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>>18405603
hey I'm just gonna leave this here since it could help:
You already told me enough from your post that you wont improve no matter what we tell you but hey ill try:
1. Eat Healthy
2. Workout
3. Add hobbies (srsly anything from vidya to rock climbing, anything that you can gain knowledge about)
4. Get good clothes (raulph lauren, Armani etc)
5. Get a good haircut and facial hair
6. Watch some (prepare yourself) PUA videos
7. Work harder
8. chase promotions
Oh look you've become semi decent and can now talk to women (okayish) wow you aren't destined to a life of loneliness and can now get Stacey

Side note: if your that ugly(prolly aren't) maybe consider surgery

>>18405607
im alright in every sense i do shit constantly but im never invited or talked to. i just feel unwanted by the people i call my friends and it hurts

I like you anon ;)

bumping for advice

I'm facing the same problem as you I haven't seen the girl i had a crush on after talking to her every day and growing closer to her except I was a freshman and she was a senior and she's probably attending college by now i honestly don't know bro.

>>18405693
Don't leave it too long like me man, I saw your post: go after her even if just as a friend. When you leave it too long and then it comes crashing back is the worst fucking lingering cluster of feelings.

>>18405516
Is this bait? Ok, I'll fall for it. That's bullshit and I'm living proof. My first time with my gf she was not a virgin and I was.

Is virginity that important affair? I'm not a chad, and I lost mine when I was 15 and it wasn't that hard

>>18405539
Do you ever regret your actions? Do you think that it softens the love between you two since she has obviously been involved in skinship with other dudes in the past? I'm a virgin, and will probably remain so unfortunately, and I honestly don't see how anyone can be okay with a girl not being a virgin. It's absolutely disgusting, and if this happened to be, it'd be incredibly maddening.

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>>18405449
Step one: find an oven.

>>18405449
Get a nose implant.

>>18405449
Are you Jewish?

>>18405317
pic unrelated

bump, sorry dont know anything about tech

Is 2007 the year? I don't have to be g to tell you that a 7 year old gpu won't do you much good shit not even 1080tis do much. Download speccy and screenshots your rests maybe someone can help

I think you have just enough evidence to go on a witch hunt and ruin two people's lives

Top tier idea for a noir film right there

>>18405248
I would never try to ruin my friends life. But you gotta admit it sounds a little strange. The timing and coincidences and all that. But obviously I'm not a detective and I have no evidence. Which is why I wanted to run it by you guys.

No advice other than you can't. You can't make a person love you. You can't make a person change much less change the way they feel. It hurts like hell but time will help. Start the healing process and resign yourself to the fact it's over.

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>>18405142
You have broken up for a reason. Dont be idiot.

>You will walk away from her when she has violated your integrity, and you will let her walk when her heart is closed to you. She who can destroy you, controls you. Don’t give her that power over yourself. Love yourself before you love her.

Even if you got her back, she would see you as lesser man. Forget about her.

>>18405142
Fuck your ex's new boyfriend. Your bitch's bitch is still your bitch by proxy.

I guess a normal adult conversation about how you feel with him is out of the question?

>>18405069
Not in the right headspace is code for I think I can find something better but stick around in case I can't. You're a fall back.

>>18405091
no because any time i mention anything to do with feelings he gets very taken aback and distances himself which i hate. i love him as a friend too, and i don't want to lose that
>>18405117
this is my worst fear

>>18404996
Why doesn't she just take a test?

>>18404996
Just get a pregnancy test anon.

>>18405002
>>18405008
Ah I hadn't really thought of that. Whoops. Either way, until we do that, can I still have some insight? I know it's about 2% chance per ejaculation and I didn't even cum so it's foolish to be stressed about it right? And is there any rational reason as to why her period is a bit late?

Sorry I just get really worked up over this.

>>18404975
Relationships should be about mutuality and knowing boundaries.
If you bring up that this bothers you and he continues to do it, he doesn't respect you. He's trying, it seems, but he's wired to not give a fuck.

