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So... Its this girl... Ive known her for a couple of years, and she is perfect. Just fucking perfect. We have been on dates, hung out and just flirted for a long while. She said multiple time that she liked me, and that we would have a future together. Its weird to say, but she is just that blunt.
I really thought that meant that she was into me, but today she suddenly showed up with her new boyfriend "to watch a movie together with her fun friend".
-Fucking hell.
Im pretty fucking heartbroken, but the fact that he is perfect too helps a little. Aparently they have known each other since they were babies. They are two peas in a pod and they fit so good together. This helps a little, but Im still fucking sad about the whole thing.
The main problem is that Im 21 and Im a virgin. I really thought it would be us two, so I never fucked anyone else, I guess I was "saving it for her". Now Im sitting here like a moron, with no sexual experience. Ive made out with girls (her too) and Im not afraid to talk to them or anything like that. Ive even turned down a couple of them "Because of her".
What the fuck should I do? Should I keep saving it for someone special or just blow it out on the first slut I can get my hands on?
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>>18528885
>Should I keep saving it for someone special or just blow it out on the first slut I can get my hands on?
why so polar? how about blowing it on the first decent girl (not slut, not "the one") ?
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>>18528885
Most of your peers have std's - you don't. Don't blow it on some late night skank. Put an add out like this. Virgin seeks Virgin let make a life.
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>>18528906
I dunno. Im kinda scared, I guess? What if I sex wrong and she cathces on fire or something bs like that. Ive been set on doing it with someone I trust for so long, that its hard to change that mentality
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>be at live show alone
>late in the day so everyone is in the back or not there
>see QT chilling out next to stage
>consider going out and talking to her
>keep considering up until band's set ends
>introducing our next performer, the up and coming new artist you've been staring at for the last half hour
>she sounds as beautiful as she looks
>come up with a bunch of constructive criticism as per the material
>set finishes, she's at the merch stall selling merch
>buy some doodad and get her to sign it without another word
>would have sounded sperg rattling about her music and how good it could be
>but could have made it work had I spoke to her before I knew she was a musician
And this is bugging me because it keeps happening.
>go to other live show
>"artist" with mass youth appeal, stunners my age all over
>see one in particular 4 or 5 rows in front with exactly my favorite features
>fight way towards her over course of night
>eventually behind her
>forget to say a word
>after show go to look for her to say 'I forgot to say a word to you but I think you're cute'
>disappeared
Or how about
>think coworker is attractive
>recently broke up and getting me emotionally involved with it
>want to her so bad but heard about shitting and eating
>think it would be funny to ship her with spergier than me friend
>apparently she considers me a little brother despite my being older than her
>constantly fight off urge to bend her down somewhere and have at it
Considering a reverse chronological order I think I'm getting better, but I still can't seem to get women to take me seriously and have gotten into a habit of not speaking to them at all. I'm not going to get a girlfriend without meeting her drunk, am I?
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>>18528875
>I still can't seem to get women to take me seriously and have gotten into a habit of not speaking to them at all.
Real talk? You act like a child with little to no confidence. You make it nearly impossible for any woman to take you seriously when you don't even have the spine to take yourself seriously.
>I'm not going to get a girlfriend without meeting her drunk, am I?
Not by acting the way you are now, no.
Also, sidenote, its a good thing you didn't talk to the first girl at the live show. Walking up to her and giving her "constructive criticism" about how good her music "could be" if she followed your advice is probably the most autistic thing you could have done and most certainly would have ended in horrific, embarrassing failure.
Other than that you just need to speak the fuck up and start acting like you give a shit. There is absolutely nothing attractive or desirable about a man who doesn't even have the confidence to open his mouth and say earnest words.
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>>18528895
This is basically what I said, isn't it? If I don't believe I could have any woman in a given room no matter how many people not my mother say so, how could I possibly have the audacity to approach one and have her? So it's alcohol, any other alternatives?
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>>18528924
I hear cocaine is a good confidence-booster.
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Why I am so picky?
I only want to date good looking guys knows how to dress.
If someone approaches me and hitting on me I automatically ignore them and compare that guy to all my friend's boyfriend.
Is there any help for me?
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>>18528873
By dressing good, you mean good looking + fit t shirt
Or something else?
