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Now I'm crying here in the bedroom.
I was talking to some friends about experiences.
All of them talking about absolutely incredible situations with women in their youth, and I never had a story to tell because I'm ugly and I've always been unsuccessful with them
And this persists to this day
I cant stand this failure anymore
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>>18623513
Always have friends who are shorter and less attractive than you.
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No matter how I happen to be in all walks of life.
Without a successful love life I will always be FRUSTRATED and SAD.
Me and 99% of the people in the universe.
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I'm a hopeless loser too but what is your question?
My bf of 2 1/2 years broke up with me in text message ..
He's "broke up with me" a lot but I usually so no sorry like right away and we make up, but I'm getting sick of it so I just let it go and I'm getting sick of him...
He just bails on me alll the time and thinks it's ok. Like today we were gonna go to six flags but he texts me at 5am and said he wasn't able to sleep all night and bailed on me. And then like all this other shit I'm sick of and i was upset, so i got kinda mad at him, we made plans to hangout when he woke up even tho I was kinda mad and then an hour before he called me and said he was stresed out, that he's tired of us fighting, andi said I'm tired of being let down. He said he's tired of feeling like he's letting me down and then hung up on me. Then texts me and says this.
Idk what todo. Idk if ts worth it to try and fix things , or just let him go? I just tired of being disappointed and he's kinda lazy and doesnt act like I'm a priority. It's been 5 hours and he hasnt tried to get in touch
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>>18623303
He sleeps al day and stays up all night playing playsStopn or doing other weird shit
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maybe you should look for someone else then
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>>18623320
Ya I guess I'm just torn btwn letting it go or trying to
Fix
It.. But honestly idk like he acts irresponsible and isn't reliable.. It rubs off on me.. And he acts like I'm too much Bc I expect him to keep his promises. I think I should prob just let him go as said as I wanted it to work out, idont think we are right for each other...
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How come when I was a teenager and I was thinner boys didn't want me and only made fun of how ugly I am
But now in my early twenties they want to have sex with me even though I'm fatter and older?
Have guys my age just become more desperate?
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>>18623070
Looking for beta orbiters on /adv/ I see
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Show me that thicc booty, mami.
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>>18623075
...You're delusional.
I'm asking a sincere question.
Do you think it's possible for girls to get over their daddy issues? My dad has always been emotionally abusive and sometimes violent, and now I fall head over heels for guys who are genuine and kind towards me. Unfortunately it seems to put them off because they never want me back.
I up until recently had a colleague who for whatever reason couldn't do enough for me - any problem I had, he would bend over backwards to fix it. He was always telling the boss how great I was, defending me if I did something wrong, helping me. I've never been treated so well ever and of course I became his biggest fan. But just like every other guy, he didn't like me romantically. I guess men want women to be more aloof than that?
Am I fixable or should I just give up hope that I'll ever be loved?
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>I fall head over heels for guys who are genuine and kind
That's not a daddy issues problem.
Seeking approval from every guy is.
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>>18622890
But I'm obviously too intense about it because it freaks them out. Even guys who originally showed interest in me end up either running a mile or treating me like a fragile younger sister.
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What's with all the daddy issue threads today?
Look, a lot of daddy issues stem from self-esteem and a desire to form an emotional bond with someone who acts as a stabilizer.
Find some self-reliance and esteem. And for the love of god, don't go after assholes like most people do.
Also, you should probably see a professional. Most of us here are just plebs on the internet.
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Are girls with daddy issues worth saving, or should I just leave them in the ditch?
I've been seeing this broken girl lately, and she's a genuinely nice and caring person, but her life has been absolute shit so far. I'm, on the contrary, a very stable man, so it's no wonder she clings to me. I'm afraid that if I break contact now, she will plunge even deeper into sadness.
What I'm asking is, is there a way to help girls like that by dating them temporarily? I have no long-term interest in her, but I do want her to know that she's worth more than what life has been given her.
I'm sorry if I sound like an asshole, but it's a complicated situation, is all.
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I dont know. In year 4 of a realtionship with someone who lost her dad at age 8ish. She acts all strong and tough and shit, but at any sign of me leaving or having desires with ANYthing other than her, she starts going batshit about how she doesn't know how to process loss and its all because of her dad dying and its all hopeless and spiral out of control we go.
The last 6 months have been very rough. I have been trying to say that this relationship is not the best fit for me, has nothing to do with her or what she is or is not, but my heart is not with her or our relationship, but each mention of this brings about an even greater explosion of helplessness. I feel entirely trapped in my own life and I hate the options I am presented with:
Stay with her, indefinately, or until she straightens herself out and can stand strong on her own. At which point she wont need me.
Leave her, and risk she spirals further. Being the one to knowingly put her in a position of pain when I know I have (at least somewhat) of a medicine.
