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I need to be able to get about 200 euros every month, otherwise I got to move back to my shithole country since my parents cant afford supporting me.
Getting a job is very difficult, my language isnt perfect and I have no experience. Im not eligible for any scholarships nor grants. And im not taking a loan just to study in a different country. I moved to Austria from Croatia, but since I cant get a job Im forced to go to uni in my own country.
Why this all matters a lot to me is because Im 21 in less than a month and instead of going to uni I spent a year and a half learning German pretty much. Still not good enough. I wasted so much time not and even moved, and to be forced to return is heart-breaking.
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>>18528493
Go back to your own country and get some skills. Do exchange programs to Austria and build connections. Use said connections to get a job.
Or just find a woman and do a green card marriage. She'll probably want something in return tho
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>>18529809
this. lick your wounds, and use what you learned and try again in another year or 2.
but as long as you stick with this attitude...
>>18528493
>im not taking a loan just to study in a different country.
...then you'll be just fine.
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>>18529837
Guess youre right, should probably take this chance to improve my language even further.
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What are some jobs where I don't have to deal with customers? I currently work at a pizza place and it's alright, but I get slightly nervous speaking to customers, especially during night. I want a job where the only people I need to interact with are my coworkers and at least doesn't feel as gloomy as my current job.
For reference, I'm still going to University come September and this pizza thing has been a part-time thing
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anyone?
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>>18528488
I'd the anxiety thing really that bad you need to change jobs over? I get anxiety over social situations after a period of neetdom. But I always get over it after a bit of reacclimation to the work environment.
Are you sure you just want to withdraw? Anxiety only gets worse if you don't socialize.
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You could stock stuff for a grocery store at night.
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Is it unhealthy to masturbate twice a day? Sometimes at work in the bathroom. I don't like real sex that much
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Yes it is, stop it
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>>18528477
>Sometimes at work in the bathroom.
That's not normal. Can't you just wait until you get home?
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>>18528477
Only if its interfering with your quality of life in some way.
If youre endangering your job, or ruining your social life, yes. Its too much.
If all is well in you world, then its fine.
Its very case by case.
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Is there a real guide on how to get a girlfriend?
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>>18528472
yes and no. yes they do technically exist, but no it does not guarantee you a girlfriend.
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None that actually work.
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Just do exactly what Chad does. Seriously.
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How do I tell my friend that his girlfriend can't be trusted? 2017-07-17 10:48:09 Post No.18528455
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How do I tell my friend that his girlfriend can't be trusted?
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I live with my friends that are now my roommates for 4 years now, there is 4 guys and two of the guy's girlfriends so 6 total. Two of my friends went on vacation for a week so its just been me, their girlfriends and my other roommate at our house. One of the guy's girlfriends are kinda new, we've only known her for a month or so but her boyfriend has known her for like three months.. The girl is a flat out cunt, always has an attitude, she does not do what we tell her when it comes to things like taking care of our pets while some of us are at work or in class, she will only pickup after herself and refuses to help out around the house by helping with dishes, laundry and yard work. She doesn't do jack shit and I JUST got her a job TODAY at my friends work so she has something productive to do. Anyways we always have friends over at our place, we get drunk, sing songs, bullshit every night, that's a normal night here. Two days ago, I had a few friends over and we're chilling in my room, I check out side for my phone and I see my roommates girlfriend being way to friendly to one of my roommates friends, i'm talking about standing right next to them, doing the whole "i'm into you" posture girls do when you're talking to them, laughing at everything he says,
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I knew something was up. I pulled the guy aside and asked him what the hell was up with that and he was so fucking drunk. I basically believe he was just really drunk and didn't understand what he was doing even though he knows that she's my roommates girlfriend so I can forgive hi for that because not 5 minutes later, he is rolling on the ground drunk literally. My roommates girlfriend has one beer so there is no way in hell she's even buzzed and she knew what she was doing the whole time. She asked my for his phone number the next morning, red flag. I want to tell my friend that his girlfriend did this while he was gone but I don't want to ruin the rest of his vacation and seeing how small it is and she didint cheat on him, I made sure of that, I was just going to tell him when he gets back but I don't know how to tell him that because I feel as if he won't believe me and she will just lie. I have one other witness to this and hopefully that will help because the witness is a mutual friend between me and my roommate,
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You are right that your friend may not believe you because you have no evidence and he's pussy blind. So don't go guns blazing accusations into this. He doesn't see what you see and may think you hate her for no reason. If you push too hard at him he will cling tighter to the girl. 'Us against the world' mentality. he will get angry at you if you tell him how useless the girl is.
