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Use stridex Pads (Maximum Strength), they helped me out a ton.

Wash your face and wipe it a lot.

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Use this moisturizer OP.

>>18526358
Absolutely wrong, that will make it worse.

>>18526312
Be the person that you'd be proud to be.

If you have a dog, be the person that your dog thinks you are.

>>18526317
in the worst type of person . It makes me want to die :(

>>18526326
That's the easy way out. If you aren't proud of who you are, take steps to become proud. Name someone you admire that isn't famous, and then try and be like them.

I'm a man who provides for himself, has hobbies that create real shit (woodworking, cooking, and playing piano), I have helped out strangers by paying their rent or purchasing them a plane ticket (dude was Venezuelan, and the place is going to hell). I keep myself in shape, and I always am willing to give advice to people who need it and are willing to listen.

I'm not super rich or famous, but I'm a damned good man, and I'm charming. And I was all of those things when I met the woman who became my wife. I liked her, and I wanted to be with her, but I wasn't desperate to be with her. I could have continued to live on my own forever.

>>18526304
Presuming you life in the US, where the population is over 300 million, and more than half of that population is women, I would guess probably not. If you can't find someone who will take you out of a crowd of over 150 million people, then I'd say you need to work on 2 things: your game and your finances.

Have you tried following rules 1/2?

Rule 1: Be attractive
Rule 2. Don't be unattractive

If you can't get girls locally, you're not going to be in much better shape abroad.

Also why not buy a foreign bride?

>>18526308

How do I work on this "game"?

>>18526278
General Anxiety Disorder. Best solution is a prescription combined with therapy.

Pills can be perscribed by a general practitioner. Therapy can be obtained for free by volunteering to be a therapy patient at any university that offers the degree. It will be senior students on their own. They will tape the sessions, which will be watched by their professor and then destroyed.

There. 60 bucks for a doctors visit, and 300 dollar therapy sessions for free.

Oh dear.
These existential dreads can get worse when you see lives coming to end and the absurd normality of it. Things change and life goes on with no memory of what's been. Don't try to figure it out for now just numb it down.
Or be like me and get random flashbacks of things that were once here and feel so close and real to you but there is nothing around you to assure you they've existed.

>>18526278
Do you by any chance party every weekend and do fucktons of drugs? If so, you should stop asap. I used to party a lot and had to watch friends slowly go into full blown psychosis. They used to complain about the same exact things like imsomnia, feelingsl ike reality was altered, panic attacks etc. but still didn't stop partying until they couldn't sleep without antipsychotics (Seroquel or something in America).

I'm just guessing, but usually hard life also means drugs and alcohol, lots of it.

Is your life fucked at the moment?

Hey man im 30male and i dont get what your saying. You want your partner on the same page as what?. What you after marriage, just be boyfriend and girlfriend. When you date a girl you tell them what you fucken want. And they do the same. Learn how to communicate.

>>18526261
Women tend to be more in a commitment mood in their mid thirties, but it differs between women.

>>18526261
I'm 31. I got engaged to my wife a year after meeting her, and got married a year after that (in a courthouse for 20 dollars). Still together now. Just celebrated our 6 year anniversary in June. It hasn't been all sunshine and roses, but we both take the commitment seriously.

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>>18526244
"Glad you asked, Champ. And it's really as simple as showing up there, speaking with the manager, giving him a firm handshake, and telling him you want the job. That's all you need to do."

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>>18526265

Thanks, dad.

>>18526244
Sorry, dude. You've made some really shitty decisions. At this point, you've got McJobs. Not warehouse. Not factory. Probably not even Walmart. You have McDonalds and Burgerking, where you'll be working with high schoolers and hispanics. You'll be getting minimum wage, and working roughly 20 hours per week, which means you will need multiple jobs.

And quit whining about your situation. At one point, it was EXACTLY what you wanted.

small claims court

>>18526228
If you don't have a legally binding agreement, you're fucked. Verbal agreement will do it if you've recorded him saying that he will pay you the money.

If you don't have proof, then you're fucked, and any attempt to force him to pay you will just get you into trouble with the law.

>>18526228
you can't do shit, just fuck with him (in a way that isn't gonna get you sued or in jail) until he leaves you alone

Power armour

>>18526226
No. Video related. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jSvoJx2Xj6U

If anything, it just lets people know that you are self conscious about it.

