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>>18053384
It fucking pissed me off. But at the same time I'm conflicted. Part of me feels like a beta numale for needing my girlfriend to acknowledge my feelings. But then another part of me feels like that is totally reasonable, especially since I'm not blaming her, I'm just telling her calmly what I'm feeling, and hoping that she will care enough to see if it is something that can be fixed.

Like is it just to be expected that women don't fucking care about guy's feelings? It's not like she is a sociopath. She volunteers at an animal shelter, and cares about animals like crazy. She saw a kitten that got ran over on the side of the road, and she stopped to pick it up, and take it to the vet. She called me because she was beside herself, and crying like crazy.

That's another argument we had. We got a cat together for our apartment, but she is noisy as hell at night and kept waking me up. I told my girlfriend that I wanted to keep the cat outside our bedroom so I could get a good night's sleep, because waking up 5x a night was leaving me exhausted. All she had to say to that was "But I feel so bad for our cat, I don't think she wants to be alone at night"

To which I said, yea, but she's a cat from a shelter. She'll get used to it. Doesn't it bother you that I'm miserable all day because I can't sleep? And again she just ignored what I said and brought up how she feels bad about the cat.

What do you think guys? Is this just how women are? Like are my expectations too high? Because other than this admittedly big thing she is a great gf. Not a hoe, not an attentionwhore, we split everything 50/50, she pulls her own weight and then some. But emotionally it's like she isn't all there.

>>18053397
>>18053384
She was either cheating on you or stopped caring.

>>18053402
I sincerely doubt she was cheating. She was working about 60 hours a week at the time. There really wasn't any time that she couldn't account for. She wasn't being suspicious or anything like that. So yea, she stopped caring. That was the whole point of my post. Why did it happen? Are all women like this? Because I'll admit that I may be biased, but I seem to notice a lot of women act this way toward their men.

>>18053376
this is still a website?

Giraffes are so weird they're like, what someone would imagine as some kind of alien creature that lives on a different planet. It looks like something spawned from imagination. But no, it's actually real. Fucking giraffes, man.

>>18053380
It's Jellyfish that do it for me, they're practically aliens.

>jellyfish gives birth to a jellyfish that just sticks to the ground
>that fucked up jelly spawns a shitload of real jellyfish before turning into one itself
>the tentacles have stingers in pods that attack in nanoseconds

Also yeah omegle was cool when there wasn't as much spam. Question mode was the best but now it's unusable.

There's indeed a very broad way of what is 'best'.

Some things pay better, but you might not pursue that direction as soon as you start your job

Some things might be easier for you to get through, but won't pay as much, but you'd pursue it afterwards

Some things are a combo and who the hell knows where you end up.

I studied Economics, as I already had pre-knowledge of it and it was very easy for me to do. Also it pays of well as having a job in that direction.

>>18053177
Just choose whatever you're most passionate about that has the highest potential for employment.

Do NOT do Philosophy or History or Classics. You will not find a job.

>>18053177

Choose something nice, like art.

>>18053044
programming/coding/hacking.

>>18053054
This.
Web Development is pretty easy to learn. You can potentially get a job without a degree if your portfolio and passion is strong enough.

Check out some of the guides on /g/. codecademy is a great introduction point.

>>18053044
Social Skills niggggga

as soon as you listen to it so they know you really want the job. if it's like midnight still call if they are open. if they are closed til the morning then call first thing in the morning.

state your name and let them know you got a voicemail about the job from whoever. they'll redirect you to the hiring person, or let you know when to call again, or let you know when to come in for an interview.

>>18053019
It's walmart, call literally anytime.

Call ASAP. Along the lines of "hi good afternoon my name is anon, I had gotten a call earlier about an application I submitted." Don't sweat it kid. Usually he will reply with "oh yes, are you available for an interview tomorrow". Easy stuff.

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>>18052855

its a little 'odd' but not weird, lots of people go alone. the truth is no ones going to notice. everyone whos there with a friend is going to be too busy with their friends to notice someones alone. you worry too much.

besides going to somethign alone can be a cool way to make friends

>august
>go to a movie screening in a graveyard
>forget towell
>guy next to me has a big blanket
>ask if i can sit with him
>we hit it off
>were still buds
>today hes coming over to film a horror movie

>>18052855
No, it is not weird, many music lovers go to concerts alone instead of dragging along a friend who doesn't like it. Nobody is going to pay any attention to you but the music and their own friends. I only regret that I didn't go to more places alone younger.

>>18052862
this. nobody will care. i don't consider it weird at all. i've met quite a few cool people at concerts who went alone too, or lost their friends. i'd go to a concert alone.

>>18052835
lube is like 3 dollars at walmart wtf

Olive oil is perfect for anal

A clean saliva can be legit good sometimes, but don't use it often; I don't know about the long-term effects.

Drink some water, chew some sugar-free gum and go ahead.

Man I got Ulcerus Colitis (similar to Crohns) and I feel you. Could you perhaps prepare for the courses? Get the material early and start reading?

LOOK UP HELMINTH THERAPY AND GET ON IT. Jesus.

The amount of people with autoimmune diseases that don't know about this treatment is mortifying. The therapy is most successful with the gut diseases too (Chron's and UC).

>>18053253
experimental therapy.

>>18052810
Flirt back

>>18052810
Flirt back, though keep in mind some girls are just naturally like that. Still, no harm in showing a bit of interest.
If she's not into you, at least you've made a friend. (and friends have hot friends)

>>18052810
Try exhibiting workplace appropriate behavior, and tell her that she is not acting professionally by flirting at work

Self bump in the name of harboring anger

>>18052850
I would move on. That's not cool imo either.

The way I see it, given the context, is that she would've told you about the picture if she actually didn't enjoy it. She liked it, I'm sure she found it flattering that some chad is getting his dick hard to her so she had to join in the bragging about it with her friends. It's like dick measuring for women, only they're measuring their dicks with how many unsolicited dick picks they've received.

That shit is childish. Decent women don't act like that.

>>18052861
THanks anon, told her not to contact me again

I couldn't grow one until I was 25

Bro I'd concentrate on growing out that chin first

Possibly. A big part of it is testosterone but the largest part of it is strictly genetic.

I started growing at 17 but it still continues to thicken out and I'm 23 rn.

Try taking the derivative of it.

>>18052174
Use Stirling approximation

L'Hopital rule i believe should work

where abouts in britain?

>>18052903
Living in London

Even at the low end of $20 per night, a hostel isn't any cheaper than a one bedroom apartment where I live.

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I donot know how help u
But i thing he have a handicap
And he afraid if u see it u well disrespect him

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maybe he is hiding in a hole and scared from american soldiers

>>18055346
theyre listing their dick size

5'5 guy here
While I personally never would lie about my height as I'm fairly secure despite my manlet status, I can understand that there's a lot of anxiety and stigma attached to being short
A lot of guys think women do care
Some do, some don't
That being said I don't think there's anything wrong with being put off if the first thing a guy does is lie to you desu

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>>18055346
Most short guys lie about height like most women use old pictures and angles to try to appear more desirable. Dating sites are self marketing and one wants to look like a hot commodity.