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Being ghosted by this chick I really liked- I know for a fact I did absolutely nothing wrong she's either dead or one of those random manic pixie types. Its bothering me a bit because I really liked her initially
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Bemp
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>>17948227
I always ask myself
>can I really like someone who doesn't like me?

The answer is clearly no, then i'm able to start letting go. Meeting another girl speeds things up quite a bit.
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>>17948263
This is how I usually think, its just that the last conversation we had went really well, she was really nice and affectionate and called me stuff like "sweetie" it'd be a complete 180 out of nowhere if she suddenly didn't like me

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How do I become the degenerate who fucks, not the degenerate who's trying to fuck
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>>17948216
Become a drug dealer
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>>17948216
Step 1: Stop using words like 'degenerate'
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>>17948216
Money/drugs
/thread

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Hey, 4Chan. I just decided to find out what this is, maybe become a part of it. Have no idea how to get involved.
Anyone have some tips or advice for a newcomer to 4Chan?
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Kill yourself, retard.
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>>17948178
Lurk more, and always deny that you're new.
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>>17948178

Escape while you still can. Not kidding, leave, you'll regret it if you don't.

I quit smoking about a month ago, and i already feel better, i don't even like the smell anymore, it makes me nauseous.

ITT: we motivate each other to quit our bad and unhealthy habits!
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I'm also thinking of quitting parties, just because i don't like the atmosphere of substance consumption that they provide
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I need to quit looking at memes. I've got two books I need to finish reading before the 23rd.
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>>17948177
A good method i learned is selecting a particular meme and forcing yourself to do something (exercise, chores, reading) every time you see it or come across it.

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I'm falling in love with a girl who
>i don't find all that physcially attractive
>is still in highschool (I'm 20, she's a junior, turns 17 (legal) in a month)

Would a relationship work?
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Not long term, no.
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You're both going to change significantly by the time you're 25, but it's probably fine now.
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No, let her be a child.

21 male here and I was wondering what would be a good accessory for my wrist. I was thinking a nice watch or something like that.
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>>>/fa/
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A yu gi oh duel disc is fly r n senpai
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>>17948140
I don't like posting on /fa/ they are very rarely helpful and the things the post are either dumb expensive or just dumb looking.

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What drug (legal or illegal) :

nullifies traditional depression symptoms,

and increases focus and reduces the brain fog that comes with depression. Don't want to go to a doctor and get put on a damn list or get diagnosed with something that will fuck up my life.
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Cocaine
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Fluoxetine
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>>17948125
St. John's Wort?

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So can someone explain why this happens:

Girl A) Blonde, blue eyed, probably around 173cm, nice personality, a bit rowdy in a confident way. Met her at work. Single.

Girl B) Blonde, grey eyed, around 177cm, same description as before. My flatmate. Single.

The question: Why I'm not interested even slightly in the later, even if she'd be interested in me? I'm 183cm.
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Because you're familiar with her. And your activities probably consist of getting and/or staying out of each other's way and living your average boring home lives.

Your co-worker is someone you mix with in an entirely different way. You both share something your flatmate doesn't share with you, a hard day's work. The excitement of the atmosphere probably sparks better chemistry than seeing the person you go home to when you've already exhausted yourself.
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>>17948082
People are different regardless of generic stats of their descriptions??
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>>17948097
But we'r a huge warehouse, I don't really know her at all, just that she's San Jose Sharks -fan, which I find adorable.

My real question is: what makes some people fall for other people by just looking at each others eyes, by, or for no reason?

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Hey guys,

So here's the thing in tl;dr. My current girlfriend was raped by her now-ex. See she was saving herself for marriage, and bam. that ugly faced dick-wad tapped her. Now my question is this, seeing as the police investigation is not getting anywhere - what's the best way to serve justice? (no, i wont send him 30 pizzas.)

Know any legit hacking groups out there that can "make him confess" on facebook or some shit like that? Or do i just beat his ugly mug.
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How would hacking groups make him confess? I feel like you're a little delusional about your options beyond what the police have done
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>>17947996
You must be 18 years or older to use this website.
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>>17948005
>>17948003
You guys are right, i was a bit delusional. Sorry about this thread. Just really exhausted.