What I would do is feign ignorance while letting him know the facts. Tell him 'haha we all got so drunk then, oh yeah your girl asked me for that drunk guy's number, guess they hit it off! i don't have the number, do you?' Or something, so he can draw his own conclusions.
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>>18528455
not going to lie you sound a little biased 'i can forgive him cuz hes drunk but not her cuz shes only a little drunk'.
that being said, teh only thing you can do is set her up for failure or go ahead and tell him the truth as you've seen it. definitely dont trust her, but i dont think the friend is forgivable.
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Can I make it as a genetics researcher
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So I have brain damage and am wondering if I can still make it in the sciences I have very severe brain damage but can still do a little science like I'm taking introductory chemistry with an A can I do it?
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>>18528444
You'll won't know unless you try. Nobody here can tell you otherwise.
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Well...what kind of brain damage? Are you now devoid of empathy but can still function and do science? Or are you forgetful now, which can be very dangerous in science if you are in a lab and forget a crucial ingrediant, and end up blowing something up or damaging a hundred thousand dollar equipment?
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>>18528444
Ask a prof
I've been single for over a year and I was thinking about trying Tinder (or fuck it, Grindr, I'm bi) for something casual. How's your experience with it, anons and anonettes? Is it safe? Did you make a match?
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Yes, it is worth, as long as you keep realistic expectations. Basically it's much more used by people wanting hookups than serious dating. So if you're looking for a blowjob, you're golden, if you're looking for a gf, you'll probably have to lurk for a while
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>>18528436
You'll get laid if you're either attractive or have low standards. It won't get you anything else.
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>>18528436
If you are attractive then yes it's worth it, otherwise don't bother
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I've been dating a girl for just over a year now. When I got involved with her she was smart, funny, confident and outgoing. I really liked those qualities about her. Well, a few months into our relationship, it became obvious she had her own hang ups. She'd get hung up arguing over semantics, and would take everything negative you said in a conversation personally.
This rapidly accelerated into monopolizing all of my free time, getting unreasonably angry over small things. She would be angry and yell for up to several hours. A few times it escalated to her hitting me. She'd be remorseful and try to make it up to me later, but damn does that feel like textbook emotional abuse. During these outbursts I would try to remain calm, defend myself (physically and verbally, as needed), and otherwise sit there and take the verbal lashings, as she would not allow me leave her place when she was in those moods. Would freak out and scream and threaten to call the cops.
Due to her rocky upbringing and behavior, I'm certain she has Borderline Personality Disorder. She's seeing a therapist again and is on some meds for the past month. And while I recognize that she's making this progress in her life, she still yells and screams at me. She's definitely toned down on the physical abuse (pushes and shoves now), but it feels like for all the progress she's making, I'm still her metaphorical (and sometimes literal) punching bag.
Truth is, we've had some fun times too, and all, but the fighting happens anywhere between 2-4 times a week (it used to be worse), and I'm just burnt out. I hate being this little bitch boy to her, and any love I had for her before, is definitely suppressed by the dread, stress and fear I have every minute I'm with her. When I've tried to break up before, she freaks out, hurts herself, and threatens to blame it on me and call the cops. I'm at a loss. I don't know what to do.
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>>18528428
Leave. Who cares if she hurts herself? She's mentally ill trash anyway. Now as far as threatening to hurt herself and call the cops, you gotta get evidence my dude. Maybe in the form of audio and video records to cover your ass.
In short: Leave. Future you will thank you.
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Before you breaking up with her turn on the voice recorder on your phone and put it in your pocket.
You now have proof that she plans on blaming you for hurting herself. If the cops do come comply and let them do as they please, but inform them of the evidence on your phone ASAP.
