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>>18327209
>Also more general advise to approach qts at uni

Start simple. Try making friends in class. Male and female. Maybe even hang out after class.

You are way to deep inside your head to worry about strangers right now. Meet girls when you are relaxed and having fun.

>>18327214
But desu there's this really hot chick who's gonna leave soon I have a huge fucking crush on her and have about a week. She doesn't even know I exist.

>>18327209
>Every girl I ever spoke to has told me I have cute handsome face but also mentioned my expression turns them away

loool sure

>>18327111
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As this was going on with him last year, I too found myself in October to be incredibly lonely and burnt out from work/family issues. A girl who dated one of my friends and dumped him, tried to get with me and knowing what such behaviour did to my brother/just feeling gross about it, I told her to wait. We hung out, made out, but never took it beyond that. She kept throwing "I love you's" and sex at me, but it only worried me more and gave me a sense of manipulation. For the record, I am a virgin at this age by choice. I have had many opportunities to have sex, but I've always wanted a girl to "get me" as a person first and just be with me before taking that step. She knew this about me through mutual friends, and I really got the sense that she just wanted to "conquer" me and then ditch. My two good friends also told me that she cheated on her last boyfriend and that after hanging out with her, she was very similar to the girl my brother had been seeing. I took their advice and decided to continue seeing her, but to ask for time so that I could see her character for myself.

>>18327115
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January of this year my brother tried to kill himself, wrote the letter and everything. I took it as a cry for help and told my siblings not to worry too much and that we needed to pull together and just be there for him. My father came to my work in muted panic and handed me the letter and asked me if I knew where he was.(He and I work together), I told him that he was here and that I'd keep him after his shift was done to make sure that he didn't do anything crazy. By the time I got back to the office though, he was gone and I wasn't answering his phone. My older sister and I drove around in our cars, trying to find him. I called my dad and asked if he'd gone home maybe, and my dad lost his shit on me and said that I todl him I'd watch over my brother. That why was I asking him where he was now? I told him that he obviously ducked out to avoid me talking to him, but he kept blaming me and said that if my brother killed himself; it'd be on my conscience. My sister finally found him on a random road and took him back to her house for the night.

>>18327120
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I decided to go see the girl that I was seeing and drove over. She was hanging out with a bunch of guys though at the bar and I couldn't really get comfortable with her to talk. Eventually though I managed to ditch those guys and take her with me. I told her that I was getting murderd emotionally and that I felt like I was shutting down(This is something I do when very overburdened) and she knew this about me and I told her that night that I could feel it coming, but that I was trying really hard to hold on and that we were fine. But that if I acted a little distant and down, she would know why. We drove around some more, had fun and I dropped her off home. She kissed me and told me that she really liked me and that I was the guys she wanted to be with, and not some random from a bar. This left me feeling very happy and secure in our blossoming relationship. I went back home and slept well for the first time in weeks. Then I got a phone-call from my mom and other brother, my youngest sister had now tried to kill herself too. I don't know man...I think I just broke harder than I thought possible, I wasn't sleeping, barely eating and work was killing me. I felt completely exhausted. That girl and I talked a lot less the following two weeks as I kept trying to deal with the implosion of my family. She texted me once asking if I was okay and I said that I was. Then my birthday rolled around and a few of my friends got me a group gift, I thanked them for it and assumed she had contributed to it. I called her up and thanked her for the gift, but she told me that she hadn't contributed to it. She then told me that she *had* got a gift for me, but that since I didn't seem impressed or happy with anything lately, she decided not to give it to me. This really stunned me and I laughed it off and told her that it was the thought that counted.

You said you tried specific foods but just to make sure, eating some pineapple daily is supposed to really help, and the more (water!) you drink the more diluted your bodily fluids are.

Having said that some people are more sensitive to taste than others and especially if it does gross her out psychologically to taste your bodily fluid, she will likely respond very exaggerated to tasting anything at all. I mean it's still your semen, not water.

Can she deepthroat and/or does she want to learn how to deepthroat? If so this can help you shoot it far down so she doesn't taste much of it..

>>18326391

strawberries and pineapple juice senpai

what exactly are you eating/drinking
are you taking something for your working out

i eat red meat, smoke, spicy food, milk but only drink water and she never complained

>>18326276
deal with it, and move on with life.

break contact, focus on hobbies/objectives, keep busy, be socially active.

You'll get over her in no time.

you feel sad, cry, beg, drink and after a while you pull yourself togather and continue living your life

doing something with it might get her back, wallowing in self pity forever 1000% wont

I think it would be better if you didn't talk about it and kept your sexual preferences to yourself.

>>18326277
It would be better if you'll stop hating people for what is not their choice.

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>>18326272
In modern psychopathology, paedophilia is not seen as a disease or disorder, instead it is seen as a sexual preference akin to hetero- and homosexuality. It is something you are wired with, either due to nature or nurture (this is still debated). Most people with this prerference suppress it successfully and it does not hinder them much in life.