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>>18528883
Kinda. Plus his aura. The vibe of strong confident and dominant guy
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>>18528873
I'm no shrink,
But it sounds like you want to date your friends boyfriend.
You should probably address that, as it's your real problem.
You don't seem to want anyone else because he's right there, almost within reach.
It's like handing a kid some veggies while putting a fucking cupcake just out of reach. "Fuck you sprouts, I'm not eating you, I want that".
That's you.
Want to eventually eat sprouts and maybe acquire the taste for them?
Then get that tempting cupcake out of sight.
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I think I might be retarded.
Like, when I'm interested in someone that person seems Perfect.
When that person starts being more interested in me, I start noticing their flaws more and that makes me want to break up with them without even starting to date them
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>>18528859
yep, you're retarded. you want to be able to idolize your partner as a perfect ideal when relationships are held together on mutual trust, understanding, and acceptance of flaws. you are probably a teenager. work on yourself for a bit instead.
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You're not retarded but you're greedy. You want someone and when you realize that you can have them you lose interest and want someone else. Don't date anyone until you fix this mentality, but it can be fixed
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>be op
>go on 4chan to ask advice on women
>anime picture in post is a good idea
>has relationships with girls in head
>breaks up with girls in fantasy
>why am I like this
>how to have perfect relationship
>Am I autistic
Looks like you answered your own question there bud
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Why does no one hear me? Sometimes when I'm talking I say something but no one seems to hear me. My grandma complains that I don't talk loud enough. How can I fix this? When I "talk loud" it feels like I'm yelling. Why can't I have a naturally loud voice? My normal talking voice doesn't seem to be loud enough and it's starting to make me insecure.
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could you speak up a bit, OP? I didn't quite catch that...
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>>18528888
the worst is when a cute girl says that.
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>>18528857
Unironically, that can easily be autism
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So I really need some advice..
I want to keep it confidential as it pertains to a court case... Anyways, here it goes.
>Be me
>Hanging out with friend
>friend is a dealer
>knock knock* on door
>Two black guys, one with a gun
>They steal both our phones, and steal over 5000$ worth of property from my friend
>Lil one assaults my friend
>Threatens to hit me, says they're in a gang
>Kicks over my honey garlic chick combo plate
>Chinese food every where
>They run away laughing
>1 minute later cops show up
>friend gets charged with stuff but is rich so it doesn't really matter
Here's the thing.. They didn't wear masks, and went to HS with my friend. He knew who they were. Anyways, the cops found the guy with the gun, and now they want me and my friend to press charges... My friend is nowhere to be found, and they want to me to testify. Should I testify and just tell the truth? If I do that, he will most likely be found guilty of 3 crimes:
Aggravated Burglary, Armed robbery with a firearm and carrying a weapon on school property.
I can't help but feel a bad knowing my actions might send someone to jail for 8+ years. Would I be in danger if I testified? I know he's not in a gang but still, anyone have any advice?
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>>18528794
>>Kicks over my honey garlic chick combo plate
>>Chinese food every where
vs
>jail for 8+ years
idk, anon, sounds fair
fuck those niggers
his gang will cut you up, though
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>>18528830
pretty sure he was fibbing abt the gang.. Seemed like the type of dude who doesn't have any close friends AKA selfish. Also, I heard from a gangster that a lot of people in gangs don't go out of their way to avenge friends, because they simply don't care that much about them
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Fuck those ape assholes, send them to jail
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Hey /adv/ so I've always kinda been a loser and bad with women. I have always been good at school/career. Has anyone turned their life around and went from never having a gf in their early 20s to dating high value women like pic related?
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They do once they realize that the photograph you posted has nothing to do with "high value women"
Oh yeah, sure, looks play a part - but there are plenty of worthless pretty sluts. I've got nothing against pretty/hot girls doing whatever they want - they did well with the genetic lottery and make use of it, that's life - but most can't resist the temptation to coast on their looks.
The real high value women are not only hot, but take care of themselves physically, mentally, financially and you will never be able to keep up unless you can step it up in all aspects of your life (and not just the money/career part).
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>>18528782
>Has anyone turned their life around and went from never having a gf in their early 20s to dating high value women like pic related?
Dudes who say shit like "high value women" typically don't, no.
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>>18528782
Man, I would kill to be with someone this gorgeous.
She just look so damn pretty, it's crazy.
