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Is it easy to get laid in college (male)?
I have at least average looks.
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>>18056418
it can be.
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>>18056418
if you're not completely autistic
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>>18056438
So no. Sorry OP, you'll be a virgin forever
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Is it illegal to short a taxi? Im waiting for a cab to take me across town because there is no bus service here. But problem is I only have a $20 and the trip probably will cost maybe $35? Im planning on having the cabi drop me and my frat brother Aaron at a gay bar which is about a half mile from our house we will walk rest of the way.
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>>18056404
>me and my frat brother at a gay bar
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>>18056406
Its a straight frat calm down Perez Hilton
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of course it is; cab drivers have the police on speed dial you know
just tell him you only have $20
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What are the most lucrative and stable careers if im a weak female who is both bad at and completely uninterested in math?
>inb4 stripping/escorting
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>>18056331
>>inb4 stripping/escorting
Organ donating is next on the list then.
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>>18056331
those two are hard to beat with the qualifiers you gave.
absent that, are you averse to hard work?
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>>18056331
Law after studying at a top 5 school
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I ran on my treadmill on 5.6 speed for only 5 minutes, I couldnt even do a slower level after I burned out. Whats wrong with me....
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>>18056310
Sounds like you have a lack of endurance. Start at a slower speed, then build up.
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>>18056314
I won't lose the weight I need to lose, I gotta go hard to burn what I need to get rid of. Im trying to lose like 30 pounds or so.
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>>18056322
well you aint gonna do it with running alone.
what else are you doing?
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Blew up at friend,now regret it 2017-02-17 02:16:27 Post No.18056273
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Blew up at friend,now regret it
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I got angry at a friend over something they did over a year ago that I just couldn't let go of, I said some hurtful things and basically told them to never contact me again. When I calmed down I realized I didn't want to just throw away 3 years of friendship and I apologized but they don't want to talk to me anymore, how do I resist the urge to keep trying to talk to them,I'd really like to fix things but don't want to pester them and make things worse, it's my birthday in 2 days and it won't be the same without them in it.
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self bump
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>>18056400
Thanks anon
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>>18056273
Well... what did your friend do?
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Being ghosted by a friend
I haven't heard from a female friend (FRIEND okay? Not crush) in 5 months. We would talk all the time, but then she ignored my texts and hasn't said anything to me since September.
How many strikes would you give a friend (she's done it several times before, but only for 2 months tops), and how long would you go before writing them off forever? People say you have to consider others' lives and what they might have going on, but i say that's bullshit. I have stuff going on too but i can make time for my friends. It only takes a second to text 'hi'. One second out of 5 months. If someone did that to you and came back after a long time, would you be happy that they're back and be nice to them? Would you call them out on it, or simply just not even bother replying?
There's a chance she might come back, but she's done this several times now, will probably do it again, and if she comes back i kinda just wanna say fuck off and be done with her. Would that be irrational?
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keeping score of who has been in touch with you when is pointless. i'd rather not hear from people than getting a meaningless ping once in a while. your contacts are assets. if you want a friend, get a dog.
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What are you even talking about? Friends don't ignore you for 5 months. Move on already.
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>>18056426
You're right. But how do i handle it if she ever texts me again out of the blue? She may never, but i'll go out on a limb and say that she probably will think of me one day and hit me up. She has done that where she hasn't talked to me in forever then i'll get a text from her saying she misses me and she's sorry she hasn't been around. I've always been nice about it, but i've given her enough strikes.
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What's the best way to study?
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Depends on your dominant learning style and subject. I know most are successful with watching online lectures/problem solving. I personally have the most success with classes that offer them or have content to be found online.
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>>18056193
This is an easy test to try to give you some tips:
http://www.businessballs.com/howardgardnermultipleintelligences.htm
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i have 3 degrees
its differen for everyone but heres some tips
dont overstrain yourself. Dont try and study for 8 hours straight, ESPECIALLY the same subject. The words will begin to blend together and you wont retain anything
Dont procrastinate- for the love of god, i did sleepless nights cramming- its not as fun as you see in movies.
Evaluate whats worth more. If you have two tests coming up in X and Y and Test in X is worst roughly 5-10% of your grade and Test in Y is worth 50% of your grade dont for the love of God put most of your time or even half towards X. Make it proportional. I knew a girl in my Bachelor of science degree that did the opposite, she put all her time into studying for her endocrinology exam worth 15% of her grade and put like an hour into her entomology exam worth 45% of her grade. Fun was not had.
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I make $40k a year, with a new job I could possibly make $50k a year, at the lowest $45k a year. I have $15k in savings.
I work in Hartford, the cost of living is pretty expensive in Connecticut. I want my own place, and no roommates. Is this possible?
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https://hartford.craigslist.org/search/apa?max_price=1000&availabilityMode=0
yeah, no problem.
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>>18056208
Isn't the rule supposed to be like housing can't be more than 28% of your take home pay?
