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Am I in danger of becoming a pedo?

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I discovered lolicon when I was about 12 years old (same age I started fapping). When I started, I didn't really care if the characters looked or were too young. "These girls are supposed to be around my age", I used to think to myself. As time went, I just kept fapping to it, along with other (more normal/"acceptable") kinds of hentai and porn. However, especially after I turned 17, I started thinking to myself "are they too young?". Shortly after, I started seeing more people saying that all lolicon fans as pedophiles, although they would reply that "loli != CP", and I agreed. I never saw real children as something I'd desire to have sex with. Maybe the only time was when I was 12 years old, when I wanted to have sex with my 12 or 13 years old classmates, but logically that must've been because I was, well, a child too. But as I grew up, I would now wish to sex girls around my age.
I turned 20 years old this week, and for some days before my birthday, as I went on with my regular fapping, I started thinking: "Am I getting too old for this?", "Is it really normal for someone my age to like lolicon?", "Am I really a pedophile?". Those thoughts have been giving me a though time, and since then, I've been in doubt. The fact that I've never been in a relationship (and that by consequence, I'm still a virgin) don't really help me. I don't really have anyone to tell this about IRL. Most of my friends are super normies who wince in the sight of anything related to anime.
I don't ever want to be a real pedophile. I know I don't want to rape children and I don't feel comfortable about the existence of real CP; the whole deal behind that market is gross enough that I don't want anything to do with it. But I don't want lolicon to become a "gateway drug" to that stuff. I just like that, the same way I like MILFs, or big breasts (yes, it's possible to like loli and big breasts).
What should I do?
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some people have freaky shit they like to keep under the bedsheets. I think being a pedophile is more of a thing that people are predisposed to rather than caused by environmental changes and enjoying lolicon. I wouldn't worry too much about these things, but porn in general is not a healthy habit, maybe just try to cut down on it. Don't let anyone know you enjoy lolicon because you will get judged harshly in the real world for it. 4chan is generally more full of open-minded people. Good luck OP.
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>>18154732
There isn't much resemblence between anime and real people. So I see no real reason to worry. They are more like caricatures
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It isn't much an issue as long as you distinguish between drawings and real children. If you're really worried i recommend avoiding any kind of porn and stop fapping for a while, if you fap do it to normal vanilla stuff and don't do it too often.
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>>18154732
wow the resemblance to my own situation one month ago is uncanny.

i just went through this, i did a quick google search and read other people stories.

i can recommend you read some articles about your situation, then if you're really in need of help b4u act is a place you can talk to people who have had thoughts but haven't acted on them, its not the same situation since you're into loli's but it will help.

personally i came to grips with it all, i was very paranoid but i found that its just porn and i find actual children repulsive. i feel much better and hopefully you will too.

if all that fails then i guess you could cut out loli's and whatnot (this may mean hentai too for a bit)
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I don't think you're in danger of becoming a pedo. You recognize that fiction is not reality, and have no desire to doing anything with real children. That being said, from what I've seen growing out of loli and wanting to distance yourself from it, even if you can technically still get aroused from it, is very normal. It might be time to make it a once-in-a-great while thing.
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>>18154732
kek, I had an actual pedo phase at 15-16, the constant CP spam on /b/ turned me into a pedo, I had a ton of pics saved on my pc which was a danger for my whole family at the time, I even browsed the deep web to get more pics. After that I found out what it felt being in the arms of a woman and I quit all of my weird porn fetishes (lolis, feet, anal, etc).

Basically your porn preferences don't even reflect your real fantasies, I used to jerk off to feet but when I experienced playing around with a woman's feet it felt dull and unstimulating, and from what you're telling us, you're doing it more as a habit than actual fantasy.

I will suggest you switch to regular porn material or a different kind of doujins, as it is making you quite anxious, also, reduce your porn consumption, you'll have a better self esteem.
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>>18154732
Too bad, if you have masturbated to lolicon at least once after turning 18 that makes you a pedophile. You now have no choice but to go around raping children even if you don't want to

Is this the answer you expected?

My advice is, stop obsessing over semantics. If you don't want to rape children, don't do it. Keep fapping to lolis and if you want to betray the 2D heaven go for girls your age
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>>18154732

I personally don't care, as long as you don't act on your actions. There are many lolicons who love to give the excuse in that "it's just a drawing" but I guarantee you half the excusers would diddle children if they could get away with it.


Anyways this is not about that. All I'm saying is that don't diddle irl children, and also don't tell normals that you fap to cartoon children cause that's opening a can of snakes.
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lolicon as in toddlers or hebe?

hebe girls have traits that attract males such as tits and a developed torso - no matter how small, so it's natural to be attracted to girls that biologically appear to be ready to mate.
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>>18154732
It's because it's kinda a habit now. If I were you I'd drop the Loli porn (you're 20, definitely considered creepy now) and if you still choose to watch porn watch something less creepy. Or just stick to like hentai with females that are obviously of age
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>>18156321
>obviously of age

200 year old vampires look 12 in animu
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>>18154820

This.

I think there's also a clear distinction between true lolicon and just "lolita" stuff. Like a lot of the "loli" tropes in anime and such really just look like small flat-chested girls IRL. Like there are plenty of tiny girls with tiny tits that guys love fucking anyway.

But then there's like... actual lolicon stuff where they're drawn to look like 7-year old chubby-cheeked ghibli characters and uncomfortably realistic-looking kids - now that stuff is fucked up.

What are you referring to, specifically? The "middle schoolers" in anime typically have wide hips, tiny waists, long legs with thick thighs and half the time they're also fucking STACKED - in other words, they don't look much like IRL middle schoolers.
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>>18156417
I don't like realistic looking lolis. They just creep me the fuck out most of the time. I only really fap to those that look moe or cartoony.
And I've got to add that I hate toddlercon. Now that shit is too extreme, no matter the way you draw it.
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>>18156341
>draw a 12 year old
>say she's 30
Yeah, that doesn't actually circumvents anything.
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>>18157736
Legally speaking, it probably does, even if it's one hell of a loophole.
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>>18154732
cartoons arent fucking real
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