Feels fucked m8
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>>18622739
Glad to see someone gets this.
Damn, a really miserable situation.
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>>18622712
>What I'm asking is, is there a way to help girls like that by dating them temporarily?
i don't think this is how it works, my dude. you can't pull someone out of the dirt and then be on your merry way, expecting them to have learned a valuable life lesson about coping with their significant other leaving. i'm not implying that you need to stick around, but maybe you should tell her now that you don't plan on this relationship going very far.
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Can I learn everything math related that is taught in school and high school in the span of a year? Or is this impossible?
I was so much of an underachiever in high school that I graduated without more than basic arithmetics knowledge. I am too autistic for most careers that dont use numbers, most careers that dont require social interactions are engineerings that require math.
So at 23 years old I'm heading a path of either turn my life around quick or suicide whatever happens first. So I decided maybe if I apply a year to learn what I never learned in school I could be able to study some STEM career, like pic related says I'm not bright, I'd say I'm dumb but someone said that it's a matter of drive and effort more than IQ so I wonder if I could give this idea a chance, is this feasable?
Pic related is a thread a few weeks ago, while I didn't got concrete answers there at least some of the posts were very encouraging.
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>>18622460
>most careers that dont require social interactions are engineerings that require math.
Oh boy, you're delusional if you think you can actually get a decent job without social skills. Just like any other employer, companies in the field of engineering value social skills.
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>>18622476
I figured but I mean as long as I don't have to be extremely social maybe I could manage it. I'm currently working as a receptionist for a minimun wage (in my country it's 370 dollars a month) and I have to talk with people that come in and that I can manage, on the other hand I studied 3 years to be an english teacher when I had to eventually teach classes to teenagers I just dropped out, I couldn't mantain control of the classroom, it was a disaster.
Now if I will need that type of social skills everywhere then I'll just prepare the rope.
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>>18622460
With regard to the math, yes, no problem. School is pretty dilute teaching - only a few hours every week.
You'd need to make it a full time program and it would help a lot to have a tutor, online or in real life. Without a tutor it probably would be really hard to do.
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Are these standards realistic?
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>>18622434
You mean, are they a realistic approximation of reality? No.
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The 'World's Ugliest Woman' weighs something like 29 kg/64 lbs, so what do you think?
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>>18622444
I think that interpreting "thin" as "abnormally underweight" is a strong sign of mental retardation.
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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.
FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.
>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships, fart guy and the guy who stuffs his pants
Fuck off
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is there a general accepted time commitment or is that something everyone works out
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>>18622415
First time using online dating.
I am trying to talk to one of my matches but the girl takes forever to reply and most of the time i have to send several messages before i get a response. Is this normal or autism?
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Ladies
Left or Right?
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Getting Married; everything I've told her is a lie 2017-08-14 07:43:36 Post No.18622275
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Getting Married; everything I've told her is a lie
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I'm getting married, but everything I've told my girlfriend is a lie. I lied to her about where I'm from, my family, everything.
I changed my full name to something completely different years ago and ran far, far away from my family. She doesn't know any of this about me.
Should I tell her, /adv/? Is this something she needs to know or should I continue into this marriage like this?
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>>18622275
>Should I tell her, /adv/? Is this something she needs to know or should I continue into this marriage like this?
No wonder divorce rates are so high if idiots like you get married
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>>18622275
Yeah. Tell her now. You'd be crazy to get married with something like this hanging over your head. Even if you don't care about being honest or straightforward with the person you love, you have to understand that she will DEMOLISH you in court when she finds out and divorces you.
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If she finds out your marriage will blow up, explosively. I don't know what happened to you or if you feel it's critical to keep your identity private. Perhaps if you tell her and you have fight maybe she would contact the people you left behind to hurt you? I don't know your life story so it's hard to judge.
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OK guys I am in the deepest shit I have ever been in. So I got into a fight with my younger brother cuz he initiated it. I took my stuff after two fights with him and was heading out when he stepped in front of me and said give me your keys. I said no. He is like give it. I'm like no and move. This went on for a bit and then he attacked me. He was beating me and I was beating him up. We were equal with maybe he edging me a little maybe. Then my father joins in and takes the keys out of my pockets. This went on and on cuz I couldn't let it go and then my mom joins in and they are like this is nothing a parent should see blah blah while actively twisting my arm to stop from hitting him. So now it is 3 against one. Finally I break free and my brother pushes me from top of the stairs and I fall 5-7 steps down and hit a bike. They all then disappear into the house.
This of course has devastated me. I slept in the rain and park for a couple nights and was looking for place outside the city when police arrested me near our house and brought me to a mental psych ward. Apparently I was put on a form by my family and since the form is signed by a psychiatrist police arrested me and brought me here.