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lost my job offer

>be me
>poorfag, comp sci degree
>8 months, 200 apps sent
>various interviews with different companies
>get job offer after 6 rounds, 2 month process
>moving to ny working for the military, 100k job
>prepare to go, spend money getting an apartment
>they do a investigative background
>find out ive been arrested once 3 years ago.
>i had already told them about it at the start, no problems
>literally a cop was being an asshole as I'm hispanic in a rich part of town
>nothing ever came of it, no charges
>a few weeks before I'm supposed to go
>they take back their offer
>i told everyone i was leaving already and mentally prepared, packed my bags, etc

I'm crushed /adv/. I don't know what to do now. I want to crawl into a hole and never show my face again.
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>>17947994
>>literally a cop was being an asshole as I'm hispanic in a rich part of town

Sounds like you're only telling us your version of the story. I find it hard to believe that they would rescind a job offer over an 'arrest that didn't lead to a conviction.'
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>>17948022
Many jobs will, especially if this was acceptable in the recruiter's eyes to continue the process and it was then deemed not acceptable by someone in the final hiring chair.
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>>17948022

I gain nothing from making it up. Not only did I not get convicted I did not even get charged.

it is a job that has different standards than private sector ones. i was extensively investigated through every stage of the job.

I feel totally frustrated and empty and lost. I'm too late out of the game to get another job.

I don't know what to tell everyone around me that I said my goodbyes too.

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what's the best way to commit suicide so that it looks like an accident?
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Not making threads about it online and just fucking doing it.
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There are other ways to deal with life than to throw it away. It's not worth it.
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Lmao drive off a brige cunt
Do a flip

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How do I learn to accept change? I've come to the conclusion that I'm afraid of most types of change.

For example, my girlfriend wants to switch to short hair, of course I didn't tell her no, but I began feeling a sense of panic, and felt as if though this change meant the ruin of my relationship and that it was a sign that she stopped caring about my opinion on her appearance. A completely unreasonable response, right?

I cannot bring myself to meet new people or make new friends. Even though all of my old friends have left.

I try to maintain the same political opinions, even though I disagree with them.

I don't know what to do, or why I'm so afraid of change. I've ignored it up until today when I became upset and overthought something as simple as my girlfriend making a relatively small change to her appearance.
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Humans are hardwired to resist change.
Dont feel the need to accept change just because you are pressured to do so
If you are happy with the way things are there's no point in forcing change for the sake of change.
If you need new friends try to meet people in a way that doesnt seem intrusive to you and doesnt feel like radical change but rather like gradual progression.
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>>17948076
But is it normal to resist it to the point that I become upset when my girlfriend changes her hair length? I just feel as if this isn't normal.
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>>17948123
Everything's normal. Everyone just does things to different limits. Everyone has oddities. Just work out a way that it doesn't disrupt you too much, that's the point.

Go to a psychiatrist and tell him that. He'll label you with something and give you pills and tell you to come back to him. Why? Because that's good business to him. You're the one that came to him and you said "I'm abnormal".

You can't micro control your feelings.

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What is a college level workload like?
I dont mean community college i mean a four year uni in the STEM fields.
How many assignments do you do a day?
Are they difficult/time consuming?
Can you give some examples?
Can you/should you slack off on them?
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High school is a fuckin cake walk compared to college is all i can tell you
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It honestly depends more on you than what you're studying.
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>>17947970
>britbong UoN CS student

Depends on the degree.
Some like Phys has a very high difficulty and workload, cs and engineering are not always as tough, but still have high workloads.

A Levels for me were as difficult as uni, uni just took more 'effort'. You can become really efficient if you are smarter and have done similar work before.

However even with a social life and vidya you can more than easily get a first in your degree, because you generally never have more than three projects to work on at a time, and on average you have a couple of weeks to do them. I'm sure universities will also vary a lot..

Finally, you can slack.. early on. Usually the first year of college/uni just requires you to pass and does not influence your final grade. Don't slack on content you like, or want to continue studying in the future.

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Now that backpage is shut down where can I met escorts to put my penis in?
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Girls are easy to fuck these days. If you can't find anyone willing to fuck you, then I suggest you work on yourself before looking for more hookers.
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https://twitter.com/ElizaAllure/status/818886352838086656

never tried it myself, but there you go
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>>17948027
You don't pay her to fuck, you pay her to leave.

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How do I know if a girl is testing me by doing things or if she wants me to fuck off? What are some ways girls test guys?
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If she's "testing you" this isn't a girl you want to be in a relationship with. End of story, mind games are always a terrible red flag
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>>17948047
While I agree, I don't have many options at the moment and I REALLY like her
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She is probably testing you. Girls don't want anything that comes easy to them. They want what they can't have

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