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My stress is at a peak level and most, if not all of it comes from work. Eyes are just staying wide, strained and I feel tense all over.
How do I destress and stop from immediately going to my rifle?
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>>18403666
Change careers?
Are you an air traffic controller? What's so stressful?
Going to go out on a limb here and guess that whatever you're doing probably isn't that bad - your attitude and beliefs just suck shit.
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>>18403676
Do you believe that there is an ideal mindset and belief to follow, or just follow intuition?
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>>18403676
Hospital. And given it literally is a highschool in terms of office politics and drama, it is bad. Given I get paid less than others yet have higher responsibilities, it's not me being a lazy prick. I'm surrounded my lazy pricks who are actively protected.
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Self-esteem and Looks 2017-06-10 06:19:49 Post No.18403663
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I was home-schooled for most of my life and was always told by family and other relatives that I was attractive. I started going to university and meeting people in 2015 and realised that I was actually just ugly. I take care of my hygiene/grooming and dress well but my face is simply objectively ugly, I can barely look at myself in the mirror and think about how I only have one to life and I was born gimped I get extremely depressed and want to an hero. My self-esteem is terrible. How do I deal with being ugly?
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Get a sense of humor and never believe a physical compliment.
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>>18403663
You're probably not that bad OP. I used to be super insecure about my looks too, but eventually I felt better about myself and met a couple of women.
Although, I had to deal with a lot of my insecurity before I was able.
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>>18403669
I've a decent sense of humor around friends that I know well, however I'm too insecure nowadays to even talk to anyone because I'm extremely unhappy with the way I look
>>18403675
I've been on two dates since I started university but even if there are girls that would spend time with me it's more about myself, if I believe that I'm just objectively ugly (weak chin and jaw, uneven features, big nose and small dopey eyes) I will still be upset. Even if I had a 10/10 model gf that was into me I would still look at myself in the mirror and hate myself
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25 y/o former kissless virgin here. Been with my first girlfriend for almost a year now. Everything went great for the first half year except a few things I noticed some people might constitute red flags but I waved them off because of the absence of more (for example, less than a month in she told me that she ghosts people if they make her mad, no matter how close she is to them; this has yet to be done to me.)
I've begun to notice a lot of problems that I either did not notice or chose to ignore early on. She is very insecure about my love towards her and needs constant reaffirmation, verbally and physically, and if there is any, ANY down time for either of us, she wants to be together. I cannot stand any of this, I need alone time quite often and it's driving me insane, and I have tried to tell her as much but she keeps changing the subject to me not loving her enough. It's getting frustrating to have no personal time as well as be constantly doubted. She asks if I'm with another girl any time I say that I just need some alone time, and after I say no she passes it off as joking.
I have tried to talk to her about this and have failed. She is getting upset at me more often, over stupid stuff like a friendly game of tennis where one of us sees a ball in and one sees it as out.
I am beginning to question the longevity of this relationship but because it's my first one I have no standard to compare it to and so I'm unsure of what to do. I can't continue like this, but I don't know if it's to the point where I should end it. I want to find somebody to spend my life with and I am questioning whether or not it's this person, and if I have these questions, is it fair for me to tie her down to myself for any longer.
What do?
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>>18403656
No way would a shitty flip phone be able to take a picture like that.
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>if he won't spend every single moment with me or watching me then he doesn't love me
Lol guessing your gf is a fan of twilight.
I don't think it's gonna work out chief, and that's OK. You were charming enough to get a gf this time, you'll get another.
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>>18403656
Dump your gf. You don't seem happy with her. She isn't willing talk about it. You can find another girl for sure
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Im a 35 year old male and the time i dont spend working or doing my hobby (photography and music) im literally glued to the computer reading social sites or 4chan (mostly 4chan). I feel pretty bad as i think i should be doing stuff 35yo males do, not this childish pointless shit.
How can i get out of this loop?