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>>18056227
Yeah. so get an apartment instead?
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Hi /adv/.
I'll post the tl;dr below.
So, to put it in one sentence, this girl is basically the love of my life. I know her since high school, approx. 7 years now. She is beautiful, very intelligent and incredibly good natured. She is the kind of girl who gets along with everyone. I do not know a single person who dislikes her.
Back in school I was an immature, insecure and desperate faggot and behaved in ways that are quite honestly terribly embarrassing to me. That would have probably ruined the relationship with most people, but somehow we stayed friends.
After finishing high school, we both chose different studies which put some distance between us. This was definitely for the better as it stopped my autistic, teenage-esque crush (late bloomer btw, basically started puberty at 16) and I became a lot more relaxed about it.
We met at some party later that year and ended up talking forever, just catching up. We agreed to go to the theater together and had a great time. We share a lot of interests and just had a great conversation, we often had to stop ourselves from talking just to give the other one their turn to talk, never the least bit awkward. We've met up regularly for theater or just lunch / coffee / dinner since and it has always been great. Basically just like really great friends and I was happy with that.
But I can't deny that recently I have developed feelings for her again, or that they were always there under the surface. Back in October we went to a jazz club a friend of mine recommended and saw a fantastic show. We didn’t manage to meet since then until recently, at her birthday party due to both of us being very busy with our studies and her being out of country for a decent amount of that time. She lamented not being able to meet since then and said it should definitely not be so long until we meet again. In other words, we are going out to the theater next week.
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I’ve decided I’m going to give it a shot then. Despite how much I enjoy our current status; I think it would be a terrible shame not have tried it seems like it could be a great relationship. Should she reject me, at least I will have the clarity and possibility to move on then. Despite what is often said, I don’t see anything inherently wrong with dating a friend, I think we are both adult enough not to sour our relationship permanently, should this not work out.
However my only experience is a mistake of “”relationship”” I had last year, which was basically none thanks to me, as this girl was grinding my dick so hard even an autist like me would pick up. Basically this girl came onto me so strong I did next to nothing, so I have absolutely no idea how I would even initiate this. A full blown confession seems much too exaggerated to me, and the only way I pictured this was pointing out the obvious in that we get along fantastically and maybe should give it a shot with something more.
tl;dr This girl is my oneitis, we have been friends for a long time, share many of the same interests, get along great and can talk for hours. We’re going to the theatre next week and I have decided to make my move. However my relationship experience is very limited and I don’t have the faintest idea what to say.
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For what it's worth, I don't think it's a good idea. Hate to be a hater, but oneitis wires your brain differently that a normal loving relationship.
But since you're obviously not going to pay attention to that, here's some advice from an oldfag: At this point, it seems like almost a sure thing that she's at least somewhat into you. So don't psych yourself out/be insecure, because she probably feels at least somewhat similarly to the way you feel.
Good luck, if this works out for you you'll be one of the lucky few to legitimately conquer your oneitis.
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>>18056203
Sure, I agree that it must at least be some degree of oneitis. I myself am also somewhat worried what would happen if she does say yes. I want to be a good partner, but all this time of crushing on her seems like it might end up messing with having a normal relationship.
On the other hand, I don't want to try to shut her out of my life in hopes of overcoming the oneitis, as we are genuinely good friends. I really just enjoy the time we spend together just talking about menial things like literature, food or travels.
While I haven't listed them above, there are a decent number of things that make me think it might be mutual.
However, rejection might even be the easiest result for me, at least that gives closure, jumping into a relationship after this much time does seem scary. I wonder if there even is a right answer at this point.
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Coping with loneliness 2017-02-17 01:07:37 Post No.18056155
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how do you do it?
Long story short, she's gone, she's done with me, we didn't have a fully fleshed relationship but we had something,they were some feelings involved but some shit happened because my depression and her inestability and now we are "just" friends, the short time we spent together was too intensive for me to handle, a lot of emotions in a few days.
of course she doesn't know it, but its rough for me, she just kinda deleted all the memories and started to chase other guys. I've been alone all my life, she was the only person I had an experience with and it feels devastating, she was like a world to me, Im normally a lonely guy, but this is just too much, Im loosing interest fast on my hobbies, im sleeping all day and shit
I need some help, what do I do? do I delete her from all social media? block her? do I mantain contact with her having the faint hope that maybe she comes back? Im fucking lost, I know the first days are the hardest, I've lost people in my life, not romantically but lost either way, but this is insane
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>>18056155
my computer is my friend
being <<introverted>> might help
also watching a podcast or a tv show regularly helps, for me it's the joe rogan experience
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>>18056156
thats the problem, Im introverted, my friends tell me that I should create a dating profile or some shit, that scares me, I offer too little next to nothing, granted that my motivation is on the floor but I dunno, I didn't had any good experiences with love before, only rejects and the one girl I talk on the OP
Im 21 btw, I feel like my time is already running out and the feel of loneliness grows bigger with each day
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>>18056155
Find things that occupy your time, be it school, work, skill/hobby, whatever.
