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Let it out, /adv/. Write letters you will never send. Confess.
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Learning how to cope with losing you Abbie.
You still cross my mind a lot and I keep blaming myself, but I'm slowly starting to accept it and move on.
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>>18321981
I wish I was never born
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You called me narcissist, egocentric and said so many harsh things about me (which are all untrue, for the record).
Have you taken a good, hard look at yourself? It's so easy to point at others and single out their flaws and mistakes.
Just...Just get the fuck out of my life. For good. If you ever run into me in the future, and you likely will, pretend we never met. Don't talk to me, don't look for me, dont even think about me ever again.
Whatever connection we had left is now severed. We are strangers.
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Am I remotely attractive? 2017-05-15 11:44:05 Post No.18319434
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Am I remotely attractive?
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Rate me please, I always see the girls go for my friends and I'm overlooked every single time. Am I that bad? I'm looking for brutal honesty guys, don't sugar coat it.
>Pic related, I had a bad hair day but sums my everyday image up pretty well
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>>18319434
No, but it's because you're fat, lose weight and you'll reveal you're true facial aesthetics.
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No, unless the girl has a chub fetish.
But you could be if you start lifting. Theres hope for you, OP.
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Depends you look ok but I wouldn't wear dark clothing. Try wear ing more revealing clothes working out could help
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My breasts are like pic related
How do I become more comfortable naked and not cry whenever someone make saggy tits jokes?
Like today on reddit there was an old woman with cleavage out and her breasts sagged as much as mine and people were making remarks about how saggy they were
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>like today on reddit
You have to go back
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>>18319179
I like boobs that i can grab and suck on and think you are silly for questioning something so natural that is a incredibly irrelevant detail for guys to even aknowledge as a problem.
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people online =/= people irl
those tits look hot enough for me desu
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>Sad everyday
>Wake up wanting to die
>Cry all day
>over-react to negative energy from family
>always getting into arguments and fights
>feel like everyone is against me
>feel too much
>been extremely suicidal lately
>why is there no help out there
>want to kill myself
I'm thinking of going on prozac or something.
I just want to feel nothing.
I just want to be normal.
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Hang in there. There IS help out there. Prozac might not be a bad idea. Can you get access to therapy? If not, it sounds like a cliche, but exercise can also help lessen emotions. Anything to externalize, and realize that the problem is not inside you. It is worth fighting the battle against depression, although it isn't easily won.
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Conceal yourself with the lord. Jesus Christ. I'd suggest listening to Gothic chants or other different kinds of chants that will somehow degrade this depression of yours.
e.g https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cX9bYNK5oC0
Gothic chant - Sanctorum Exultatio. I hope this will help somehow. Please I bag you, god bless you. Be strong.
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>>18319003
Here's my kik if you wanna talk
famve
When do preferences become fetishes? Is it racist to strongly prefer one race of girl/guy? White guy with a thing for black girls asking.
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>>18318550
What does this pic make you feel?
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>>18318559
I dunno, seem like a cute couple
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why you even worry about that? i am an asain but my gf is latina, and yea some stupid will say shit, but we're happy together
Isn't that the most important thing?
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I am going to hang myself, I am drunk and high of everything. I am autistic and my parents accused me of hating them. No reason to live, I tried to apologize and they don't think I am sincere. I am going to hang myself regardless but I would like to know what level of pain I am looking at and what to expect. I kinda want it to hurt to be honest, I feel I deserve it. I am kinda of worried my parents will be very upset if I do kill msyelf cause maybe they will blame themselves but since I can't do anything and the relationship is over, I suppose it doesn't matter. Some people say you lost conciness in 3 mins, if so what happens in those three mins? Do my eyes pop out? Do I go deaf? I am already death in my left ear and my right hand is broken cause I am having a hell of a day but please give all the details you can, I can take it and I know I deserve it. Pain does not scare me, I guess the unknown does more. I love my parents so much and they have told me several times to get out of their live and to kill myself so I know its what I deserve.
All I want is to hear my moms voice but she won't even talk to me, she says I abused her, crying so much, I said I didn't want to talk to her cause I have been so abused by everyone I am mute. I meant that I love her so much I would suffer though social communication for her but she took that to mean I said I hate her. I love her so bad, I want to die so bad. Please tell me what to expect?
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If pain not only doesn't scare you, but you're actively seeking it, then what does it matter happens? Just do it, faggot.
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First thing call the suicide line you twat.
Second your parents don't accept your condition of autism, "it's normal" because everyone want to pride themselves with healthy children and that sort of shit.
Third why you should care about then? You have yourself to carry on with the life, live for yourself, because the world is neutral and don't give a flying fuck about you and me.So that means you have to craft a meaning, not throw the responsibility at other people.
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>Killing yourself in an altered state of mind
>Nothing of value was lost.
Seriously Faggot, if youre going to do it, at least do it sober when you can think it through
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Is my friend lying to me so I won't try and date her friend? (Or friend told her to lie to me so I won't try and date her?) Genuinely mindfucked right now.
