My crush recently told me that she feels incapable of feeling love. What do I do? She seems perfect in almost every other way. She's the only one I want. I just feel absolutely crushed and don't know what to do about it because it's been made abundantly clear that I will likely never get a chance with her. The pain is never stop, /adv/.
>>18213457
You let her go. She rejected you, so you have to learn to let the idea of being romantically involved with her go.
I know that sucks, but it's important. Do some other shit. Find some hobbies. Meet other girls. Stop thinking about her all the time.
>>18213533
But she didn't reject me, at least not on purpose. I don't even think she knows I feel anything for her. Is giving up really my best bet at this point?
>>18213546
You just said you will "likely never get a chance with her". She sounds like she's discovering she's aromantic and/or asexual.
If confessing and getting rejected will give you the closure you need, by all means do it. But you can't change her feelings, there isn't some trick to it.
>>18213457
ask her if she still wants sex, then proposition her for casual sex, and then fuck her on the side while dating other girls, DUH! this shit isn't rocket science
what are you, fucking twelve years old? woman say shit all the time and then change their mind depending on the mood. If you ask her to date her without establishing any sort of positive emotional connection between you two in the moment, why would she even be in the state of mind to want to date you?
Do you even have anything going in your life besides obsessing over this girl? Un resolved child hood conflict? start exercising and by the time you graduate you'll be confident with yourself
>>18213457
You are so obviously a kid. I guarentee you don't pay your own rent or drive yourself around.
Op, she's a nut case. You are infatuated, not in love, infatuated with your idea of this girl -- NOT THE REAL HER.
>>18213533
Seconding this. Very painful, I know, OP. But part of life. We must take the pains for the gains. The sooner you accept the better, but it will take time.
Do not waste time, however, searching for proof that she will give you a chance. This will only delay you from bettering yourself and meeting new people.
>>18214065
Hannibal is the fucking man
> incapable of love
By definition a relationship would be almost impossible.
Abort now, and find someone else.
Trust us, you'll be better for it in the long run.
>>18213561
Aromantic or asecual are buzzwords that mean nothing, she is capable of feelings like lust and love, she just doesn't want you and told you that as a preventive message, I'm sorry OP, there are other girls around there