This is not gonna take too long. The thing is my girlfriend is living in another city and I have the chance to live in that city in a flat but alone, also she's alone but at her flat. We're 20 years old but we 've never been in love just like this. The bad thing is that if I don´t move i want to end this relationship because it hurts a lot nevertheless my friends are telling me not to move only my parents aproves my desition. Do I move to that city?
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>>18622212
Why wouldn't you move in to a flat together ? Or if you don't want to be with her stay in your town and break up
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>>18622227
Because we're in college and our parents won't let us live together. They let us live in se same city but we must study
I need some advice. I recently met this girl. She is the most amazing, gorgeous, smart, and absolutely perfect girl. Nobody can compare to her, and I would die for her. we were doing really well with our relationship, it was just pure love for each other. Then, a bunch of bad shit happened in my life and I wanted to commit suicide. It was a stupid idea looking back. Anyways I was preparing to do it, and I told the girls friend, who promised not to tell her anything about it, but then told her anyway. obviously, I didn't do it hence I'm still here, but it really messed with her because she cared about me a lot and it hurt her pretty badly. Recently we've talked and she said she doesn't wanna break up, but I'm afraid we are and that the relationship is bittersweet. I can't lose her, you don't understand how much she means to me and how special she is.
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>I can't lose her, you don't understand how much she means to me and how special she is.
You shouldn't have fucked up then. Don't make the same mistake with the next girl.
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>>1862221like I said, she said she doesn't wanna break up but the relationship is bittersweet I'm afraid
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Why do males have to do all the asking? 2017-08-14 07:13:34 Post No.18622174
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Why do males have to do all the asking?
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I never understood why males have to do all the asking when it comes to asking out women. It is completely possible as a male to go through your life without being asked out by a woman. Its not possible as a woman.
As a woman, you are bound to get asked out at some point by someone. As a male, it MAY happen but for most men, you won't be asked out by a woman.
I see women in online dating say shit in their profile like "I don't make the first move. Sorry i am shy!"
If a dude said that in his profile, he would be exiled and considered a pussy or worthless.
As a male, I hate "chasing" after women. Its one of the most aids interactions I can think of between men and women.
Women, why don't you ask out men? Do you honestly believe dudes LIKE asking you out? Most dudes do it because there is no other option. This in turn breeds things like "carpet bombers" or basically, dudes who just ask out tons and tons of women hoping one will say yes.
Do you honestly just want to be another girl in the meat grinder?
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it's just a cultural expectation formed by the stereotypes upheld by the construct of gender roles. i've asked out plenty of men. also, who do you think would think of a guy as a worthless pussy if he admitted to being shy? not any of the women i know, but a large number of the men i know. i also think a lot of women believe it makes them less desirable to be forward with men because of the whole "be attractive, but JUST attractive enough or else you're a slut" thing.
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What if instead of being a carpet bombing creep you find a girl you like and win her over?
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This is a cultural expectation that comes with other cultural expectations. Women are not supposed to be "too eager" about men or sex because that makes her easy/ultimately uninteresting or slutty. Men being really eager about sex/women is seen as masculine and virile. You might want to argue that it's 2017, but just like "slut" is still the #1 thing to call a woman to demean her, centuries of expectations do not just go away without leaving a trace.
The result is that girls are encouraged to shrug off guys whenever they can, and guys are encouraged to go after girls whenever they can. Girls are supposed to be picky, and pretty enough to be able to lean back and get a guy. Even if they are not attractive enough to pull this off, it's often a learning process to reach the conclusion that they have to be more pro-active to make anything happen. And yes, some men do dislike being approached by women, it throws them off, they want to be the one calling the shots and getting the girl. But that's more of an afterthought than the main reason. Women are rewarded at every turn for disregarding or rejecting men - by other women because it shows that they "have self respect" and think they deserve the beste, by other men who want to be good enough for a woman with high standards and not date a slut. By their parents who are more comfortable with their son having a sex life than their daughter.
This influences everything. Not just women not asking men out but also not complimenting them, starfishing, etc etc. Women are supposed to be passive, men active.
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I'm trying to figure out if this offer I was given is a scam. Neither this employer or I have any reviews, and the job description sounds outside f my field as a programmer. Not to mention the project was titled "Project for my_username", so it was listed just for me.
Thanks for getting back to me, I am happy to receive your response. I went through your profile and I think you are qualified for this job. I am looking forward to working with you.i want you to know that you will be paid 300$ per week.You are required to work for three hours a day and you let me know when its okay for you to work each day of the week so i can work around such time with you .however,you are not required to make any form of financial investment into this project as the gallery will bear the full cost of running the gallery.Likewise,your major duty will be to attend to customers request via mail.i also want you to know that the gallery specializes in the online sales of artwork via freelancers who are interested in representing the gallery at their various location please send me a mail at jacobhahnartplaza at gmail dot com so i can provide you more details regarding this project and also on how to proceed.Thank you
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If that's a legit copy and paste of the email he sent you then the bad grammar alone kind of screams scam lol.
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So, I am a heterosexual male.
I find women attractive and all, but goddamn, whenever I speak to a girl she just makes me cringe.
Have any of you ever spoken to a girl outside of wanting to fuck them? They have no conversation skills, no conversation topics. All they can talk about is themselves and their shitty life experiences, and you just stand there smiling and acting like you care to get in their pants.
