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>>18216334
Doesn't matter. Stop thinking about it.

God, how do you people live overanalyzing every moment of your life?

>>18216434
>>18216439
But if this were as odd to several others as it were to me, I'd use this as an opportunity to ask her out. I mean to be fair, why would someone I don't know point me out in a way that was like "Oh there's anon"?

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Poor bait

>>18216319
spread your legs like the whore God intended you to be. you are here to service mens dicks and drain their nuts. let them blow their loads in all of your holes. stop being a stuck up prude bitch

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You lose either way OP, even if you become a lesbian.

Your thread reeks of desperation and self-loathing.

You need to learn to love yourself.

You can't make anyone love you and if you loved yourself, you wouldn't want to.

When you hate yourself, any relationship is just as likely to destroy you as it is to uplift you.

This relationship is doomed. You are smothering her as if that's something desirable or as if she's a prize to be one.

A relationship is just two people who like each other and enjoy spending time together. Stop begging and start being yourself.

Maybe she'll like it, maybe she won't. But you'll like yourself more and you may actually be able to get into a real relationship with someone who cares about you.

You're not into it, your into her. Polyamory is not something you adapt too, you'd feel naturally fit to it if it was for you.

I have a gf and we're seeing another girl, things just clicked so well that we're kinda "dating" her in a ldr. But we have never considered poly before. At the very least you'd be bro's with the other guy for it to work.

>>18216312
I am a husband in Polyamourus marriage. Accept what you are given. Try to meet her needs without seeming overly needy. No girl likes a needy guy. Sensitive, sure.

You can tell her you love her and possibly open discussion about how you feel when she's away, but this is the relationship you signed up for and will have to accept a little give and take.

Sure, sometimes my wife spends hours on end talking to her bf on Skype, but he also has to accept that she lives with me. Polyamoury is about accepting the human experience as it comes to you. Just as I know my wife loves me and her boyfriend. I'm sure it's possible for her to love you too.

>>18216289
Just be honest. Are you okay with just being friends? If so, then say so. If not, then say so.

Stop overthinking it.

>>18216291
This.

Though given you're posting on here, I'm gonna take it that being friends will just tear you up OP and you'll never actually be her friend, you'll just be holed up waiting hoping she'll change her mind.
>Protip, she won't.

So do yourself a favor and say thanks but no thanks and move along.

>>18216291
But I'm conflicted, hence the thread.

I like her and I'm happy when we're together but I'd be even happier if we were a couple.

>>18216294
>you'll just be holed up waiting hoping she'll change her mind

Are schmucks like me really this easy to read?

Post whores tits

>>18216282
It's fucking retarded dude, that's a thing feminists came up with to torture some poor cucks. Truth is, we are naturally programmed to fap/sex until our juice runs out.

>>18216282
You only need to space out faps 3-5 days, it's not that hard.

>>18216260
Kick them in their rancid sweaty cunts.

>>18216260
be strong and fit yourself?

>>18216260
Ask them to teach you how to do something, like a deadlift or to improve your squat form. Even if you already know, just play along and they'll come away feeling good about the interaction as they've helped somebody. Thank them and then ask for their number (for future training sessions obviously), or just go with the convo and take it from there.

>>18216254
It's AIDS. No cure.

>>18216258
Oh no?!?!?!?!!!
Is it frowned upon in this board to ask for health/hygiene advice?

>>18216261
I don't think it's against the rules but I think most people would prefer to not be exposed to skin conditions. Just go to a doctor

Ah man, sounds like me.
Except I don't actually have the balls to say I'm not attracted to him, because I don't actually wanna drag his self esteem down to my level.

But to answer your question, desperation. That's why I'm doing it. I cannot get another guy, he's the only one to express interest in me. So I fool around with him because it's better than nothing.

I'm a trash human being and I hate myself. Ugly girls gotta do what she has to in order to survive though.

>>18216211

shes stringing you on and using you. she has a physical connection to you but psychologically wants nothing

>>18216218
>I don't actually have the balls to say I'm not attracted to him
See, that's the problem here, because when we meet up, she can say several times that I'm handsome and says what should stay in my look, what should change, etc.
We also have a lot to talk about, because we are both into sports.

>Ugly girls gotta do what she has to in order to survive though
Thing is, she's easily a 7/10, very fit, round ass, small tits, very social, open to people. Somewhat got a stiff sense of humor and can easily get angry because she doesn't catch irony out well enough, which is weird.

Basically, I was the only one brave enough to get into that sort of stuff with her, and she's acting like she has a split personality.

