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Does he have children yet? If the answer is no then thats the answer, he needs to have kids, its time.

>>17942991
He doesn't, right now he doesn't seem like the 'dad' type, but does having kids help with that? He has a gf but I'm not sure if it's gonna be a ltr

Bamp

>>17942952
I believe this has been going down since the renaissance

It's called getting older. Don't worry, you'll be fine champ.

>>17942952

>Can't stand current generation

No one says you have to?

I'm 23 and I find the current culture vapid and silly. If you like the older things, then just go with that. No problems.

I'd say though that the key is not thinking in terms of absolutes. Just because the current zeitgeist is shit doesn't mean that *everything* that comes out of it has to be.

>>17942785
For travels. People come and go, while the memories you would experience traveling around the world would be once in a lifetime and remain forever.

>>17942785
Surgery, it will solve your mental issues and you will get the pathetic life you deserve.

Unless said men hitting on you are going to be the same ones that rejected you, you wouldn't really be punishing or getting back at anyone who supposedly wronged you, just letting random people down.

Regardless travel is obviously a better investment.

Kinda depends on what you want out of life. If you ever plan on getting a home or supporting a family or big things like that, probably.

>>17942555

TL;DR

Going to a four year university will increase your social mobility, but 4 years of job experience pays higher.

Sadly, yes.

Yeah, Military. Made me less of a little bitch, and unless I hear artillery or armor in the distance I'm chill as fuck...

>>17942559

>just stop being a bitch

Thanks anon. We'll all alert the medical community right away and let them know you found out the cure for mental illness.

if you experience a stress regularly and either deal with it successfully or resolve to do so in the future you will become accustomed to it

>>17942374

rememebr that dates are not about impressing people. they are not talent shows where you are trying to get a high rating. they are not games where you get a high score. they are not baby sitting jobs where your pay is dependent on whether or not the girl had a good time.

they are just dates: two people hanging out cuz there is a mutual attraction so they want to get to know each other. do what you want to do.

if you have the money to treat her to a meal, do that. if you don't settle for staying home with movies. if she gets upset about that thinking you're just tryna get in her pants, then its probably not a very good match.

remember that if this doesn't go anywhere it doesn't mean you are bad, failed, or messed up. just that you werent a match,

>>17942379

listen to this wise creature

>>17942379
Thank you, very solid advice that actually helped calm my nerves a lot.

>>17942350

>what do i do

invite me oveR?

>i feel like calling the cops would just piss them off

no anon, you're thinking of calling their moms. calling the cops would get them arrested. just call 911 say 'there is a group of people in front of my house, they are there every night and its freaking me out, please send some cops.

the cops will show up and by the time they see the car it will be too late. they cant ALL out run the cops.

and if ur extra paranoid you can ask that the cops proceed on foot from half a block away so taht by the time the officer is there there is nothign they can do.

you can also take pictures / video as proof

Can you take pictures and post in this thread?

>>17942416
Don't forget the flashlight

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>>17942277
at least i got double dubs...

>>17942277

>is it even worth trying to salvage the wreckage of your shitty life at 27.

not even half of your life has passed. are you asking if its worth trying to enjoy the rest of your existence? yes.

you have two problems. you lack self love. you have forgotten what love is. love isn't a contest. love isn't some sort of judgement. you dont get on a stage, get people writing down ratings and then get told 'you arent worthy of love'.

you love your ugly kids, your fat grand kids, and even your dog who wont stop chewing everything up. you love them despite their flaws because they are in your life and they matter to you. love is accepting the flaws and saying that they are worth loving.

so when you look at yourself, why cant you offer yourself the same respect you offer a dog? you aren't a bad person OP. you've never done anything particualrly evil that others haven't done themselves. you're probably on the nice side. how bad can a guy really be if all he wants is to enjoy life and share love?

take a moment to look yourself in the mirror and say 'why not? why dont i deserve love?'. you won't find an answer. cuz you deserve love. if you're coming here and asking this problem you can't be a bad guy, and even if you were, there's plenty of bad girls who would love that about you. and until then, dont stop loving yourself.

but you have that same problem with girls. you have turned dating into a rating system. you insist that others can't love you because you don't bring something 'extra' to the table. you have decided that girls can only love you for special talents or special traits, for money and looks and clothes.

you may never be the guy swimming in the pussy of 10/10s. but if waht you are lookign for is someone to care about and someone to care about you, then all you have to do is look past how someone looks and waht their 'status' in life is and you'll find a lot of people like you: just normal people wanting to connect and share life.

>>17942277

its ok, youre just trying to be something that youre not. just figure out what makes you HAPPY. not what makes others happy.

this involves trying new things. try new things EVERY WEEK. really PUSH yourself to do things. if youre already feeling suicidal then channel that into exploring what else life has to offer. worse case scenario is that you die, which is something youre already considering anyway. what do you have to lose?

>>17942210
>Any ideas on how to improve my chess skills?

there are plenty of real chess 4ms out there

1000 rating is still noob territory yes ?

as far as i can tell - chess is some kind of genetic talent - you either have it and still require lots of training to get & stay really good, or you don't have it (like me) and no amount of reading doing practice puzzles will help

>>17942240
>he fell for the talent meme

and you even apply it to something as structured and strategic as chess.
anon pls ...

>>17942210
Have you tried chessacademy?

>>17942120
Choo choo! All aboard the mental illness train. It leaves every hour on the hour fron /adv/ Central Station.

>>17942154
this

op poke around here - nami.org

pro tip - focus on depression

>>17942154
>>17942162
I can't be depressed, I was depressed in high school I know what it's like (though I was never diagnosed). I just lazy.

>>17942001
Do women actually like sensitive guys or rather guys who open up to them.

>>17942163
I do, but it has to come with time and/or intensity. I wouldn't like a guy to pour his heart out to me until we had already bonded.

Women generally understand that, if you gave a guy you just met your number, his intention was sexual, right?

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>>17941662
Sorry it's long as fuck post,, but didn't know how to make it shorter. I asked her again today is she's okay with that incident and told me "yeah it's fine". Almost asked her if she's wants to a replay but I chickened out. Like I asked at the beginning, how to expand from that? Can I even expand from that? All I see is that she wanted to fuck, I was around, she came, and that was the end from that. The fact she didn't want this to be intimate is a red flag. But then again, she did had sex with me, and didn't really complain. I had casual hookups before, but there was always some intimacy, touching. This is just feels so weird to me. But not to her I guess.

>>17941662
She literally just used you for your dick, and you let her. You're a pussy. You should've at least finished.

>He didn't push her down and finish
What a fucking beta cuck. I would have came and just for the cheekiness of that cunt I would have kept going until I came again.

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all men want 2 or 3. all women here are 6 and 7.

>>17941515
7

>>17941515
Anywhere from 3 through 5 would do.

How do I fuck?

>>17941445
That depends.
Are you the owner of a penis, vagina, or other sexually-endowed organ?
Are you attracted to the owner pf a penis, vagina, inanimate object of comparable shape?

>>17941458
I jave a dick and I'm attracted to cunts.

Good luck on being happy cause you sure aren't.

Well, my friend is in an odd position.

He tried to meet up with a girl twice. She canceled both times and would go dark. He ended up just wishing her a merry xmas, and they ended up talking for a while. Then goes dark again.

Now a week later she contacts him, and seems like she is having a friend write or atleast approve her texts (Due to timing between two messages) and then she asks him to go and get coffee. Which they did..

There isn't anyone I really hate because I'm not a childish little faggot like the rest of you morons.