So anyways I am screwed. I am locked up here and they won't let me go. I realized by staying here that I have some issues and I just wanted to talk to my family that is why all the arguments happened and that is why my brother attacked me when I yelled at them. Not that, that makes him right but I was yelling and he attacked me. So he is in the wrong. Plus my parents attacked me too. It was 3 against one.
Now I wanna talk to them all. I wanna talk to my parents and my younger brother but I feel humiliated. I wanna talk to them cuz I have to let some tension out and relax cuz all the patients here are getting uncomfortable around me etc. I have no choice but to talk to my parents but at the same time I feel humiliated and I don't know how am I gonna do it.
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You dont owe them shit. Take them for all they are worth and jump state, startva new life.
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>>18621977
I feel like we're missing a lot of context here on what actually started the fight. It sounds like this has been building up for a long time. You keep saying you feel "humiliated," and also this:
>that is why my brother attacked me when I yelled at them. Not that, that makes him right
>Not that, that makes him right
Based on everything you've said here, it sounds like you're in a bad place and you probably need some help. But you're hanging onto a lot of pride, and you don't want to admit when you're wrong, or admit that things aren't going well and you need some help to turn it around.
It also sounds like your family got pissed off and fed up with the state of things. And if you want to patch things up with them and resolve that, you're gonna need to let go of some of that pride and make a real apology for YOUR part in causing that whole scene. Not saying that they're blameless or its all your fault, but it really does sound like it's at least 50% on you, and admitting that would be a good first step.
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>>18621977
There's a lot we don't know here. What caused this exactly? Have you a history of trouble with your family at all? Any drink or drug problems? It isn't the 19th century, they couldn't have had you sent there unless there was some sort of reason to it. I'm not saying they are right and you're wrong, I'm just saying there's a lot unknown here to us.
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So, are these the "requirements" for getting girls in your 20's? 2017-08-14 05:11:15 Post No.18621754
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So, are these the "requirements" for getting girls in your 20's?
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>Always look good (dress well, get into weightlifting or a sport if you're not handsome).
>Be adventureous (always have fun, show her you're a guy who knows how to have a good time).
>Have your own car or motorbike.
>Chase money.
>Be attractive (learn about body language and how to talk/flirt with them).
>Have your own place or at least a dorm room.
>Be confident (even if you have to fake it sometimes).
Am I right about these requirements for getting girls if you're 20 and older ?
If not, why ?
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>>18621754
>Chase money.
I think you should switch that to "have money"
no one likes someone who makes money his top priority
that doesn't mean you shouldn't care about it, but just don't make it obvious it's super important to you
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>>18621754
>this thread again
fuck off
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Nope. Only requirement is finding a girl that's into you. I've seen some real pieces of shits with girlfriends who don't do any of that. If you want to cast the widest net, I'd say these are top tier:
>Take care of yourself. Be well groomed, don't be fat, wear clothes that look good and fit you.
>Be funny. If you're good at making people laugh, that's a huge advantage over most people.
>Don't live with your parents and if you don't live in a big city, own a car. Roommates are fine.
>Act normal. Don't be creepy, know how to carry a conversation. Be confident.
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How do I get over a general mistrust of the entire male sex when I've read up too much of how they feel and what they think? The internet is a free forum where anyone can express themselves with full freedom and honesty and what I've found horrifies me.
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>>18621512
I have a general mistrust of the entire female sex, lets work this out
tell me specifically what bothers u
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>>18621512
Kill yourself you attention seeking whore.
Go spread your legs some more cunt.
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>>18621527
stop i'm trying to learn something
How do we handle the unprecedented levels of hypocrisy that people are acting upon nowadays?
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>>18621498
What do even mean by this?
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>>18621500
Are you retarded? Cmon
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>people are acting upon
I'm not a native speaker, but do you mean that people are reacting to hypocrisy, or that people are being hypocritical themselves?
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help me ruin a relationship
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So my sister has been dating a Muslim guy for a couple of years now, I say dating but it's a serious relationship, now they want to get married and I can't stand the fact knowing he will be part of the family, my dad is a cuck and is "happy" for my sister but I want to save this family and most importantly the bloodline, how can I break this marriage up?
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>>18621024
Stone her
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>>18621024
mind your own fucking business
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Denounce her, get a new last name and start your own bloodline.
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How does one say no to drugs and alcohol in a casual or party setting without coming off as a stickler or asshole? I like to party but dislike the negative effects of those substances.
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"No thanks"
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I just tell people I'm an Ascetic. They can deal with it or not.
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Depends on your age. If you're below 25, there is no good way. Some shithead will argue literally any excuse you give. You could say that you're allergic and they'll beg you to try some "just to make sure."
After that age cutoff it's exactly the opposite. People won't even question a no-thank-you. Outright saying that you just don't drink or do drugs can be met with respect in good crowds.