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do it faggot

Unless you give me a logical and good reason to choose "puss out". You already answered yourself.

Pro tip: I'm scared/It's hard doesn't count.

you should kiss way before the end of the date. don't be a walking cliche.

>>18055491
i personally wouldnt use online dating altogether. i mean i always assumed its fucked up, mostly men and the girls are used to having beta guys message them 24/7, unless you try real hard you're just another loser, whereas in real life it's more even

take it with a grain of salt as i never used that

If you're a straight dude, you might get one message a year if you're attractive. Most dudes will get exactly zero. You need to initiate. Just make it something you need to do, and accept that most of them won't get replies - say you need to send one message a day before you can eat breakfast, or some shit. One a week coming back with a decent reply is perfectly acceptable here.

>>18055491

>too pussy to initiate
>somehow thinks he can get validation

if you could get validation you wouldn't be a pussy about initiating.

what do you expect us to do about it?

>>18055399
>is because I don't want to get a virus on the desktops in the computer lab at school and transmit them to my mom's iMac
>is because I don't want to get a virus on the desktops in the computer lab at school and transmit them to my mom's iMac

How does using a floppy disk protect you from getting a virus? It doesn't, but I'm interested in hearing your reasoning.

Is this a post from 2004 that resurfaced because of some database bug?

>>18055399
I have a question unrelated to this thread. I recently went to get my stomach probed for an ulcer and while that went well I realized that upon waking up and going back out my phone died. It was a lumia 530 that now turns off after booting and freezes constantly. Is it possible the RF radiation or something fried the phone's motherboard? It was in my pocket the whole time.

>>18055336
You must be joking OP. Those measurements, in whatever order they are don't mean you're average. Unless you mean in cm, 6x6 is nothing to laugh at.

>>18055431
I'm not joining it just seems like 8" is like another class

>>18055858

8" doesn't even fit in most girls. Porn has fucked up your view, man.

1 of 3 problems
>your not washing your hair properly
>your diet consists of grease
>sometimes u just have shit Dna luck, cut your hair short, about and inch long or shorter. Letting your scalp breath helps a lot of hair issues.

>>18055036

Use a towel over pillow during night, it holds the grease better than a pillow cover. Change the towel daily. Also, look for hair products for greasy hair, it might help control the oil production.

>>18055043
How can I not wash it properly? I use shampoo I later it in and rinse after.

I can't cut my hair too short because I look pretty bad with it short and I have a huge cowlick on the back of my head that comes up if it's too short.
>>18055044
I'll try that but I'll still be rolling around in the grease all night so idk how much it'll help.

So you understand this wont ever go anywhere. What do you want to be done with the situation? What do _you_ want?

>>18054656

You went fully pussy on her by first drunk texting and then going for a damn "I don't know" when she called you out. So yeah, you can forget about her, she'll never take you serious after this. Time to move on and grow a pair, so you'll do better in the future.

>>18054656
Just ditch her and move on to more viable options. Don't be a pussy

>teenage female
>Just wants a fuck
What le fug
Also is 23 a creepy adult already? I'm quite attractive, want to shag? :DDD I don't live in Bongistan though

The way you put it is kinda disgusting
I understand you have low self esteem because of your breakup but aiming for a one night stand is a bad idea

You shouldn't let a guy fuck you if he doesn't care about you, that will only make you feel like a slut and hurt even more

Girls aren't men and giving your pussy to a random dude who don't deserve it is pointless and gross

>>18056189
I don't want someone over 25. thiink that may be the limit.

I guess this was my fault for not leaving her.. She went with this guy to another city for valentines day, I got worried and complained, she stressed she didn't like him but wtf.
AND WTF DO I DO WITH THE FUCKIN GIFT. I can't return it, it was bought off a stall(no refunds)

I don't know if you're a shitty person or not but I'm stunned the replies to your initial post weren't "don't be insecure/girls can have male platonic friends they spend tons of time with" etc
Accept it, move on and be indifferent with her. Reclaim your life
Cut her off completely and move on, she clearly knew ahead of time what she wanted to do
It's not his fault either, it's all her
Knock the cunt off the pedestal you've placed her on
Where in the UK?

>>18055831
Northern Ireland. Look I understand that she always preferred guy friends. I accepted that and was indifferent. But this one was different, after school, sometimes she'd go to his house unlike her other guy friends, and she'd constantly message him and stuff... AND sending hearts (what horror) to each other and when I confronted she said Its just jokes. It's true I find it hard to distinguish what is a joke and not, I've accepted that flaw. But that was no joke and just inappropriate if it was...

