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Any time I get extremely close to a girl just before we're about to start actually "dating" I pull the parachute and basically cut contact with them completely, ive had two girls ask me out in the last year and a half and I was seriously in love with both of them, but when the time came to decide whether or not we wanted to seriously start dating I pussied out and ran away.

What the fuck is wrong with me? Im 23, a virgin, and ive never actually had a girlfriend. This all could have been avoided years ago if I wasn't such a god damn pussy
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Just stop pussing out
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>>18051167
You aren't in love with them them
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>>18051167
>print a page
>with
>im going to date and fuck Y
>look at it every day
just dont pussy out

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the creepy old guy across the street keeps staring at us.

what do?
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Rape him
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let him rape you
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he sits outside in his wheelchair everyday.

i'm scared he might do something

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>gf is Japanese
>she's basically an Ameriboo and I'm a weaboo
>she hates Japanese culture and traditions while I think they're cool, she loves American culture and traditions and I find them utterly banal
>I can't even disagree if she's talking trash about Japan lest we argue

What do? I don't like having to stifle myself, I'd like to be open
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>>18050218
Okay, here's what you do OP. You've got to expose her to the bad side of American culture and make her understand why it's so toxic. Make her watch the Kardashians and the bachelor. Remind her that in America women and minorities are regarded as equal human beings to white males. If you need something to put her over, simply take her up to the most American man you know and let him rape the shit out of her. Just so you know, I happen to be a very American man. and can certainly assist.
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Ask her why she doesn't like japan. Ask her why she likes america more.
Shoot some shit about japan or america being better or worse.
You can't make someone change an oponion unless you give a good argument as to why they should change.
America nuked japan and i still feel bad about it as an american.
Ask her for thoughts on nukes. God i wish i could.
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>>18050218
>Japanese who hates Japanese culture
As a fellow Japanese, that's a HUGE SHAMEFUR DISPRAY. Tell her famiry to disown her pls.

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I'm super sad I really hate how I look I want to get plastic sugery but I don't have money and I don't know we're to get it done I was thinking south Korea has anyone here ever had plastic surgery done there I don't even go outside anymore and I haven't been happy in years I just want to be pretty pls give me advice on were and how to get money
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>>18047882
Are you a girl? If so just stop eating so much, it will be fine.

If you're a guy, stop caring so much about your looks or kys (or start lifting)
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I'm an ugly fuck, but I try to compensate by pretending to be confident. Works pretty alright!
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>>18048589
Can confirm, I work with people regularly. Gotta fake it to make it, buster.

Hell, they buy so deeply into my facade, it's as if they think that's actually me...which it kinda is, but you caught my drift.

It hurts so much to love someone for years when you have never loved anyone else. I don't know what to do. I want to beg his girlfriend not to take him away from me. He was my best friend and now I can't even go near him because he doesn't trust himself not to cheat on her with me again. I have tried so many ways to put the pieces of my heart back together but the reminders of how shit everything just is makes this just not seem worth it. I am losing each family member one by one and I don't even care about that anymore. I don't recognize my own parents or siblings. My old friends just don't want to be near me and the only friend I had doesn't love me anymore. I am so lonely. I feel so used by him. I miss him everyday but I don't even miss my family anymore. I am pathetic.
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>>18053166
please don't hurt yourself. talk to someone, anyone, about it.
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>>18053174
I don't know what to do... the only people I can talk to now I just don't feel comfortable with.
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>>18053180
you must have at least a few you can speak to ?

An ex professor of mine is threatening to sue me for slander based on a ratemyprofessor review I wrote about him. My question is do I have anything to worry about? (Pic Related)
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>>18053070

I would imagine it would depend on whether or not what you wrote is true.

If it is you're probably fine. If it isn't I would guess he may have some sort of a case. I'm not a lawyer and don't know, but I do know this kind of shit is pretty expensive. It would seem retarded to waste a shit load of money suing a student over what seems to be a reasonably tame review.
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>>18053070
Pretty sure that would be libel, not slander. On top of that, those are anonymous.

Even if they weren't, he'd have to prove some kind of damage to his character, which would be hard because basically every professor in the world has at least one bad RMP review.
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how does he know it was you

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Is black lives matter good or bad group to donate money too?
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Er... I would say yes. But it may be more worth while actually taking part in their actions.
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>>18052905
My sociology professor was reprimanded for saying they are a racist group.
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>>18052896
They are funded by a billionaire already, they don't need donations.

I'm a big comic book fan, and I've always wanted to name my kids after comic characters. My wife doesn't know this, and would probably say absolutely not, but we have a daughter on the way.

Surprisingly, I got Gwen onto our final five (she doesn't read comics or have any idea who that is), and I think it's going to be the choice. But, a couple of questions.

1. Should we go all out and name her Gwendolyne, or will she get made fun of at school for having a long, kinda weird name? I'd refer to her as Gwen, never by full name. I have the most normal name in the world, so I don't know if kids get a bunch of crap for this.

2. If she is named Gwen Stacy ___________, do you think that will be ammo for kids to pick on her? Or be kind of cool? Or just go unnoticed, which is fine?

Anything else I should think of?
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>>18052333
You want to have sex with your daughter.
Female comic book characters are just sex objects/mental masturbation of the artist, no matter how much you whine about them being "strong females".
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>>18052333
When she's old enough for kids to start picking onher the only people in a given room who will know who gwen stacy is are going to be your age.
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>>18052356
Not if they keep rebooting the Spiderman movies constantly every fucking year.
I hope the capeshit era ends by then but you never know.

