hi adv. I'm a senior (18+ no ban.) in HS and the girl I had been crushing on for months said she was into me too when I asked her out before winter break. She took the title of girlfriend, we skyped during my vacation, cuddled and held hands, sexted, went and saw movies throughout the break. But the moment break was over - the day that it ended, actually, she told me we had to be nothing but friends, she regretted everything, and quote verbatim "you're never going to be boyfriend material so please keep your distance." I'm crushed and totally lost. She told me I didn't do anything wrong. what's your takeaway?
>>17944835
You got used for emotional attention. There are aspects of yourself that makes no not attractive, that she does not want to directly address because you're not worth the time. Just evaluate this situation and learn from it. It is Through failure that you will find success.
>>17944835
Don't know how badly you're invested in to her at this point, but it were me, I'd just turn my head and never look back.
If she never come back or talks to you again, you don't have to worry about it ever again
If she does come back crawling, thats a whole other case.
The thing with the "not boyfriend material comment is a pretty big hint at something
Do you have ambition? A job? Self worth? Discipline? Drug habits? Party too much? Too much of a sexual past?
Unless she is a pretty big bitch, I am guessing it is something along those lines that you aren't seeing because at one point she did think you were boyfriend material
>>17944877
I have a job, early acceptance to a good college, good family. 6'1 and muscular from my volunteer work at the senior center near my house. I'm pretty devoid in the self-worth category though.
>>17944835
You're a senior in HS. You have so much life ahead of you. This won't be the last time a woman breaks your heart. Only thing you can do is move on and become stronger from it.
>>17944835
im gonna start by saying that you don't want to be end up hurt just as bad as the person who hurt you only because there is potential for that amount of emotional torment, You know what you did was wrong to make them chose their decision about the ongoing situation. Children like you are very annoying and i suggest that you grow up and move on