Hello /adv/ Let me fill you guys up with My situation
>Be me, (male) 20 years old. 4th year of law school
>have a (girl) friend who i have a good term friendship
>we Get really closer, and begins a rumor between Us at the college.
>does not Matter, we are friends and thats it. I really apreciate her.
>yesterday she came to My town and we spent The Day together with some friends of her.
>She can't Go back to her house because Its to dangerous to take The bus at the night, so she stays in my place. Not a big thing, Its not The first time.
>My family goes to sleep and left Us alone in the living room watching The golden globes.
>I put My head in her legs and we started to talk about our problems.
>im going through family issues so I really needed to talk with someone of that
>two years ago I though I was in Love of her. But it Turned up to be Just lust.
>I hug her, and tell her that I miss her so much Because we could not see each other often as The old days
>The idea of making Out crosses My mind, but dont do anything and forget about it
>time to sleep.jpg
>She goes to sleep and i Begin to clean everything before Going to sleep
>next Morning I find her Phone and Get access to a chat with several friends of her
>finds Out that she has been talking shit about me, telling her intimate things about me and making fun about it. Describing to her friends The night, and say that she was so lonely and considered The idea of making Out with me. So if I had made My move that night we would ended fucking
>"OMG im glad that anything happened Last night, what an ugly and retarded is anon. besides he is a virgin. He has this stupid idea to wait The right girl, I keep telling him to stop being a pussy, but he is to damn stuborn. What a loser.
>"but I have to admit that he treated me well All The night and he has money so Its a valuable friendship to keep around."
So, right know I feel depressed about it and think that The Best idea is to cut My friendship with her.
My advice is to learn when to capitalize words.
You answered your own question
Hey man that sucks, if someone does that behind your back especially a girl who is keeping the friendship for the sake of her thinking you'll support her, you need to end that shit. Nothing good will come of it and although you might miss her i can tell you that she'll only cause more problems. If you want you could just stop talking/seeing eachother but i would sit her down and talk to her about it. Ask her why the way she is, tell her how uncaring and selfish a person she is, then tell her its over and you cant be friends anymore. I hope you can break off your friendship with this person and i hope you'll find someone who really enjoys you for you, not for benefits or for ur money.
This has been a kissless virgin /b/ro whos up at 12:11 listening to some Blackmill and surfing /adv. I might not have experience in shit about girls but i know someone who will drag you down when i see one. Get better man and have a goof life
erhm, guys...
my bf really likes facesitting. but recently, he asked me to sit on his face and i said "dude, i'm on my period", to which he replied "i don't care".
w-what?
is he insane or am i just too stuck up?
>>17945522
Ewww.
My bf won't even have sex with me when I'm on my period, and I agree. It's yuck.
>>17945522
Lay down a red towel and enjoy.
>>17945528
we have sex anyways. but aiting on his face seems like a whole new level.
>>17945540
come on. that is disgusting. he would eat my blood. and not the fresh kind of "cut my finger" blood but the "cloths of the lining of my uterus" blood.
i gaged a little, writing this
Hey /adv/, what do i do here?
This is the first time i've asked a girl out (i asked her out in person and she agreed and gave me her number) and she's sent me this.
should i give up or is there some other way?
You're fucked mate.
>>17945525
Pretty much this. You put her on the spot asking her out in person and she didn't want to be a bitch so she agreed. Now she sends this while pretending she didn't realise you were asking her out romantically so she doesn't come off like the coward she really is.
>>17945520
Give up. She's tryna let you down in the nicest.way.possible. Accept it.
MY DICK
Hey /adv/ i have some problems with my girlfriend and wanted to ask you guys some of your own perspectives on what im passing through.
She dumped me a day before New Years Eve. She said we were going different paths with different goals, and that both of us had problems that couldnt be solved. I cried a lot that night and i had one of my worse New Years Eve ever.
From that day up to now, we've been talking erratically, she deleted me from facebook, then added me again, then stopped talking to me. And when i was the one that told her about her problems and started doubting about everything, she blocked me again.
I've asked several of my friends, and even family, and they say she is manipulating me so that i do whatever she wants.
She is the first girlfriend i've ever had, and we've been dating for almost three years.
Now, she said she wanted to go back and be together again, but now, with all the fighting and arguing we had these last two weeks (and some other shit she did to me in the last three years) im kind of tired of living like this.
On one hand, i like her and i dont want to hurt her. But on the other im kind of "dissappointed" and hurt with how she is treating me. And i know she wont change what i dont like about her and neither do I.
What would you do in my position /adv/?
Thanks in advance to everyone that answers this.
Pic unrelated.
Go no contact. If you get back together the same thing will happen again.
>>17945500
I never understand how some guys put up with this shit. Just stop talking to her completely. She's a cunt, and there's plenty of other girls in the world. Go find someone who cares enough about you to not treat you like trash.
I think she might have cheated, its the only reason I can think of as to whether she wants back after a short time. I would nope it.
I used to be a virgin until about half a year ago and didn't know much about condoms. So I did a lot of research online and tried different comdom sizes. The sizes I found in random supermarkets were mostly 52mm or 56mm. When I practiced on my own, I feel that the 52mm fits better.