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Don't change, OP.
When we were young, we always yearned for adulthood, so we can enjoy all the freedoms that we weren't granted during our youth.
You'd be cheating yourself if you deny yourself these pleasures.
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>>18403667
>wanted freedom of stuff couldn't do as a child
Anon is right mostly here, but in order to enjoy freedom, you need to work for it.
TANSTAAFL
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Watch anime instead
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Hey /adv/
I have a kind of non-conventional question for you guys.
I just turned 33, and it just kinda fucking dawned on my I've never had any kind of romantic relationship with a woman, I kinda wanna settle down and have kids.
The problem is I'm total shit with women, I don't know what my character flaw is that's holding me back, I'm not ugly or anything, I have a good middle class job, ect.
I've been thinking about going to the Philippines to find a wife, I know this isn't the best idea but I don't really know any other way, I thought I was okay with having no kids or a wife, but the thought of that kinda makes me feel sick to my stomach now.
is this a bad idea? am I crazy?
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>>18403495
>I've never had any kind of romantic relationship with a woman
>I've been thinking about going to the Philippines to find a wife
You're kind of quitting before the race even begins dont you think? You have a problems with self esteem Anon
Wemon are easy, there no secret or rosetta stone needed, you just need to find the right girl. Get some nice clothes, maybe some jewelry, a nice haircut, good cologne, a better car, ect and go out and practice. Single woman in their 30s are feeling the same as you, maybe even worse.
Youre gunna be fine
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>>18403512
>33
>never had any kind of romantic relationship with a woman
>Youre gunna be fine
no he aint. guy needs therapy.
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>>18403512
I don't know, I have a decent style, I groom, haircut monthly, colonge, good shape for my age(not fat/skinny fat), I drive a 2015 Honda Civic(I think that's a good car).
I just don't even know how to do this shit, I don't know how it works, I've been isolated for the past 10 years. My life has just been work, sleep, eat, repeat for the past 10 years, the only time when this changes is when I go on vacations during my off time from work. I legitimately don't know how to meet people, I'm not autistic or anything, I used to be quite social through high school/college and had alot of friends, but they slowly dropped out of my life over time.
This shit used to bother me alot 4~ years ago, but then I just kinda shut off and went into robot mode, but now it all kinda hit me like a ton of bricks, and now I feel sick.
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Advice on how to fuck my mom? C'mon guys. We can do this together.
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>>18403444
u can rape her
she is your mom she loves you, so she wont tell the police
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>>18403444
No we can't, I can't fuck your mom.
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Pics? I nw ou have them. My advice is a pickup line but since she is your mom help around the house so she appreciates you more.
Most importantly, pics pls!
I wanna kill myself any ideas how?
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>>18403400
You slowly kill yourself everyday by being alive.
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Nice edgy thread, you edgy fuck.
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>>18403400
dont
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I just threw my pocketknife out the window and sat in silence for a half hour because I almost started cutting myself.
I've never been this upset before.
I'm 19. I've felt shitty off and on for years but i've never wanted to hurt and punish myself like I did about 30 minutes ago.
What do I do? I feel like i'm losing it.
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>>18403396
Punish yourself at the gym - hit the weights hard. Then run 5 miles feed off the pain. If those two don't work take up martial arts and FIGHT MOTHER FUCKER. Spar with people - take a punch - land a punch - there are plenty of positive outlets that alow you to hurt yourself in a controlled environment.
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>>18403396
Why are you upset?
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Talk to somebody, reach out to family or a trusted friend. Don't treat yourself like garbage and good on you for getting yourself away from what could have hurt you.
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hey /adv/
I've been with my fiance for a little more than a year now... we have an online relationship, we visit often as we can and everything, but online, all we do is game, stay on call, etc.