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My girlfriend claims that girls don't really get pleasure from anal play and that this is mostly a male thing because women don't have the nerves or something to feel the pleasure. Is this true?
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>>18051770

Yes and no. It's not particularly physically pleasurable, but it can still be fun and exciting. Mostly it's pleasurable because it turns the guy on and because it feels naughtier than vaginal sex. I'm not big on anal, but I do it with my bf on occasion anyway. It offers variety to sex life.
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Yeah, I mean, it feels different. The nerves back there aren't really designed to give pleasure, and women don't have the same stuff (prostate) going on, so they usually just do it because the guy wants it. It may seem gross to you, but the receptive nerves on a girl's ass can be more precisely stimulated with a tongue or fingers, they're all on the edge of the asshole or just barely inside. Most girls just do it to be nice, it's not necessarily very pleasurable. Tbh I don't get why guys even wanna do it.
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All humans have plenty of nerve endings around and in the rectum and anus. Stimulating these nerves may be pleasurable to people of either gender. Males also have a prostate that can be given stimulus through the anus, this is also perceived as pleasurable to some males. Women can receive pleasure through anal stimulus due the vagina and anus sharing a "wall" with nerves between them. Anal stimulus is also a psychological factor to most people who enjoy anal play.
Tl:Dr yes women can feel pleasure from anal.

My friends are constantly trying to make me eat more than I want to. I got into a fight with one of them, because I told her that I eat when I'm hungry, why should I eat more than that? I eat every day. Is there anything wrong with only eating when I'm hungry? I regularly get hungry, but apparently my friends don't think it's often enough.
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Post gender, height, weight, alternatively body shot.
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Your whale friends are trying to fatten you up
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>>18051408
Is your weight healthy?
How much so you eat (calories)?

If you are underweight or eating very little, yes, they're right. You should eat more.
If you eat enough and you're healthy, then, they shouldn't worry.

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What are some examples of dressing like an autist?
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Look in the mirror you fucking donkey.
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wearing the same fucking outfit to college every day with minor variations each day
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>>18051340
Ruined/visibly old clothes.
Unfitting pants - too long, too large.
Tshirt tucked inside the pants.
Graphic t-shirts (unless the design is minimal)
Funny t-shirts
Sweatpants.
Wearing running shoes if you're not running.
Cheap dress shoes

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I have issues with sex. I see sex as degrading for women, I feel like they are worth less, are lesser people for having a lot of sex.

When sober I'm afraid of sex and intimacy, only getting drunk stops it.
I'm afraid of having sex because I see it as damaging. I feel like I'm "used up" or undeserving of a faithful partner because I'm "damaged".

I don't know WHY I think like this. No clue.

I need help please
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>>18050799

>I don't know WHY I think like this. No clue.
- religious upbringing
- living in a society that grew out of christianity
- years of convincing yourself women are whores for sleeping with Chad, to deal with your cognitive dissonance regarding lack of dating success
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>>18050803
no religious upbringing
I am chad lol

My father cheated on my mother and she explained it to me at a young age and she demonized sex in her explanation, made it seem like it's the worst thing you can do.

My only guess is it stems from that, but idk tbqh
I don't think so...
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>>18050813
>I am chad lol

you're afraid of sex and you're on 4chan, think again

What the fuck is wrong with my back /adv/
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>>18049932
Its to sexy to keep to yourself, it has its own will nnd wants to be free, out here listen to it, give more pics pls.
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>>18049932
Kyphosis
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>>18049932
scapular winging.

your serratus anterior is weak.

prolly other muscles too.

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To anyone who has had gone through this before, what happens when you call 911 and tell them you want to kill yourself?
I imagine they come and take you to a hospital and then have some evaluate you, but then what? How long do you stay for, do they send you to a facility, do you go home, do you have a choice?
I'm kinda scared but I don't think I'm far gone enough to actually be in enough danger to call. I just want to know what to expect
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>>18049770
EMT here, they come and take you to the hospital and have a psychiatrist evaluate you, you'll also talk to a social worker to find out what options are available to you for treatment. From then they'll usually transfer you out to a psychiatric facility where you can hopefully get help in a controlled environment.
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thank you anon.
Do you by any chance know if outpatient treatment would still be an option at that point?
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>>18049788
sorry but no, I've never been an ER mental health patient myself

but if you feel like you need help then call, but you could probably save yourself some expense and save the EMS some trouble by just going to the hospital yourself if you can.

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How important is failure in life?

I'm not talking about failing a class or messing up a project but some other, more serious, failure. Like expulsion, or arrest, or the failure of a business, or a marriage, or personal bankruptcy... something substantial.

I so often hear stories about successful individuals describing their failures and how they learned from them. Many times, it seems they can imbue powerful, albeit difficult, lessons that can help lead to success later in life. On the flip side, I've known people who knew only success in their academic and early personal lives that were utterly destroyed by a failure in later life.

Persistence is an important trait for success but when, in the face of failure, does it become too destructive- how do you know when to say when?
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You're not going to learn from failure if it doesn't happen naturally.

>expulsion, or arrest, or the failure of a business, or a marriage, or personal bankruptcy... something substantial.
For every guy who became successful in life after these things, there are hundreds who had their lives ruined.

Don't be a moron and rely on extreme failure to succeed.
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Failure is only useful if you learn from it. There are plenty who fail repeatedly.
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Best kind of failure to learn from is the failure of others. Be smart and think, op

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