140 pound male here and this is the underside of my butt. Does anyone possible know what it is?
>>17947946
Does it feel hot to the touch?
Spider eggs. Have fun in 3-5 days.
>>17947947
Not really.
Based solely on your personal experience, what percentage of men would you say have "Good Dick"?
none. keep y'alls ugly worms to yourself
Why are men so obsessed with dicks?
>>17947968
It's literally our manhood.
I feel like I don't belong anywhere, and it makes me feel like shit. I have a group of friends and all, but still. I don't know why I feel this way. Sometimes I just hope that this feeling passes, but it's impossible.
What could be the cause of me feeling this way?
>>17947933
I feel you, man.
I often feel the same way, and one of my biggest fears is that all of my friends are just pretending to like me, and don't actually consider me their friend.
Time heals all things, is what i always say, maybe you'll meet someone who'll make you feel like you belong, and you have to be patient.
Otherwise, try to reach out to a close friend, maybe discuss these feelings, or, if you feel your friends aren't really your type of people, don't be afraid to look for new friends.
>>17947955
I often feel like all people are fake, and I think that's the worst
>>17948001
Most people are, i 100% know that feel.
Try to find people who think and feel the same way, even if they're not the most attractive/popular.
How do i give any desire for a gf?
I honestly can't deal with rejection anymore. nothing i try works. nothing.
I don't want to feel desire for a romantic relationship or sex, i don't want to realize that a woman is pretty anymore.
give up*
>>17947918
You'll never shake the desire for intimacy but you can try castration to at least kill your libido.
Develop an interest in a time consuming activity and you wont have any time to worry about girls my man
How do I help my girlfriend through her chemistry class?
She has a 51% in the class and just failed the same test she took about 2 weeks ago after preparing in every way she could. She does fine on quizzes and labs but she gets Ds and Fs on most/all tests.
The worst part is that if she doesnt get her F up to a C her parents are threatening to take away her social life completely. I dont see her ever because she is always busy workign on school or her internship. I dont know what to tell her or what to say anymore
>>17947855
Help her study?
I mean she's the one taking the class so ultimately it's on her. Horse to water and all that...
Tell her to study and stop slacking. Fs are very hard to get if you put in at least SOME kind of effort. Your girl's a lazy ho
>>17947855
This time you're spending on 4chan? Spend it helping her memorize periodic tables and Chem terms. Also, 4chan is not intended for people under 18.
I searched the catalog and didn't see a topic pertaining to my situation so here it is. My coworker is interested in me, but she is an older woman with a kid; I want to return the interest but besides the potential danger of interoffice relationships. I'm also a virgin, a 23-year old one at that. Now that doesn't mean I'm completely oblivious to when a girl likes me, and she isn't married either. I'm not interested in a relationship with her, just a chance to finally get laid, by a cute milf no less. I'm afraid any advances on my part could make our interactions awkward at the least and cost me my job at the worst.
Don't make it obvious you two have something going in the workplace, keep it business related and if she turns into a psycho you pretend you don't know what she's on about.
Just don't lead her on into thinking you want something she doesn't like marriage but if she's some older woman with a kid she's likely just dying to be fucked like a whore by a young buck
>virgin
>can't get laid with people his own fucking age
>goes after somebody easy who's much older with fucking kid
>A FUCKING KID
>work space relationship
Don't do it you worthless faggot.
No that situation is a minefield stay away from that. Spend your time and energy on finding a girl your age. That younger girl will look more attractive, won't have a kid, and you guys might even fall in love and spend the rest of your lives together. Which is WAY better than getting laid with some old chick who sucked dick at picking a relationship partner and fucked it all up and removed a father figure from her babies life like a fucking moron and that will traumatize the baby from a young age not having a father.
She is a hot mess stay away from her. Not worth it.
Might be a stupid question, but I figure I'll be able to get some valuable input this way.
Basically my mother has been an alcoholic for a few years now and I have moved out to live with my girlfriend and her generous family last year. Since my mother hasn't been as intense with her drinking until lately, I'd like to finally separate and cut ties with her. I'm 19 and would just like to be as independent and disconnected as I can as far as personal matters are concerned as when she drinks heavily she likes to dig deep and do things to really screw with me (hold things over my head, close my bank account and take money from it that I had earned).
I've:
1. Gotten rid of the shared bank account (that she could see recent transactions and even take money from) and now have an account separate from her that only I can access.
2. Removed any contact information that my college has that references her.
3. Changed my Amazon shipping address :p
Thanks everyone, I really appreciate it. I've never been lead in the right direction as far as independence goes so I'd like to seek an answer here if possible.
>>17947816
Should be noted that I have also changed my official USPS mailing address.
Man, are you shitting me?
...
That's actually really awesome. If you're not just lying for attention, then I applaud you.
You've already done a lot to separate from her, so I can't exactly say what else you can do. How often do you see her? If you still consistently meet with her, then you should absolutely stop that. That's really all I can say.