Anyway, about a month ago, she got destroyed by a guy on Overwatch, and he offered to play with her, he carried her from bronze to diamond, and then she felt a need to "repay" him by only gaming with him. Anyway, over the course of the first two weeks, we went from being on call and gaming 24/7 to her leaving me for him every time he wakes up and not coming back until he goes to bed. They play every game together and she ignores me for him many times. I've expressed my upsetness about this pretty much daily, to the tune of being called a "fucking bitch" and "what you dont trust me? After all we've been through". She is very protective of the guy and has stated many times she is addicted to him.
About a week later (memorial day weekend) it kept happening, and we got into a fight, I agreed I wouldn't get jealous anymore because I do trust her. I was hoping things would possibly change, the next day, nothing did, so I got upset again, and we basically split up for the next 3 days, fighting. In that time, she developed feelings for him, and they both love each other (according to her in that time)
She came back to me, but again nothing is changed, and now she is very open in saying she likes him and i can talk to her for like 30 minutes when im about to go to bed or something. She still comes back on call with me when she goes to bed and until she wakes up, but as soon as he starts messaging her she leaves me for him.
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cont.
Anyway, I recently started talking to the guy, he had no idea this was going on, I don't hate him for it or anything. I asked him to basically ask her out and she what she says. Pic related, she also said this a bit later, he said this was an obvious definite no, but I have my doubts
"I don't knw... I don't wanna lose you.. atleast maybe as a partner you'd still talk to me.. unlike if we dated.. and shit went wrong lol.. know* .... really though thanks for.. asking.. although im not worth it im .. sorry."
Basically, I'm being cucked, I can't do anything about it, I just want my fiance back, she says she still loves me but it seriously feels like she loves them more. I dont know what to do anymore. I need help, I am on the brink of letting this go on until something changes, or just breaking it off myself. I just don't know what to do... I need help.
I can provide any information if needed if I need to, but I need to talk about this with someone who isn't a friend of mine or hers.
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>>18403337
So... you're engaged to a woman you hardly ever see?
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>>18403360
how do i explain this.
Im in the military, so until I make a specific rank, she cant move in with me unless we get married. We aren't for the idea of getting married instantly or whatever.
Fucko McGee
Was my GF cheating? You decide! 2017-06-10 04:16:02 Post No.18403303
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Was my GF cheating? You decide!
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Alright, I'm coming here with this because I know you guys won't sugarcoat anything.
Bottom line: Did my girlfriend of a year cheat on me?
OR, more specifically, was she going to cheat?
Details:
>GF and I were dating a little over a year
>We had been long distance for quite a while, although I came to visit, like, once a month for a week at a time
>I lived in an expensive city but certain things and big plans had just fallen through
>I called my GF up and told her that I was going to be coming back and staying with my folks for a couple weeks while I figured out what to do
>Didn't really hear from her that night
>Had a day before I flew back, so I spent it hanging out with a buddy just in case I didn't get to see him for a long time
>Didn't hear from GF much the whole day
>I could kind of sense something was up with her, let her know I wouldn't be paying much attention to my phone for a few hours
>She said she'd be out with friends as well and probably wouldn't either
>Get home at around 1am
>Check phone
>She was frantically texting me and calling at around midnight (her time)
>Text her asking what was up with her calling and being so frantic
>Tells me not to worry and that she'll talk to me in the morning
>Next morning, day I'm flying home
>She calls me and breaks up with me before I even leave for the airport
>We end up talking about it a day or two later and she says she was contemplating breaking up with me for around a month anyway
So, what I think is that she either cheated or was going to cheat while she was "out with friends" that night and wanted to break up with me so that she'd be guilt-free.
She was always that kind of person, if she could find a way to be absolved of guilt or blame, she'd feel zero remorse.
Anyway, what do you guys think?
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>>18403303
>LDR
Yup, she was cheating.
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>>18403303
Yep, totally cheating, you deserve better, etc.
I mean this sincerely, good luck with the next.
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>>18403336
Thank you, for real.