Not to steal OP's thread, but should I try to become a confident dick/douchebag and chase money just to possibly have a chance with babes like this ?
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I'm more dissatisfied with my jeans than the fact that I have am American waistline. I bought 29"s, but I really belong in a 30". Should I lose weight, or should I buy new pants? There are major upsides to each. One one hand, I get to be fashionably thin, and on the other I get to indulge in lots of different foods.
>Get fit!
I'm a poorfag, without the money and time that requires.
>It doesn't require money or time!
Shhhhh.
Which should I go with? Should I keep the weight, or lose it?
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>>18528742
this is dumb.
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>>18528742
Quit trying to pay for your own place with an entry-level job and maybe you'll have some extra money to spend on fruit or something.
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>>18528742
Just eat less you mong
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I feel like shit/depressed, am fat and lonely, but the worst is feeling like shit/depressed. What should i do? What steps should i make to not feel like shit/lazy/depressed?
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Lift weights. srs
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>>18528847
This, do it for a month and if you don't feel happier, stop
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>>18528703
Depression can be treated with medication and therapy. Being overweight can be treated with diet and exercise.
You know exactly what it is you have to do, you're just looking for an easy answer. Sorry, kid, there aren't any.
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i just wrote a bunch of autistic shit to a girl online
it will probably seem very random to them when i read it
but now that i typed all of it out and vented i feel like i don't care as much. even though i tried to be as uncringe as possible with my wording there's no way i won't come off as a huge fag that cares way too much, even if i get some illuminating thoughtful response i still wrote a wall
now i'm not sure if i should leave the messages there
it's on discord so the number of messages sent will still be displayed and we haven't talked today, also the number is too high for it to be something i could make up an excuse for. basically even if i delete them it'll be extremely obvious that i just wrote a bunch of autistic shit
should i leave it so that the hour i spent trying to express what i felt wasn't in vain? or should i just delete every message and say it was nothing when they ask what the notifications were about
should i have faith that this might give me some peace of mind, or take the safe route and go with some lighter cringe by letting them just wonder what i could have typed? the only problem about deleting the messages though is that could make it seem like i went on a tirade and insulted her a bunch and then bitched out or something rather than trying to speak rationally
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*when they read it
and i do still care too much obviously but the point was i already acted cringe as fuck so their response doesn't really matter
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>>18528695
delete it
replace with TL;DR version
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>>18528760
how do you play that off though, i mean it would still show a huge number of messages
i'm not sure a tl;dr will even work with this though, it started off with a not so extensive message but once i wrote out the initial point i just ended up writing a bunch of momentary feels based on overreactions
like i could delete everything but the first part, but now after typing the rest out it feels like her answer to my original few messages doesn't even matter, like i should go all the way or just not at all
what's worse, being pathetic or just leaving evidence of being pathetic while also exhibiting an even greater level of insecurity by deleting the messages?
i feel like sticking to your guns or staying true to yourself or whatever is a good thing, but what if yourself is cringe as fuck?
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Women are confusing or I'm an idiot.
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There's this new girl a work that started a couple of months ago and that I instantly had a thing for. Up until a couple of weeks ago she had a boyfriend(that she always complained about).
Me and this girl got to be really good friends and one night at like 3am while we were texting, she starts talking about wanting to learn the mandolin and I offered to help her as I can play. She agrees and tells her boyfriend about it who then proceeds to go mental at her and accuses her of wanting cheat. She dumped him as a result.
We grew even closer after this, meeting up for drinks, flirting and her coming round mine all day to play the mandolin and watch tv in bed but I never made a strong move because I didn't want to be "that guy" or a rebound.
A week after they broke up (last week) I came clean about how I felt, I wanted to be more than friends and that it was no pressure on her, I just needed to tell her.
She responded with "it's kind of a confusing time for me right now"
Now I thought this was her way of saying "no" but she's continued flirting with me at work and it's almost like it never happened. We went out to a bar 2 days later until 3am talking and shit and it was great. Which I thought was odd.
Today at work she was joking about how "we should pretend we're together and keeping it a secret when we go to our colleagues' retirement party, holding hands under the table and stuff (we're 21 btw)" and asking me about "how long do you think it would take for a rumour to start about us at work".
Is this girl fucking me around or was she genuinely confused/interested. She's coming around to mine in a couple of days and need some advice on what to do.