>>18526226
If you're that self-conscious that you are literally considering an operation to lengthen your legs, then you're already doomed. Your ego is not going to inflate suddenly because you're tall. It'll be something else, and you will have just flushed a shit ton of money down the toilet.

Most successful dude I know at getting chicks is like 5'4". Dude was a boxer in college, and didn't give a solitary fuck about his height. Neither did anyone else except for drunk guys who wanted to fight a boxer, and thought they could win (every one of them didn't even get a hit in).

Apparently you have to be really confident. I've tried to be confident three times, and I've been rejected all those times. But you might be different and have the chance I never did.

>>18526225
Start by talking to girls and asking them out?

>>18526229
three times is nothing m8
it's doubtful that the problem is that you're unattractive or something, but that you don't put yourself in situations often enough that you're asking out women
even chad has worse success rates than 1 in 4

>>18526229
well well

>>18526185
Not really. It's pretty obvious that you want two different things. This is why its a bad idea to get engaged/married quickly, especially when you are young. Before 25, the brain isn't even fully developed.

>>18526188
He's older than me, I'm in mid twenties.

>>18526190
Neat. It's still obvious that you want two different things. And that doesn't make either person bad, it just means that it's not a good match. That's ok.

How do you expect to love someone with whom you have no relationship?

Ask out some girls.

>>18526174
How men?

>>18526181
What?

>>18526113
Have your own personal goals and values that aren't shitty, work on yourself, and then don't give a fuck about if women want you or if men respect you.
The moment I was like fuck this entire game, I'm going to be a good person and do what I want to do with my life and do shit I like, everyone wanted to be a part of my life.

Beat up nerds and sexually manipulate women. Drink beer. Play sports. Work out.

>>18526179
Why not be like Vin Diesel? A Chad-nerd hybrid.

>star in movies as the turbochad
>play dnd in your private life

Bad ideaz Why do you want to marry her? Think logistically not just because you 'love her so much'. Can you support her financially?

You are 19. You don't have a career. Let's say she gets very sick suddenly and needs thousands of dollars in treatment. If you married her, her debt is yours. What if she develops a shopping addiction or a gambling addiction? Her debt is also yours. 19 is too young and you haven't even though about the logistics of this. What is the rush? Wait until you are 24 at least. I bet you don't even know if she wants kids yet. The biggest relationship ender is incompatibility about finances and kids, not because you 'fell out of love'. Think about it

Marriage (as far as I know) is only a legal status. Not even a good one from what I've heard. Just be together, without the government saying so.

Shitty idea. So fucking shitty.

What's more, I think intellectually, you KNOW it's shitty, and you know why, too, but you're thinking with your heart (and your dick) and ignoring your brain. Stop doing that. You're both very young, and you're going to change a lot over the next few years. Everybody does, nobody's a finished person at age 19. You're going to meet other people, and maybe fall for one of them. She might, too. You might just grow apart. That happens all the fucking time. The 19 year-old you are and the 30-year-old you'll become will be barely recognizable as the same person.

I'm not saying you necessarily WILL break up, just that there's way more 19-year-olds who THINK they've found "the one" than 19-year-olds who actually have, and if you think, well, I'm one of the exceptions, remember that all the others think that too. If marriage is truly a good idea, then you'll still be together in five, six, seven years, and you can do it then. There's no rush. Be smart.

>>18526093
Shave get money and they'll come

go back to your designated arranged marriage pajeet

I suggest focus alot on getting more money. I knew this one girl at work who I thought was the cutest girl i've ever seen. She was dating this rich Indian guy, completely out of her league. She only dated rich people :c

>>18526087
You'll feel better if you tell her.

That said, you are what /r9k/ would refer to as her 'beta orbiter'. She may the attention and the power, but not reciprocate your feelings at all. I hope I'm wrong.

*may enjoy

You already know the answer to this but go for it if you need to get it off your back. She can feel your longing for her and it's making her uncomfortable. You stopped being her friend the second you caught feels. Because you wanted more than she could give you.

She's spending time with a guy she used to date. They're probably fucking or talking things out. If she liked you like that she would make you a priority. But she isn't. The answer she will give you is already clear. Next time you should ask the girl out first so this doesn't happen.