>>18055572

anytime you get into an argument or discussion in general you need to stop and tell both of you to approach this sympathetically.

we usually discuss things intending to win, but if we entered them wanting to lose?

>>18055577
na we never fight, like have literally never raised our voices at each other in like 8years together. don't really argue either, I just feel like the work load in our relationship is kind off unbalanced. i work a lot and take care of the kids and house, and I'm wondering how to make things a bit more even.

>>18055588

well what does your partner do?

>>18055555
Wow check out this quint quints

I (in a totally, non-creepy stalker fashion) found her on facebook and saw that we share so many interests (further making me think that there would be real potential - making me really want to play it cool and not blow it)

I'm not a bad looking guy - and I would say that we are in the same league. I talked to a couple of my girl friends about it and their advice was to wait until midterms, form a study group, and then ask her to come to the study group; in the meantime, do subtle things to try and get her (or her subconscious) attention - like walking into class reading a book by the author she likes, or taking off my headphones as I walk into class and they're playing music that she likes, let her catch me checking her out (in moderation) etc.
However, I feel like this is all so fabricated - I don't want her to like me because she thinks I'm the kind of person who reads the author that she likes. I also think it would be silly to form a study group, because I wouldn't really talk to her one on one, and there would be very high odds she wouldn't even show up to the study group (and I'd end up just running a study group for no reason)

For girls on /adv/ reading this, what can a guy in a class with you do to show you that he's interested in you, without being creepy or making you feel uncomfortable to go to class?

If this were the last day of class, I would have no problem going up to her, telling her how I feel and asking her out - but I do not want to wait that long.

I really appreciate any advice you may have.

Thanks,
Anon

Don't think that your attention is discomforting.

You are sharing your feelings with someone and she should feel thankful for it.

Even if nothing is guaranteed, go for it, you have nothing to lose.

>>18055562
Thank you - in your opinion I should be direct and tell her that I think she's intelligent, insightful, etc and ask her out? (obviously not necessarily in those words) We've never had a conversation before, so I feel like that could be a little off-putting

>>18055172

Because those are the only people who feel the need to whine about it. People who actually do know what they like and what they want to do, just do it without making a show of it.

>>18055172

Because the system is absolutely piss poor these days, and has been for a while. Most of us were fed the "you can do anything you want" line, but as we get older, that turns into "you'll only make a decent wage if you're in STEM or a select few other fields." High schools stop teaching any kind of specialization - you may want to be a writer, but goddamnit to hell are you going to spend a significant chunk of your education learning about parallelograms.

Suddenly, you're in college, and holy shit, it's time to determine the rest of your life! The thing is, none of your entry level classes will prepare you at all for what you're getting into, and then the next three years of your life teach you a bunch of theoretical shit that doesn't prepare you for the workplace at all.

So it's a bunch of mixed messages without any exposure to what you really like, and by now it's too late.

>>18055172
This is why "muh freedom" doesn't work, humans need to be controlled, that's why the greatest inventions happened under dictatorship or slavery.

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>>18054865
Just go watch hockey naked with your bros

>>18054865
Seek the best for yourself and your people and then you can at least be sure that you didn't live and die in vain.

>>18054867
When i try doing stuff it always comes down to the feeling that nothing matters, other than maybe hedonism.

>>18054306
If you make it through adolescence without getting caught then you're a minority. Happens to all of us, if anything Dad will advocate for you

>>18054306
She's your mother, she knows you masturbate. Once the initial embarrassment wears off I wouldn't worry about it too much.

>>18054306
Relax. Every fucking person.... especially adults..... know kids fucking jerk off. This isn't like fidning you blowing a male stripper while whip cream cans are run out all over the floor.

Stop fucking overthinking it.

Your mom fucked a dude bareback and ate his cum over and over. Why the fuck are you freaking out.

Anyone could cheat on you. There is no 'type' that is more likely to cheat than others, except maybe someone who has cheated before.

>>18053587

The kind where you stop obsessing over them cheating on you before you've even met them.

>>18053599
Asking a question isn't obsession. Take that dick out of your ass.

That's like working full time for a year on min wage. What you should do is create a budget, try to find someplace under 1k a month and you should be fine. But please BUDGET YOUR MONEY and resist the urge to buy stupid shit

Is that 27,000 per year including rent?

Doesn't even matter... There is no way to live like a human being on less than 75K in NYC.

Also look for places on Staten Island. Personally speaking its an ok place