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I've been in a very similar situation that lasted to the point where I was getting hit and having things thrown at me several times a week. Like you, I eventually just got into the mentality of, well if she's in one of these moods again, I guess I'll just have to shut up and deal with it. She'd do the thing of apologizing profusely and making up later. I let my feelings lead me into just putting up with this shitty situation.
But looking back, it fucked up my emotional health so much compared to where it was before. Putting up with that made me slowly lose all respect I had for myself and I was depressed for months after the relationship ended.
Don't be like me and just put up with that month after month. For both of your sakes, just cut contact, as hard as it is. Just block her on everything and if she comes to your house to harass you, call the police. End of story.
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My gf always starts conversations when we text, and she talks with me every day. Yesterday, however, I asked her if she wanted to go outside. She said "nah,i don't want to go outside for the entire week". Fine, she's an introverted person and that's alright. But today we both went outside with our friends. Our mutual friend asked us to go outside. There were 6 of us (including her and me, 3F 3M). She just fucking stayed glued to one of her friends (F) the entire time. They were holding hands 90% of the time. I was pretty pissed but let it pass because I don't want to end her friendship with her best friend. Then we called it a day, and I told her "I'll go with you back to your place and then I'll go back to mine" (we're still in high school) and she told me "no, no, i can go by myself".
I feel like she just doesn't give two shits about me, but then she keeps on texting me and I'm just mind fucked by all of this. What the fuck? What should I do? I don't want to break up, at least not yet.
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You need to be 18 to post on this website kiddo.
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don't text her anymore lol pleb
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>>18528365
Just ghost her or?
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>Used being a classclown and alpha back then
>8 years later
>see a female classmate randomly again
>say "hi remember me, I was "xx" "
>anon is everything okay?
>yeah sure, whats wrong haha?
>I don't know..
>you used to be so funny and cool, what happened?
>e-everyone changes, r-right?...
>whatever, was nice to met you
Fuck, that hurted and she is right
How do I become again a funny confident person?
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I feel like I've been a robot for a long time..
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>>18528430
then don't
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>>18528333
*hurt
Also... well, maybe you're still confident and funny, you just don't show it as much as before. It happens.
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Girlfriend says she isn't completely moved on from her Ex, should I run? Or should I see where things go. She has a kid whom I care very much for, her ex isn't the baby dad. She has him blocked on everything but still talks to his mom as she grew close to her during their relationship.
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>>18528318
>she has a kid
Unless you are super desparate, consider finding girl with 0 or less kids so you can have evetually your own.
>i bet she would ditch you the second he decided to return
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>>18528323
She says that she wouldn't that he's let go of him, she doesn't know what's holding her back from moving on completely, I don't know with me in the picture is making it harder to move on.
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>>18528337
Common tell me, why are you dating single mom in the first place? Why do you want to make your life super complicated? What is wrong with you that you stood so low? Old, manlet, autism, poor, ugly?
And you should be talking with her about it. People normally never forget about people they truly loved. It is like life time curse.
Why cant you find normal single childless girl?
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Is it illegal to search for Escorts? I'm in the UK . . . How many have you guys have used escorts and is it worth it?
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>>18528317
Shit anon you just typed in escorts, police are on the way fucker.
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Honestly OP get out of your house and start running right now.
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>>18528317
Don't they have legal brothels and shit in the UK? If not, I hear it's very lax in terms of enforcement. I hired one in the US and it was super easy and absolutely fantastic. She was kind, patient, clean, attractive, and very skilled. It seemed she took pride in her job which was refreshing to see. I.e she didn't just lie down, hike up her skirt and say "alright you've got an hour have at it"
All in all would recommend an escort if you get a good one. Look on the erotic review for well reviewed girls and read the reviews. It pays off to do your research about proper etiquette as it helped me tremendously. Putting her at ease about me made her much... Willing to do things.
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I need help writing a resignation letter.
Basically I'm on a weird teacher training course for five weeks (this is week 3). At the end of the course I start work as a teacher in a (low-performing) school that the course-makers chose.