I don't know your backstory, so I don't know what else you've tried, but I'd say try to force her into rehab. If possible. She's still your mother, so leaving her in such a state might not be the best idea. Instead of just running away from the problem (which is sometimes all you can do), try to solve the root of the problem.
That's just my uneducated opinion, though.
>>17947834
I can't think of anything else other than changing any numbers/contact info she has for you. I can't think of anything else,since you've done a good job already.
I don't really know how to start this so I'll just get to the point: I masturbate way too much. On a normal day it's about three times. On my days off (I live alone) it can be five or more, but almost never less than twice a day. I think it's been at least a few years since I've gone more than 24 hours and I was probably in grade school the last time I went a week. I've tried a few times to go even a day but I can't seem to do it. I'd like to try nofap but part of the problem is that it's hard for me to realize it my be unhealthy and secretly I know I'm not going to be able to do it. Has anybody else been in this situation before? I'm afraid it could be detrimental to my life in ways I might not even realize.
>>17947809
Do you fap because you want to, or because it's a habit? If it's the first then there's no problem, and the second's only a problem if it's stopping you from doing other things you want to do.
>>17947954
Probably habit. Waking up and going to bed are big triggers for me. It might be getting in the way of things. It's hard for me to accomplish pretty much anything on my days off but that could have to do with the weather (I believe I have seasonal depression)
>>17947809
quit porn but don't quit fapping, it should be way easier to quit just that and it should at least make you want to fap less frequently.
Spill some wise words for the naive.
Tell us what you've learned, and what you've gone through to figure it out.
I'll start:
One of the best decisions I made last year was to let go of a toxic relationship, and I've grown from it. It's opened a world of opportunity I didn't know previously existed for me.
In essence, my take-home message is to "Never be with anyone with more baggage than you"
Your turn.
>>17947808
Last year, I learned that OP is a cuck. It was a shocking life lesson for me, and it really changed my worldview.
Be kind to yourself
don't go against the grain of your brain. If it doesn't feel right, do what does.
How do I find my insecurities and work on removing them without going to therapist ?
Google them.
>>17947796
Keep a journal of your thoughts daily and begin by asking yourself if these thoughts and feelings you have are healthy. How do you respond to stressful and non-stressful situations? Evaluate yourself based off of realistic criteria you've researched online. Set realistic and healthy goals for yourself that align with your values. Do you know what your values are? Things like that.
Try the book "mind over mood". it has charts of your thoughts that you can fill out.
Thinking about joining a club in college just to make friends. I've never joined a club before. What usually happens in a club?
depends on the club. i joined a nature club to go hiking with people but i still haven't made any friends.
ended up being elected president even tho i don't personally know anyone there. you only get as much out of it as you know how to take away. if you don't know how to make friends, a club doesn't seem to be any better than anywhere else
>>17947806
Not entirely true. I joined a lab because a professor asked me to and everyone there pushed to become friends with me even though I'm antisocial as fuck. It's partially luck.
>>17947790
They're usually a pretty good time and a good way to make a few groups or circles of friends. That'll also help you avoid the whole "I'M SO LONELY AND CAN'T MEET PEOPLE" shit this board is ripe with.
I feel worthless and unwanted and trapped, /adv/, this is a problem because I have a strong desire to become very emotional to the people who have contributed to my present state.
How can I curb these feelings?
By giving in to the desire. Tell them how you feel. It's the best solution.
>>17947797
It's a double edged sword, on one hand they may change their behavior, on another that may entail removing themselves from my life.
My main problem is that everyone feels so distant from me, it's like no one really wants me around and I don't know why and that's scaring me.
I really don't want to put any pressure on anybody just because of the way I feel. Please help.
Is there some sort of formula for determining how long it's acceptable to be hung up over someone you used to date? I'm beginning to wonder if there's something wrong with me for still being low-key devastated over getting dumped a month ago by the last guy I went out with for the preceding month and a half.
Even when I take into account some of the mitigating circumstances I'm starting to feel like I may need professional help.
>>17947783
>It's only been a month ago
You're fine, it was recent enough to be understandable.
>>17947812
When will the desire to keep texting him fade? :(
>>17947783
It depends on how frequent/infrequent your attachments are
I dated a girl for a month and a bit and I was hung up over her dumping me for a lot longer because it's rare for me to find someone I can connect with
What I'm getting at is that there is no normal
So long as you grow and learn, you're ok
Does anyone know a good VPN software or provider of VPN? Not gonna lie I'm kinda new to it, but I really would like to use one. Please help?
PIA private internet acces
>>17948341
2nd this.
>>17947775
hate to jump the bandwagon, but i also got pia after 20 min of my own research
havent been unsatisfied yet.
>tfw mom's dead
>tfw every girl you sleep with is emotionally equivalent to your mother (in terms of attachment)
>tfw sleeping with women is emotionally equivalent to spending time with mother
Psychology is weird.
Why do women type like that? Do they think it is cute? It isn't. You come across as if you are braindead.
>>17947750
Freud was right again
You look for girls who match your mom
>>17948031
Except she looks nothing like her, minus maybe them both having long hair.