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>>18054463
style usually means you're going in JUST to have your hair styled

cuts usually include a styling since most haircuts are cut specifically to be styled a certain way

but if you really aren't sure it never hurts to just call them and verify ahead of time

>>18054463
you're a dude. Assuming you have short hair you're just going home and washing the tiny hairs off of your body immediately anyway, so what does it really matter?

>>18054463

That's a pretty damn expensive men's haircut, assuming you're a dude. I'd call and confirm, and in all honesty, go elsewhere if that's the cost.

>>18054455
Why don't you try getting him a job at your company?
Maybe ask if there's a position available for him, etc.

>>18054462
I've been sending him some job openings recently but they're in unrelated areas. I can't help him too much besides advice since I'm relatively low level in the organization and can't pull string and what not.

He's considering them at the moment and is likely to apply to them. Internal transfers are of course a lot easier than being an external applicant like he was previously. Of course I'll feel bad if he's unsuccessful but hopefully that won't happen.

I just get this bad feeling in my stomach when we hang out after work and he's overall just not happy and looking for greener pastures. It's kind of selfish but if he feels better, I feel better

>>18054462
Yeah like what he said. And let him use you as a referral for the job application.

>>18054446
why do the people around you make a difference in whether or not you have a disorder?

if you're that concerned about it then go to a shrink to find out.

>>18054448
Well, the thing is that those, ADD and ADHD are not really seen as a mental disorder but more of a way a person is and it's useless to take medication. it's belived more that you have too change yourself without meds but it's not really easy.

>>18054457
where are you getting this information? "disorder" is literally in the name. you can't force yourself to not have ADHD anymore through force of will, that's not how medical disorders work. your brain is just physically wired wrong.

it's very easily treatable with medication. trust me, i know from experience.

st john wort vitamins or vitamins in general.

some lady told me her depression went away thanks to that. Check bulkbarn or any herbal place, they should sell it.

but idk she seem kind loopy

>>18054445
Go to your doctor and get beta blockers they're super cheap and doctors will give them out no question. Start taking 5htp and l tyrosine. Get some exercise and stop eating junk foods.

>>18054445
sounds like you've got some problems you need to work out. why don't you get therapy and actually try to get to the root of the problem before turning to pills? besides if you get therapy they can write you rx if you've got a serious enough issue that you need drugs.

As a girl who loves bj, I like to know.

I don't wanna be sucking on that dick hard and then having sperm flying into my throat while not prepared to "catch it" and choking (happened before).

Also, I like playing with my bfs, for example start sucking or whatever even better/harder when I hear them saying they're gonna cum. It just makes me happy to know lol.

>>18054408
Please warn us so we know to keep going and so we don't get caught off-guard

>>18054408
Tell them. I'm a guy who sucks dick and I like being told so that I can stop their orgasm and edge them. It's hot.

>>18054371
Never get back in touch with your ex, it didn't work before so there is no reason it will work now

Have either one of you changed since your breakup? If not, you'll just end up breaking up for the same reason and it'll be worse since it's the second round.

I know you don't want to hear this, but unless both of you actively address the issue from the last break up it'll never work out.

>>18054371
I'm gonna be upfront with you anon, it's mostly your brain playing tricks on you. It takes anywhere from a couple months to a year or two to fully get over an ex and look at them objectively and realize hooking up with them again is a bad idea. You broke up for a reason.

>Last week, however, we saw each other multiple times and had a good conversation. Eventually we made out.

You fucked up, son. Your hormones and pre-existing attachment are steering the ship now and you need to tell them to fuck off before you do something you regret.

>>18054333
Probably, no call no showing is the douchiest way to quit a job, don't expect any favors from them

Read your contract. There are sometimes clauses that say they can withhold your last paycheck until they hear from you or in other circumstances.

Why in the world would you quit by not showing up anyway? That's the worst way to burn bridges

>>18054342
>>18054343
My managers and coworkers were dicks. Constantly fucking up my schedule, always comparing me to other employees when I'm literally the only one working. I was like a punching bag for them.

>>18054301
Happened to me when I was young, I did it to others when I was older, then you grow up and feel horrible about it and just push the bad thoughts away

>>18054305
Sucks. Yeah, I'm doing alright most of the time. I know it was dumb and that my cousin thought I was tickling her. She's doing fine in life but every once in a while I remember and I just feel absolutely worthless.

Everyone does it as kids.
You are guilty for touching a boob as a kid.
As a kid m8

>>18054285
how do i finger a girl

>>18054286
You put your finger into her vagina.