Even worse is when they're talking in a group of friends, or when they try to be funny. I'm not even kidding: Listen to a girl talking to her friends sometime - they're fucking retarded.
Is it even worth the hassle to just dry your balls every once in a while?
Fuck me, I've even been reading TRP and MGTOW lately. I think I'm going asexual.
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>absolutely all women are the same
back to /r9k/ with you
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>>18622122
How old are you Anon? Sounds like to need to associate yourself more with groups of people who aren't as deep as the surface. Try going to libraries and book shops or music/movie related stores where you could spark a conversation of about something that isn't superficial. You need to actually try to converse with them without thinking with your dick, that would help. Seems like you may even have found decent people but you're so mentally preoccupied with getting your end on that you may be ignorant.
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When I saw your picture I thought you meant a problem with girls' voices. I do find most high pitched voices to be extremely annoying, maybe it's because my mom's voice is very high pitched.
Otherwise... no, I'm actually friends with girls I don't intend to fuck and I've had good conversations with them. Maybe you are just in the wrong places and you need to expand your social circle or simply move it somewhere else.
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What's the best way to tell a story that has visuals with it without knowing how to drawn
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Op here. I mean what's a good way to just tell a story without using only letters on a page? I'd try doing a manga but I can't draw for shit
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When is it appropriate for a guy to wear shorts?
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When it's hot out?
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Whenever he feels like it.
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whenever the weather commands it and you'll be in casual settings. knee length is good. don't sag. don't socks if sandals.
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Im looking for an album with two guys with elephant trunks and it was sort of pink and I cant fuking remember the band name fuck.
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>>18622074
go to /wsr/ you fucking idiot
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>>18622074
dfa1979
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death from above 1979
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My skin is generally always clear while I lived in the U.S. Lived in Germany for 6 months, broke out more than I ever have in my life. I left for the U.S. for 3 months and again, barely broke out there. Back in Germany and it has started this shit again. What can I do? I am using acne washes and moisturizing... same as USA. I lived in NE USA and currently NW germany.
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What's the least destructive thing you can do while waiting for suicide?
I won't have my car for months yet and I can't afford to fuck my situation up any worse until then.
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Fuck you and your entire family.
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How do you make friends with people who take self-care seriously? Who see their level of fitness, health, and well being a PRIORITY?
I've been a door mat for a lot, if not most, of my adult life. For the first half of my 20's I got roped in with a few groups of people with unhealthy and borderline toxic lifestyles. This back half has been me systematically recognizing how I am being negatively affected and who/where this negativity stems - and removing it.
However, now I"m pretty close to friendless, my romantic relationship is falling apart, my body is showing the 10 years of living a life chasing death instead of life, and I am generally in the dumps. In my experience attempting to make connections with fit, healthy, AMBITIOUS people I have been shamed for letting myself get to this point in life, when what I crave is something along the lines of "little homie I can help / we can go through this together". I'd like to be seen as an equal, a fellow human wanting to live a healthy life, not the token alcoholic that the group keeps around to make themselves feel better that they made it to 30 without ever succumbing to illness.
I don't really have a father figure, and have never had any real male, successful male, role models to show me what good healthy behavior is. I dont know if I"m looking for a Mentor, a brother, a friend, or what.
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You have to start making the change yourself first. You have to make fitness a priority for yourself. Then you will start going to the gym, eventually start making small talk, and eventually make friends.
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>>18622042
Try joining a yoga or meditation class and see if you can meet people there
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>>18622118
You know that I already knew that. but I'm a millenial and want to know how to avoid the initial "i'm a piece of shit and i'm alone" and have someone to start that journey with. I know i'm not alone in the world in the "want to get in shape but doesn't want to get a gym membership alone" mentality.
Whats the likelyhood of walking up to some fatty and saying "Whats up fatshit we need to go to the gym wanna join wtih me?" and not getting my ass kicked by a 500lb ball of depression
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tinder texting thread 2017-08-14 06:23:01 Post No.18622041
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i get about 1 match a week on tinder but struggle actually getting conversations going. i do ok in real life, but i find tinder hard to work because girls dont put anything on their profiles and dont give you anything either
whats some good lines, strats, etc. etc. for tinder? even just a general template
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It's crazy dude.
No word of a lie,
I literally just started sending a party popper emoji and saying "how's it going" and it worked.
Don't jump through hoops for these girls man.
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>>18622049
right but where do you go from there?
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>>18622059
Where you wanna.
Be honest, on god. Don't talk about shit you don't wanna, it'll lead to a horrible date later down the line.
Though still, don't be any more of an asshole than you usually are. Just be an honest one if you have to.
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The only schools in my state with my major are private schools that have the same, if not higher tuition than out of state schools. What do I do?
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What is your major?
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>>18622052
International Relations
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>>18622056
My brother was an ir major, I asked him and he said just do political science at an affordable state school, almost exactly the same major.
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How do I, as a manlet, deal with rage some better way than cutting myself while drunk?
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>>18621997
Cutting yourself is little girl shit, not manlet shit. Real men do hard drugs to cope with this fucking life.
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>>18622004
I couldn't fucking find drugs if I tried, and trust me I've fucking tried.
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I've got this, sort of, a zit on bottom of my penis.
Anything I can use to get rid of it?
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Soap + Water
When iyoure dry and going out you'll probably sweat, it is still summer, so use some talc powder. Shit is a winters breeze on the balls and will keep that shit clean. Just don't go overboard and shower.