Honestly I just kind of needed some closure. I posed this question to my friends and they would always either change the subject or say something like "who would ever cheat on you?". too nice for their own good sometimes.
Godspeed, my dude.
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I begin to use resperidone, sertraline e akineton (biperideno) cause I had a psychotic outbreak last year and I'm not getting horny anymore. I have ended up losing my erection one time with a whore. But what I want to know is if these remedy is taking off my erection.
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>began to use
Prescribed, I'm assuming instead of self-medicating? It probably is, anti-depressants tend to kill sexual drive.
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The risperidone makes your libido dies.
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Talk to your psychiatrist about that, he can get you on different meds.
If you're self medicating stop doing that and go to a psychiatrist.
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I'm pretty sure this girl that my girlfriend started hanging out with, broke us up. We were so fucking happy together and at my first screw up she broke up with me, after 2 years, I swear to god, Everytime I went by the coffee shop that they hanged out she looked at us and I felt it that she was so jealous, the whole reason they were at that coffee was because she liked a guy working there and used my girl to go there everytime he had shifts. I have no fucking idea what she tells her about me. But it's fucking ridiculous, plus I'm more mad at my girl (ex) for being so dumb and fucking listen to her. I've tried everything to get us back together but she seems so distant. Its been a month and a half now and we barely talk, I have to initiate it and sometimes she doesn't respond at all. What the fuck can I do besides wait until she realizes what a fucking snake that friend is and come back to me? I don't deserve this shit. But she was my first love.
We were each other's first everything God damnit I had so many dreams! Whatever I just wanted to get it out.
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>>18403174
Move on to someone who isn't so impulsively selfish that one mistake is the end of the relationship?
Then again, what did you that was a mistake?
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>>18403174
>what did you that was a mistake?
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>>18403186
My sleeping schedule was fucked for a day and I slept all day and didn't answer her texts cause I was sleeping and next day I went to an internet coffee for a gaming marathon with my friends and basically didn't communicate with her, and that's it pretty much, also I was kinda mad at her because she was being jealous for something stupid, but yeah, after the gaming marathon I texted her and she didn't feel like talking and next day when we talked on the phone we were in the verge of fixing things until she put a stupid condition on me telling me that if I tell her to act more serious then she's going to break up with me I got kinda pissed and in the end she broke up over the phone and I was left doumbfounded.
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I have mood swings like im bipolar but my mood swings just go between having a strong sense of social perception to a complete lack of it to a scary extent (I lose jobs and friends constantly due to some form of temporary social retardation that I can physically feel)
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You're normal
Your only fault is you over think everything and have the misconception that you're different than everyone else.
Pro tip: You're the same as everyone else.
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>>18403136
>You're the same as everyone else
I wouldn't go that far. Losing jobs and friends constantly may be 4chan normal, but it isn't normal.
OP may have a medical issue worth looking into with a doctor or psychiatrist.
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>>18403136
Youre a faggot deal with it
>implying this isnt what you wanted to hear
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first date tomorrow, ? 2017-06-10 02:42:02 Post No.18403120
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to be honest, Im a bit nerveous. I dont know her IRL cuz we matched on tinder, but shes pretty attractive. Im a pretty large guy (not fat tho) both vertically and in width, so im hoping thats enough to impress her along with personality. What are good things to flirt with her about? Ill let her do most of the talking cuz ppl love to talk about themselves.
Ive had a decent amount of experience with girls here and there (sexual groping at concerts, kissing, doing stuff together) but never an actual date with a quality girl.
thanks for advice. peace.
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don't forget to enjoy yourself
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>>18403123
dude thats seriously some great advice I appreciate that not being sarcastic but thats fuckin philosophical type of advice that I needed
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>>18403126
I don't know why, but I lost my sides with this.
anon I couldn't tell you, I've tried making a plan for things to talk about on dates before and it just makes me lame the second conversation drifts from where I was trying to lead it.
jus bee ursef. though letting her talk until you kind of get your bearings on the conversation is a good strategy. find something you both like, talk about that a bit, don't talk too much about yourself like an egomaniac, but also don't talk only about her, you'll come off as boring and a push over.