If he wouldn't want you talking like that, you shouldn't put up with him talking like that.

>>18404975
>PS he's also a jealous guy so he wouldn't like me talking like that.
Hate to break it to you but yeah, your bf IS a hypocrite. Honestly just dump him, I would based on principle, but most people seem to toleratr more in relationships than me.

>>18406091
Just do this; it will save you a lot of trouble in the long run. Especially since he can't even take what he puts you through.

Look for cloaked hooded figures on the side of street corners are tell them you're here for the drop.

approach a group people that look like dealers, (black men ideally but any minority will do), loudly announce yourself with "what's good my niggas" while slapping them playfully (this lets the said minorities know you are cool) then ask for whatever drugs you want.
they will most likely say they don't have anything, don't be fooled, this is a test to see if your cool, slap them playfully while calling them "homies" and "niggas" and start rifling through their pockets. This may seem aggressive but it let's the dealers know that you are cool with them. When you find the drugs don't overpay, this is a sign of uncoolness, $5 is a fair price for anything.

Find a sketchy cop. The always got the best drugs.

Being out of a GF and best friend*

>>18404764
you are on the right track, hold firm OP

Yes you're doing the right thing, be strong like a man

>Aquire mask
>Interact with people exclusively in mask
>When you want to hide and take off the mask
>Instant out for when you feel to drained by people

>>18404803
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Tvu2ZI329V4

>>18404803
I don't want to pretend

Just stop jacking off, never look at porn, and never edge. The only people allowed to pleasure your dick are females, not you.

The trick is to use the extra energy that nofap gives you on productive things. Go out and meet new girls, open a Tinder account, play the guitar, crush it at school/work.

Frequent masturbation is neutering yourself. Your hair will fall out, you will waste your life having gotten good at nothing, you will feel insecure and creepy around women, you won't have energy or courage to approach them, and more.

Nofap is literally the key to male success I hope you succeed.

7 hours?!?! I don't believe it

7 hours ? C'mon OP you can do better than that, if you are going to be a wanker you have to be the very best

The problem is this teenage girl has inevitably sort of calmed down on her teacher crush and doesn't talk to me nearly as much, and at times even seems to be happy to see me or totally avoiding me around other students. It's clear something has changed, and it bothers me. Again, I'm self aware enough to understand I just want things to remain the same as they were from December through the height of her teacher crush, and have that sort of middle ground relationship, but it's naturally impossible that it would proceed and go so smoothly, and it's selfish and crazy to assume she's just not gonna become interested in male classmates and such.

Anyway the point is
TL;DR: I'm obsessed with / in love with this student. Half of me wants to just milk it and enjoy it while it lasts to fill the void, other half knows it's wrong to even think this way. Meanwhile I'm getting depressed by the fact that she's colder now than before.

It's all a brain fuck and I don't know how to handle it.

>>18404671

You need to take a vacation from work and be around women your own age.
I'm betting that your hormones are growing excessive from lack of female attention and it'll only get worse if you don't take a break and try to let off steam elsewhere. First and foremost, realize that she is still a kid no matter what your hormones try to rationalize. Her brain is underdeveloped and she doesn't know what she really wants at all.
It can be hard when your personal life is lacking so maybe try taking up a new hobby that will place you in adult crowds more and help you build healthy chemistry with a woman of an appropriate age.
You're still fairly young so maybe taking a part time night class at a college doing something fun. At least then the women in your class will be legal.

Taking it a step further into the "self awareness", despite saying it's 'just filling the temporary void' naturally I have had thoughts of waiting until she graduates, getting contact info, then when she comes of age advancing the relationship. That ridiculous hope does also exist. But of course digressing to the fact that she's not nearly as blatantly into me as before, that thought process is just creating more disappointment in the inevitability of how unrealistic that becoming a reality is.