282
waste of your time. move on to another girl.
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>>17947282
Step 1: Be Hot
Go to the gym and get a haircut and some good taste in clothes. Get funnier and wittier.
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be misteryous, do not tell her much about your life ask more about hers instead, if you follow this method she won´t know your secrets etc so she will be more motivated to talk with you thus liking you more
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>gf and I have been together for about 10 months (we broke up for 2 and a half months, but got back together, which would've made it a full year had we been together the whole time)
>We spend pretty much every day together
>Says how it's almost like destiny the way we met and have so much in common and I agree (I don't feel like going into detail, but assume we're right and not just being all dramatic)
>Talked about moving in together
>She's said she'll need to learn to love herself so that she can "love me the way I need her to"
>Today, had a shitty fight with my dad (pretty huge family problems btw)
>I talked to her about it, she gave me some advice
>Say thanks and that I love her
>She can't say it back
>She says it's not because she doesn't love me, but because she doesn't know if she does despite us going through a lot of shit together
>And that she's not used to it
I'm annoyed. I've already sort of guilt tripped her without really meaning to, but I'm pissed that after all the shit we went through, after me literally swallowing my pride to be real with her, after me dropping my guard, she can't say it.
I know I can't force people to feel a certain way. But fuck. I feel so fucking embarrassed. I just want someone who I can be honest about how I feel without getting judged, but it feels like I'm asking for too much.
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I can tell you right now that you'll break up within a year or two
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Give her time. It's not important whether she says she loves you, rather whether she acts like it. Some people are not comfortable opening up, but with time it can be worked around. Don't give her reason to mistrust you.
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>>17947286
That's the thing, she definitely acts like it. So what the fuck is the problem in saying it? I've already fucking embarrassed myself by being the first one to say it, what the flying fuck does she have to worry about?
/adv what would you do?
>work at a place that has a break room with amenities to facilitate 60+ people, 30 at a time
>company hires special needs people to clean out fridges, stock paper plates and coffee, etc
>company employee puts up a sign stating that he'll throw away anything not claimed before Christmas shutdown that is not claimed
>shutdown comes and goes
>he threw away bowls, plates, silverware, coffee mugs, etc
>people everywhere are pissed
>thought he meant he would be cleaning out fridge from old food
>his boss and HR dismissed the matter
>what should I do?
>he threw out my stuff
What's a good professional way to handle it and a hilarious way to handle it if that falls through?
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>>17947250
>he'll throw away anything not claimed before Christmas shutdown that is not claimed
Honestly, I think it's fair to assume that this means anything that doesn't belong to the company, including things like plates and mugs.
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>>17947261
Yeah, sorry about that sentence. Didn't realize it was shit until after I posted. I'll concede that he posted signs, but I still don't think that it gives him any right to do it.
For example: I can't post a sign in front of your car that is legally parked in the company parking lot, stating that if it isn't moved within a certain amount of time, that I'll throw it away. There is a proper procedure for getting people's cars moved if needed
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>>17947278
>For example: I can't post a sign in front of your car that is legally parked in the company parking lot, stating that if it isn't moved within a certain amount of time, that I'll throw it away. There is a proper procedure for getting people's cars moved if needed
That's different though. You'd have to have the authority to have your car towed. I'm assuming that the guy who threw away your stuff is one of the employees whose job it is to keep the break room clean, and therefore he has the authority to do that. The fact that his boss and HR have said what he did was fine says it all: it was within his authority to do so.
And really, are they paying you so little that you can't just buy a new cup and plate?
>inb4 "it's the principle!"
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How do I deal with humiliation? It seems that it happened to me a lot since I had a sort of a mental breakdown in fall.
Things like people laughing at me in class or not being able to do something easy because of stress in front of others.
Ironically I strongly crave the respect of others, yet it seems it's always me those things happen to.
I know I should care less, but other than that, how to avoid it?
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>>17947219
Avoiding things- feelings in this case- will only make things worse for you. Trying to ignore feelings will only make them come back stronger than before and overpower you. Are you sure you crave the respect of others or do you crave validation from others?
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>>17947219
learn toget off on it sexually. that way you're never truly humiliated. you're actually just role playing that you are humiliated.
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Let yourself feel the pain of it. Cry, hit things if you need to (not people or animals pls). Then move on.. Let it be in the past and concentrate your efforts on what you need to do today.
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I don't get high often. I haven't smoked in over a year. My tolerance is usually super low even when I 'regularly' smoke.
My SO on the other hand smokes fairly often. couple times a week.