>Friend (A) has cute friend (B)
>Before I get a chance to flirt with B, she leaves
>Later that night I ask A if B has a boyfriend
>Tells me I should stop trying to get with her friends
>Haven't flirted or asked out any of her friends but whatever
>Says B isn't answering
>We go to sleep since it's pretty late
>This morning A texts me saying B has a girlfriend and that she never knew I was into guys
>Ask her who has a gf and when was I gay
>Says B does
>mfw completely mindfucked right now
>Ask if B is a guy just to make sure this isn't a joke
>A says yes
Now get this, before I asked if B had a boyfriend, A always referred to B using female pronouns. Is A lying, B asking A to lie or is B legit a boy? Pic related
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Tl;dr
P/s I can't understand your story. Try to write it more clear
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>>18322749
not op, but it seems like OP wants to date A's friend, B. OP asks A if B is single, A avoids question. A then tells OP that B has a girlfriend, ad insinuating that B is a guy (all of a sudden, even though A was previously referring to B as "her/she") and A states she didn't know OP was into guys. OP is very confused, as everyone has referred to B as a girl this entire time, now A is saying B is a guy with a girlfriend.
OP, she's lying, and it's a really weird thing to lie about. A should have just came right out and said she likes you and just doesn't want you talking to her friends.
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>>18322749
TLDR
Asked friend A if friend B has a boyfriend, friend A says she's actually a guy and has a girlfriend. Is she lying or is friend B making her lie?
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So I'm somewhat of a psychnaut and I'd like to experiment more with drugs such as acid, shrooms, molly, percs, ketamine and lean.
I'm fully aware that drugs are 'bad' but I always do my research before taking something I've never done before. I suppose what I need advice on is if I should go through with it? I feel like I'd be shamed and judged by my family and lover. I find it unfair I cannot do what I like based on how others will perceive. I need answers from open minded anons please.
I want to explore more self awareness and different planes of consciousness. Should I be sneaky and just not tell anyone? I'd rather not.
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>>18322506
>I want to do stupid stuff
>but I don't want to be judged for doing said stupid stuff
Life doesnt work that way, boy. Grow up.
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>>18322540
What do people mean when they say grow up?
It's the most idiotic expression I've ever seen.
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>>18322540
It seems that life seems to explicitly work this way.
People that do horrible things generally conceal what they've done. They have their fun, and they're then gone.
People always want to escape the judgment of others, and it doesn't matter how old they are.
"Grow up." These are words that come from a fucking idiot.
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I just realized I'm an asshole.
Is there a cure for that?
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A bullet to the head.
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Find Jesus or God and live a better person.
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>>18322495
I'm too pussy for that.
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I got a bit of an unusual question for adv. when is it the right time to get married. I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for soon to be 5 years. It only just really hit me that it has been that long and I am wondering if since it has been five years if we should just get married. When I think about the future I pretty much make plans like we are going to be together for at least the next 20 years and he does too. but here is the catch we are both only 20 we got together in highschool and just ended in a long term committed relationship almost on accident. We dont really have plans for kids till at least the age of 25 since i have long term career plans ( i really want to go for my phd before settling down) but at that point we would have been in a relationship unmarried for 10 years. i feel like i am getting pressured to get hitched since we have no intentions to see anyone else for pretty much the rest of our lives. but we are also still very young and life is long. i feel like i dont have anyone in my life to compare to since my parents got married in their 30s and his got married young and went through a messy divorce. i dont know should i take the dive and get married or just let things be as they are
also he has not proposed and we feel like getting married should not be something someone surprises on the other one but rather a well though out mutual decision.
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>>18322075
women dont mature until theyre around 30. if you marry before that you are fucking up and they will find the first opportunity to be promiscuous.
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>>18322087
I don't think that is gonna be an issue since i am a woman
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is there anyone else who i can get some advice from?
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How to make yourself feel sexually attracted to someone? 2017-05-16 07:21:05 Post No.18321975
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How to make yourself feel sexually attracted to someone?
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I'm 22 and I've never been attracted to someone but it looks like fun.
I've spent my summers getting to know lots of people but I was never interested in any of them. I very rarely think someone is cute or appealing anyway.
Flirting and people touching me (of any gender or level of intimacy) does absolutely nothing to turn me on.
Any solution or do I just accept this?
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Either you wait for it to happen or deal with the fact that you may be having antisocial personality disorder.
Do you get aroused by porn?
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>>18322004
I do not have APD. I have plenty of empathy and good relationships with other people. I'm not that charming either so seems unlikely.
Yep porn is fine but I'm not attracted to the people in it. I usually need a story of some kind to get into it and animated stuff works better for me.
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Same way, OP.
I always hated truth or dare when I was younger because the leading topic was always "I dare you to tell the truth Anon...who is your crush?" And they never accepted "I don't have one" because apparently it's impossible not to have a crush?