Now recenty when I was having sex with my girlfriend, one of the 56mm condoms tore and I don't really know whether we just did it wrong or whether it was too big or small. Luckily, she isn't pregnant, but I decided to look it up again and found those condoms that have more different sizes and they also have this paper thing you can print out to measure your width and it says 64mm for me. Does that really mean I need 64mm even though I felt the 52mm fits best? How do you approach this? Do you just buy random condoms?
What's more important to you? You liking the the condom fits or the condom actually working?
Well the condom working of course. But shouldn't one that works also feels good because it neither too big nor too small?
>>17945565
Have you tried the 64mm condom on to see how it feels?
Just saying the condom should be on tight but it doesn't have to be like a second skin or anything, It definitely shouldn't be so tight that it rips.
I've had a stuffed nose for the better part of a month, with thick, goopy mucus, that often smells bad and clogs my ears.
I don't have health insurance. I've tried over the counter mucus reliever to help, but I hasn't fixed it.
Is there any way to fix this without antibiotics? If not, how do I get antibiotics without going to the doctor and costing myself a couple hundred bucks? I start my new job in three weeks, but won't have insurance for three months.
>>17945429
antibiotics dont cure stuffed noses. sounds like you either got a strong cold or a weak flu.
wehn i get sick the couch lingers for months. keep waiting it out OR go to a free clinic
anti biotics are specifically for infections.
>>17945453
I'm pretty sure it's a sinus infection/sinusitis. I have this problem most of the time after a bad flu - which is what led to this feeling. Normally, antibiotics clear it up in a few days.
>>17945464
then orer some online, just be careful
Recently, I lost pretty much all my best friends due to arguing about stuff. (I called one friend out for being a hypocrite, he got pissed, friends took his side, everyone said "fuck off" to me essentially). I'm having trouble talking to people, I don't find interest in things I usually do, I'm eating and sleeping less than usual, etc. I'm not one to diagnose myself with shit I don't have, so I thought I'd look for outside help and stuff. How do I get rid of this feeling of emptiness and shit? How do I go back to normal? I mean I think I've accepted the fact we aren't friends but I still feel this way. Help!
>>17945421
What was the discussion about
>>17945425
Friend of mine and I didn't talk for a few days, he got pissed about it, I reminded him that he ignored me for months at a time. Rest of my friends took his side. Fighting escalated, more arguing about shit, then we stopped talking all together. In the first month, I was the saddest I've probably ever been my whole life, I had no friends, nobody to talk to after work and shit, and it really fucked with me.
>>17945421
loving someone means loving their flaws, and that includes friends not just romantic partners.
my best friend has flaws. namely, hes very reactive. the man would never do a selfish thing if he gave it a moment of thought, but he is very in the moment and sometimes can't see beyond what he wants to eat for lunch.
and i am no better. I have many many flaws that he puts up with. but thats what love is. two people loving eve nthe bad parts of each other.
all this being said, if ALL your friends left you over this, there's something seriously wrong with you or you're not telling us the whole story.
She just told me. This happened before we got together. He was one of the leaders of a local music festival, and she randomly ended up in his tent. He had a hard time finishing because of the alcohol, and in the morning he watched her having a pee before sending her home. How do I deal with this? I'm her only other sexual partner, and he doesn't know I know.
>>17945416
Wow. I don't even know what to advise here. That really sucks.
>>17945416
How old are you?
This is bait
Been lurking here for a while, looking at threads about social anxiety, about finding girlfriends and such. Even the amount of threads about virginity I've looked at concerns me. But over the past few weeks, I've come to terms with the fact that I'm alone.
I always try to trick myself into thinking I have friends because I talk to people online and I go out sometimes to do important things, but besides that I have no one to share my experience with.
I no longer crave sex, crave love, or crave a girlfriend, I find myself only craving a simple friend, who can relate with me, laugh with me, and have fun with me. I don't care if it's a guy or girl, my only care is that we have a connection that mutually binds us.
The reason I simply just want a friend is because I'm tired of sitting in my dorm alone, not talking to anyone, just with myself and my thoughts. I find lately I don't even want to go onto the computer, I just want to sit on the floor with my back on the wall, legs straight out, and think about my loneliness. I've even begun creating these scenarios in my head about having friends and hanging out, getting drunk, and just having a genuinely good time.
I'm becoming scared my loneliness is going to be my undoing mentally, I believe I'm beginning to go insane. I've caught myself on several occasions having conversations with myself in my room this week. My mood is beginning to swing like crazy, and I'm developing strange mannerisms.
I began meditating twice a day to keep myself sane and to not ruin what little of a personality I have left. I'm asking you guys for the first time to help me, I need friends...
>>17945400
Dude, you need better advice than you can find here. I suggest your student medical centre. This could be a bit more than feeling alone.
>>17945400
What do you do on the PC? /v/? /a/?
>>17945404
Maybe...
>>17945406
I have a group of online friends I've been in touch with for like 2 years, we went from console to PC and just play steam on occasion.