I've decided I'd like to try high sex for two reasons. I want to get more comfortable with his smoking habits, and also I think being high will possibly make me less shy about sex and let me take the initiative with stuff.
So I have this idea in my head that we'll smoke, go to his room, sit on his bed and chat about sex stuff (me wanting to initiate, what we both like, what we both would like to try etc) and hopefully that'll get us both pretty turned on.
but I'd like to make the most out of the experience.
What sort of things could we do that would make the most of it?
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kill yourself
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>>17947203
>making a big deal out of weed
anon pls
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How to Deal with Ostracization 2017-01-11 09:30:21 Post No.17947170
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How to Deal with Ostracization
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Someone used and abused me for sociopathic reasons, and is using their connections to a mutual community we share to ostracize me from said community slowly, but increasingly so. They've made up false rape allegations against me, bullied, sexually degraded me, and harassed me, but no one believes me and I can't get legal help in the matter because I'm a poorfag. No one believes me because they are hiding behind a mask of innocence and manipulating the community's social justice warrior staff's emotions and beliefs to garner and emotional reaction from them to defend them.
I don't know what to do and it's becoming increasingly harder to remain composed and professional when dealing with the community's staff which allow me to remain as part of the community. I have to agree and submit to my reduced privileges to remain even somewhat as a part of the community or risk being kicked out all together loosing everything I've invested in.
The best advice is to just leave the community behind, but I'm too invested to leave, and to do so would make me feel utterly defeated.
I'm having difficulties keeping my anger and sadness at bay, and the worst parts of me just want to see their life ruined, but that would not resolve the issue. I just want my place in the community to be secured, restored, and to not be witch hunted out of somewhere I've invested so much time, money, effort, and emotions into.
I wish I had information I could use against them in court, or find some way to remove them from the community themselves so that the reasons they staff members are using to keep me from being more involved no longer apply.
More than anything I wish that I was proven innocent of any wrong doing and that my identity wasn't slandered by their hateful words and message.
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You want the advice of someone that is going through some fucked up shit himself? Like, a literal conspiracy of a group of people harassing, insulting, and just... fucking with my head for the last few months?
Fuck em'
Fuuuuuuckkkkkkkkk em'
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You seem to already have your answer. People like this can't be reasoned with, and if they didn't trust you enough to doubt this person, you're better off without them. You're only hurting yourself by trying to stay invested in this community. I know these kinds of people, and they are toxic; they'll make your life miserable if you maintain contact with them. I know it's scary to try to make new friends from scratch, but no matter how it goes, you win by severing ties with these terrible people. Good luck.
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>>17947787
This.
OP, just turn your back on them and walk away. Trust me, I've done it lots of times and it never fails.
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I'm trying to write an ex of mine off. We broke up a few months ago after dating for four years. I've been doing no contact for over two months now. Last contact was positive. She basically said she needs time, I said it'd be nice to see you sometime in the future, take care.
She was in a rebound relationship that ended shortly after I went no contact. I never begged or pleaded with her during the breakup, we just had casual contact talking about our day a few times, then I asked her to meet up. She agreed but canceled at the last minute, so I walked away and went no contact.
The thing is I'm trying really hard to write her off and change my mindset to view her as just another person, remove my hopes of working things out in the future. But I can't. I unfollowed her on twitter, don't look at her social media, but I find myself thinking about her daily.
I've had two girlfriends since the breakup, and lots of hookups. Still can't get her out of my head.
Should I stick with no contact even though it's not really working? Should I reach out to her and ask if she wants to meet up for a coffee? What do I have to lose, right..?
Any input would be appreciated. I didn't text her on her birthday which was a few days ago, if that matters.
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I know that feel, so 4 years huh? It could take a few years to grow numb to it. You'll never be 100% over it, but you're dating so that helps tremendously. I'd say be impartial to it, if it happens that she's back in your life fine, but if not so what?
The point is she has no power over you, you're free as it stands.
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Just stop dude. You aren't actually doing no contact. What your're doing is taking a break from contact, but you still have it in your head that you will talk again some day and you keep holding on to that and obsessing over it. You need to cut her out of your life and let go of ever talking to her again. There is no reason to talk to her again. Delete her off your phone, no FB, no social media, no talking about your day ever again.
Your relationship didn't work, time to find a new one and be happy. This girl isn't a super special snowflake that only comes around once in a life time. There are plenty of people you can be happy with, so it's time to let this one go.
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>>17947158
meant to say "you're not actually doing no contact"
So my friend had a PC he wanted to sell, I offered to buy it. No problem.