My ex and I broke up about 3.5 months ago and I can tell you it will be bad.
Your situation even sounds similar to mine, intense feelings very quickly and then suddenly she's gone.
Even now I still look at her social media just to see what she's up to.
I advise you to delete any pictures of her, block her on social media, delete her number, throw away anything that remind you of her.
No matter how hard it might be to do so, it will help.
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This is serious guys, i really need your opinion on this.
I posted about a month ago here regarding my gf being overly jealous. We had a talk about it and she accepted it is something wrong and we work on it. Since i don't wanna go into wall of text, i'll just greentext the rest
>2 weeks ago a fem friend sent me an invitation on facebook, accepted
>she asked me if i know if we have our exam results
>2 hours later my gf starts acting silent, i ask her what's wrong
>"I saw you accepted a pretty girl on your facebook... do you think she's pretty?"
>I'm like what the fuck, ask her what even is that question
>She asks me if i talk with my female best friend
>Today, my female best friend's twin sister messages me if i have time tomorrow because she has some "business" to talk about
>I know she wants to invite me to her wedding
>Tell my gf that i'll visit her later because of that (we hadn't set a certain hour)
>She goes into the same mode she did 2 weeks ago
>I try to talk with her, she ignores me
>i get mad because of the way she handles this
>Ask her why it's always her jealousy or fear that dictates everything in our relationship
>she doesn't know
>she claims she tried to do something about it, but with no effects
>i ask her if she even knows the reason of her jealousy
>she doesn't
>she didn't even look for it
Okay folks, how do i actually do something about it? Didn't go into details because it wouldn't bring much. I'm tired of being threated like a suspect every time i talk about something like this, but i also don't want to be unfair and keep secrets. I feel like nothing fucking changed, and this triggers me like crazy.
Also on a side note. We had sex a week ago, and our condom broke. She took a morning pill, i did some research and i kinda am stressed about it.
If anybody could help with at least one of these matters, i'd be very thankful.
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she's not going to change who she is, either deal with her being a jealous bitch
or don't
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>>18056141
Is your gf old and ugly as fuck? Normally the jealous ones are old bitches that don't realise how ugly they are.
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>>18056149
I think you're probably just fooling around, but no, she isn't ugly nor old. That's why i can't even comprehend why she's so jealous. Before we started dating she acted like she's super self-confident and the further the relationship goes the more of that claimed "self-confidence" dissapears.
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Are back rubs beta? Seriously?
>wife sits down on couch and just says "rub my back" Then turns her back toward me.
>I look at her like shes crazy for ordering me.
>Did i overreact?
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>wife tells you to touch her
>you come to /adv/ to ask permission from faggots to do so
this is the most beta shit i've ever seen in my life
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No. Not at all. What is utterly unmanly or 'beta' as you call it, is reacting to that request with a 'you are not the boss of me' type hissy-fit. You should see it as; my woman can not get enough of me and wants me to touch her, or the slightly less cro-magnon but equally valid; my woman wants to feel a sensual connection with me right now.
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>>18056139
How the fuck did you get married without growing out of this shit.
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18 last semester in high school. I have a 2.8 gpa, Eagle Scout, and certified in Microsoft excel and word. I want to goto a University. My parents have refused to pay for any of my college due to poor work ethic. Am I going to turn out as a 35 year living in an apartment with two crackheads still trying to pay off student loans? Is it even tangible for me to get into a university?
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>>18056138
Lmao, convert to Mormonism and go to BYU. Even if you have to pretend for a few years.
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>>18056147
You have to wear hats I'm not a hat kind of guy
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Bump anyone?
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what is it like when you first smoke weed?
i know this is a faggot question but im interested in trying it sometime.
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It's fucking great man, just do it.
But be aware that it can fuck up your life if you smoke that shit daily, just handle it the same as you handle alcohol (like 1-3 times a week max. or something).
:^)
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>first smoke weed
you feel happy beyond belief, floaty, tingly, warm and cozy. You'll never get as high as you did on your first time. Try it if you want.
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I didnt really feel anything aside from this annoying sensation that went up to the bottom of my near to the edge of my mouth. Also kind of light headed.
I don't really get the appeal.
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How do you lose weight WITHOUT getting sick?
Whenever I start seriously cutting calories my body tries to kill itself
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I'm sure that's totally real and not your addiction to fiod tricking you. If the symptoms are real, then you are genuinely addicted, and you're experiencing temporary pangs like someone detoxing from alcohol/opiates. They'll go away if you keep eating healthy long enough.
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Wait, what?
She's literally got pill-bottles on her belt.
I don't understand.
Also, physiological addiction. Your body won't kill itself, it'll just make you feel like your dying because it cries like a little bitch when it doesn't get what it wants.
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>>18056063
define sick? As in puking? If it's just you being hungry then stop being a lil bitch lmao