Hey /adv/
I have a kind of non-conventional question for you guys.
I just turned 33, and it just kinda fucking dawned on my I've never had any kind of romantic relationship with a woman, I kinda wanna settle down and have kids.
The problem is I'm total shit with women, I don't know what my character flaw is that's holding me back, I'm not ugly or anything, I have a good middle class job, ect.
I've been thinking about going to the Philippines to find a wife, I know this isn't the best idea but I don't really know any other way, I thought I was okay with having no kids or a wife, but the thought of that kinda makes me feel sick to my stomach now.
is this a bad idea? am I crazy?
>>18403495
>I've never had any kind of romantic relationship with a woman
>I've been thinking about going to the Philippines to find a wife
You're kind of quitting before the race even begins dont you think? You have a problems with self esteem Anon
Wemon are easy, there no secret or rosetta stone needed, you just need to find the right girl. Get some nice clothes, maybe some jewelry, a nice haircut, good cologne, a better car, ect and go out and practice. Single woman in their 30s are feeling the same as you, maybe even worse.
Youre gunna be fine
>>18403512
>33
>never had any kind of romantic relationship with a woman
>Youre gunna be fine
no he aint. guy needs therapy.
>>18403512
I don't know, I have a decent style, I groom, haircut monthly, colonge, good shape for my age(not fat/skinny fat), I drive a 2015 Honda Civic(I think that's a good car).
I just don't even know how to do this shit, I don't know how it works, I've been isolated for the past 10 years. My life has just been work, sleep, eat, repeat for the past 10 years, the only time when this changes is when I go on vacations during my off time from work. I legitimately don't know how to meet people, I'm not autistic or anything, I used to be quite social through high school/college and had alot of friends, but they slowly dropped out of my life over time.
This shit used to bother me alot 4~ years ago, but then I just kinda shut off and went into robot mode, but now it all kinda hit me like a ton of bricks, and now I feel sick.
>>18403495
If you have never had a romantic relationship it clearly hasn't been important to you so far. You sound like a person who likes being alone and has little need for a partner. Which is perfectly fine.
Is it really YOUR wish to get married and have children or do you just feel pressured by society?
>>18403556
>This shit used to bother me alot 4~ years ago, but then I just kinda shut off and went into robot mode, but now it all kinda hit me like a ton of bricks, and now I feel sick.