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>>18216181
>Do I instantly subconciously dislike guys who find me attractive?
Yes, unless it's Chad. There is nothing wrong with you, you are like all the other women, dont worry.

https://youtu.be/EFnJMPQow7A

>>18216181
Possibly self-confidence issues? Is it that you can't see why someone would like you, thus they must be weird and untrustworthy? I might just be chatting shit though

>>18216181
Do you actually want to date anyone?

Maybe you just aren't interested in a relationship right now or maybe you're asexual or aromantic so other people's interest makes you uncomfortable.

Also, should I bother texting her anymore?

>>18216174
She probably considers you an acquaintance but not a friend.

If she sees you, she may enjoy the convo but that doesn't mean she's gonna go out of her way. It happens. Friends grow apart.

You've probably missed your shot and she no longer feels the same way.

Orrrrrr you could ask her instead of relying on maybes and probably's from strangers on the internet.

But if you want to start a relationship of any kind with her you better be real sure about what you want. Are you upset because she's not your friend anymore or are you upset because you'll never get to date her or are you just upset because it felt nice to have someone interested in you? It matters and you should get your feelings sorted before even thinking about how she might feel.

>>18216171
>requite
Nice ten dollar word.

Anyway, I like the naivete of the young and ignorant.

There is a high degree of probability that this girl still harbors feelings for you, and she feels slighted by your apparent rebuff of her courtship. She's gone into this classic. female, evolutionary psychology state of mind, where she is 'playing hard to get.' She honestly, probably still wants your love and affection, but now she's re-trying her strategy. Males get emboldened by a good 'hunt' or challenge and, even though she's probably not doing it by design, but she wants you to start courting her now.

tl;dr she wants your d. And you have two responsible choices: if you love her, then start courting her, and tell her what you told us, 'I wasn't ready then', ask for forgiveness, and see if that will be enough. Two, if you don't have feelings for this chick, then you need to verbally tell her as much so that she can move on.

Find something you enjoy more, unless it's your absolute favorite thing to do. It'd that simple man.
I play games because I simply can not find anything better I want to do. It's my favorite thing to do and always makes me happy, if you're not having fun or being happy while playing a game 95% of the time, you need to find a different hobby.
Games are made for fun, if you're not having fun, theres no point to playing them.

Unplug the system, put it, the games and controllers all in a box in your room. Delete any app games off your main cellphone.

Just did this a few days ago. Urge to play is there but not strong enough to set the entire thing up again, which makes it easier to stay away.

>>18216144
Get rid of the gaming systems and all the games is a good start to stopping gaming once and for all. Just break all of your controllers right now, that's a step in the right direction.

Get one of those dinosaur bone/meteorite rings for like $1,500. Pretty sure there are people selling them on Etsy. Definitely what I plan on doing in 40 years when I'm ready to settle down.

>>18216160

dinosaur bones are a lot cheaper than you think though 1500 is halfway to paying for a decent skull.

i get most of mine for free because one of ourclients lives on a fossil bed.

>>18216167
Sounds uncomfortable. Does he sleep well?

>>18216112
Doesn't matter if you go on the offensive.

>>18216112
Most girls even in era of feminism never approach boy themselves. They shows signs of being interested in you, but no boy even has mastered recognition of these signs.

Your best bet is to look at girl, go to her and awkwardly ask her is she want to
>hand out with you
>go to cinema
>go to date
>any other social activity

And remember, if girl likes you, she will want to hang with you. Buy condom beforehand to avoid show called teen and pregnant.

Overthinking will get you exactly nowhere.

Gaze into her eyes and if she keeps eye contact and smiles, shes either a good person or into you. Either way you hold a position in her mind, unless it gets awkward and ahe says "what?" or some other lame shit. Don't be a goober and pitch a compliment now and then, hair, eyes, clothing. But dont touch her unless youre absolutely certain you should.

>>18216102
What exactly are you looking for here?

>>18216138
Well, I guess it's actually a pretty bad place to come for advice about stuff like this, so idk. It seems like everyone on this site has people to talk to, even if they make them miserable.

>>18216272
Do you have an actual question? This is a board for requesting advice, not your blog.

5 hours is a bit short to assume ghosting dude, just give it a day or two and if she hasn't responded then just vow to never ask someone out over facebook again

>>18216104
True, already have vowed that straight after I did it honestly

Wow, Mr. Nice Guy. She's not attracted to you, but its nice to spend some waiting time in a conversation.