Appreciate ya guys and girls
tl;dr Guy tells girl that he likes her, gets odd response. She continues flirting. What do?
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>>18528611
>watch tv in bed
she wants you to fuck her
>Now I thought this was her way of saying "no" but she's continued flirting with me at work
she REALLY wants you to fuck her
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>>18528694
So you reckon I should make a move when she comes round next?
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>>18528611
Look her in the eys and say "Why pretend?"
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Due to have a poor sense of direction in life, I'm decided to enlist in the air force in the hopes of an exciting career and opportunities to travel the world.
I'll be 18 as soon as I'm in and I've never had a girlfriend before, or even come close, I'm at that age where I really want one too.
While I'm not sure of how it will all be, I imagine I likely won't be able to commit to any serious relationship.
I've got a couple months to try and get it all out of my system so I can focus on my career.
Any advice on how to do so?
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>>18528596
Don't.
Men who are going places *like* to be with women, but they don't feel a compelling *need* to be with women. Do something good for yourself, instead of being desperate and dating the first woman who is open to it (most likely a ho).
When we're younger, women are in demand, As we get older, men become more in demand. You'll notice in places that are competitive, modern, and future-oriented that men are in even higher demand than the women.
Make something of yourself. Have better goals than playing house and getting your dick sucked. Maybe fuck a party slut, but that's it.
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>>18528649
Thinking of going to the club right before joining and getting some pussy from girls my age.
Is that a good idea?
I would reserve myself more but I'm gonna be in for around 4-6 years minimum.
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>>18528667
If you're someone who can do that, then do that. Otherwise, use Tinder or Grindr, or something. I was advising you not to get reproductive feelings for a woman at this point in your life, but if you just want to smash before you join the military, then by all means go ahead.
I'm not some expert on getting strange, though.
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So I'm sort of friends with this qt gamer girl and we're both interested in theater. Our friends are in an upcoming show, so I asked her out to see it together, she said yes, but she had already purchased her ticket and the row she's sitting in is sold out. I told her that we would do something else at a later date.
My question is, how long should I wait until planning something? Also, she said her parents didn't want her dating (she's going into her Junior year, I'm out of school but not yet employed.) How can I deal with this?
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btw I'm not a degenerate, I'm not employed right now but I am in training to be a cop.
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Fuck her parents for a start, it's not their decision to make.
Personally, I'd see how the night goes at the theater (does she make an effort to speak to you etc) and then if she does you could mention it on the night.
If she really likes you, she will want you to ask as soon as possible/not care when you do.
The less you think about it, the better you'll do honestly.
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>>18528594
Don't do it at all. She's an adult and her parents are still dictating her life. People like this are weak and difficult to deal with. You want to fall in love with someone who is going to drive you mad. Some day she'll be functioning like a normal adult with her parents off her back, but you don't know if that's decades from now or not.
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My roommate has no manner and just barges into a closed bathroom door! He's done this twice and blames me saying I should lock the door. I was raised in a house with manner and a mother who didn't let us lock doors. I feel like it's just common sense to knock on ANY closed door, ESPECIALLY a closed bathroom door.
Am I in the wrong for not locking the door or is he in the wrong for not knocking? I feel like I'm crazy.
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>>18528584
Manners* sorry for auto correct
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>>18528584
Idk I think you're both weird. Yeah he should knock, but lock the fucking door, it's not hard.
I don't knock every single time the door is shut though either, if I have no reason to believe anyone's in there. Personally I also find it equally embarrassing and awkward to go "Uh, yeah I'm in here...." as it is to be barged in on.
But that's just me.
At the end of the day OP, you can only protect yourself, can't ever expect anyone else to change their habits you can only change your own. If you don't want him walking in while you're taking a dump or fapping to your waifu, then lock the door. You're an adult now, mommy isn't there to yell at you. You can make your own rules for yourself now.
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If he is baring into a closed bathroom door, he is most certainly in the wrong
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What should I keep in mind when dealing with liberal arts general education classes in college?
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Show up to class, do the readings, do your homework.
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If you don't talk to anyone and participate only when you're forced to, you'll be fine OP. It's unlikely anybody will bother you, especially if you're male.
I at least was able to complete a bachelor's degree in French in a Canadian anglo university this way.
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>>18528527
You're paying for it, why not voice your opinion?