I think I have that 'fingered' at

>>18054286
I know I answered your question in a smart ass answer. If your goal is to figure out how you can finger a woman of your choice (because you can pay to do that) then I have at least 3 rules because humans like 3 steps. The Trinity, whatever.

1. you picked a girl that you like and the girl is attracted to you (a general basis, regardless on why she is attracted to you).

2. A woman knows from the moment she sees you if she is going to do anything sexual with you (even if she believes in marriage for losing virginity, they know. Women aren't men, because men are biologically formed to fuck constantly) then that would destroy all questions. It's not that difficult.

3. If a woman is truly into you and you've solidified that fact and respect her religious views then you need to turn her on. Her head and her being wet isn't the same as a guy and his dick. If you were with a woman that you know is attracted to you and has left herself to being open to this then it can happen. don't just shove your hand in her pants.

Think of.... Cool Hand Luke. Be something like that about it.

>>18054282
Through your friends

Depends on what you consider to be a total degenerate.

>>18054282
Not the internet

Possibly at your university depending on which one you go to and where you meet them

Places that have volunteer work, girls who enjoy helping their community tend to be decent people

Libraries and book stores, though beware if they are in the manga section, weeb girls are degenerates 100% of the time

I've seen people sell erotic literature on e-junkie

you'll have to build a following first though

>>18054263
Write for WaPo, they'll publish anything [laughing-crying-emoji]

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>>18054289
Boiii

About two weeks before the semester started, she became distant and cold. She didn’t want to have sex, or do much. She would just watch TV with me and it was a good way to sedate me and not focus on anything. She tried to break up with me two weeks ago. She said she loved me, and wanted to be with me in the future, but for right now she can’t handle me and school. “She wanted to put me in her pocket for later”. The day after she broke up with me, she regretted it and realized that I care for her so much and that she will need my help to go through all this. I’ve tried giving her space to think and figure things out. I’ve tried talking to her non-stop about what she should do or how to solve her issues. I know people don’t listen but I don’t know what to do.

She has had a fever every couple days for the last two weeks. She gets no sleep to do homework, which she could have done on the weekend or managed her time better. And she doesn’t eat regularly. All of those combined make her more sick. She has had something similar to an ear infection, and has had trouble hearing out of one of her ears. But she refuses to go to a doctor. I can’t force her to go.

2/3

Besides me, she has family issues. She hates her mother and sees her as the enemy. Her mother isn’t the greatest mother, but she’s not bad either. Her mother has been trying to get her to see a psych but she refuses. Her mother addresses the concerns she has with her daughter to me because she wont talk to her own mother. My gf hates being around her family because her two younger sisters fight quite a bit. She can’t stand the quarreling and the fighting.

Girlfriend also doesn’t have many friends. Its hard to make friends at my Uni, but its also harder when everyone commutes. She goes to a jewish club and talks to plenty of people there, but she doesn’t have any actual friends from there. She just fills the void with these acquaintances.

I know I’ve typed up a bunch of shit but I really don’t know what to do. I love this girl and she has a lot of issues to get over. But she’s not going about it the right away. She can’t just throw everyone else in her life away when she can’t handle her shit. What do I do?

>>18054221
She's going to self-destruct and you need to make her aware of that. Out of all of those problems, she's created them herself. My girlfriend goes to school full time, her mother doesn't even talk to her in public, her dad's cancer is back, her brother is frequently in the hospital for suicide threats, yet she still has time to pass all of her classes, ace her clinicals, visit me five hours away frequently, AND manage a full time job. She needs to pull her head out of her ass and be responsible for her work. Amazing that she is going to graduate at 19, stress is stress, you still need to get your work done.

gonna need a full body pic first

>>18054215
Stop it right now

>>18054215
Looks like shit

>>18054196
tell her you don't know how to swim and ask her to teach you

>>18054196
Tell her that you don't know how to swim
>Select all images with rivers
Hah

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>>18054200
>not using legacy capcha

>>18054189
1. Make more friends.
2. Learn to enjoy being alone more.
3. Use your alone time to develop yourself so that more people like you.
4. With your new found confidence in loneliness and with other people, you can stop being clingy and possessive.

It doesn't matter where your issue stems from. You feel unwanted. Make yourself more wanted but also work on enjoying being alone.

>>18054189
Fuck that thing and fuck you for posting a picture of it.

>>18054303

I enjoy my alone time very much already. I don't hang out with friends all that much because I like being with myself. So it doesn't make a lotta sense to me that I get clingy