It's been extremely intense. I went into the course with the intention of seeing it through, but a combination of poor course-organisation, unusually high levels of workloads, and other factors has totally stressed me out. I couldn't get out of bed this morning, something that hasn't happened since I had a serious nervous breakdown some years ago (involving hospitalisation), and I had to miss today's training as a result. I couldn't breathe properly until the mid-afternoon. Staying here is gonna kill me, I swear.
Part of me is just venting, part of me wants a little help because my head is so frazzled right now. How do I write an email saying I can't take the stress anymore and this course isn't for me? I'd rather do it by email, as I'd just break down over the phone. I've completely made up my mind that I'm leaving tomorrow morning.
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Dear mr X,
I have decided to quit your course Y, because the amount of work, stress and personal matters was too much for me to bear.
Sincerelly
Mr Z.
>seriously maybe you just need to chill and dont take it so seriously. It is just teaching dumb kids.
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>>18528341
I know, I am overcomplicating shit. My brain is just totally fried at the moment and I'm finding it hard to relax. Thanks for the template by the way
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>>18528346
I dont know how you deal with stress, but it seems you suck at it. My first line of defence is to not making things worse than they actually are. Second line is realizing that even if i fail, i will still have roof over my head, food and will stay alive. And final line are pc games for relaxation.
Sounds like you need to learn how to chill.
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Parents divorced and how it affects me 2017-07-17 09:29:59 Post No.18528263
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Parents divorced and how it affects me
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I moved out of my house before I finished HS and lived in my friends basement since my parents were in the middle of getting divorced.
My parents finally got divorced right before I started college and my first year was awful, I failed most of my classes, got depressed, met the wrong people and started doing drugs. I constantly feel like I'm held back by my situation as my "father" was actually my step dad and I found out that I will never know who my real dad is anyways. My step dad hardly supports me anymore and my mom is working under the table and can hardly help me out with anything.
I'm stuck living in a shitty apartment off campus all year round and have no phone plan so I'm stuck using a iPhone 5S with a hardly functioning charging port (you have to hold it in with force to charge it). I can't get a decent job because the hours they are looking for people to cover don't fit in with my schedule and there are simply too many teens looking for jobs in my area period.
At this rate I don't even know how to get ahead in life. I did decent for my second year of college (Computer Engineering) as I am very capable at doing well when I'm not emotionally fucked up. I just feel like I can't get ahead and that there are too many things holding me back.
I don't even have a license or a car since my parents wouldn't let me get it when I was 17 since they found small amounts of weed in my room at the time (even though I pulled great grades and was doing well otherwise). Now I can't afford a car anyways, considering I essentially live off of my school loans.
The only redeeming thing about my life lately is my girlfriend, but I have trust issues with her (btw my step dad cheated on my mom before the divorce was over). It's scary letting people close after you see what can happen.
I know it's possible to live a decent life, but I don't think I'll ever be as successful as I imagined myself being. Am I being a bitch about this?
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>Am I being a bitch about this?
In a word: yes. There is nothing unique about your situation, and people go through the same shit and manage to do perfectly well. Stop blaming everything on your parents' divorce and start accepting responsibility for your life like the adult that you are.
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>Perfectly well
That's not the point, I already know I'll do perfectly well.
I don't think I'll ever be as successful as I could've been given that I waste so much time trying to piece my life together.
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Also I forgot to add that my mom has all of the money that I earned during High School and she refuses to release it to me, which doesn't help the situation with getting a car or new phone. I could easily get a job if I had a car.
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I masturbate daily and i ask for forgiveness. I accept Jesus Christ as saviour and child of God. I pray to God and Jesus asking them to protect humans on this earth. Since i masturbate daily am i still going to hell for my Sins?
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>>18528262
Nice atheifag thread
Reminder you are a fatass waste of life that even /r9k/ hates, fuck off to cripplechan
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>>18528262
Tldr no, you are fine
https://www.ucg.org/bible-study-tools/bible-questions-and-answers/is-masturbation-a-sin
And now go shitpost somewhere else.
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Smells like bait but yes. Unless you sincerely regret it and try, to the best of your ability, to discontinue.
That being said, it's what Church says. God's own ways are unknown, but bare hope isn't much to go about either.