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Hey /adv/ so here's the deal
>be me in 2013
>meet a mutual friend who's a grill
>find out grill is pregnant with her bf's baby
>this rich fuck claimed he's allergic to latex
>rich fuck totally leaves her and baby
>she planned to give it up for adoption but got attached
>oh well he's rich af anyway so plenty of child support
>we get close cuz we have a lot in common and I'm not trying to get in bed with her like most other guys she knows
>we click really well on a mental level and get along really well as friends
>even if we're totally rambling about the most obscure weird shit we always understand each other
>during the summer of 2013 we spent nearly every day together
skip ahead 4 years
>grill and I are now best friends
>we both regularly deny claims we are dating to family and friends
>actually are just friends tho
>we help each other through bad break ups, studying for finals in college etc. general best friend stuff
>I haven't gotten laid in months
>start having dreams of us fucking
>not just one night like EVERY night for like a month and a half
>skip to last night
>coming home from D&D sesh
>she's on her 7th beer
>I only had 2 and am totally sober now so I was DD
>we're chilling at her place before I go home
>start thinking about how I'm really attracted to her
>she was 8.5/10 before baby and 7.5-8/10 now
>wears 40G cups
>boobs>ass any day
>They grew to H cups when she was pregnant
>can't spend more than 4 minutes together without staring at them for at least a quick glance
>she's totally noticed for years that I do this but has only said something once or twice
>THEY ARE SO BIG IT'S SO HARD NOT TO LOOK
>she's a little chubby after baby but certainly not fat
>she's complaining about one of the other members of D&D is hitting on her
>"he's got a fiance but he still makes it so obvious to everyone he's attracted to me. It's weird"
>I blurt out "We'll I mean i understand it, he's not the only one"
>she laughs, changes the subject
>we start smoking
Cttn 1 of 3?
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>conversation changes to the fact that we have a really great connection mentally
>we do totally click
>bring up the fact that at some point in our lives I'd like it if we made a serious attempt at dating.
>she shifts away from the topic of dating but does say we get along better than she's ever gotten along with anyone else
>I completely agree
>I say "don't take this the wrong way but can we make out?"
>"Yeah, but don't take this the wrong way: don't think this means anything."
>This is SUPER refreshing to hear since I don't wanna quit fucking bitches and definitely not ready to be a step-dad but I can't contain my lust for her any longer
>we make out, it's CRAZY hot
>I'm low key in shock we just made out. I mean 4 years of staunchly defending that we are SOLELY friends and we just made out
>shortly after she says she's feeling like she's about to pass out so she goes inside and goes to bed
>It dawns on me that she is MUCH more intoxicated than me
>have feelings of regret
>"did I take advantage of her while she was drunk?"
>decide I'll talk to her tomorrow see how things are and go from there
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>skip to today
>she sends me a snapchat this morning complaining about her hangover
>respond in like 20 mins
>hear nothing all day
>send her an apology on facebook saying it was a bad move on my part to have done that in the sate she was in
>she gets on facebook and doesn't open it
>we typically talk throughout the day, this is weird of her
>something is obviously not normal and only thing that's different is that we made out
>feel SUPER guilty
>I'm leaving town for 2 months on monday to the middle of butt-fuck nowhere Minnesota where I won't have cell phone service
>text her to see what she's doing tomorrow
>says she's got plans
>tell her that tonight is the last chance to hang out before I leave and ask to see her for a bit to say goodbye
>she hasn't responded
>it's been 3 hours
>she's been on facebook since
>this is very not like her
>This is literally going to eat me alive for two months when I'm off the grid
what do???
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>>18403119
>wanting date someone with children
murder yourself, my man