A few days later my car broke down and I needed the money for new parts. I cant afford to buy his PC any longer.
I told him and he said that's ok BUT I NEED TO BUY HIM A NEW COPY OF WINDOWS because he formatted the hard drive for me. As I don't want to buy it anymore he needed a new copy of windows to make it a functional PC again.
I didn't give him any money for the PC and it was never in my possession. But in his opinion I still owe him money for a new copy of windows.
I told him to fuck off and now he is angry with me and spamming my voicemail.
In /adv/s opinion who is correct here? Me or him?
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>>17947121
kinda depends on the conversation you had.
did he ask you if you wanted him to reinstall windows? did you agree saying it was good to go?
or did you say 'yeah id buy it?' then that night he went and did that without talking to you?
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also why was he going to give it to you without any OS installed thats really weird.
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>>17947121
He should still have his hard copy of Windows that came with pc or backups that literally everyone should have as they take no time to make.
Besides, he wasn't going to be using it anymore anyway, the fuck does he need a functional OS on there for anyway?
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I'm a serial cheater.
I've come to share all my tips and tricks in this taboo subject.
AMA
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I have sociopathy, guess what. Nobody cares
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>>17947092
Is easier to one night stand married girls or single girls? Thanks!
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>>17947095
I know there's an inherent "hey look at me I'm special AMA" vibe to these threads, but hey we're just here to talk and share experiences and learn from each other.
>>17947100
Single girls are sooooo much easier. There's less at stake for them. There's only two times I went after married girls, and even after making out it took months to have sex with just one of them, the other one never worked out.
single girls are:
>single, therefor nobody to expect them home right after work
>fewer commitments
>nobody checking their home or wondering why they aren't home by 9pm
while married girls are
>opposite of above
Save yourself the headache, go after single girls.
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What's a good hobby to start this year ?
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>>17947049
horticulture
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>>17947049
take what you like and reverse engineer it.
reading comics? draw comics.
reading book? write books.
watch movies? make a movie
watch tv? make a web series.
sitting in chairs? build a chair.
listening to music? learn an instrument.
watching youtube videos? make youtube videos.
playing vidyah? make a vidyah.
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>>17947073
drawing comics takes decade to learn. Same for writing books and making movies. I'm not saying you can't enjoy those, but I think you'd need to have a passion to be willing to put so many hours into an activity, they are not hobbies you pick up because you're kinda bored
I fap alot (at least twice a day)
Today I tried to have intercourse with a real person for once (which rarely happens for me). I was fairly nervous during the encounter and I couldn't get it up. Only got mildly soft after trying out different positions. Didn't end up finishing and just got tired.
Should I quit fapping altogether? Will this make me recover from my ED? Or should I just try a stimulant pill next time?
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it might. if you plan to have sex that day you should consider just not fapping. if you didnt fap that day and had that issue, maybe stop fapping the day before.
when i stopped fapping in favor of sex i discovered that icould fuck a girl twice in a row with just a ten minute break.
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>>17947056
I haven''t fapped since Monday.
So my only guess at this point is that porn ruined my sex expectations. Most of the time it felt like i was railing a skeleton. Girl wasn't even that bad looking and had some pretty nice tits.
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>>17947067
maybe. or maybe you were just nervous. or maybe it wasn't right.
I've had trouble getting it up with the wrong people.
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Has anyone here ever gone homeless to get away from their parents? I just can't do it anymore it's not so much their annoying as fuck but they literally time everything so fucking bad
>just wake up
>think well there's no chance anyone is around
>go downstairs in underwear
>dad comes around corner
>this is literally how it always goes
>think well I have some alone time
>start to fap
>dad comes out and stands next to my door for some reason
>anytime I try to fap or have a moment of privacy they come fucking running around the corner to ruin it
>every time I fap I have to put my dick away at least 5 times cause my parents
>every time I fap they come around the corner and my dad will fart burp and make awful noises and ask me questions
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Btw this isn't the worst offense this is just what's happened so far 10 minutes of being awake
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>>17947028
Fucking lock yourself in the bathroom you disgusting pig
What's wrong with you, jerking it in the living room like an animal
Leave the house, I bet they're sick of you as well
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>>17947028
>my mom's dead and i miss her so much i feel like an entire section of my heart is completely voided
>my dad abandoned my family when i was 5 and never showed any interest in me until after my mom died
>then there's this jackass who's taking what he's got for granted cause he cant give his dingle dooper a good ol' slap in peace sometimes