As a kid i had a mother that didn't push us to brush our teeth, that lead to me having some pretty fucked up teeth, but when i was 8-now i realised that not brushing my teeth was a stupid idea.
My teeth are still pretty firm, can't feel any wobbling but some of my teeth are grey around the edges, i've been keeping full on blackness (no racism) at bay since i was at 8.Is there anyway to un-blacken or reverse tooth decay?
>>17945361
well no. decay literally means its rotted. the teeth cannot grow back. do you see a dentist?
>>17945371
boi i can't even find a dentist, as a kid i was afraid of the dentist i had so we left and ever since then i couldn't find another one.But i mean if you know a place that isn't full and is free, go right ahead and tell me, i live in the UK by the way.
>>17945361
if your teeth are rotted out then you'll need major reconstructive surgery which can range by a very large margin, dental insurance is a good idea.
if you're poor then you just have to keep brushing and keep your mouth clean always...
but i'm sure yo u at least have some cavities and the longer you put off getting your teeth sorted the worse it will be.
Picture of our conversation attached for reference. I'm blue, she's pink. I started messaging her this afternoon and found that she was responding pretty promptly -- just as quickly as I was, if not more quickly. Her responses weren't exactly stellar though, so I figured she probably wasn't too interested. I didn't see anything to lose in asking her out, though, so I did. Much to my surprise she gave me what I think is a pretty enthusiastic "yes". But then she goes on to not give me her number yet because she didn't feel comfortable enough yet. The message you see at the end of the attached image is the end of the conversation; I was going to attempt a reply tomorrow afternoon.
Tomorrow I was going to try and ask her out again, but without pushing for a phone number. Is there any chance of me getting a date out of this? And if you don't think there is, why do you think she'd respond positively to me asking her out in the first place?
>>17945344
>I was going to attempt a reply tomorrow afternoon.
too eager dude
wait until Thurs at earliest or evenFri and ask if you can take her to lunch Sat
god damnit. i knew girls sometimes fail at maintaining conversations. but i never knew they fail THAT hard. she never asked you a question ONCE. just to ask what you find artsy...
i dunno. she seems very selfabsorbed. you sure you want to try to CONVINCE her to go on a date with you?
i mean, it depends ok what you want out of this. if it's just sex, push further. if you want more, this one is stale porridge with no sugar. eww
>>17945344
You blew it. You do realize that females get around 20-30 messages an hr, if not more if they're just decent looking. Sometimes, you get lucky and you're both on at the same time. That's when you strike and go in for the kill.
Most of the time, when you try to chat at a later time, you'll find that the hundreds of messages she gets from other guys will bury yours into oblivion. From the plain run of the mill conversation you just had, she'll most likely not even bother to look for you. Your conversation sucked dude, it was plain as fuck. She was probably bored and wasn't bombarded when you hit her up. Good luck though.
I am >>17936836
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/adv/ advised me to text a guy I like to ask him how he's doing, since he has seemed stressed lately.
I sent the text a few minutes ago and haven't heard back yet. Kind of regretting it now.
What's the worst that could happen?
>>17945324
>few minutes ago
give him time to remember who you are :)
he might be driving or eating or phone is turned off
really sending 1 txt does not commit you to much of anything
>>17945329
Eh, I have to see him twice a week. I kind of feel like initiating contact is admitting something, which makes me vulnerable to rejection, which I've dealt with too much of lately to deal with again right now.
I just became an adult and was wondering, what would be a good way to get started in life so that I could move out of my parents house as quickly as possible?
>>17945303
go to school
>>17945310
okay, what about practical methods?
>>17945314
stay at your parents, get a job at fast food, retail, grocery store stocker whatever
save up $$ go to college get a degree get a real job make more $$
etc etc
does anyone feel like the world just doesn't have anything to offer them?
I'm genuinely uninterested in buying things, and similarly have non interest in having money for the sake of it
I can't find work where I am respected, my last two employers under-payed me; my current employer lied to me to get me to join
I'm not really interested in women like I used to be, as I get older they all seem used and are just as shallow and mercenary as they always were
there are some really nice girls out there, I'm just not drawn to them
my family are fragmented, many I dislike; I'm not inclined to become more involved in their lives
can't say I have any real interests, passions or goals; all the things I want are very much of the "two front teeth" variety
Is that all there is?
Is that all there is?
If that's all there is my friends, then let's keep dancing... let's break out the booze and have a ball... if that's all... there is.
-Peggy Lee.
>>17945301
Sounds like you've been disappointed your whole life and you've thrown in the towel. Moreover you pretend and trick yourself you don't care, but you really do care. You only pretend you don't because deep down, you know you can't obtain anything, which is why you've thrown in the towel.
>>17945301
it seems that you think that the interests of a basic bitch equate to all the world has to offer.
maybe look beyond that.
Is 19 too old to start a bachelors at uni?
My only choice is to live on campus and i feel like i might not get a long so well with everyone there
Are you retarded? No, 19 is fine.
>>17945278
You do realize most people transfer from community college at age 20+
>>17945278
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nola_Ochs This woman graduated at 105. I'm pretty sure you're alright anon.