It'd be nice to know what a crush 'feels' like though, but I've just never been crazy over a person like that.
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> Be me a hot 20 year old girl
> Never been into clubbing but friends are going out tonight
>Am so broke I only have a good body because I'm too poor to buy anything but veggies and rice
> How do I get into a VIP club for free and spend nothing but still get drunk?
>I think it might be harder than just pushing my tits in someones face.
Please help me with my first world privileged problem
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>hot 20 year old girl
I don't think so. Post pic.
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it really ist just pushing your titts into someone's face. the trick is to be so good looking that the guy can't comprehend why you give him any attention whilst simultaneously make him feel interesting and desireable in subtle ways.
good luck.
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>>18321964
>create account on SeekingArrangement
>find a sugar daddy
>let him pay you for everything and give you an allowance in exchange for sex with your hot young body
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My girlfriend and I are in a long-tern, long-distance relationship. Essentially, we got together in high school and we go to different colleges. I work full time and am a full time student at a community college, she is an RA at a four year college. We see each other for a few days about every two weeks while she's in school.
We have an agreement that we let each other know if other people are interested in us. Her email is hooked up to my phone as well as mine, and this is one of the things that decided to pop up. What do you guys make of it? She never mentioned anything about this guy or any conversation, but it seems like she shut him down. It really makes me suspicious about what he could have said.
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Sounds like he may have confronted your gf about the fact that she's taken and said something or acted in a way that embarrassed himself, maybe weirding your gf out and making him worry she'll want nothing to do with him anymore.
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It kind of sounds like he tried to kiss her or somehow made a move on her and she
a) momentarily reciprocated but then stopped herself
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b) shut him down completely
or
c) went all the way through with it but then expressed regret about it afterwards
Either way, I find it suspicious that she didn't mention it to you at all.
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>My girlfriend and I are in a long-tern, long-distance relationship.
>We see each other for a few days about every two weeks while she's in school.
What the fuck are you doing dude? This is a recipe for disaster. LDRs fail almost every time, ESPECIALLY in college
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>>18321941
She's very clearly in love with me. That doesn't stop some women from jumping to other men.
Anyway, I'm transfering to one closer to her (40 minutes compared to 150 minutes). I was planning on transferring to her college, but it's just not for me. Too much bullshit.
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>tl;dr: girl hurt my feelings and now I'm only attracted to virgins is this wrong?
This girl I liked who strung me along ended up having a falling out in our relationship. Months later we started talking again and she started telling me about this big and thick cock she sucked and how good it was. There were other small things casually mentioned like how she liked how this other guy told her to do things on cam and she complied and so on.
I don't talk to her anymore but years later I can't get that conversation out of my mind. I think about it often. Since then I have found myself slowly being attracted only to virgin girls now. At first it was just attraction to not slutty girls then it was girls who don't give blow jobs. All the way to now where I actively seek out virgin girls and ignore girls who have had sex as a partner. Now I think i finally have a 19 year old girl that I like who is a virgin.
Is there anything wrong with me just liking virgins? I have accepted it as part of my sexuality I think but any time I mention it like on an anonymous posting app I get a lot of negative feed back. I'm 27 btw.
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Bump anyone?
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>>18321752
>I'm 27 btw.
Better wife this one up OP, you're getting too old for virgin territory unless you're gushing money
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>>18321779
I'm really attractive. I have always had girls like me since elementary school until now. Just 2 days I went to a carnival and had a bunch of high school girls follow me around and giggled and try to get me to talk to them by walking real close to me. Any job I work more than a few girls end up liking me and developing crushes.
I guess follow up question is whats the oldest age is it okay to date/marry an 18-20 year old girl without it being seen as weird? I feel like i'm right on the edge of being too old to date girls that age but they're the ones who are more likely to be virgins.
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>Girlfriend of 8 years, saving for wedding.
>Get the 'why are you so quiet' talk
>'Don't feel like talking today, besides busy'
>She remains passive aggressive the entire day
>5 minutes ago, tells me that I am not fun to talk to, that she will refuse to be intimate with me, and that she will be going to her mother for a week
And this is why you should not work at home or anywhere else where your significant other can nag you all day. Seriously, though, what did I do wrong? What should I do?
Pic sorta related, she's going to the psychologist at the moment for self-esteem issues. It feels like I am walking on eggs all day.
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>>18321734
now im not saying this to worry you, but when a woman is thinking something, she usually assumes you're thinking it too and either projects, or gets mad at you for it.
she might be wanting out. just telling you for your own good.
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>>18321734
>she will be going to her mother for a week
WTF? I've been with the same woman for 10 years and we have argued but neither of us take off for a week. Sounds like you are being punished or she's got a side guy in orbit and looking for an argument so she can be free to do whatever.
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>>18321734
I have this problem sometimes with my flatmates. Apparently there's just no good way to say "I don't feel like talking right now" without coming off as an asshole.