Compared it to this: a heterosexual male will not jump or molest every girl/woman he sees, all the time. He might be attacted to a fine female specimen, but refrain from acting. It works the same way with people who are (sexually) attracted to children, only they have to suppress it even more. For where a (sexual) relationship with the opposite gender (age of consent) is socially accepted, a relationship of the same properties with a child is not.

Then, there is also a cultural bias (rightly so) and the fact that attraction to children is not always sexual in nature. It is a quite complicated subject, actually.

För helvete, Leif.

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>>18326156
It's not that uncommon actually. My best friend is 32 and is dating a 23 year old. See it this way, the older you get, the less it will matter. She is 22, an adult who is living her own life and making her own decisions. In 10 years you will be 43 and she will be 32 years old. Do you consider that creepy at all?

>>18326234
I don't, but the woman I'm dating won't see it that way. I wish to figure what the consensus is. I think there are three types of very young women:

>think dating older guys is sickening, only dates guys about the same age
>won't mind either way, dates guys their own age and older
>will exclusively date older guys, no interest in guys their own age

God Emperor, I seek advice. My girlfriend gets overly emotional during our fights we had 2 during our 1 year being together and every time it happened she was all ready to break up.

What should I do if it happens again? Dump her ass or tell her to stop being a little baby?

Outside of that she's pretty amazing, treats me very well which in turn I do the same.

How bad was your first time and was alcohol involved?

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>>18326123
What are you two fighting about? Of course having the occasional (verbal) fight is normal in a relationship, but it should never push any one of you all the way to breaking point.

That she's amazing, is a big plus. and that you two treat each other well, doubly so. The goal is to get closer towards one another.

A lot of fights are caused due to lack of mutual understanding. Always try to stay calm, even if you feel that it's really difficult. Be her beacon of tranquility when she is feeling emotional. And most of all, talk, talk, talk to her. I cannot emphasize this enough.

He probably already likes you somehow if you guys fuck. But I mean... Talking is always helpful. Just tell him what you think.

>>18326099
But i think he kinda has a clue i do, or just assumes, and he knows im single and he doesnt try anything. I think im just a good fuck. I mean we're friends, but i dont thinj he likes me romantically

>>18326107
Never assume anything.

Look up the five love languages. Figure out which one your significant other is receptive to. For as long as you are together ensure that you do those things with him/her.

What's "something like this"?

Is that picture supposed to be bad?

That sounds like the best way a breakup could go...

a and/or b

>>18325919
find a new gf while keeping this one as a spare.

>>18325919
A
if she's a good friend distance yourself from her for a month and start to talk to her again. if not then just drop her

Why are you dating him in the first place if you don't trust him?

You don't get into a fight expecting to lose.

If you think there's a chance he's going to cheat on you, you have bigger problems.

>>18325916
No matter how much I like a guy I know they're human and therefore imperfect. Most guys would cheat on you no matter how much they feel for you

Most people who are cheated on trusted their partner and would never have believed that their partner would cheat on them. But it happened

You can NEVER tell whether they're likely to cheat on you or not

>>18325881
So a friend lends you a gift and you go and fucking break it immediately. What a good friend you are

Also
>$2000
Fuck mate. Why would you ever spend that on fucking cosmetic items

The only possible thing you can do is buy him a new 30 acc and as many riot points as you can afford. Do this and I doubt they can stay mad at you. He was probably losing interest in the game, anyway, seeing as he let you borrow his account

install dota 2 and play that until your friend gets home

i mean you already seem convinced so what did you want people to say?

You're way over simplifying it and it's not really like that. Normal well rounded people just want someone they get along with, not a pretty face.

Hahahahaha I can't figure out if it's always the same guy posting this, or if we should start making prozac come out of the taps everywhere

>>18325579
Why wouldn't they aim for someone with a pretty face and that they can get along with?

Dating is frustrating, isn't it? What do you do when you feel like telling to a potential partner "I'm retiring from the race to your heart"?

Is there a guide to taking good pictures?

I want some good ones for dating sites, but I'm a photographic retard

I recently asked this girl out and she said no. I'm over it but I'm wondering if it's sensible to immediately start being interested in another girl that seems to have potential. Please don't murder me

Like, a religious or ideological one? Or you want me to tell you that you can still become an astronaut or summit? I kinda get what you're asking but it's too vague for any legitimate advice.

>>18325219
every human person has a will to live, you have either
1. lost it in some way (bad things happening in your life)
2. have depression or other psychological issues

so why don't you tell us a little bit more about yourself if you want any help

>>18325229
I don't know. It is vague. And no, I can become whatever I want to be, but the reason for doing so eludes me. I used to want to perform physics for a lofty ideal but I saw the unreasonableness of it and now I'm sitting here wondering why aside from my own singular life experience which is cool in and of itself, but I want something more than just pussy money and fame for the sake of pussy money and fame.